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No single man can make decision for the society, it's either you conform or get thrown out of the social circle. You can't have it your way against the society, but you can manipulate the society to work in your favor. E.g the creation of social media turns some people into a billionaire by manipulating society into thinking everybody needs to connect to one another, that's example of winning against the society by creating things for them (social manipulation to create wealth). That was why mark and other IT genius made it big. It's either you manipulate the social system, conform to it or live without the society norm and pay the price. @ misswrite , ubunja

ubunja:
that was not even the point. you say "we should strive towards honesty".and my point was that its all up to society. its nice and good to want honesty.but is society willing to play along?we dont live in a vaccum. when men open up how does society view it? weakness or strength? thats why i gave him the example that tears on a woman mean something different from tears on a man.so dont call it hypocrisy when men dont show tears. its about how society will take it.men wont do something that will embarass them.first make it OK for men to cry.then men will cry.make it OK for men to open up.then men will open up.
i just got tired of that guy's degrading statements.

Bro, I did warned you about rendering your opinion on this forum(most nairaland guys can't understand what message you're trying to pass across). Most men can't or won't be able to evolve their mind and thought process to see through the world as it is, the programming is already embedded in their DNA. Only the strong survive and mind you women will never ever support you when they perceive you as going against your beta bux programming. You need to enjoy the moment while it last and lay down a good foundation for your male kids if you decide to have kids on how to be alpha. Those who want to be emancipated will definitely find their way through and swallow the pill. You can't force a man to be what he doesn't want to be no matter how good or clear the offer is for him. Women are not having it better either way, they destroy and loath each other too (crab bucket rule apply), women are highly insecure of themselves that's why the want validation and acceptance from other women(not men) and why they will forever stick to social rule because they don't want to be the society outcast. In every woman mind the only important person to her is another woman or group of women around her. They don't and can't care about the men because men only serve two purpose to them, to deposit sperm and provide for the kids. Definitely no gender is winning at the end of the day.








To answer the OP question, I think it's a sign of disrespect for your potential girlfriend to tell you about her emotional and sexcapade tales. One of my exes did same thing 5 years ago,I broke up with her within 10 days without giving her any reason for breaking up. She came back to explained how she wished I failed her test of being her emotional tampoon. She said in her own words "I remain the best thing that has happened to her till that very moment". So it's all a game that you should never fail. NEVER EVER BE AN EMOTIONAL TAMPOON FOR A GIRL.

Good job bro. Nigga, you're the man when not found on the list

remedick:
I have restrain myself from being the normal me with response such as this one. Dude, I got over 3 girls on the side line and that is to tell you I am not lacking in supply nor dying on top of this one. so stop this nonsense you are talking by trying to impose your thoughts on others. I

It is the way and manner most of you reply that pisses one off. You just get angry over a problem that isn't even yours in the first place, isn't that silly?

Next time you see her, look her straight in the eyes, don't fret or take your eyes direction away from her. If she look up after making eye contact, forget her for life, she can't have feeling for you ever. If she look sideways and smile, start acting like her boyfriend and take charge immediately. If she look down and smile, just go for the kiss and make sure you don't let go after that, escalate to your apartment that same day. This will only work if you have a very solid body structure and presentable. I already assume you are doing OK financially too. Thank me later

Ishilove:
I'm not a man but I know where I would go to.

So guys, which woman would you go running to, and why?

None.

Feminism is for the poor and ugly girls out there who can't attract decent men to themselves on a normal day. Beyonce is pretty and smart and so she know she must remain slave to her husband or else she lose her perceive girl power. Her power is mainly dawn on the marriage bond with a powerful male name Jay-Z.

Feminism is a gigantic market and a trade union for fugly girls. Ugly girls on this forum should deal with their insecurities and self hatred alone. Ugly girls should stop poisoning this forum.
Leave us men alone and go deal with your sh1t under the sheet. Cry all you want, make over all you want Nothing can change your ugliness. I'm tired of reading your bulshit thread and comment here.

oloyede252:
nairaland is amazing. the land in which broke girl insult broke guys, average guys abusing average girls, students forming professor, singles forming marriage counselor etc.

missed seeing contribution from the old timers such as cougar, 5minmadness,sambarry oniga babyosis gbawe TVs crackhouse truckpusher mizcoly etc but now enjoy reading pocohantas comments and e fights against nairaland guys.

The truth must be told

sexybbstar:
Ugly men and guys on romanceland, why?

Shut up dirty bitch

Amarabae:
Nobody is ugly, touch money and see your real good look.

I don't believe that, money can only make you look classy due to expensive wears and packaging not increase your beauty. Ugly girls are haters and poisonous to the society at large. Ugliness= bitterness

swiz123:
Being ugly is not a crime...Every lady here has the right to be ugly in peace.

Ugly girls spoil the atmosphere wherever they are in multitude. Ugly girls hide your face and life, nobody cares.

iamJ:
ugly people are always frustrated

I don't like you before, but now I reason with you on ugly girls matter. Why the ugly girls always bitching? I'd never seen a pretty classy girl ranting on a faceless forum, they have too much attention in real life than to be seeking attention and validation on a faceless forum. Ugly girls always hating guys due to lack of attention from them in real life... Why??

Truth hurt. Deal with it girls

You all bitching around and causing nuisance on romanceland just cause you ain't attractive enough to pull normal Chad in real life hun? Get your life together and try to improve your life by doing something meaningful to impove your relative market value instead of hating and corrupting the younger girls mind on this forum.

If you'd been heartbroken before, either accept your loss and move on or poison yourself. Stop hiding under feminism to display your sad pathetic life on here. @ pocohontas, Benita27, Blackhawk01, queensekxy and makydebbie.

Hahahahaha. Am happy Nigerians are being emancipated from religious scam. #freethesheeple

uyigideon:
The Bible tell us that the street of heaven is made of gold, if you can go to a place where the street is made of gold, how will the buildings there be like? how will the life there be like? imagine, that is where God himself live who created everything and it for eternity.

The value of gold and any other ornamental material is directly proportional to is scarcity. Anything in abundance will lose value to the barest minimum. Take for example silicon which is the major composite of soil, who give a hut about it? No value in abundance. The designation of heaven in the bible can only work on the dumb ones who don't think or see beyond what they are told. Enjoy and make the best out of this life you live.

Hmm

Modified:

This is to just boost his own ego and propel him to the league of Nigerian pastors with private jet. He probably engineered and envisaged it for long.
This is to show that the higher hierarchy human care less about those that are lower, they'll rather keep going higher than raise people below them to their own par. Religion is a scam to help put human in a control society and make them unable to question their environment, personal thought and conviction. Break yourself from this close system of believe or whatever tends you to make decisions on what others approve as the right thing. Work on yourself, read, learn and assimilate your environment and win before you die. Those pastors and politician and co-operate lord are already ruling their own world.
Be a better version of yourself and never accept to be gullible in any form. Seek knowledge and use it to either win or at least be sure of your stand in life.


P.S I have nothing against pastor Chris and his like. I just want emancipation of every soul from gullibility.

silver94:
Dude just like you said, u should know the difference between fantasy and reality
1.[b][/b]ready to do very low key wedding and do bigger one when d money comes; - My brother what makes you think the money for big wedding will come, not everybody will get rich. That's harsh reality of life
2.[b][/b]put child bearing on hold; - Bro, pregnancy can happen. Konji is a bastard. If you think I'm lying, go and ask baba ijebu that has 9 children with no job living in a one room face me I slap you apartment in ejigbo. U think that's the life he planned?
So my brother, in summary, marry when you are comfortable and have the means to cater for your children.

word!

silver94:
Dude just like you said, u should know the difference between fantasy and reality
1.[b][/b]ready to do very low key wedding and do bigger one when d money comes; - My brother what makes you think the money for big wedding will come, not everybody will get rich. That's harsh reality of life
2.[b][/b]put child bearing on hold; - Bro, pregnancy can happen. Konji is a bastard. If you think I'm lying, go and ask baba ijebu that has 9 children with no job living in a one room face me I slap you apartment in ejigbo. U think that's the life he planned?
So my brother, in summary, marry when you are comfortable and have the means to cater for your children.

word!

Dwizeone:
I would rather say, settle for your class, if you are rich obviously you will settle for the rich if hustling settle for the lady in that class, honestly everyone fall into a category and the truth is there is true love in all classes.

Agreed, but human beings always want what they can't get. Cycle of social decadence continue at the expense of every new generation and there it goes till the end. Civilization always destroy itself though

The worst thing ever in this life is to have family (reproduce)when you don't even know the main purpose of your own existence in the first place. I will advice whoever that's poor resource wise to never ever start a family to avoid his/her future kids from cursing the hell out of him/her when they grow up and find out life is not bed of roses and there's partiality in nature distribution of everything. Live life like it's nothing and have a good time with the experience and imagination you can get out of it. That's all to life.