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Career / Re: ICAN May 2023 Diet Exam - Let's Meet Here by AbdulAkpan: 6:59am On Nov 25
Good morning my people

I hold a Higher National Diploma in Business Administration, and a B.ed in Educational Management/ Economics. Is it possible to be admitted to write ICAN professional exams?

Thanks.
Family / Re: Moment Bride's Mum Warned The Groom Not To Lay Hands On Her Daughter (Video) by AbdulAkpan: 11:19pm On Nov 10
This is very bad. The bride will always remember this day and be angry.

The worst thing that can happen to a man is to be insulted and humiliated by his wife's family. Such marriage can never be peaceful.

I can testify to this because this is my reality. My wife's mum and siblings have insulted me countless times. It got to a point that I decided to stay out of the equation. Infact, I don't communicate with them as I type this.

Anytime I have a misunderstanding with my wife, she will accuse me of keeping malice with her family. It got to a point we went physical.

Some times I feel like divorcing her, but when I look at the two beautiful children we have, I will repent from carrying out the decision.

So, people should desist from insulting their inlaws. I pray that you will not fall into the hands of wicked inlaws who believe you must have excess money before you can earn their respects.
Politics / Re: Abdulkadir Jelani Danbuga Dies After Brief Illness by AbdulAkpan: 2:19pm On Oct 11
ednut1:
Brief illness. What exactly does that phrase mean
'Brief illness' simply means that the illness was brief before the man died.
Politics / Re: Abdulkadir Jelani Danbuga Dies After Brief Illness by AbdulAkpan: 2:18pm On Oct 11
ednut1:
Brief illness. What exactly does that phrase mean

'Brief illness' simply means that the illness was brief, before the man died.

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TV/Movies / Re: Adekunle Evicted From The Big Brother Naija All Stars House by AbdulAkpan: 7:46pm On Oct 01
Abia
Crime / Re: Police Anti-Cult Operatives Chase 17-Year-Old Boy To Death In Delta by AbdulAkpan: 6:57am On Sep 28
Ndi uwe oji. The problem Nigeria police have created is conditioning the minds of people to be afraid when sighted by the people. Even when you know you have not committed any crime, you have this fear in you once you see these men in uniform.

This is because of this saying, 'I no do anything, but some thousands must leave your pockets'.

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Politics / Re: ‘He Was One Of Nigeria’s Greatest Artists’ – Shehu Sani Mourns Mohbad by AbdulAkpan: 6:08pm On Sep 14
Please, can somebody sing one of his songs for me.
TV/Movies / Re: Seyi Has Been Evicted From BBNaija All-Stars House by AbdulAkpan: 7:58pm On Sep 03
Good. Go home and teach your son morals, and how not to treat women as sex materials.

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Travel / Re: New Job Offer Abroad by AbdulAkpan: 7:38pm On Jul 15
Location is South Africa
Travel / New Job Offer Abroad by AbdulAkpan: 5:20pm On Jul 15
Good day all,

I am in Nigeria with my wife and two kids. My wife is about getting a job in one of the African countries.

What kind of visa will be given to her?

What is the possibility of myself and the kids joining her?

Can we travel on the same day as she is afraid of going alone?

Am I permitted to work in the new country as well?

Please, tell me any other thing I need to know before she signs the appointment letter?

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Travel / Re: Which European Country Can I Apply For Work Visa With 4m by AbdulAkpan: 5:19pm On Jul 15
Good day all,

I am in Nigeria with my wife and two kids. My wife is about getting a job in one of the African countries.

What kind of visa will be given to her?

What is the possibility of myself and the kids joining her?

Can we travel on the same day as she is afraid of going alone?

Am I permitted to work in the new country as well?

Please, tell me any other thing I need to know before she signs the appointment letter?
Travel / Re: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 17 by AbdulAkpan: 5:18pm On Jul 15
Good day all,

I am in Nigeria with my wife and two kids. My wife is about getting a job in one of the African countries.

What kind of visa will be given to her?

What is the possibility of myself and the kids joining her?

Can we travel on the same day as she is afraid of going alone?

Am I permitted to work in the new country as well?

Please, tell me any other thing I need to know before she signs the appointment letter?
Travel / Re: General UK Visa Enquiries - Part 5 by AbdulAkpan: 5:17pm On Jul 15
Good day all,

I am in Nigeria with my wife and two kids. My wife is about getting a job in one of the African countries.

What kind of visa will be given to her?

What is the possibility of myself and the kids joining her?

Can we travel on the same day as she is afraid of going alone?

Am I permitted to work in the new country as well?

Please, tell me any other thing I need to know before she signs the appointment letter?
Crime / Re: Woman Burnt Policewoman & Her 2 Children To Death In Anambra by AbdulAkpan: 4:04pm On Jul 05
Umunwanyi and anger. Any little argument, next is to slap or hit you. I keep thanking God that women are not physically stronger than men.

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Family / Re: Should I Take Custody After Divorce As A Man by AbdulAkpan: 3:55pm On May 26
In as much as she is not disturbing you about custody issue, just leave her. But note that if you have not divorced her officially, she is still your wife. From the look of things, your wife doesn't want to part ways or divorce with you. She wants to explore and flex with her new lover. Bet me, when the chips are down, she will come begging to return back to you.

However, if divorce is your target, it is always the court that decides on custody. While the woman (in most cases) maintains custody of the child, the man (the visiting parent) provides child's support.
Politics / Re: Inauguration: Buhari Relocates To Glass House by AbdulAkpan: 2:01pm On May 12
He who lives in a glass house should not throw stones
Romance / Re: What Would You Do In This Scenario? (pix) by AbdulAkpan: 12:37pm On May 03
The truth is, the guy has given you his ATM card to make the withdrawal. Go ahead and withdraw the exact amount. You really don't need to check his balance before making such withdrawal. Even if you do, and observe 60k balance, still withdraw your 50k and keep quiet.

In facts, checking his account balance puts you in a position where you should not be trusted again. Imagine you check his balance and see a balance of five million, how will you tell him? What will be your reaction? As a lady, you will come up net time with another request for a bigger amount believing he has the money.

Secondly, what if the ATM card he gave you to withdraw from is not his main account? What if he has millions in other accounts?

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Family / Re: Coping With In-laws by AbdulAkpan: 8:50pm On Apr 25
Whyzaid:
I think with learned in-laws, the wife's problem is half solved; but you see those illiterate in-laws that follow tradition like something else will frustrate the hell out of the wife. My opinion though

My dear, you are very wrong. My useless inlaws are educated, but I have suffered a lot of neglect, humiliation and insult from them.

I am so happy the kind of strong mind I have. I have stopped all kinds of visit or communication with them.

We are all in Abuja, but I don't communicate with them. My wife was in my support, but after a quarrel that happened between us, she started ganging up with them.

My wife has used all manner of manipulation and insults, to make me go back to her useless family, but I promised her that I will never do such a thing.

The most funny thing is they are forming too big to apologize to me.

I have told my wife if she is so much interested in her family, she can go and live with them.

Two priests that are in the know, even told my wife that her family is wrong. Although they advised me to forgive them, but I told them I can never impose forgiveness on them. That will lead to see finish. Without justice, there will be no peace.

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Politics / Re: How I Knew That Leaked Phone Call Between Obi & Oyedepo Was Fake – Chuks Akunna by AbdulAkpan: 8:18pm On Apr 10
Why can't Oyedepo tell us exactly the conversation between him and Obi?
Religion / Re: Good Friday: Is It Really Wrong To Eat Meat? by AbdulAkpan: 3:04pm On Apr 07
EriMma1:
Where is it written in the bible that you should not eat meat as a memorial or in commemoration of Jesus' death? These are Catholics doctrines and the bible speaks against man-made doctrines and teachings in the book of Matthew 15:9-11
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in vain they do worship me, teaching for doctrines the commandments of men.
And he called the multitude, and said unto them, Hear, and understand:
Not that which goeth into the mouth defileth a man; but that which cometh out of the mouth, this defileth a man.
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I was once a catholic. In fact, born into a catholic home and was there up till 2001. And I remember how we were made to avoid meat on good Fridays just because of this catholic doctrine. It wasn't funny then but we had no choice as little children. Since I left, I no kukuma dey observe those things because I now read and understand the bible for myself.

So if as a christian you're not living by the word of God in the bible but some doctrines of men, then you need to check your christian life. The bible says, study to shew thyself approved, a work man that needeth not be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth.

Where is it written in the Bible that you should open your own church in the name of 'God called me'?

Don't argue what you don't know.
Agriculture / Re: US Authorises Importation Of Oha Leaves From Nigeria by AbdulAkpan: 7:40pm On Apr 01
Mabizeka:
Igbo dishes are the best in the world. Make I go eat my ofe oha with enough akpu.

Please, stop making this kind of statement in the public. You just got many people salivating. Don't do it next time or I report you to mama Amaka.

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Travel / Re: Estonia, The Hidden Gem Of Europe by AbdulAkpan: 7:23am On Apr 01
JustEducate:

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Okay, I will get back to you.

Regards

Good morning

Please, I am still waiting for this
Travel / Re: Estonia, The Hidden Gem Of Europe by AbdulAkpan: 7:32pm On Mar 25
JustEducate:

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Hello

Yes there are some Vocational Colleges in Estonia. However, you will need to get an employer at the end so that they can file for you under employment.

Anyone is allowed to stay and work, as long as there is an employer who will do this for you. This is a pretty easy route.

Let me know if this helps?

Regards

Thank you my dear,

Are there sites you could recommend for me to go about in search of the vocational schools?

Google is not giving me what I want.

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Travel / Re: Estonia, The Hidden Gem Of Europe by AbdulAkpan: 5:18pm On Mar 24
JustEducate:

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Dear Justcurioius

Thanks for your input.

Don't be a distraction for people who genuinely want to gain information.

Regards

Thank you so much for your insightful guides. But I have a question. Apart from Degree or PGD study, is there any low tuition training, course or diploma one can do in Estonia? The truth is, I really want to relocate for a greener pasture, but I don't have the required funds for normal university program. I pretty believe that short courses or training will be cheaper than university education.

If the aforementioned is possible, can they allow me to stay and work at the end of the course or training?

I hold a HND in Business Admin and a Bachelor degree in Education.

Best regards.

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Crime / Re: EFCC Arrests 21 Alleged Yahoo Boys In Abuja by AbdulAkpan: 5:21pm On Mar 15
This is called inclusivity. If president Buhari had included all the region is his appointment, just the way this list as released by EFCC has representatives from all the region in the country, nobody would have been shouting marginalization today.

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Politics / Fantastic Interview By Frank Nweke Jr. by AbdulAkpan: 4:14pm On Mar 15
As governorship elections draw nearer, Enugu State is indeed one of the states with the most qualified candidate, in the person of Frank Nweke Jr. This man needs no introduction, but all I can say is that Enugu is so blessed to have this man in their race at this point in time.

https://nairametrics.com/2023/03/14/i-will-mandate-developers-of-new-estates-to-deploy-structures-for-renewable-energy-if-elected-frank-nweke-jr/
Religion / Re: God Will Save Common Nigerians Oppressed By Those In Authority – Adeboye by AbdulAkpan: 5:44pm On Mar 13
This man is the funniest man I have ever seen. I never liked his style from day one. He pretends a lot. He uses his taciturnity to make people believe he talks the mind of God.

This same man introduced a political department in his church, hoping his son, Osinbajo could win APC primaries. On the day of the primaries, he intentionally tweeted 'Jesus'. I was praying and wishing Osinbajo wins the election, until when I saw the hypocritical tweet of 'Jesus' from Adebayo, then I withdrew my prayers and wish.

If Osinbajo had won, Adebayo would have claimed God asked him to mention his name in the form of a tweet. He would have attributed Osinbajo's success at the primary to the tweet. His followers wouldn't have allowed us to hear word. In short, that tweet will always be used by the followers to make us believe that their God is different from the real God.

Now, when Osinbajo lost the primaries, Adebayo started with unverified prophecy that 'up till now, God has not told him that there would be an election come 2023'

During the preparation for the elections, he didn't say anything. He is only interested in having his tribal man or pastor becoming the president or first lady of the country.

Now, he is dragging us to pray for God to punish those that we would have used electoral power (votes) to stop from smelling the seat of power. Let him alone do the prayer.

God is not a fool. He can not be deceived. He has given us the ability to make choices. We have made the choice and must enjoy it while it last.

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Travel / Re: DIY Guide To Australian Permanent Resident Visa - Part 2 by AbdulAkpan: 8:28pm On Mar 10
Ennychoc019:
Sicne you have B.ed, why don't get skill assessment as a secondary school teacher.
Please, how do I go about it? What is the procedure? Thank you so much.
Travel / Re: DIY Guide To Australian Permanent Resident Visa - Part 2 by AbdulAkpan: 1:39pm On Mar 07
Good day everyone, Please forgive me for taking you guys aback. I need the step to step guide on this opportunity.

1) What is the first thing to do?
2) What is the second step to take? etc
3) What is the financial requirement for this program?

Meanwhile, below is our details:

Wife:

Course- Mass communication (BSC -2-1)
School- Uniben
Age- 36
Work experience- Journalist 10 years experience (she has also worked for a two foreign online newspapers based in Canada and UK)

Husband:

Course- HND Business Administration, B.ed- educational Management/ Economics
Age- 41
Work experience- Bank, and presently with the government
Number of children- 2

I really need a guide. I don't really know how to start
Education / Re: National Open University Of Nigeria (NOUN) Students by AbdulAkpan: 5:15pm On Jan 23
Good evening all,

I hold an HND in Business Administration, also B.Ed. in Educational Management/ Economics. I want to proceed for my Masters with NOUN.

1) Can I be admitted for an MBA program?
2) What is the duration of the program and cost?
3) Where can I obtain the form? I based in Abuja?
4) How many semester do NOUN run in a year?

Thanks a lot. Also, if there are any other things I need to know, kindly notify me.
Politics / Re: God Hasn't Spoken On Nigeria’s Next President - Adeboye by AbdulAkpan: 10:15pm On Jan 07
Why does mr Adebayo always feels he is the only one in his church or Nigeria that hears from God?

Why does he feel that God must speak to him alone about Nigeria elections?

Do you know that if Osinbajo is in the race, Adebayo would have been speaking in his favor.

This is the same man that established a politics department in his church, hoping that Osinbajo will win APC primaries, so they can campaign for him.

I remembered he tweeted "Jesus" on the eve of APC primary election. I thanked God Osinbajo lost. If he had won, Adebayo and RCCG members would have attributed it to Adebayos's tweet.

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