Family › Re: His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills by abdullahi45: 2:10am On Aug 02, 2020 |
eni4real: Stop defending Arab Religion here.. Read again! Stop reading to respond but to understand, you are a grown up adult, I suppose.. |
Travel › Re: I Need Advise Pls,can I (should I) Travel Abroad? by abdullahi45: 1:59am On Aug 02, 2020 |
GboyegaD: Do not listen to all these noise about Medical or IT field. There are people who are doing great irrespective of their field of study and there a few Nigerian trained lawyers who have being called into their provincial bars in Canada. One of the biggest law firms in Calgary, Osuji & Smith, is owned by a Nigerian who trained in Nigeria.
That said, my advise for you is to look within and think of what you really want to do. If you love law and want to practice abroad, read up the process about becoming a lawyer in your proposed country and follow through.
I would also advice you not to drop the idea of going to Law School. Live as though your only chance is living and making it in Nigeria while you make plans on relocating through a legal means. This good man here has said almost all I had in mind. But to add, don't shelve your law school plans, it would atleast add to your experience and CV, and perhaps you might need it later you never can know... Since you are from a privilege home, endeavor to leave for Canada immediately after your law school, but start your home work now to be sure of what you can best do when you get to Canada. Study route might be the best, but not the only route for you.. |
Family › Re: His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills by abdullahi45: 1:09am On Aug 02, 2020 |
NiCurious: Well, so many people have already sensibly suggested that the young man actually TALK to his wife to find out why she isn't interested in sex, and make positive changes--whether that's going out together, or having time away from the kids, or seeing a gynecologist to find out if there is a physical problem...all about communication. I side with TALKING with each other to find out what is amiss, and whether they are compatible in the long term, before the husband rushes to find a side chick.
But sometimes I like to push the discussion a bit...when it's late, and I should be doing other things. zzz Therefore I suggested that maybe the couple just aren't sexually compatible, but like each other and don't want to divorce. The husband is already thinking of adultery, in the form of a girlfriend. It follows that the wife might be thinking of getting a boyfriend. (I don't know how any of that is modern.) If this is a real story and my suggestion doesn't shake them up and get either "Over my dead body" or "yeah, that would work for me, thank you for being understanding, baby" out of either of them, nothing will.  I think a better idea as stated is for the husband to have a good and honest conversation with his wife. I mean, he needs to understand what is going on and use that information to improve his and her wife sexuality. It might be that the problem is with him, perhaps he is oblivious of what induces her wife for play. It is better for him to stop assuming and avoid remediating a problem with a greater one... |
Family › Re: His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills by abdullahi45: 12:41am On Aug 02, 2020 |
Xavfra: Why do you keep littering nairaland with trash.....
Go and break the yoke of corruption..... What is incomprehensible to me is his self-acclaimed righteousness. No true righteous fellow flaunt his righteousness and piety, with sheer incontinence... I am uncertain he knows what Jesus (PBUH) said when he was referred to as Good
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Family › Re: His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills by abdullahi45: 12:39am On Aug 02, 2020 |
NiCurious: Your friend could bring up the topic with his wife directly. He can tell her he is really missing sex. He can ask her if there is anything they can change to bring back their sex life. If there isn't, then he can bring up the topic of getting a girlfriend for sex. The wife might even prefer another guy for sex, herself. If the marriage itself is good, then they can talk about these things together. If they can't discuss their relationship matters frankly with each other, what sort of marriage is it? Sorry, are you suggesting polyamory? Modern fornication and adultery? |
Family › Re: His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills by abdullahi45: 12:23am On Aug 02, 2020 |
Righteousness89:
Listen, TRUTH is always Bitter, Hurting and Annoying. But it Saves! It Heals ! It Liberates..
Until we are Called Home from the Earth, We cannot stop Putting out the TRUTH. No Matter who is annoyed, offended and angry, it does not Matter. We will put it out!
We are not Here to Give you what you wanna Hear, or What will make you Happy! We are not Comedians!
We are not Here to go with what the Multitude thinks or says! No! We are Here to Give you what God says!
We are Here to Give you What you The Gospel Truth about Life..
We are Here to Give you what Makes God Happy!
We are Here to Give you what will Provoke you to Repentance..
If you Will Follow and apply the Truth of the Gospel we put out Here, and you Miss Heaven whether in death or at Rapture, May your Blood be on My Head! Which truth are you even talking about here, young man? For the silence of the professor of knowledge and truth makes the people of ignorance flaunt their ignorance with arrogance. The path of truth is snow white and pristine, Jesus (PBUH) never asked to be worshipped and he would turn against all those who attribute lordship to him on the day of recompense. Don't say you are not told! Don't be deceived man, I hope you stop your holier-than-thou attitude and seek the truth now. It might be too late later, for the end is nearer than ever thought... You need to do your proper home work on all Abrahamic religions and evaluate their interconnectedness to see delineate the path of truth... I hope you do! PS: I am not in support of adultery here, the Qur'an and Bible categorically forbid it. But I just need to call the attention of self-acclaimed righteous to righteousness
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Pierre-emerick Aubameyang Nets Twice As Arsenal Wins The FA Cup by abdullahi45: 12:02am On Aug 02, 2020 |
Nbotee: Ever Since DJ Cuppy left Arsenal, Arsenal have been playing well Are you thinking what I am thinking  |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Vs Chelsea : FA Cup Final (2 - 1) On 1st August 2020 by abdullahi45: 7:37pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
hollywater: U guys make me proud. Up gunners I am personally impressed! |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Vs Chelsea : FA Cup Final (2 - 1) On 1st August 2020 by abdullahi45: 7:36pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
Done and dusted!! |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Vs Chelsea : FA Cup Final (2 - 1) On 1st August 2020 by abdullahi45: 7:00pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
Auba!! |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Vs Chelsea : FA Cup Final (2 - 1) On 1st August 2020 by abdullahi45: 6:05pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
Chatbot1234: I'm not watching, I'm to scared to but please arsenal do this for us  Same here |
Literature › Re: Which Book Changed Your Life? by abdullahi45: 10:32am On Aug 01, 2020 |
UnchainedAddict: start with books that have a few pages , and make sure you finish them , then read books on topics that interest you and also MAKE SURE YOU FINISH Them , while reading make sure you are comfortable but not too comfortable so as not to fall asleep , also read with a purpose , programmers read tech books to learn / understand more concepts , so ask yourself why you want to read this book, also read news , that's why I come to nairaland everyday , I have been on nairaland since my js3 days , reading news keeps you updated , you'll want to know current happenings , you see stuffs you don't know , and will want to explore them , and the best way to explore something is to read about it ....just read because the best way to be a reader is to read , so pick up a book and start reading... Thanks Chief! |
Literature › Re: Which Book Changed Your Life? by abdullahi45: 10:29am On Aug 01, 2020 |
Jerusalem1: The Bible only
Don’t be deceived if you’re not a Christian you do not believe in the oneness of God and believe God begets you’re going to hell. |
Literature › Re: Which Book Changed Your Life? by abdullahi45: 10:14am On Aug 01, 2020 |
Anyone want to share how they become voracious with reading? I find myself lagging..
Thank you! |
Literature › Re: Which Book Changed Your Life? by abdullahi45: 10:14am On Aug 01, 2020 |
Professorcplus: Unfortunately, it used to be on my hard drive but I mistakenly formatted it including some other files during windows 10 online download some years back but you can always search the net. Sure. Thanks Chief. 1 Like |
Literature › Re: Which Book Changed Your Life? by abdullahi45: 10:13am On Aug 01, 2020 |
Junkelie: The question is 'which book changed ur life'? For those writing Rich Dad poor Dad, Richest man in Babylon...I hope it has really affected ur life and u no longer beg or borrow but a blessing to others. Peace!  |
Literature › Re: Which Book Changed Your Life? by abdullahi45: 10:12am On Aug 01, 2020 |
emaskocoded: Eat That Frog: 21 Great Ways to Stop Procrastinating and Get More Done in Less Time
By Brian Tracy Love that |
Literature › Re: Which Book Changed Your Life? by abdullahi45: 10:08am On Aug 01, 2020 |
The Holy Qur'an - A panacea of all illnesses, pristine source of solace and tranquility
I also love Brian Tracy books especially the power of self-confidence, it has instilled in me a great deal of confidence without arrogance. 1 Like |
Literature › Re: Which Book Changed Your Life? by abdullahi45: 10:07am On Aug 01, 2020 |
Professorcplus: Okay. The list are endless. 1. Holy Bible 2. Holy Quran 3. Chancellor William Destruction of Black Civilization 4. Attitude is Everything 10 Life Changing Habit 5. The Monk who Sold his Ferrari 6. The Analytical Psychology of Man 7. Rich and Poor Dad (Audio book) 8. Outwitting the Devil (Hill Napoleon) 9. The richest man in Babylon. 10. The History of Roman Empire.
That all I remembered for now. Can you help with Rich and Poor Dad audio book? |
Islam › Re: All You Need To Know About Eid Prayer by abdullahi45: 9:13pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
MuslimHowto: Eid prayer is a prayer that is observed on the day of festive in Islam (Eid fitri & Eid Kabir). These prayers are set to be different from the normal five obligatory salat. We are going to illustrate how to perform eid prayer, where to perform it, time to pray eid, number of rakats and the prerequisite of eid prayer in order to help Muslims who are seeking knowledge.
Place For Eid Prayer
Eid prayer should be offered outdoor in the open, e.g. in a park field, or a desert etc. if it is wet or not possible to find a suitable outdoor place it can be prayed in a mosque or a large hall. (Abu Dawood)
Time Of Eid Prayer
Eid prayer should be offered when the sun is obvious above the horizon.
Number Of Rakats Of Eid Prayer
Eid prayer is 2 rakats. There is no nafl prayer before or after the Eid prayer. There is no iqamat or azan for Eid prayer.
Ibn Abbas (R.A.) reported: “No doubt, Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W.) used to pray 2 rakats only for Eid Prayer. He did not pray anything before or after that. (Bukhari & Muslim)
Conduct Of Eid Prayer
2 rakats of Eid prayer should be offered in the same manner as the 2 rakats of the usual prayer except that there are 7 takbirs in the first rakat and five takbirs in the second rakat. With each extra takbir the hands should be raised up to the shoulder level (as in Takbir Tahrima).
All extra takbirs should be pronounced before starting Qirat (recitation).
Kathir bin Abdullah reported from his father and his father from grandfather that prophet (S.A.W.) said 7 takbirs in the first rakat of Eid prayer and 5 takbirs in the second rakat of Eid prayer before beginning recitation. – (Tirmidhi, Ibn Majjah)
Eid Prayer Is Offered Before Khutbah
Jafar bin Muhammad (R.A.) reported: “No doubt, Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W.), Abu Bakr (R.A.) and Umar (R.A.) said 7 extra takbirs in the first rakat of their Eid and Rain prayer and five extra takbris in the second rakat of their Eid and Rain Prayer. Prophet (S.A.W.) offered Eid Prayer before Khutbah and recited aloud.”
Source>>> https://www.muslimhowto.com/2020/03/all-you-need-to-know-about-eid-prayer.html Jazakillohu khayran Taqoballahu minna wa minqum. Aameen |
Food › Re: Man Escapes Being Crushed By An Angry Cow During Sallah by abdullahi45: 9:00pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: Pregnant Woman Crashes Wedding In Detroit, Claiming Groom Is Her Baby's Father by abdullahi45: 8:46pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
excellence44: You are pregnant then what? Must he marry you? Women are filth. menascum people them. Do you even hear yourself? Why does he sow a seed when he is not ready to take responsibility? If women are filth than men are better filth and trash that needs help and must stop putting their thing in any hole... |
Celebrities › Re: Juliana Olayode: Lesbianism Has Become Very Rampant, A Woman Tried To Woo Me by abdullahi45: 4:31pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
RTSC: Not all Christians believe that.
God almighty is the supreme Lord of the Universe. His name is Yahweh. The father of Jesus Christ.
He is greater than any being in the universe including his son Jesus Christ.
It's a shame though that a Muslim is the one bringing out this facts. Lol. Read what you typed again... |
Celebrities › Re: Juliana Olayode: Lesbianism Has Become Very Rampant, A Woman Tried To Woo Me by abdullahi45: 12:47am On Jul 31, 2020 |
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Celebrities › Re: Juliana Olayode: Lesbianism Has Become Very Rampant, A Woman Tried To Woo Me by abdullahi45: 11:08pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
jaeyking: read and understand my post Still doesn't revoke the disgust.. |
Celebrities › Re: Juliana Olayode: Lesbianism Has Become Very Rampant, A Woman Tried To Woo Me by abdullahi45: 10:44pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
Topmaike007: lolz I am not a gay and I will never be, I am just airing my opinion and that's all...
Women tends to give ear to there fellow women because she knows were to touch in her body...
I left one of my girlfriend around few years back when I caught she and her friend sucking and playing with each other breasst....
And when I asked why that was the response I got.. I understand you brah. That's relative and still won't make the act justifiable. A man might understand and give better attention to a woman than a fellow woman. They have what we need and vice-versa... Nature shouldn't be deconsecrated.. |
Celebrities › Re: Juliana Olayode: Lesbianism Has Become Very Rampant, A Woman Tried To Woo Me by abdullahi45: 10:41pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
Jerusalem1: It’s nothing new the world has lost value since the creation Only Christ saves and guaranteed eternal life. Jesus (PBUH) never claimed to be.. |
Celebrities › Re: Juliana Olayode: Lesbianism Has Become Very Rampant, A Woman Tried To Woo Me by abdullahi45: 10:40pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
donstan18: As man no gree marry you, make woman marry you nh! Is it too much to ask?
Glow skin glow.  Terrible! |
Celebrities › Re: Juliana Olayode: Lesbianism Has Become Very Rampant, A Woman Tried To Woo Me by abdullahi45: 10:37pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
Topmaike007: because it takes a woman to understand a woman And why wasn't the first man supported with a fellow man? Stop trying to promote your agenda here... |
Celebrities › Re: Juliana Olayode: Lesbianism Has Become Very Rampant, A Woman Tried To Woo Me by abdullahi45: 10:33pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
sircatherine45: No, i ain't Okay. Some people say becoming that is nature-dependent. I don't believe that, I feel like people turn to that due to nature and societal influence. Not sure of your thoughts.. PS: I am not toxicly homophobic. I can't just comprehend how a person will do or become such.. |
Celebrities › Re: Juliana Olayode: Lesbianism Has Become Very Rampant, A Woman Tried To Woo Me by abdullahi45: 10:29pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
Lovelyn451: its rampant o...even married women initiate young girls into it Moral decadence on the rise. I fear for posterity... |