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Brother , Count her salary complete even if the month is yet to end , hold am for hand . then call her to the table , sit her down and have a talk with her . ask her whats wrong . show are you are concern about her well being and would always respect her but u can only do all this if she can be open and free to talk to you because you dont feel comfy with the attitude and if she wants to go , then you show her salary . please and please i will advice you dont send her to you bedroom for any reason at all . thats one of the issue this attitude is up . if u noticed , she brought u food and stayed at the door until u came to collect it and did not bring u water also she could not take your cloths to ur room . so reason am my brother . Yes she could be a maid cuz of are JB but dnt let her feel that way so as not to affect her thinking . just sit with her and have a discussion with her . i know shes got something in her mind to talk to you about but waiting for u to ask her cuz she sees u as her boss and would not want to take first step . But Bro , leave the room out of everything u tell her to do for u . im not saying u would go down but her mind would not agree u wont come close if she enters ur room . i guess i have said more than enough . i dnt know u but i want to believe u are a good man .

I enjoy the time we spend together , we discuss about life , share views , plan together . build life together . your partner is the only person that will be the very first person to be there for u . even parent will have to call people but ur partner will come right to your rescue . Many say bad things about marriage especially those that are nt married but speak base on them say them say . all u need do is pray for God`s favor , wisdom and a good spouse .

No ....Affects future relationships .

Ask her the preferred choice because she herself does not know what she want . if na the poor guy u love and want t stick with . y give the rich guy attention in the first place . if u know u cnt with stand being hurt , dnt hurt someone .

the guy fall but still hold him money for hand . well i feel for the guys sha ..... hardlife for Naija nawa

You not speaking out and leaving me to assume what you have in ur mind . for me assumption is always wrong . i would appreciate u speak up so that we don fight .

Sincerely i will suggest you look for a new guy who would not give you terms and conditions ...this 2 are not the right people for you . let a new guy love and care for u wholeheartedly and should marry you and have children together . Dnt forget your future happiness is what we are talking about here .

I would suggested he doesnt go into partnership with the organization . he has made his connections and owns a company . he should face his company ...nobody can be trusted , even if he pays a professional to guide him on the signing of deal with that company , that company has more experience than him . you don resign . build your own company .
percentage or no percentage , this big companies knows how to over ride upcoming companies .

Guy , shes smart , she knows you the chatting her up . so stop the gaming and stay plain and realistic ,. testing a gurl or guy is absolute wrong . not the right thing to do under any circumstance .