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Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 12:11pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
amokeme: You just made my day babe! If what you wrote up there describes who you really are on the inside, then you are indeed an angel! If you are in a relationship, your guy is so damn lucky. Keep being who you are dear! Never ever change this personality of yours even if you get hurt by the wrong guy. 3 Likes |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by samisj4real(m): 12:17pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
[color=#770077][/color] only money can get any girl attracted 2 you now...
God help our ladies |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by veraiyke(m): 12:18pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:Hmm very dicey. Before I talk about the girl let me talk about the bf. Obviously, he isn't broke by reason of not working but by fact that he doesn't earn enough(inference from post). Little things spice up relationship and anyone (male or female) who loves and is committed to you should be treated like a king/queen through his/her sacrifices. The bf failed to appreciate the queen on val day. Five months is large enough to give her a token to get a small browsing phone. Now he moved to a new apartment suggesting that he at least is not doing bad for himself I suppose. The gf, well I understand her need for phone as it is very essential and necessary. Telling her not to accept it with no idea when her bf will get it for her may sound like she's not been considered. After all, she isn't married as most girls would affirm. And I do not know the level of their relationship and plans for the future. All these ought to be considered in this matter. If you collect the phone, the bf will know cox I don't see how and why you would hide it for so long and masterfully so. Hence, he's going to be insecure and feeling his bf is at the verge of leaving him for another guy cox of phone. The relationship will begin to go sour as trust issues will set in. Now, gf by collecting the phone don't trust yourself too much not to begin to lose your guard around the other guy. You might begin to feel you owe him, he is nice and the least you can do is to be nice to him. Na from small water we dey get river. To the other guy, he may begin to see a green light and light at the end of the tunnel. Forget it when he says he's just been nice cox he will push his luck for as far it can carry him. Do not give anyone the impression that he is not the only one. Relationship will be strained. Gf you need the phone. Just consider all facets. I am not saying that you can't take the phone and still have nothing to do with the other guy but just know its going to take a lot of discipline and understanding from you. And your bf is not mandated to to get you phone or anything whether he sincerely has or don't have the resource. Your parents I don't really know how they communicate with you. Your mind is telling you what best to do. Follow it. I wish the bf all the best cox she's just at the centre of a dice game. |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by greatcid02(m): 12:19pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
RuthDaniels: 1 Like |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by fpeter(f): 12:21pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
StPete: Poster talk say na her friend. 2 Likes |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Abdullahiii: 12:23pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
Ask her the preferred choice because she herself does not know what she want . if na the poor guy u love and want t stick with . y give the rich guy attention in the first place . if u know u cnt with stand being hurt , dnt hurt someone . |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by a0if(m): 12:26pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:What a watery write up! Sister you can do better.... |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by crunchyg: 12:30pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
repogirl:I can only see materialism in you |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by repogirl(f): 12:34pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
crunchyg:I can not see anything in you. 1 Like |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by bankable: 12:34pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
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Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by cybriz82(m): 12:34pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
awonwerey: 1 phone equal to 100 sexing.last tym i bought a girl 500naira recharge card i av bleep her more than 200tyms. |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 12:35pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
mapet:we are on the same page oga |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Slimzjane(f): 12:36pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
u stee dey ask,mk she beta 4low d rich nigger.if dat poor 1 gets rich,no b onli er e go gt eyes for. |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by DeRay98(m): 12:41pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
amokeme:all na for beauty nau 1 Like |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Valeriano(m): 12:44pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
Boyfriend is not an ATM machine. Must it be d guy that should buy her a phone. I guess she has siblings who can do that and then ignore the toaster.......period |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by BlaQWolf: 12:48pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
Dominique Dear , would love to hear your opinion on the subject matter |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 12:49pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
Torchlight phone na, no be me o Cmanforall: |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 12:54pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
2dugged: I could be that broke guy you dated ooooo |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 12:54pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
VicFunTop what do you think? |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by tiswell(m): 12:59pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
firstking01:So the flow of the relationship now should be pegged on how soon the bf gets her a new phone...greedy and covetous ladies everywhere 1 Like |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:59pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
Izen: The lady is broke and so is the dude, I could find many priorities in these guys lives that would be more important than a damn mobile phone ... Like getting a roof over your head, getting a JOB, getting 3 square meals a day, getting your life on track etc Dating a guy and expecting to become a priority in his life that A) isn't yet in order and B) a life where you are still a guest (aka not even his wife) is the joke of the day. We already know the deal, as soon as she would get the phone, then she will now start begging for a computer, and the begging will never stop. The only way to solve the issue is to help this lady get a JOB so she can buy herself what she desires, and finally stop begging. BigBrother9ja: sadly the issue is not really about money, it's the state of mind and lack of respect from a "supposedly" loving gf, the insult, the cheap nature and, most importantly the deluded dude who treat this babe like merchandise (by trying to buy her), not understanding that what you get with honey, you will equally lose with honey.... Aka the same way some richer dude will entice this cheap babe with bigger/better gifts (unless you are Dangote). Sadly, I know your type of mentality, the type of dude who has absolutely nothing to offer a woman (in terms of character) thus need to entice them with the only thing that they are interested in.... Money. Poor is a man that only has money to offer. Ramos16: Of course it can never end well, as the rich dude will simply throw cash in her face and she will do whatever he desires... You want the phone, come to my house, the phone is kept in the bedroom etc, then same shiit with a computer, and whatever else can impress her silly self.... Then when that dude has enough, he sets his mind on another Sadly, in a country where most are struggling financially, many prefer selling themselves to the highest bidding donkey than living up to their means. BTW if a man buys a woman, then she should also Make sure she STFU (like the property that she is) or else she will become a punching bag. 1 Like |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by greatwin100: 12:59pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
Highest bidder hit the kpekos so hard. |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by apollo13(m): 1:03pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1: |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 1:06pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
my dear sister. just to avoid any drama plz don't collect it. things like this touch a man's ego. and ask yourself this question if you were married to him would you still collect it. you never can tell you guys can be married someday. so plz plz avoid the drama and be patient with him yet remind him though. my simple take. shalom |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by apollo13(m): 1:07pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
crunchyg:Lol |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by naturefellow(m): 1:08pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1:the relationship counsellor. Respect! |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by mapet: 1:09pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
eduj: Oh! Ok..... sorry about that. We need to drive sense into our daughters of today |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by anochuko01(m): 1:12pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
that was how a girl went out with her boss on a Saturday, he drove her around, gave her money and yet she collected, and at the end she was telling me she felt the man did it out of good intentions. the same man that had been asking her out o. |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Xmen149(m): 1:15pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
awonwerey:over and out my brother!!! |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Xtianvic(m): 1:20pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:there is no free lunch even in Freetown[b][/b] 1 Like |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by tivta(m): 1:23pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
Most girls will never learn... |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 1:24pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
h 5 Likes 1 Share |
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