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LagosShia: Wa alaikum assalam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh!Thank you for your input! We are going to have a debate tommorow in the office again. Tommorow is the last Friday of the month. The topic is still on religion and blasphemy! Concerning your reply, I am grateful for the info on RIBA. I am a Sunni muslim but your suggestions make sense. I am waiting for Maclatunji to help me find some countries that do not engage in RIBA. I want to correct my co-worker. Salman Rushdie came up during the office debate and the non-muslims really defended him. I want to ask, why the death sentence on Salman Rushdie? He only wrote a book about the Satanic verses. I have always not supported blasphemy laws. Salman Rushdie should be called to correct his book but not killed or punished. By the way, I cant quit my job. I am responsible for most of my family. It is a sad thing that I am left in a choice to engage in Riba. |
maclatunji: I need time, will seek it to address you properly, Insha Allah.No problem. Thank you very mych |
sino: @Abdulsleek, may Allah strenghten your faith amin.Thank you for your advice. May Allah reward you. My company is not a bank. They carry out IT solutions to finance companies and they also engage in investments. Concerning the bonding day, the company really can not find another place because we are on the high street next to shops and bars. There is no hall around us to meet that is near. As for the riba, I thought I could get some answers here. Also, it is unfortunate that it is only such debates that we Muslims and non Muslim workers talk to each other. I don't agree with your suggestion to refrain from the debates as they are a good source of learning. I didn't know that the queen was the head of the English church. Also, the debates usually happens on Fridays when we finish early |
bukatyne: @OP: i'm not a muslim but i believe that every one serious wit their faith ll face wat u re facing in one way or the other so i can relate wit u. i would advice that u learn wat is expected of u as a muslim and strive to follow it. however, wisdom is necessary and be considerate of everyone around u. u can also call ur fellow muslims and talk to them. a workplace is not a religious center and it is absurd to expect everyone to follow ur religious convictions. if u re not comfortable wit bonding in a bar(which i see no reason why u should be uncomfortable since u work in an alcoholic company), decide not to come for d party than depriving everyone else from having their fun. if ur religion doesn't agree wit something, u have to make that sacrifice and not others. it's not healthy when a group of pple are sidelined in a place of work. u can also call a general meeting and get ur fellow muslims to apologize to all the staff and explain ur reasons for not wanting d bonding party and decide in future to either make personal sacrifices yourselves or decide to participate in ways that it would not affect ur faith. God be wit u!Thanks for your practical input. Are u sure u are not a Muslim? |
bukatyne: @OP: i'm not a muslim but i believe that every one serious wit their faith ll face wat u re facing in one way or the other so i can relate wit u. i would advice that u learn wat is expected of u as a muslim and strive to follow it. however, wisdom is necessary and be considerate of everyone around u. u can also call ur fellow muslims and talk to them. a workplace is not a religious center and it is absurd to expect everyone to follow ur religious convictions. if u re not comfortable wit bonding in a bar(which i see no reason why u should be uncomfortable since u work in an alcoholic company), decide not to come for d party than depriving everyone else from having their fun. if ur religion doesn't agree wit something, u have to make that sacrifice and not others. it's not healthy when a group of pple are sidelined in a place of work. u can also call a general meeting and get ur fellow muslims to apologize to all the staff and explain ur reasons for not wanting d bonding party and decide in future to either make personal sacrifices yourselves or decide to participate in ways that it would not affect ur faith. God be wit u!Thanks for your practical input. Are u sure u are not a Muslim? |
maclatunji: ^Salam Alaykum my brother, wow! I think I can identify with some of your dilemma.However, you need to understand stand Islamic injunctions are independent of people, even Muslims. So, whether some Muslims practise them (properly) or not, those issues remain valid. As for interest, it's quite possible that those Muslim countries have little or no choice because they won't be able to carry-out international trade without those interest bearing instruments. Another thing that has happened over the years is that western banks were using interest abandoned by Muslim governments to support causes, organizations, institutions and governments that were practically against Islam and Muslims. I have it on reasonable authority that this facilitated a review of many Muslims on the matter.Thank you for your input. May Allah reward you. I see your point in some Islamic countries not having a choice in engaging in Riba. I still am concerned though, are there Islamic countries that you know of that do not engage in riba? What do you mean by saying that rules in Islam are not absolute? My riba co-worker also said something similar |
Salaam brothers and sisters, I am not in a good place right now and I am having troubles with my faith. My name is Abdul and I am based in the UK. My problem with the faith started at work and it is really affecting me. I work in a multi-national firm with lots of employees from different religious backgrounds. Muslims are the minority there and I feel discriminated against but sometimes I feel guilty for the discrimination. There are two major problems. The first one started with our bonding day (every last friday, the staff from our floor and department meet in a bar). The problem came when some of my fellow muslim workers challenged it because the bar is a place where alcohol is sold. The departments and floor have been doing this bonding day at the bar for over 7 years. The departments listened to us and cancelled the bonding day since there was no other place to meet and socialize that would be convenient. Many of the non-muslim workers were fed up with this change. The non-muslims stopped talking to all the muslim workers. There was even one of my sisters (a fellow muslim worker) that was crying in the toilet because none of the fellow workers came to her party again. they stopped. These people are very smart! they won't insult you in your front but they will keep a distance from you. I am a friendly guy and I still had some freinds. But the problem did not end there. There was a worker that was fed up with the change and complained bitterly about not meeting at the bar. He said that muslims were intolerant that they should not go to the bar if they did not want to meet there. He also said that there were christians who didnt drink but enjoyed the bar and that only muslims cause problems. We complained about his attitude and he was suspended. When this happened, it was the final straw, all our non-muslim workers just avoid us. It is painful when you see people going out of their way to avoid you. I dont know how to deal with this issue and I do not want to quit my job. The other problem is when I got promoted to the finance section (on the same floor). My company engages in riba as they invest in shares of alcohol companies, gambling and any company that can return a heavy profit. I had to do some finance courses to be promoted to the finance department. I had to ask a fellow muslim how he was comfortable with such activites. My muslim brother gave me a shocking answer. He said that anyone that knows finance and the Quran knows that the Quran is wrong about riba. He said that there is no islamic country that does not have interest in foreign accounts just like the rest of other countries. He also said that only an illiterate will complain about interest because interest and profit are similar terms. He said that there is no difference in charging interest rate that will yeild 50% profit and charging someone with an upfront sale price that will yield a 50% profit. All profit is cheating because you sell more than what a product is worth. I was totally shocked but after some research, his argument seems true. concerning the alcohol and gambling, he said that he does not drink or gamble so he can not be held responsible. He also said that unless Allah wants him to be jobless Again, another issue is this reaction to the anti-islamic movie. We had a big debate at work. The non-muslims were saying that there should be no punishment for blasphemy and apostacy while some of us muslims were arguing that it is not a right to insult and cause offence. Personally, I listened to the argument and as a Nigerian muslim, I believe that there should be no punishment for apostasy or blasphemy. Me and my co-worker friends used to make fun of christians and their 3 in 1 god. I can not ask for someones punishment when I am guilty of the same thing. Another point was made that the Quran itself will be classed as blasphemy to christians if christians were to have blasphemy laws in the UK. They believe that Jesus (PBUH) is a god. We muslims say that he is a prophet. My issues at work are stressing me. Some of my non-muslim co-workers avoid me and other fellow muslims as if we are terrorists. The riba issue and how my friend that is a muslim is saying that the Quran is wrong about riba is, also affecting me. How can the Quran be wrong? And why are islamic countries using interest in foriegn accounts and firms? The countries I checked were Iran (oil in foreign exchange reserves), Saudi Arabia and Pakistan. Please, I need advise on these issues. |
Salam Alaikum everyone! I am Abdul and I am happy to say that I have learnt a lot from this forum. I have been watching as a visitor and I am thankful that I found Nairaland after searching randomly for news in Nigeria. Alhamdulillah |