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ItsModella: abiL how you doing?

@Sijo, thanks, I'll try

I'm good love. How are you? Hope you haven't demolished all the ewa agoyins!!

[quote author=acidosis™]You derailed my thread the other day! with enough insults... same reason sexkillz locked the thread.[/quote]It wasn't personal.

Well if you're expecting an apology, it won't be found in this post.


E-friends?

[quote author=acidosis™]U!! *angry*[/quote]Huh?

ItsModella: *sighs* what a day...

My fellow derailers, how una dey?

Modella!!!!!

kalufelix: na so u go dey brag here afta u go fall 4 the no 1. approach e go do yhu like film...lol

Now say what now?!

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Any girl that falls or have fallen for those lines is a confirmed mumu. A mumu girl ready to taste the forbidden fruit . Such mumu-nism should be dispose of in the same manner you use in dealing with your waste bin.

Tobbylobar: .....u got me almost crack my rib...i just stroll pass ur epistle i was like WTF...

You better stroll back UP and enlighten yourself!

That was a bloody essay (what I wrote).

Forgive me

Suicide isn't an easy thing to commit.

Although you need to worry about the risk of her committing/ attempting suicide, but you need to focus MORE on changing her mood, and giving her a reason not to self harm.

She probably feels like committing suicide because she sees it as an easy way out to relief her burden. So you need to look for ways to ease those burdens, since you know her best more than any of us.

Invite her to visit your house, so she can experience a new (non-judgemental, non-imposing) environment. She needs to clear her head and re-focus.

Whatever you do, don't try and discourage her from seeing her female friend. It will only push her away further. Is there a chance that those two could be dating?! Being homosèxual is something greatly frowned upon and not easily accepted in Black societies so her sèxual orientation might be adding to her burdens.

Being bullied/ teased as you've mentioned can also still affect an individual even when they are no more experiencing bullying. So you might need to ask her (when she's comfortable/ ready to opening up to you) about what she was bullied about, and try to work on those issues together so that her self-esteem can increase. If she was bullied about having body odour (eeek -__-), encourage her to keep on top of her personal hygiene routine, so that she can regain her self confidence and never have to worry about being a smelly girl anymore

Since you mentioned that her weight is an issue, then help her to do something about it. Get a gym membership for you and her, call it 'bonding time'. Don't be too imposing though, if she don't want to work-out, let her be. Don't tell her to go on a diet either. If you adopt a healthier lifestyle, she might model your behaviour.... If she's around you often.

Try and involve her in a new activity/ hobby, or motivate her to participate in things that she had often enjoyed but had stopped doing. Things that had once made her happy.

If your parents are the nagging types, don't involve them in this for now.

If she doesn't confide in you about her depressive feelings, then you might have to let her know that you've invaded her privacy. Get her to open up to you... When she's ready. Don't force her!! Then reassure her of your love and support. See a counsellor if need be.
Most depressed people feel alone, and think no one will understand what they are going through. Prove her wrong.


Although I've previously advised you not to involve your parents, but you might need to advise them of how their 'upbringing style' can impact on their kids life. Too much aggro and not enough love isn't beneficial. Don't bring your sister's depressive mood state into this. I assume you're an adult, so have a grown up conversation with them.

[quote author=acidosis™]Now listen to me abiL or warreva you call ur ignorant self... be very mindful of your statements. I hate to trade words with retard££ns. So get your s¡lly ignorant self outta here...[/quote]Did I hit a nerve?

Are you a fàggot? Hahhaha


Get out of where? Your father's compound?

&& yes, you got it right the first time. Clap for yourself. What a clever boy!

paranorman: verilly,verilly i say unto u,except a man likes u first,he can nvr fall in luv wit u! 'Likes' become luv. Havent u heard men talk about likin a gal n not lovin her and as such,he deosn't wanna go 'deep' wit her?! When i like u,i'm interested in u and it can make me fall in luv wit u... Ain't nutin as 'luv at first sight',only 'infactuation at first glance'... Kapiíiish!

Thanks for the bedtime story -__-

[quote author=acidosis™]And I'll continue to give you HBP High Blood Pressure with my threads.. Get used to it or perish[/quote]I think you're the one hurting here with you're hatred for Nigerian girls.

Get over your heartbreak or die a lonely aśs fággot!

shymexx: Lmao... Oh well, thank God I'm now half Urhobo and half Igala....

Compliments of the season, anyway...

Lol same to you.

Happy new year in advance Mr multiple personality disorder

CFCfan: You pay for car wash? Me I dey wash my own.

Full valet once every 6 weeks.

[quote author=acidosis™]The truth is I've made my points already... accept or bounce..[/quote]As long as this nönsense thread continue to exist, I'll continue to post on here if I feel like doing so.

So get used to it! Or better still delete it and remove the fingers you typed it with.

Don't abuse your privilege to access the Internet!

Yaksson: And who asked for ur opinion? Bullsh*t! [color=#990000][/color]

It's offered free of charge. Shït-face!

stevo4shiz: Must you Comment?

Must you quote me?!

[quote author=Sisi_Kill]Ah! So men have special padding on their own feet that's why they don't feel the friction? I had no idea.

You learn something new everyday I tells ya[/quote]Hahahahaha

CFCfan: Kpele. I've only witnessed snow in 2 places, in both London and Memphis (Tennessee) about 12 yrs ago.

There's more rain in Britain now than snow. At least I don't have to pay to get my car washed

Complete utter bullshït!


Stop getting "like" mixed up with "love"

ItsModella: Very painful..happened to me once, I slipped on ice and fell with a loud thug, my dignity also fell...

Hahaha I'm very careful on ice. I have my wellies, and I walk like a penguin on mr ice

I've skidded on ice a few times (scary aśs shít), so now if there's ice on the road, I take a taxi to wherever I need to go.

CFCfan: And it's very painful if one slips on ice, you could have bruises. U dey follow Premiership?

The shame is far worse than bruises.

Nah. I support chelsea, but I only watch football if someone is watching it and I have nothing else to watch lol.

What's the big deal?

Don't women drive in your village anymore?! What makes riding a bike special?

CFCfan: Yeah, in my area (Southern California), there was also a lack of snow . Where u dey?

England.

I don't mind snow, I've just got a fear of slipping on ice.

[quote author=acidosis™]Thanks...[/quote]Let me not catch you typing cráp again!

The end is near, repent!

CFCfan: Yes, I'm good. I had a swell time on Christmas day; how was your's?

It was good thanks. What made it really special was the lack of snow

LMFAOOOO!!

Shymexx we all know that you're mruknaijaboy

Stop having conversations with yourself. It's just plain weird. Funny to read, but very weird!



Makes me wonder, whether....

CFCfan: Good morning/evening, AbiL

Evening Mr Chelsea

Hope you're good