BS BS!!!
I welcomed my Prince on the 7th Nov via ELCS
BS to come much later. Vigilante to be here ooo

marksleek2584:
What does one say to console a lady who just lost expected twins to a miscarriage?

It is well! Pls just be there for her, give her attention, pray with and console her. Nothing really much can be said that’ll ever be enough.

@cappo Tinudesi, yeah, I noticed I share same monicker with another momma here. We’re both diff persons.


Hello Mothers, I noticed my 1yr2m started having mild temp that’ll come and go as at ysday afternoon. Gave her pcm last night and it got better over the night not until ds morning I noticed a clustered rash on one corner of her shoulder, just now it’s spreading in ones and twos across her face, body and feet and she’s itching. Please what could this be? Measles or Chicken pox? Any home remedy bfr I dash to d hospital first thing tmrw morning? Thanks for your candid response.

November mommas how we dey? The Lord is our strength ooo!

Goldie50:
January 2023 mamas, how body? How una dey? How babies?
I say make I greet una o. E don tey.
Safe delivery to preggy moms and baby dust to GTC moms.
Make I run comot for here . I no want belle

Goldie50:
I remember this mama! You're trying o . The Lord is your strength. He will see you through.

as in ehnn no be small try ooo! Indeed he’s my strength and muscle! Amen

No be small courage, lotta mixed feelings and reactions before I accept moi reality!

Hello yummy mommas

Aug 2022 mommas how we dey na?

Make I finally pitch my tent ojere

Nov cappo biko reg ya new team mate

Nov 24th
Sex XY

Baby dust to all GTC mothers and safe delivery to all expectant mamas.

We shall all testify by God’s grace, Amen!

AbleGodDidIt:
Good Morning mamas. Pls help me out oo… my baby broke out with this very stubborn nappy rash all of a sudden ooo… normally her nappy rash is mild and once I use sudocreme it disappears before this next day. This one no clear me at all. Just happened suddenly between Wednesday morning till evening fa. It has sore red blisters. About 5 open shiny and reddish sore/blister around her bum/vulva. I’ve used sudocreme, Vaseline, epiderm and been giving her well kid multivit. The only meal I changed recently was nan ooo. From nan2 optipro to comfortis coz that’s what her dad found in the mall.

Pls what can I use? She doesn’t scratch nor act fussy except during diaper change. I’m considering visiting a paed tmrw bayi. Attached is a photo… (sensitive) she’ll be 10months in few days

I appreciate everyone for their input. Visited a paed and it was a suspected case of an allergy/excess diaper time. We’ve been given treatments and she’s healing fine. Natural ori helped a lot too as she was already healing by the evening of the day I posted this before we visited the hospital. God bless you all.

Good Morning mamas. Pls help me out oo… my baby broke out with this very stubborn nappy rash all of a sudden ooo… normally her nappy rash is mild and once I use sudocreme it disappears before this next day. This one no clear me at all. Just happened suddenly between Wednesday morning till evening fa. It has sore red blisters. About 5 open shiny and reddish sore/blister around her bum/vulva. I’ve used sudocreme, Vaseline, epiderm and been giving her well kid multivit. The only meal I changed recently was nan ooo. From nan2 optipro to comfortis coz that’s what her dad found in the mall.

Pls what can I use? She doesn’t scratch nor act fussy except during diaper change. I’m considering visiting a paed tmrw bayi. Attached is a photo… (sensitive) she’ll be 10months in few days

Good Morning mamas. Pls help me out oo… my baby broke out with this very stubborn nappy rash all of a sudden ooo… normally her nappy rash is mild and once I use sudocreme it disappears before this next day. This one no clear me at all. Just happened suddenly between Wednesday morning till evening fa. It has sore red blisters. About 5 open shiny and reddish sore/blister around her bum/vulva. I’ve used sudocreme, Vaseline, epiderm and been giving her well kid multivit. The only meal I changed recently was nan ooo. From nan2 optipro to comfortis coz that’s what her dad found in the mall.

Pls what can I use? She doesn’t scratch nor act fussy except during diaper change. I’m considering visiting a paed tmrw bayi. Attached is a photo… (sensitive) she’ll be 10months in few days

ayo6hammiey:
She's someone I know very well. She's not been in a good state of mind since it happened.

e ooo Chinemenma!!!! I pray her speedy recovery! She needs proper medication. The wood fell so hard on her head! The sound was scary!

ayo6hammiey:
Funny it didn't happen in the southwest, it happened at the language channel station at Garki, Abuja HQ of the NTA. I will blame their directors and Co who have used money to buy cars and properties finish

. Wooowww! Really a slap on their face.

I’m guessing the lady is an intern and probably test running/doing practicals coz the Yoruba no too bam plus she just face the book dey look down! No professionalism at all.

Chai! I just dey watch this thing now ooo! I don laugh wake my hubby, baby and neighbors oooo

Morin shege!
Morin arin takiti

Ooooch! Was such a hard one fa! Haha! That kpako strong abeg! Be like na olden days when wood was still wood!

I hope she’s fully recovered now because that was no joke! The hit was so hard! I can predict it happened in either of Osun, Ekiti or Ondo! They need to do better with the funds been allocated to them.

Mhurfhy:
I bought estate land with BetterLife Property at Owerri in 2021 only to find out after some months that IMSU is claiming the land as theirs and till today the matter is still in court. The estate people said they will allocate another land but till today nothing has happened. If you are from Imo or Rivers State and you know the solution to this please advice me.

so sorry about this. I pray you find the help you need.

AsomStructures:
Sorry about ur ordeal. Was it stated in the agreement letter that your land would be revoked and issued to another person if you don't start developing within 3months? If not I'll advice you take legal actions against them as that's fraud and inhumane

See our just concluded 3bedroom bungalow construction if you're about starting your building project.. Link in my signature. Plus we offer building designs and construction services nationwide

Thank you. I’ve attached the terms and conditions. Please help me check to see if any of the conditions implies that. I’m so confused

Hopez456:
So sorry about this, read through the agreement signed and see if that's what you both agreed to.
The natives land ain't secure too, most of the natives are as well fraudulent and wicked. I have had a share of their evil deeds.
Buying land in Abuja generally is a high risk business unless serious due diligence is done.

it is well. Sorry about your ordeal. Walai Abuja land matter taya person. I almost fell for one too thanks to AGIS

utepu:
It pains for you to be going through all these.
I advise you go through the Allocation Letter and any other relevant documents you were issued especially the contract agreement.

Ordinarily, you were suppose to have a contract agreement executed between you and the Developer.

It is normal to have been asked to pay a reviewed infrastructure cost because of developmental cost has skyrocketed. But what is appalling is to be given one or two weeks to pay all this.

And again, what did the contract you signed with them says about revocation of allocation? Did it say you will be allocated in 10years? If not you have a case to press against them.
If, they were silent on all this, take it up with them.

The Lord is your strength .

There was no contract agreement. Was only issued the allocation letter and payment receipt.

But here’s the terms and conditions contained in the allocation letter I got. Please is there something I’m not getting right?

Okay now I get, infrastructur is subject to review as stated in d unless full payment has been made which I haven’t.

But it wasn’t stated that I’ll have to pay the reviewed price within a month abi?

Then again I still can’t understand where revoking the land is coming from or waiting till after 10years to be allocated to another location.

I’m so pained.

Thank you all. I appreciate your input

duduade:
Not encouraging at all

But why are these people like this
Just a ploy to getting money from you after signing the contract that you must have paid 1.5 for infrastructure development…

thank you ooo! It’s not encouraging Rara! My spirit is down!
Se somebody can not invest and keep to commence building when money shows ni. If I had known all these estate land people can be so cunning like this I for just settle for gwari land jeje.

E jo, e gbami ooo

Please pardon me if I’m being ignorant oooo… is this how estate land policies are It’s so unfair oooo

I don’t know what to do at all. Plan was to pay part of the infrastructure and commence building small small oooo but look what they brought bfr me! How can I pay 2.5m all over again after buying land almost same amount? I saved so hard to gather the money in the first place. Na two good years I take save am and thought investing it on a land won’t be bad, I can begin building after saving again and a bit comfortable again only to hear “it’s been revoked, madam you don’t own a land there again”

Moderator please help me move to front page

Good Day Well Meaning Nairalanders.

Please I need your honest opinion and advice on this issue of mine.

I bought an estate land in Abuja about two years ago amounting to 2m+, was given an allocation letter. On the letter it states I’m to commence development within 3months of issuance and pay 1.5m for infrastructure and development. The infrastructure could be paid in installments.

Since then, I haven’t been able to pay nor commence any development on the land. So this last month, I visited the site and only about 5 ppl have commenced building. So I decided to begin something also at least.

Contacted them to notify and make part payments for the infrastructure only for them to tell me the land has been revoked that according to the allocation letter and a final notification sent to me sometime in January, I have defaulted and so I don’t own a land there no more until I pay 2.5m for infrastructure, survey and development or wait for 10years to be relocated to another site.

Honestly I was beyond shocked and thought it was a joke initially oooo, I don’t really know much about properties. Just a lady trying and struggling to make life better for herself. I told them this is cheating and fraud and they started telling me to mind my words I should go get my lawyer as their legal team would take it up from here. I’m to pay 2.5m within a month or forfeit the land for relocation after 10years that it has been sold to another person. That infrastructure is expensive and the price of materials they’re getting now isn’t same as it were when I purchased the land.

Please what do I do? What necessary step do I take from here? If not this Abuja that one fears demolition sebi I for buy native land build jeje all in all I no go spend pass 5m both land and building ooo.


Now I bought estate land but see me see gbege ooo

BS!!!!

I’m grateful to God for an opportunity like this. Honestly my heart is filled with great joy!

After a still birth I experienced at full term last year, I just wanted to get pregnant immediately again. It was such a trying time as I got pregnant immediately after wedding and had already imagined and planned how I was gonna celebrate our one year anniversary with my 9months after baby but then again, it is what it is!

Amidst the devastation, hubby and I started trying again as soon as bleeding stopped. Haaaa! I did preggy test ooo! Omo the anxiety and anxiousness was just too much! I was just running frm lab to lab every month should my period delay for 2days only and at the same time, urine strip hear whine for my hand! I prayed that God should console me and comfort me. Told him to make me smile again, told him I wanted double or triple this time…. I tested positive two months after which left me in confusion that I wished I never did the test so early. I was just 6days post ovulation then. Was seriously down with malaria and so I went to the hospital and doc said I should go test for widal, malaria and pt. Happened PT and malaria came out positive and doc prescribed drugs to take for the malaria. I asked this doc if it was safe to take the prescription having just been confirmed pregnant and he said yes. I then proceeded to the pharmacy unit of the hospital to buy the drugs, at the counseling unit of the pharmacy, I asked the pharmacist if it was safe to take the prescription as I just tested pregnant and she said yes sebi it’s doc that prescribed it…. That was how I returned home that day and started treatment oooo only to bleed few days after and it flowed and lasted like normal period. I rushed to two diff labs on the first day I saw blood and both reported negative. The first lab said the result they saw isn’t a strong positive that it picked oo but then again it started declining… I sha no understand them abeg! That period was yet another sober moment for hubby and I. He requested I take him to the doctor but then I wasn’t ready to make troubles with a Gen hospital staff. We consoled ourselves in God, made up my mind never to try any treatment or medics again no matter what reason. Till date even paracetamol, I don’t take anyhow.

After that experience, i got tired of tracking ovulation, told myself I was just gonna relax and take my mind off it and I wasn’t going to waste money from lab to lab running pt again neither was I going to do urine test. As God would have it, I missed my period in Dec accompanied by feverish symptoms again! I took my time, wasn’t anxious to run to d lab to confirm or even check at home. I managed the pain, prayed, used my anointing oil and mantle. The pain lingered on that hubby had to say let’s just go to the hospital. Told him I won’t o… Naso I cry that fateful afternoon, prayed to God to heal me and not let any medication I take cause any harm then I took two paracetamol, sighted a urine strip inside the drawer I took d drug from and my mind said do this test just to be sure and I tested positive. Became so emotional that day, I prayed, cried, made declarations and shared the news with hubby that it’s confirmed.

Fast forward to first trimester, this sharp pain below my belly to my back on the right side started ooo, I’ve forgotten the name someone attributed to it on this thread. Ommoo! There was a fateful night it started that I couldn’t sleep. Hubby started praying, got my mantle and laid it there and that was when I had a peaceful sleep and never experienced it again. Rushed to the hospital the morning after to lodge a complaint, a scan was recommended and report said all was well that it could be ligament pain. Registered for antenatal few days after. Took my routine drugs religiously and started noticing my cute bumps towards the end of first trimester.

2nd trimester was fine all through, I ensured I never missed any of my antenatal appointments, didn’t stress much, ate well, trekked lil distances, prayed and made positive declarations every day! Unlike my first pregnancy, at this stage I couldn’t stand the smell of creams and perfs. Avoided them like a plague and so did hubby! God bless every responsible husband out there o.

Third trimester came with lots of worries and concerns as I already discussed with my doc that I don’t think my body is designed to fall into labor naturally as that was what I was waiting for during my first pregnancy and avoided getting induced until term and just on the day I was to now go for the induction, scan said they couldn’t detect FHR again…. So I was praying labor shows from 36/37weeks and if not, I’ll request to be induced at 38weeks. Dr said fine.


38weeks came and I requested to be induced, was placed on admission for observation, fetal kick count and I did a scan which confirmed all was well but Baby’s biophysical profile result ain’t satisfactory so dr said I should go home and return at 39weeks except I fall into labor and if not, he’ll recommend a CS. Told him CS how na… I was induced to push a dead baby, how much more a live one…. He laughed and said no more harm could be done then but no one takes risk of inducing a live baby just anyhow…. Returned at 39weeks appointment and a scan was recommended again,,, this time report said baby is in transverse lie and weight was 3.9. As at 38weeks scan, it was 3.6… that was how Dr said VGB was a no no as there’s no way I can be induced to push a transverse baby…. Was like how come but baby has always been head down since I registered antenatal and at all previous scan visits. He told hubby CS was the best option as he won’t advice I wait till 40weeks with that Baby’s weight hoping baby might turn…. I cried ehn!!! That was how I resigned to fate and got booked. Surgery was performed successfully and my baby girl came out looking so beautiful but to my surprise weighed 3kg. In all things, I give glory to God that I’m smiling again and instead of sorry, it’s a congratulations galore for me and my household. I’m recuperating fast as well and my Princess has been feeding well on breast milk.

I wish all waddling mamas a safe healthy delivery and sincerely pray that God wipes away all tears from the eyes of all GTC mommas.

Sorry for the long read. Make una epp me manage this one.

@sassy cappo, BS submitted o

Goldie50:
Oh my! I'm so happy to see this. I've been awaiting your testimony. Glory to God almighty!!! . Congratulations Ma. God don do am!

Omakraid:

Congratulations on your bundle of joy... God bless her

Omakraid:

Congratulations on your bundle of joy... God bless her

Congratulations Mama, God bless your LO and family [/quote]

Thank you all soo much!!! May congratulations reach everybody!

Mehn! So much to catch up with ooo! Just read through 10pages laidis!

Hearty Congratulations to all my teamies that have birthed and to others who ported. Our God is indeed faithful!!!

My BS would come later. 4th tiri has been a handful mehn! My Princess is very calm, got both mothers with me helping out as well but focusing on my healing and recovery.


Safe delivery to all expectant mothers and baby dust to all GTC mommas!

Our God is so faithful!

BA!!!!
I welcomed my Beautiful Princess on 18/08/22 via ELCS.

EDD:25/08/22
DOB:18/08/22

@Sassy Cappo

abike12:
BA!!

I welcomed my Princess weighing 4.1kg on August 13th via elective CS. BS coming soon, I'm still navigating CS recovery. Wishing all mamas safe delivery.

Congratulations momma!
Wishing you speedy recovery!

novia22:
B.A! B.A!! B.A!!!
I welcomed my second Princess on 13th August via VD weighing 3.4kg with tear.
Edd was 13TH too.
My BS will come later.....It wasn't easy but it was all Worth it.
August Cappo...I hail oo

awwwnnnnn I’m soooo happy for you!!!! Congratulations momma! A big welcome to our Princess!
Oluwa I’m next in line ,,,, make this Congratulations reach me too!!!!

I just dey abeg!
The Lord is our strength always!

novia22:
August Cappo/ Mama's How Far Now..
Why are we so quiet? I know the handshake don dey pass elbow but God pass them all......
How are we kicking oooo. My doctor told me to go home and expect labour after my appointment on Tuesday. It's the waiting I'm waiting like this...
God will see us through.

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1. Starry v. ............................21st....................xy
2. Sassy256...........................25th.....................xy
3. Dunpredictable...............22nd ...................xy
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5. Waistbead.........................28th...................... --
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7. novia22.............................13th..Team surprise
8. Dijah07............................ 30th ...Team surprise
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10. Fisayomi1......................12th....P.July 20th...... xx
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11. AbleGodDidIt..................25th.......................xx

StarryV:
I have a quick question please.
Can someone be in labor without knowing?

Experienced mommas, make una shook mouth oo!

I’ve heard so before mostly when your labor is painless.