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I'll like to make my story short as possible without much introduction tho. And also a lesson parents/ new couples should learn from my ordeal, Pls read to the end.

Alright So I'm the only male born of my parent among 4 girls, i also happen to be the last born at it. my problem started when growing up, cause my parent aged bfr getting a Male child which was my Dad and his parent cravings, I was pampered when growing up such that my parents would never watch me do stressful things, dictate when I go out and who I moved out with (My mum's own was even worse cause when growing up, if I want to go out, she'll always send me back inside) even during secondary school they had to get a school very close to our house. my sisters were only the ones that would go to mum's shop and make sales while mum would either stay with me at home or if I eventually go the shop sef I'll always sit and just watch. Literally, I'll say I was denied the right to be exposed to lotta things and real issues about life.

And cause I was not the sociable type cause I'll literally stay at home, watch movies, eat and my movements limited, I was exposed to pornography and masturbation at a very young age and I battled that bad habit thr my University days (Did I say my Parents also dictated the University I went to cause it was close to our House to and any small riot in school then the next hour they'll come and pick me back home till every thing dies down)

So guys over time, I've grown to be this boring guy who is shy, timid, suffering from low self esteem and can't give vibe even when gisting with my fellow guys, in which most of them just relegate me to this small boy level. Did I also say I've never had a Girlfriend all my life cause the truth is ion always know what to say or how to maintain talking vibe. At first I decide not to care and just always console myself with I was created like that and just continue my boring life, it has now gotten to the point I'm not rated in anything at all, most people just make friends with me cause of what they can gain from me, I'm not even good in anything, I can't speak clearly, I'm kinda literally mentally dumb and ion see me useful for anyone or anything, perhaps maybe God only, No business sense, no work skill or experience, no trade experiences to

I'm currently a Corp member serving and before then I rebelled against my parent cause they wanted to dictate the state I serve which is our state of residence so I go to my ppa from home but I told them No and even got to a fight to my Dad cause of this issue and we din speak for like 2weeks, he eventually called me and we settled. But the issue now is guys I've got less than two months left for my POP for service and you don't expect me to return home useless to my parent house again?? Tho sincerely thr my service year, I din touch my allowee so I've saved up to 270k so far. the issue is ask me what I want to do with the money? I've got no idea, what business sense or idea? Nothing is coming to my head, infact I don't know. The funny thing is, my roommate is exactly my opposite, very outspoken, bold, full of vibe and bring back different female friends each day, this guy is not really financially buoyant but you see girls cook and travel all the way to give him for us to eat. I just wish I was like him, i wish i had the vibe

I'm 24years now and at this age, no idea bout my future, bout life, I can't even relate with people, I'm just so sad, depressed and frustrated. At the moment the only job coming to my head is the military cause I served in a military barrack cause I choose it myself but most of the junior officers are trashing my interest by telling me not to waste my time say I no go survive am with my nature, that military needs tough people and endurance bla bla and on the other hand, my mum is saying Never she'll never allow me join the military not over her dead body and she's bout recruiting my Dad to and Sincerely I'm frustrated and my depression have taken another turn that over the past weeks I've been thinking suicide and it's getting really high, I say I should type this here bfr the worse happen cause if I can't be useful for myself what really is the point living??

Please this advice is to parent and intending parent/couples, pls and pls expose ur children to life, don't over pamper your kids, work on them to make them sociable and outspoken, I swear you'll be doing them a great favour. For me I thought my parent loved me, I thought they were trying to protect me but they've put me in a deep mess I have to face alone and just I pray I get the opportunity to make things right with me

But Army dey everly fvck police up pass this na but why dem no dey mobilize go do shooting practice for barracks??

oh I forgot, fuel no dey dey their motor

Every walking woman on Earth needs a man to succeed/prosper. females are their own enemies and it's hard to see a girl joy when her fellow gender is doing/growing well than they are without inner jealousy. The influence of Guys effect in the success and prosperity of Girls in general cannot be overemphasized, that's why if guys/male/men do not contribute to the hustle of these popular female celebrities, OAP etc that sees themselves as Demi princesses, when they shout aloud even, their street won't noticed them.

And that is why we guys need to change this year honestly, STOP going out of your way to help these genders. y'all simping and always meeting their every demands is the reason for all these Bullshit we hear each passing moment.

My life's resolution at the moment is, if they're not my relatives, any job offer, financial opportunity, business opportunity etc I see and the only person available near me to earn it is a girl/female, I'll look away unapologetic.

Yes, I've said what I said.

Eboh folks do this more to themselves why??

Zoey95:
guy try serve in the air Force base you love it more especially the payment part

wassup how much?

wink2015:
Oyo state are loosing their big men.
Late Olubadan of Ibadan
Late Soun of Ogbomosho
and now Alao Akala.

And what is big bout them
Soun n olubadan dead or alive what use is their existence to Ibadan folks??

dawnomike:
The terrorists are becoming bolder day by day... Happy no soldier was killed.

who told you??

Lol Audio. who no know no go know. Nigga's still chilling in his unit as we speak

Nice development. The rate at which those head gown wearing folks touch our dicks in swimming pools here in Kano is alarming, thank Allah the governor has come thr for us bfr they render us impotent

PYO is all we want

goodheart01:
You're a wise man and a wise son. May we keep having sons like u. May your mother's prayers keep gingering open doors for u... Amen

Imagine if u hadn't given your beloved mum that money would she have prayed for u?? U could have even fücked that girl and gotten bad luck from her, plus money u wasted on top.

May sense never be far from we men... Amen

Brotherly, tbh twas then I understood why the Bible asked us to honor our father n mother. tho twasnt easy cuz she made it seem like I broke her heart but I was glad I take the step I took. I pray you also have enough to make mama happy to ijn

May they find Mercy before their maker. Amen

With their faces covered looks extra judicial killing to me tho

How I got saved from Disaster - A short story

Last year, I met this girl looked good, very tall but I was actually attracted to the big back side. so as a real nigga I was able to approach and collect her number and then we got so close that we in a short while got into a relationship, not up to 3weeks she got complain of how bad her phone and screen was but cuz I liked her and was not really bucked up I had to sha send 10k to my MT5 account (my plan was to try growing the money atleast so I can use whatever I made to get her what she wanted, funny enough I was still learning how to trade) and with the motivation and determination of making this girl happy, guys I grew this money to bout $142 in one month and then I withdrew to goan buy her the phone, as I was bout going I recounted how I've not given my mum 30k bfr and here am I going to spend 60k on a random girl. I thank god my head n cerebrum sparked I just changed my mind and transferred 25k straight to my mum's account. Mama got surprised and prayed for me. my people since the beginning of this year my 3odds never cut o same with my trading, always green. I just got ignoring the girl since then but deep down I love this girl Soo much. it's really so hard being a guy

that is my story. someone help me shout alleluyah cuz devil did not use this girl to frustrate Reno omokri and shola's efforts on my Life to have sense

ENIGMATIC2023:
This look like Somalia or Yemen. The North is really suffering.

Boss show us pictures of Ibadan, Abia and Osun I just wan check something

HopeNeverDies:
Damnnn!!! I crossed over to the AFCON match last night after watching Roma vs Juventus...


Damnnn!! I realized Africa is a backward continent... Roma stadium is far more better than the whole of west, central Africa Stadiums .... so sad

But come out and protest bad governance, you'll chicken out with the normal anthem who wan die? yet ur here talking about backwardness. Dem be don nak you 2 by 4 plank for mouth bfr

Lemmy123:
Eweeeeeey!

The city of Kano is dear to my heart because I visited my distant family members some time in 2016.. Omoo the journey far I no go lie you, spent close to 6 hours in Kaduna alone! The whole journey from Kogi to Kano was close to 11 hours or thereabout..

I loved the organized view of the city even tho it's predominantly Hausa.

I fell in love with Badawa New Layout and Fadawa...

I think the dustiness of the city is a trademark, it's not exactly dirt, it's just how the earth is on that side of the country.

Let me handle your writing and design jobs, see my signature below, thanks

Thanks so much for this storyline. but any other lie to give??

Brendaniel:
I'm not even bothered about he strike here or the trekking, just look at the environment, this is not about north or south or any state but how wicked our politicians are...

Are politicians the one dumping dirties daily there?? blame the people without no clue on proper waste disposal

Danjikanbauchi:
Afonja Muslim why are you in so much pain from hate ?

Eat some food and get well soon.

That's not even a Yoruba delicacy. that sacrifice you uploaded is the richest food ur Kings over there rejoice to eat anytime they got the opportunity to eat.

HEAVEN4444:
not impressed. its a rugged corrupt city. bad roads corrupt cops. segregated neighborhoods, too cold, winters are too cold and summers too hot. shovel your car out of snow for hours everyday. drive for 2 hours to look for parking spot. yeye city. i prefer ijebu igbo

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Danjikanbauchi:
he said Calabar- Kano road.

All this useless Afonja try leave your village and travel which part of education.

stay far from me you Stark illiterate

Fake news.... I just passed there the Calabar - Kano road still open and itch free as we speak

michlins:
It's easier to eat the snake than to eat from that pot

Speaking in parables ehh

y'all should just chillax, what do y'all use to cook when y'all are in the village during festive seasons

Anigreat:





So of all snakes to eat, you think puff adder is the best for you.

Nigerians can eat rubbish sha.

Anyways, I don't blame you, the pot you used in cooking the snake shows that poverty has done you real strong thing. so why won't eat puff adder?

Pot look like something were I de see abokis twist throw inside truck.

This is uncalled for, only in Africa and in Nigeria especially do we find joy abusing people of their present condition forgetting this single comment can render him depressed if truly he's poor. why not just live and let's live?? My mum used to tell me if you cannot be the source of other people upliftment then don't abuse them in other words if you cannot help him then don't abuse him.

mynd44 lalasticlala please do something bout taking this comment down

newoffer:
Ventilation that will give rat access to the money.

pls be reasonable and sensible bfr quoting me this 2022. you don't even know what ventilation is at this stage in ur life

Remzyb:
Sizes 41-45 Place a dm now 07010181431

wanna get 3 for 15k

Nice mindset but Note; keeping Money without enough ventilation would only have you wasting time, sweat and energy

What nonsense?? but regular man no wise, him no suppose storm their cabal alone since dem plenty pass am, him suppose reason them number men for men, bullet for bullet whatever it may be. You don't kill a military man and expect peace.

If I was his team mate, we fit enter guard room after but that OSPAC guy and his team are all going 6ft on Jah. RIP Regus. cheers on me

linearity:
These are all excuses, the center is afraid of losing it’s power. No one has power gave it up willingly.

1. In terms of finding, the FG gets her money from States and then allocate percentages back to them, since they will no longer be tasked with Policing reducing their tax on State will free up money.

2. FG uses Police & FG agencies to oppress everyone and States everyday….case in point AGN is in Magodo Estate using FG police to intervene on land issues when the Constitution have fully vested the power over land to the State….they are even ignoring the Governor’s orders.

3. Thank God you mentioned a civilization that started it badly, but over the years they are still learning and tweaking it. You can’t be perfect in a vacuum, you have to start somewhere. None of us know anything about the internet when we started Primary School, but look at us today.

Yes, State Governors will abuse it just like the FG, you can’t be Governor forever, power must change hands and with each year, the fear of retribution will force them to moderate…..remember one certain former Governor in Edo State? He later became the National Chairman of one National Party, he was pompous and powerful, his thugs reign high every corner of Edo State…..do you hear about him again? I sometime think that he is on a self-exile in some foreign island - no reported sittings….that is power, it must change hand one day.

How bout the scores of innocent lives that would go bfr power changes hands

pepekhali:
Indicate your interest by typing INTERESTED and your phone number

is it free?? If it is i'm interested

Knew his fake repentance was nothing but a fraud and as a result lacking magnanimity

Killed a harmless non venomous snake and you're happy bout it?? mtcheww