₦airaland Forum

Daniel7543:
No be innocent Nigerians them dey kill so? abi u na south African? If I cross path with u, I swear I go kill u.

Daniel7543:
It's high we start killing South Africans living in Nigeria. If ur neighbor or co-worker is a south African, kill him/her now. Split his/her throat with knife now.
If u dey go office tomorrow morning, carry ur knife along, stab them in the throat.

Make we sef show them say we dey craze.

Slaysor:
I can be of help,just send your whatsapp number,i wont charge you a dime. You will see changes after a week. But it would involve drastic lifestyle changes.
I am a biochemist who have read lots of books concerning the human body and most especially the human brain. Just get in touch with me.

Jazzman01:
Have you had any head injury in the past? @Ablemed

BenedictAbajue:
Try talking to someone about it. Someone you trust.
Never let this bring down your self esteem.

This is one of the reasons I feel I need a girlfriend.
Thank You

BeardedmeatR:
Why not go and see a doctor instead of what you are doing now?

Jennyclay:
Go to LUTH and see a Neurologist.

I pray you get better soon.

Gift96:
That's because you've not eaten enough

Gift96:
You need to eat alot of cucumber and pineapples. They are both fruits used to correct speech problems

horlahwaley:
That is the plight majority of we common men on the streets is passing through and some mumu here still dey back the policies in as much some politicians will be punished. Which of the politician send una. Its not affecting them at all.

Creamcrest:
I have no pity for you, your tribesmen wicked afonjas colluded with the north to install the current dundeee we have in asorock.

Enjoy your change and stop disturbing my cyberspace.

JoeEeL:
SO THE SCARCITY OF FUEL COMBINED WITH THE HARDSHIP AND TERRORIST INVASION, COUPLED WITH POLICE BRUTALITY AND INFLATION ARE NOT ENOUGH TO TRIGGER MASSIVE REVOLUTION AMONG SO-CALLED ZOOGERIANS.

GOSH. THESE PEOPLE HAVE NO RED LINE AS JONATHAN SAYS ON RADIO BIAFRA. THESE PEOPLE ARE LIFELESS AND ZOMBIES. DEAD BODIES.

fman:
love Kee u there!!!! This early morning, u don dey fall... Have you said your prayers?

Modified: I forgot that you are jobless

aggos:
For your information, redesigning the NAIRA cannot affect the elites, they are more powerful than what you can imagine. Unlike you and me, they won't step out of their homes to get the newly designed notes. What you know is what you know...

thesicilian:
So you think the central bank will go through the rigorous process of redesigning and printing new naira notes for the entire nation all because of one man? That's kind of myopic thinking in my opinion.

PresidentAtiku:
Make war no start o

achimendy:
The first thing is to know your problem which you stated out already.

You said you have no business idea, but don't tell me you didn't learn anything throughout your service year, because that's one of the best place to meet people and also learn good skill.

Secondly, if you've not done any of the above then I suggest you start now cos time wait for no one. Get every motivational tools and gadgets (books, messages, motivational videos, good advice) you need to push yourself to greater heights. Ignore everything that has happened in the past, I understand your parents where doing that to protect their only son, but it was too much and they never saw it that way. Look forward and concentrate on your vision. Decide what you want in life, set your goals, map out time and learn everything there is to learn in other to achieve what you want. It's not too late to correct the wrongs.


It will be very stupid of you to start thinking about suicide, your parents wont be happy with you and also God too.

That's just my simple advice to you bro.

Recommended books: power and principles of vision by Myles munroe, no excuse by Brian tracy.
And also messages on success and competence by apostle Joshua selman.

Go succeed ma nigga.
Thanks.

funkmrflexx:
Send me a message on WhatsApp now to get started

09066730949

WatermelonSugar:
Hi Ablemed,

I can partly relate to how you feel because I am the only daughter and I faced similar restrictions, even though I oppose them with a bit of coconut headism.

Like someone said easier, you're aware of your problem and that's a great step to finding your solution.

I will recommend three things:
1) Joining the right communities. In your quest to meet people, you may end up meeting terrible people who may try to solve your problem in the wrong way. I highly recommend Twenties Tribe (check them on Instagram). If you're a Christian, you can join a local youth-centric church assembly so you can expose yourself to other youths and improve your social skills.

2) Read books on people interaction, communication, and networking, and intentionally try to practice everything you wil learn there. You can watch videos or listen to podcasts if it works better for you. You can practice them by attending networking events and other cool events.

3) If you're a Christian, I'll advise you back up these works with prayer. God sees what's going on, He will help you on this journey.

PS : HAVING A GIRLFRIEND WILL NOT FIX THIS PROBLEM!!

What you need to learn is to build good platonic and professional relationship, not a romantic relationship. Don't let anyone deceive you.
Besides, it's not a crime if you have never been in a relationship at 24, you still have years ahead of you.

Also, you can decide to learn one or two Digital/tech skills that you resonate with.

Love and e-hug.

Eileene:
I Can only imagine how much pain you are going through.I want you to know that every change you desire to see in your life can only start from your within..

Feed your mind with positive thoughts...
Read good books that will inspire you and help to increase your self worth.I will recommend Mary Crowley You can too,Think big by Ben Carson,John Maxwell's and a host of others...Try and get these books in hard copy if you can so you can easily peruse over them whenever you feel low.You will just be fine...

In addition to all these listen to soul uplifting songs all the time,before you go to sleep and when you wake up...Watch rib-cracking movies like three idiots(thank me later)...Listen to good radio and TV programmes...Join good facebook and WhatsApp group...

Pick up an interest say football since you are a guy follow it keenly and use it as a point of discussion to mingle with other guys...
Lastly Positively declare good things to yourself...You will be fine.
Sending you love and light...

Elock1:
this is exactly my story but I've overcome it to an extent.. Where are you chatting from?

Ajoself:
Dear OP,
I really feel for you. I am happy you are aware of your situation. Next, it's time to retrain yourself to someone you want to become. I have some steps to help you through this stage of life. It's not possible to state all here, but if you can message me I would help you out.

Jamiubond009:
Give me a holler let's chat i could be of help

Michelle70:
i think its very immature of me to say this but i hate ur parents.

Lonestar124:
I wish this WhatsApp I can advice heightly with voice note...

Before I go further don't join any military and village people compelling you to become a military man I rebuke in them in the name of God...............you can say amen to that if you want....

Now listen fella, don't be depressed bro, you are still young for that, thank God you were able to save 270k, that is huge and can sustain you for some months, if you decide to leave your parent house, you can rent a room and start your life from there, make friends bro, it is important to some extent...

I don't know what you studied in school, and possibility of you getting job, but you have start somewhere, that is leaving your family partially and hustle for yourself......don't be timid, you can get yourself a monthly work for a start....

Be bold, just step in and you find out in every impossiblity there is always possibility....