aysuprano: Hello everyone, i need your advise about a step I’m about to take
I’m a university graduate from one of the top Federal Universities in the country, my field of study is related to agriculture and since I finished school about 6 years ago all the jobs I’ve been getting isn’t really paying enough, they are mostly farm jobs paying 30-35k at most, I’ve considered setting up myself but tbh I have no back bone and it isn’t easy.
I’m 28 and I’ll be 29 this year then I decided I’ll really need to learn a skill if I want to be relevant in the society because sooner or later I’ll start considering settling down and all.
I tried learning tech stuffs but I have to be honest to myself I’m not a tech person, I try forcing it but no be my way, it’s better to be honest with myself, I’m not the kind of person that likes sitting down staring at screens for long even my phone.
I’m a natural handy person, that’s one of the things made me go to that field of study in school(Agriculture), I learnt a bit aspect of the tech which I enjoy to an extent that is drone piloting but I don’t think that is something I should sit with.
So I’m thinking of learning an handy skill which is why I need your advise, I’m passionate about painting, infact I’m good with it and it’s all self thought but I’l don’t want to go into it full time because I’m scared of height, so I’m considering learning POP and house interior which I’ve taken a step to start learning. I
nfact I have the money to pay and I’ve gotten someone to start teaching me already, why I opt for POP is I like the job and it’s an handy work plus Real estate is booming so skill related to real estate should be a hot cake at the moment.
I’m going in full time to learn and im ready for the adventure, because to be honest with ourselves if I keep saying I will land a good paying job due to my certificate and All,.
I might just keep waiting and might not move forward and time waits for nobody.
So Nairalanders I need your advise or your opinion do you think I should take this step? , do you think I’m making the right decision?
Thank you
Go and learn computer programming. The best career choice.
Buckeyemedia1: Try borrow common sense, South South just left Aso Rock in 2015, no way another person from South South is getting there again anytime soon, Igbo must rule before so called South South smells the leather on that sit again.
I agree that SE should have a go at it. But Would you rather have Tinubu or Lawan instead?
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InsideLife2022: I have been an active member on this forum for the past eight years. I just created this account to bring this issue to limelight. Good evening gentlemen and ladies. I got married in late 2020. God being merciful, we are blessed with a baby of 5 months. My wife has been giving me attitudes of recent. I have tried to find out what the problem has been, she is not saying anything tangible. I am being confused and depressed. I have been begging her to come back to join me after delivery. She keeps traumazing me emotionally. She just told me our marriage is over. She couldn't say what the problem is.
She has not been taking care of the baby. She was medically advised to stop breastfeeding our baby permanently. Is not that she breastfeeds our baby. My mother in-law and sisters in-law have been complaining about her lack of motherly treats.
They told me she doesn't even know how to take care of the baby. They cannot allow my child to be in her custody because she can't take care of the baby as a mother. She has fought her mother for asking her to leave her house to join her husband. Every member of her family has been asking her what the problem is. She keeps telling them to come and marry me that it's over between us.
I haven't told any of my family members or my friends of what is going on in my marriage. I am a kind of person that do not like involving a third party in my new marriage of lest than two years.
Her family has never supported her actions. Her mom and her siblings have been asking me to come take my wife and baby. But, my wife is not ready to join me. It has been a serious issues in her family house each time they push her to go meet her husband.
Her family has ask me to come with some soldiers or the police to come carry my baby and leave her since she claims she is no longer interested in any marriage. I have been trying my best to make sure my wife never lacked anything during her pregnancy and even after delivery.
My in-laws have been very supportive and good to me. I know they have never and will not support her for her wrong actions and behaviors. My challenge is, my baby is just 5 months and I don't want to take the baby to my parents because of the questions people around will be asking. I don't want to be seen as someone who is separated from his wife. I hate divorce with passion. My wife does not have any concrete reason why she decides to stay off our marriage.
Her family is fully in support of my next actions of going to take my baby. Now, the question is this; is it advisable to keep the baby with me while I employ a nanny to raise the baby with me?
Please and please I need mature and sensible advise.
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Then thank God and move on. She is not a wife material. It’s better this happened early in the marriage than after many years of her wahala.
A BAT/Zulum ticket or any other popular running mate will win convincingly. If you like, call it muslim/muslim ticket, it doesn't change the fact that Tinubu is not seen as a religion bigot. He gets on well with any religion and any tribe. He's just like MKO and you are about to witness another Muslim/Muslim ticket sweeping the national election.
God1000: The exit of Peter obi from the main opposition party PDP is a dramatic and unforseen move, I don't see Atiku winning the ticket because he's from north east, the zoning is not in his favour this time.
blinking001: Sometimes Nigerians should forget sentiments and be thankful for everything our darling president has done for us
Good and motorable roads........checked
Second Niger bridge......checked
Passage of petroleum industry act.....checked
Revitalization of our Airports.....checked checked
Youths empowerment through public schemes like Npower, Tradermoni etc.......checked
Stable economy..........checked
Revitalization of our rail way transport system......checked checked
Best Electricity supply ever experienced by the common man.......checked checked
No fuel station queues anymore........checked checked
And many more i can't mention here
Buhari is a good man that deserves to be worshipped by all for all the good things he has done. He's the best President this great country has ever produced. The defender of the weak and a father to the fatherless.
AlexReports: BREAKING: President Buhari Bags Global Integrity, Anti-Corruption Award Of Excellence
Information reaching ABUJAPRESS says that Buhari Bags Global Integrity, Anti-Corruption Award Of Excellence
President Muhammadu Buhari, has bagged the Global Integrity and Anti-Corruption Award of Excellence.
This is to recognize his lifetime outstanding commitment to the fight against corruption and selfless service with exceptional integrity.
Buhari has been honoured with the Chartered Institute of Forensics and Certified Fraud Examiners of Nigeria (CIFCFEN) GLOBAL INTEGRITY AND ANTI CORRUPTION AWARD OF EXCELLENCE.
A statement signed by Femi Adesina, Special Adviser to the President, Media & Publicity stated that the President was presented with the Award on Tuesday in Abuja by the Chairman Governing Council CIFCFEN Board of Trustees, Dr Iliyasu Gashinbaki.
The award is the highest honour of the Institute reserved for only African Heads of States with impeccable character and unimpeachable ideals.
The Nigerian leader is the first African leader to be bestowed with the award. Receiving the award, President Buhari thanked the Institute for the honour, saying:
”This recognition further imbues in me hope that we will as individuals and citizens of this country begin to live right and imbibe the ideals and ethos of the founding fathers of this great nation.”
The President pledged ”to look into and assent accordingly” a bill seeking the formal establishment of CIFCFEN, acknowledging that the Bill is presently before him.
Buhari Bags Global IntegrityBuhari Bags Global Integrity He commended the Institute for working and effectively complementing the efforts of law enforcement agencies, including the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC), the Independent Corrupt Practices and other Related Offences Commission (ICPC), the Code of Conduct Bureau (CCB) and the Police.
He directed the anti-corruption agencies to continue partnering with the Institute for the benefit of the country.
Furthermore, the President directed the Minister of Finance, Budget and National Planning to work with the Institute in areas of providing technical assistance and capacity building to all revenue generating agencies and regulators in the public sector.
The President lauded the Board of Trustees for issuing the first independent review of graft fighting strategy of the country, adding that he is pleased to receive copies of the latest flagship publication, the Annual (2021) CIFCFEN Country Report, themed around the review of the Country’s National Anti-Corruption Strategy 2017-2021.
”This is the first independent review of graft fighting strategy and I commend the Institute for this initiative.”
Justifying the importance of forensics and fraud examination in the fight against corruption, President Buhari said:
”The need for forensic experts arises in educating, preventing, detecting and prosecuting fraudsters, while fraud examination helps mitigate vices like embezzlement, money laundering, misuse and mismanagement of public resources.
”Many Nigerians, who are serious about eliminating corruption in our country, will welcome this review of the National Anti-Corruption Strategy midwifed by the Federal Ministry of Justice and the Presidential Advisory Committee on Anti-Corruption in 2017 and supported by our International friends.
”This has been our flagship effort in fighting corruption and we did this by distilling all previous strategies geared towards fighting corruption into a single strategy, while this review comes with recommendations that will be carefully reviewed by the Office of the Attorney General and adopted in our 2nd National Anti-Corruption Strategy that will be unveiled shortly.
”This effort by the Institute to undertake the review of the national anti-corruption strategy is highly commendable and it has shown the usefulness of partnerships with professional bodies and my administration will continue to partner with the Institute and as well as other private institutions, the academia and other stakeholders in the fight to stop sleaze and mitigate corruption.
[quote author= post=113148163]Another to move our darling nation forward is all we want at[/quote]So you have quit Tinubu camp, abi? And no longer praising your almighty darling daddy again. That is classic commonsense. Redemption at last.
I'm always peeping on my neigbhours/friends unclothedness when ever they are taking their bath.
It all started six years ago during my ND in school, & up till now, i'm still living with it.
During my ND, there is no famale tenant that i didn't see her unclothedness to more than a million time, even when i went back for my HND, i did thesame thing.
I'm currently serving right now, and i'm still doing thesame thing here. I peep on my neigbhous and fellow corps member here.
I've been doing this for six years, and i've never being caught. Sometimes i ask God; why was i not being caught all those times in school, why didn't GOD want me to get caught.
I've tried every possible means to stop it, but all failed, even when i don't want to do it, my spirit will keep pushing me & if i don't do it at that time, i won't rest.
It seems i can't live without it.
I know someday i will be caught and embarrassed and get my pictures uploaded online for this crime.
I'm afraid, i need help.
Don’t worry. That na small thing. Wait until karma catches up with you and your neighbors start banging your wife on your matrimonial bed in the future. Never fails.
sogodihno: I can't wait to watch what you will do to yourself, in case Tinubu clinches the ticket. Sha don't take sniper
Hmmm! But I read somewhere that Tinubu has ordered 1 bullion van load of sniper and stockpiled it in his house. I wonder what he he wants to do with that on Saturday night.
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