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Barcanista sounds like burantashi.

This is just the beginning.
Slowly but gradually they are showing their true colour and intentions.

Has anyone noticed that since December last year Abubaka sheku as not been hard of again?

Any good from military

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YENN:
Ya, that's true- its not advisable for a lady to marry a poor or lazy man, but then, it is not good for a lady to chose a man based on financial provision, same way, its not good for a man to chose a woman based on physical beauty, and u may ask me y? I will explain.

Dangers of choosing a partner based on financial status or physical looks:

When u chose a husband based on the fact that he's hardworking and has money. Believe me, when u marry him, u will sure get enough of the money...all that your hunger for money and monetary needs will be met, u will own that ur dream car, house and wears, and then u get tired of it; that's human. And the next thing is u start to notice his flaws- his bad temperament, his quick to anger, his not always being at home; travelling up and down, his domestic violence attitude (if any), his not being endearing and paying attention to your opinion in things and u start to feel irritated and fed up.

You start to dislike his personality. You start to notice that he has other ladies in his life...and if u dare complain, he shouts at u and shuts u up with: I provided everything for, so what else do u want? Of course nothing!

Over time, u start to feel lonely because the rich guy u married only married u because u are pretty and he wanted to have pretty kids and a pretty woman he can show off to his rich friends during social function and nothing else- no friendship, no bond....everything was based on superficial desires.

Before u know it, u as a married lady, married to a rich guy start to flirt with handsome broke guys whom u detested...u start to fall for small boys on the street and maybe end up having illicit sex rendezvous with them and u maybe unfortunate and get caught, and your rich hubby ends up divorcing u...leaving u back to nothing.

Now same goes with guys marrying a lady just because she is very beautiful.

I tell u guys, if u make that mistake, u will sure regret, y?

Because after u marry her, u will sure get tired of her beautiful looks to the extent that her beautiful naked body won't even arouse u most times and u will be wondering y? Its natural in men.

Haven't u ever wondered y most men married to the most beautiful women still cheat with most times ladies not as pretty as their wives They are tired of seeing the pretty wife's body.

And once u get used to seeing her body, then that presumed love u had for her cos of her beauty will fly away and u end up seeing her flaws- her nagging nature, her dirty lifestyle, her over-demanding nature, her not accommodating your friends and relations, her lazy character, how not knowing how to cook and tidy the house, her sleeping habit, her increasing tummy size, etc.

But if u marry a lady or man based on her or his good character, manner and personality, believe me, u will never get tired of him or her no matter how many years u guys live together, instead u keep loving the person more.

So while we all desire comfortable life, we must not short-change our future happiness with hunger for money and material things because I strongly believe that with time, patience, vision and right effort, every man will be financially buoyant.

Guy you dey make sense o.
In fact u make sense pass sense self.

Keep it up.
Me I likey

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YENN:
@Ginaz,

I quite understand u but u know, no guy will take hardworking as just mere physical hardworking in the context and manner in which u used it; it connotes- financially buoyant.

And like I said earlier, it is not bad desiring and admiring hardworking or financially successful men; its a preference.

But I will advice u keep such discouraging statement deep in your heart because no guy (rich or poor) would be happy to hear u say that.

I am sure u must have heard rich music artistes all over the world sing and brag about how ladies of all looks and class now love them and want to be with them now that they are rich and famous but never gave them opportunity of a “hi” when they were broke and struggling to make it in life.

Those artistes are speaking the minds of men all over the world; both the rich and the poor.

In case u are in doubt of the artistes that have sang songs like that, Olamide, Wizkid, Kanye West, R Kelly, just to mention but a few.

To me, ladies ought to learn from such musical lyrics because what those artistes are singing is what many guys (rich n broke) think about ladies who run after men and material things.

Again, it is statements and attitudes like this from ladies that make some men to treat ladies like trash and even brutalise them without pity.

Remember, this is an anonymous forum- both rich, broke, comfortable and average guys visit here for various purposes and reading comments like this will make any man see ladies as people only interested in men for money and wealth and its not good for all women.

If u notice, in the past, rich Nigerian guys usually marry broke ladies from poor family background and help change their life and that of their family, but of recent, u now hardly see or hear a rich guy marry a poor girl, why

Nigerian ladies opened the eyes of of Nigerian guys and made guys understand that without money, a man is not worthy of their love or attention...and so while guys dated and married ladies without minding their financial or social status, ladies (both the poor ones and the rich ones) were busy selecting men based on how much they have...which made rich guys to also start selecting partners based on their financial status.

That's why its now difficult for a lady that has no job, thriving business or handwork to find a serious man who's genuinely interested to wife her.

We must change this present situation in our country- enough of our making choice of romance/marriage partner based on financial and physical attributes; its really affecting our country negatively, how?

We now have plenty ripe and over-ripe single ladies and guys waiting for Bill Gates and Kim K when they themselves aren't even close to what they are seeking for.

And to the original poster, I laughed at some of your shallow points especially that your number 2 point of guys going to visit a lady they met online- of course if the guy is chanced, its not bad and of course nowadays, many people meet their partner and lover through social media networks, so embrace the chance.

For instance, a very close friend of mine- a guy met a Nigerian lady living in United States last year. How did they meet? On facebook through a facebook group discussion where the lady made a nice comment on a topic about relationship and my friend picked interest in her and sent her a PM, from there, they started chatting.

From facebook they started skyping.

And to be honest with u, this my friend is not ugly, not broke nor rich. He is just the normal James on the street.

Gradually, they developed love for each other and started talking about dating and everything happened online.

As I am writing this now, the lady is back in Nigeria and presently in the guy's house.

She came back some weeks ago all the way from United States to meet this my friend in Nigeria and the lady was so excited and not disappointed, in fact their love now has grown pass zuma rock, lol

The lady is so pretty....a medical student in the states and my friend swore to me that he will die to make this lady the happiest lady on earth.

Funny enough, my friend is working here in Nigeria and comfortable with his job that he told the lady to relocate to Nigeria but she insisted he relocates as soon as they finish their wedding (trad and court) by ending of this year. But then, my friend refused that maybe she will be living in the states while he lives here in Nigeria and their children will be shuttling for holidays.

This is to tell u that he is not in love with her for because of USA visa or citzenship because not all Nigerians are interested in travelling abroad to live permanently and he's one of them.

Lastly, he never knew she lived in the states until after some weeks they started communicating.

What am I saying to the op? Never say never....we find love in the strangest place in life.

And lastly @Ginaz, I insist u change the mindset of selecting or admiring guys based on their hardworking nature....like I said earlier, success don't usually come by hardwork...but God's mercy and favour. If u doubt me, check around u, are all the hardworking guys rich?

What hardwork did ex President Goodluck put?

Making it in life is by grace....and to find the right partner in life, u must avoid selecting partners based on superficial qualities like:

1. Physical beauty/looks
2. Financial status
3. Height

I know it may sound flimsy, but many people have ended up in bad relationship/marriage because they were too bent on selecting partner based on the aforementioned.

I wish u and everyone else reading God's favour and guide in all u do.

Remain blessed.

For this post alone.
May your days be long and more prosperous.

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sage2:
With a girls as beautiful as you by my side, the only option available to me is to work hard to succeed. A beautiful, loyal and intelligent lady is all the fuel I need.

Now this is what I call woman wrappering

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EasternLion:
Who saw they are using North to say what they want to say?
We Arewa, we North.


But when it comes to us
.N/Delta, we Igbos, we Ijaws, SS, SE, Igbo nation.

Why not collectively answer East?
"Oh no, Igbo man wants our oil, Igbos will dominate us Niger Deltans".
Ok OK then use ur Original name Biafra.

"I am not Biafran oh, if u come to Cross River and shout Biafra, u will not go back alive".
"Biafra is for Igbos, we are N/Delta, I want resource control and amnesty money".

"Oh no, Nnamdi Kanu is spreading hate and seditious, we enlightened Igbos don't support him".

The North will always have their way.

Abeg tell them o.
That is one advantage the north have over we southerners

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IdisuleOurOwn:
Wailing wailers, when will you guys stop wailing?

I think they will stop wailing when you guys stop masturbating.

Something similar happened to me some few months back.
If not for the mobol men that witness everything and later stood as witness in court na only God know where I for the now.

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OtunbaJega:
Igbos don dey panic since 1960 naw

The ethnic group with the most number of wailing wailers

It is better to be a wailer
Than to be a masturbater.

# youknowyourmumisnigerian#

when she sales all her jewelries to pay your school fees.


When she pretends not to be hungry just so that you can have enough to eat..

When she rather sale tomatoes and pepper to support her family than to sale her dignity by allowing another man other than her husband ( dead or alive) see her unclothedness.

When she will willingly sacrifice her happiness and comfort for your sake even when you don't appreciate it.

When see spend the whole night praying and worrying simply because you u are having a minor headache

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ajebuter:
Longer or loner?

Longer and more prosperous

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ajebuter:
I'm yoruba and I'm a firm believer in respect for the DESERVING elderly but when an elder becomes AGBAYA (a useless and lacking self_resepect elder) then my respect flies out of the window for him.

Obasanjo has done nothing but tarnish the image of GEJ, for what, I don't know, yet the young man kept his dignity by not replying him. What else does this old man want? Blood? Whatever he is accusing GEJ of, I strongly believe Obasanjo himself is one million times guiltier of the same and even worse offense.
It pains me when someone becomes holier than thou and sanctimonious just to malign another person.


I am yoruba and proud of my heritage here and abroad , but abeg, oBJ should just park well, we are tired of his nuisance!

May u leave longer than your ancestors

Where is God of War?

Op respect yourself and put god of war in that list

With boko haram in the north

Tompolo and Co in South south

Biafran zealots in the south east

Ombatse in North central

Fulani herdsmen in north central

AND 90% corrupt politicians doing their thing like no tomorrow

Plus oil cabals threatening hell if subsidy is remove.

And a 76 years old man as our president I think it is save for me to ask WHICH WAY NIGERIA.

To me no city in nigeria is as beautiful as jos.

But this hausa/fulani are bend on destroying that beautiful city.

But come to think of it
Has anyone notice that Abubaka sheku as not been seen or heard off since December last year.

Or was the past government saying the truth when they said Abu sheku was killed sometime in November by the Army?

For this single act alone
PMB have won me over.

Chaiii
I remember the day my late dad told my mom that she is his one and only bush meat.
That without her his soup ( his life) will be tasteless.

Throughout that month na so momsi the smile like person whe win million dollars

Momsi later told us that was the only time her husband told her how much he loves her.

15 years after his death she still holds his picture and cry at times alone in her room.

As long as the igbos are treated as a conquered people then it's only a matter of time before they succeed with biafra..

Ojukwu and Co underestimated the Nigerian army and they lost the war.

For 40 years the igbos have been planning on how and when to strike again. I will advise the federal government not to make the same mistake Ojukwu made 40 something years ago. Don't underestimate your opponents

No its not wrong
But the problem is the level of mental and emotional maturity on the man's side.

Not all men can appreciate that gesture.

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RickRichards:
So this was all about getting physical? Ladies, I hope you're watching this.

Guy pls Stop woman wrappering it's not Good for u o.

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RickRichards:
Hold it, hold it, hold it there, young man! What exactly is your point, that women are superhuman or what? Now that's a DEAL KILLER: you just destroyed your chances of success with every nairaland lady by overtly worshipping them.

What the op is trying to say here is that those 3 things some men do just to get approval from women can spoil there chances with her.

But come to think of it if a woman say u no go see her pant.
Guy you no go see am no matter wetin u do.

Op do some men really do that no 1.

As in give up ur self esteem for a woman ?

At this age and time?

So why are u telling us?

Very soon 1$ will be =#1000

And that is what was promised by PMB

Chii
You don make me remember wan girl I been toast few months back.

This girl fine die but she failed my very simple and obvious test.

All was going well until she asked me where do I work.
Play play I tell her say I be security for one quarry company so.
Nna see as this girl provoke.

She was like : so u an ordinary security get mind come toast me abi. E bi like say u the craze abi u de try to craze.
Me self just the smile for my heart.

My dressing alone should have told her I was joking but for were.
When her eye come open na when my big bros come pick us up with BMW 7 series

Na so the fool come turn sister Mary oo but by then I don loose interest...

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koice:
Sony Z2 and Z3 respond to the HB pencil, while all Samsung note series respond to the S pen. Chinese phones are known to respond to fabrics like clothes and nylon.

I swear if Chinese people read this your post them no go ever manufacturer phone again

On a serious note there's no way osun state should have lower poverty rate than anambra.

I will love to know why or on what basis osun is rated higher than Anambra state

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Aystarz:
U and many here, alike, must think everyone is just like u : Vain, Undisciplined, lacking in self-control........

If we are vain, Undisciplined and lacking self control then why ask for our advice?

Yeye de smell

Op am not going to ask u if you slept with anyone during those 7 months break

rather I will ask u how many girls did u sleep with during those 7 months. And how many times

Now ask yourself between you and her who committed more fornication ?