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RIP

Bravo!

Boko Haram too should be dealt with Ruthlessly. Herdsmen too.

December don dey near. Dem wan release album

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Nice

XhosaNostra:
That is solvable. What is the procedure to register a new political party? If there is none, perhaps that's where the change should begin. They say madness is when you keep doing the same thing, expecting different results. See, when there's competition or other options, politicians try harder to please because they don't wanna lose votes. If you think you got what it takes to move your country forward & challenge the status quo, start your own political party. Study the demographics in your country. Is there more youth than old people? That way you'll know your "target market". Once you've achieved that, the next step is to make sure that your party values reflect the hopes & dreams of your target age group. Parties like EFF have done just that. They were smart about it, they're targeting the youth & gaining new members with every failed term by the majority party. They even have a "trendy" uniform, to make sure that the hooks go even deeper. Take all of that into consideration if/when you think of coming up with a party of your own.

Very true. I totally agree with you but what am saying is "the solution is not in get you pvc" as they keep preaching.

TIKAMBABA1:
Foolish reply

Which kind stupid reply? They keep screaming get your pvc as if that's where the problem is.
The problem is all the candidates to be chosen from are not good enough. Getting a pvc is just about equipping one to vote one criminal out of many.
Let the parties field qualified people first.

francesawesome:
must you be negative

No I must not.
I learnt a lesson from a true experience and I thought I should share.
One can learn a thing or two.
This is life.

Delivar:
But the benefits out-weighs whatever risks

Depends!

A buddy of mine got kidnapped in port Harcourt(random kidnap) and the first thing the kidnappers did was to check their profile on Facebook to evaluate how much they will charge for their release.
Anyone related to any politician is to be killed because the kidnappers are angry at politicians who used and abandoned them.
It was hell for the ones who used their real names and also have pictures of expensive lifestyles.

So OP
It doesn't work in every situation.

Jeez

Trojan horse

helphelp:
I need to research on St. Louis sugar as well.

Never came across an advert of that sugar brand

That's true

I always wondered why it is not advertised

God save us

Life!

importexpert:
There are certain things that as a guy, you must take notice of in your partner. Most guys are really clueless about dating when compared to women. Sometimes, they make many guys feel like learners.
The simple truth is that things might go wrong no matter what you do. It is therefore important you look out and know what to avoid in a relationship. I have penned down a couple of things.

1. If a lady misses a date you both agreed on and doesn’t call to apologize, let her go. There is no time to waste on one woman. If she does call to apologize, let her be the one to request another time so as to make it up to you. If she doesn't show up again, forget about her. She doesn't value your time.

2. Never let any woman disrespect you. If she does and she refuses to apologize and change for good, drop her. You don't want to be with someone who tears down your self esteem or does not know your worth.

3. Dating an indecisive lady can be frustrating. When you find yourself with one, give her space. You should not try to force people to make up their mind. Let her coming to you be out of choice and not compulsion.

4. Never try to buy a lady's affection. Trust me, that's one path you don't want to walk. If a woman does not like you, your expensive gifts will not change her mind. Instead, you will end up becoming be a “financial boyfriend” who sorts out her needs, aka “mugu”.

5. Never beg a woman to give you a chance. If you think she eventually gives you a chance, then you're mistaken. She probably showed you pity. And you know something about pity in relationships? It does not last long.

6. If a woman uses sex as a negotiating tool, dump her sorry ass. She is only manipulating you and nothing more. Sex is not a favour or reward!

7. Never let a lady be sure that you are crazy about her to the point that she feels too confident. In fact, never affirm your love immediately to her. Suppress that feeling to talk about it till she has shown you all possible green lights that she loves you.

8. If you give her a phone call twice and she doesn't answer, do not give her a call again. It is called desperation, and woman can smell it from a distance. You what it does to them, remember? Instead, just send a text.

9. Do not compare her to your ex. In the same way, if she talks about her ex with you to the level of comparisons, let her go ASAP. You will never be enough for her. You don't want to spend your energy trying to fill a shoe that was not yours in the first place.

10. Trust your instincts. The first problem with guys when they start feeling emotional about a lady is that they let the feelings overwhelm their sense of reasoning. Someone told me the other day that he let go of his logical self to date a woman. Huh? Do not make that mistake.

11. Never show 100% commitment to a lady. No matter how sweet she may be, she is not yours till you both tie the knot. Don't even assume that she will not leave. Realize that until you both wed, there is nothing like complete commitment.

12. Maintain an air of mystery. Never divulge too much about yourself too soon. Keep her in wonder of who you are.

13. Except you know how to chat with a lady and keep the sparks on, save the conversation for your dates. You may make use of that platform when you have come quite a distance with her.

14. Women desire attention just like guys desire sex. It is your own weapon. Even if she asks for it, be frugal about it. Never let her talk you in to giving her your complete attention. It may backfire soon since what one gets used to can easily be abused.

15. Do not make all the efforts in a relationship. I for one have a policy that I will take only two steps and wait for the lady to take at least one step. Whosoever invests more in a relationship gets emotional tied more than the other person.

16. Never change who you are for a woman. Never! If you must change, let it be because you feel the need to and not because you want to impress a lady.

17. Never lose your voice to a woman. Do not become a “yes man” to anything she says. It does not get her attracted to you; instead, it makes you look like a wimp. If there is something you do not agree about, state your opinion. If you think she did wrong, let her know
about it and don't keep mute about it.

18. Except you want to, never date any girl who has more problems than you do. Chances are that she may draw you in to all of it and you'd soon be overwhelmed. If you must date such a woman, be sure of what you are stepping in to.

19. If you ever find yourself with a possessive, over-jealous or domineering lady, drop her fast. She is not worth the stress. You will save yourself a lot of trouble by doing so.

20. Be alert about attempts to manipulate you. Recognize when. She is trying to get you to do something or not. Ensure you follow the decision of your will. Do not let the tears get to you or the pleadings get to you. You may do otherwise if you deem it fit to make a compromise on your stand, but guard against manipulation.

21. If a lady ever cheats on you, there is no remedy for it. Let her go. It is an already established fact that women who have affairs end up developing a bond with whosoever the other person is. The mere fact that she cheated means you should call it quit.

These are just a couple of essential dating etiquette guys should know and date by.
You can add more or share your thoughts about specific points through the comment box.

Thanks Op

pocohantas:
*I know some of you will come here to say money is all that matters but pls, don't, I repeat...don't ever use money to get a woman. It's a weak way out, she'll chop your money and go. She might stick to you as her pension manager while getting sweet love from someone else. Your money would be used to cover their overhead costs.

*When you find a good woman, keep her. Don't go sleeping around. Vaginas are the same, maybe a lil difference in the diameter or what you feel for the owner.

*Once in a while, resist the urge to bring out prick. Pretend like you're not in the mood that day. It boosts your self-control and desirability ratings.

*That you took a girl on a date or gave her cash/gift doesn't mean she must follow you to your house and allow you bend her like straw on your bed, while you administer prick with tangential expertise. If you want women that will give you sex for the money, go to Allen.

*If a woman turns your proposal down, be mature enough to take it.
Don't go slutshaming her or all those silly things some of you do!

*If for any reason you stop being interested in your girl, let her go. Don't play her along while increasing her vagina mileage.

For those end time boys, that will know their friend is cheating on his babe but be calling her "our wife"...amadioha will visit you.

Wise words!

Nagerians sha , we like sex
As e be sex matter
See as op dey write project
Issorait

dacblogger:
The guy is cute...buh i still like me some dark skinned guys#Team naija guys#

We love you too.

From injecting to the economy to cutting power.
Is she a medic?

Hehe!

I have been in this kind of situation too.
I gave it a go even when I did not remember applying (not Enzor) but it all went well.
Am on my third year on the job.
Good luck !

It's well

TeamSimple:
Outside

outside is so so cool
Spiritual healing

This Igando customary court Judge has suffered.
Very soon we will hear he has ear problem. #igandoagain.

smite:
my brother the thing tire me o....I reside at Igando...but I've never seen or heard of a court here.

abi o. Everyday its igando customary court this or that, got to a level i wanted to see who is the judge of that court.

Bigseedorf:
seriously I think I'm thinking what you're thinking

At a point, I nearly called a cousin who stays there and ask "what's up with his hood? "

I think someone should visit this Igando court and confirm all this stories. Why always Igando?

Your mistake is that you were not proactive. After her first question You should have just said the sweet name you call her and that all.
High time we realise explanation is unnecessary in some situations.

Chuksemi:
Yesterday night was good. The viewing centre where I watched the match was filled to the brim. Though there was light in my area, boys and girls thronged out to watch the match in the closest viewing centre.


Through out the match, the kind of insults Athletico Madrid players recieved due to their percieved lackadaisical performance was enough to induce someone into depression. They said things like.

1] Come oh, e be like say Athletico de play to win champions league Spoon. Abi them no show them the cup before match start?

2] I know say Griezmann go miss that penalty. Him village people call meeting for him head yesterday.

3] Oh lawd, Ronaldo no de see ball play today oh. Abi him make him team mates vex for dressing room, them no come gree pass ball for am.

4] Athletico use Juju win Barca. How them take pass semi final sef? Come de play like children wey get polio for final??

The high point was after the end of the extra time. During the penalty shootout. The Athletico madrid keeper wasn't diving at all. One guy took it upon himself to investigate why, he went close to the T.V put his glasses on, stood there scrutinizing the screen for a minute or two. Turned to us with a resigned gaze and said '' make una no vex for the guy, e be like say na statue Athletico carry come match as keeper.''

At the end, some people were happy, some were not.

I, on the other hand, wasn't excited or sad. I learnt a lesson from it. Both sides didn't play very well. But the better side eventually won. Athletico failed to prepare for any eventualities, I believe they didn't prepare for a penalty. So when it came, they didn't perform well.

Morale: if you are embarking on anything, prepare for the worst as well as the best. Anything can happen. If you fail, go back to the drawing board. There is always a next time.

Sums up my reaction after any football match. I kind of draw loads of lessons from them. Nice one.