₦airaland Forum

Eriokanmi:
If you like , call me chukudi, ko kan aye. Only a fool will compare Anambra or Abia or whatever with lagos, a cosmopolitan city in terms of population and revenue generation. I live in alimosho. Our population alone will swallow up that of Anambra and abia.

That said, over 50% of investments in Lagos are owned by ibo. You may disagree but take a look at it from those in charge of hospitality business in lagos. A large percentage of hotels here are owned by them, likewise household wares products. Go to Coker, Odunade, trade fair, alaba...90% of shop owners selling them are ibo. In banking, they own some of the leading banks here, you know already. What of spare parts, na dem. Who pay a higher percentage as tax to lagos government, them of course. They are leaders in pharmaceuticals too.

We will not realise all these facts until Nigeria finally breaks up. I don't know your age but if you were grown up during June 12 election annulment protest, when almost all of them were called home, you'd have an idea what I'm talking about. Everywhere was desolate. Lagos looked like a ghost town cos we couldn't see things to buy. Protesters were seen breaking their shops they left behind and looting. That was the only protest in Nigeria, which tribalists didn't link to ibo. Life returned after normalcy was restored. That's why I always encourage youths amongst us to begin learning what we may lack once Nigeria breaks up cos it won't be funny.

Daddy Eriokanmi, Am not perfect, but honestly, you are my role model . Can you tell me a little more about June 12, what happened? My people used to call it Oso Abiola ( Abiola's run / race ) why was that ?

Happy birthday Oga seun. The Odogwu Ike gwulu one of nairaland. Bia Madam, one plate of nkwobi for the birthday pikin

Lawly:
I have a fiance that I have already proposed to and we are planning on getting married this September. But I noticed that she won't let me touch her before marriage which I think she was just trying to maintain her standard. I also noticed that she doesn't like coming to my place to help me do anything. As a matter of fact, she has never helped me do anything in my house. She has never cooked for me in my house, she has never helped me clean the house, she has never washed my clothes etc. Rather, she stormed my house one very early morning and woke me up just to drag me that I have not been spending money the way she wants on her. I was pissed off and told her that she too has not been satisfied any of my expectations to determine whether she's a marriageable type. She kept quiet and gave me incognito mode for a whole month only for her to return back this time around to resume her attitude of demanding. My last born brother however has been living with me and does all those works for me and doesn't give me stress at all. Instead, she's insisting that when we get married she doesn't want him around in my house. I also noticed that she's doesn't want people around me. She wants herself alone to handle anyone she finds in my life like my family members, friends etc. I tested her one day by asking her for 1k to pay for sth urgent and she quickly knocked it off and diverted topic. I lost my job since last year August and has been doing tailoring job to survive and she's very much aware. Now, I notice that anytime she comes to my house, she comes with lists of demands she writes on paper I must do for her. Sometimes I might work late into the night just to meet my financial target and that's exactly when she wants to see me. And if I take longer time that night to see her, she gets angry and when I still see her that night, it's always fresh sets of demands.

My mind has been telling me a lot of things. But am confused whether it's just me thinking out of point or something else or am blind. I have made commitments towards settling down with her and have even seen her people. I don't know what to do especially on the fact that my people have given me ultimatum that I must marry a woman this year.

I agree with the first poster after yours. RUN!!! Run without looking back. Take it from me her fellow lady, you will die before your time. My brother run o. Even your family members are not welcomed? And you are still doing what? Pls run for your dear life

deathtoLeo:
mu na gi forever
I wan settle down biko.
my younger brother don born 2 with his wife 😭😭😭
come let's get married immediately

agadi ekwe nka! See you soon at Onitsha this week by God's grace

TimeManager:
Are you denying Charly boy has been at the fore front of the protest and most Obidients on Twitter space mobilizing for the protest are southeasterners. You only come on Nairaland to deny being interested in the protest. You will see them soon when the military starts picking them up.

-Kiss the truth!

when people I respect on this forum, I mean real men comes along,. I will know. For now, run along. I don't have time for chewing gum boys like you and that's the truth. You can now kiss it

Ojiofor:
Fück Simon Ekpa,fück his master Nnamdi Kanu and fück all criminal politicians both in APC and PDP.

Gbam!!!

I don't know if this op is deaf, dumb or blind. Even if he is blind, is he also deaf? How many times have my people publicly come out to declare that we are not part of this protest.

See let me tell you, igbos are super survivors, alpha survivors if you like , Tinubu and his government of hunger is nothing compared to what we Igbos have endured and are still enduring.

Yorubas and their emergency friends the northerners are not better than us in any way. If the world wants to see where this hunger is biting hard, let them take a look at the brown roof republic and the almajiri republic.

Sapasenator:
Iwu onye okwu nuka!

wetin I come dis world com do kwanu? Na woto woto dey make dis world sweet o. No dull moment for my side o

deathtoLeo:
my love for you ehhh
let's get married.
Let's meet this weekend
game ?

gi na onye kwanu?

Soludo, JUSON Anambra chapter is on strike, pls do something about it biko. Thanks for the road , but pls other sectors needs your attention.

There is nothing like a particular region. Call them out, they won't do anything. Ndi Yoruba Muslims. And am 101% sure of it

deathtoLeo:
don't worry I won't marry second wife
I don't even like polygamy
it's me and you forever Vicky

story

Sapasenator:
I found and married my two wives on NL. Still in negotiations with the third also found her on NL.

NL has been a blessing to my family.

nkogheri!

deathtoLeo:
let me bear that pain
let me get you pregnant ❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰😍😍😘

I don't even know who go save me from your hand .

deathtoLeo:
you're breaking my fragile heart 🥺🥺

which fragile heart ? Chai! I have heard it all. Otu nkwo agboro di ka GI

Welcome to my world. Though , mine is for the first two days. Doctors said it's normal and it will stop after marriage and during pregnancy. I dey carry head dey waka for that thing. The pains no be here.. Na analgin injection dey help me most times. I think you should try it

I am here to read comments and dash out likes. So keep the comments coming but make it simple and precise. Thank you

deathtoLeo:
let's marry immediately ❤️❤️❤️

are you done with oringo ? When you are done with oringo, let me know coz I no get strength for side chicken wahala

Sapasenator:
I be onye Awka na but sometimes when I here news of brazen kidnap and gunmen gunmen running up and down.

So you too dey fear like this? Umunwanyi ibem, we are in trouble

Sapasenator:
See why i dey fear to go Awka, na things like this o.

Haba! If you talk like this, what then becomes of us that lives in Awka?

IduNaOba:
Men are tired of the gaslighting
Women said men should leave them alone.
They even chose a bear over a man
Now they still turn around to shout " I need a husband" when they start approaching the wall...

Most men have grown lazy to chase babes
I am a prime example.
As an only son, I told my mum (who has been disturbibg me to marry) and our clan elders that if they can find the lady, I won't question them, na straight marriage.
They refused, said arranged marriage is not good in this era due to women's behaviour today.
I kuku rest my case.
I honestly won't stop any lady to ask her shit before then accuse me of assault 😂
I am getting old Sha and my mama Don dey accuse me of being gae😆
Drizzle drizzle, that woman has to come to me by herself Sha, I ain't gonna find her.
Minus my family name wey I must Continue, I won't bother to marry at all and most guys feel like this today.
The risk is not worth the reward. Not with today's modern women who wants to be more masculine than men

Bia nwokem quit that fear and go and marry. Pity your mother and go and marry. Chai! Kedu ife di ifa biko nu

This is for people that raised their kids badly and without the fear God and kids that got married to bad wives.

When I was living with my elder sis at Awka, the father in law, fell sick, the entire family pushed him to the first son who is my big sister's husband. The son too is always off to work.

My sis was nursing a baby then but i saw her did her best for the old man. Timely medication, cooking recommended meals , washing his clothes, keeping him happy and comfortable. Chai! She is wonderful!

My point is, pray to marry a good and God fearing woman and try your best not to cause her pains or heart break. She will train her children to love you in return.

I know a woman who promised to deal with her husband in his old age. The woman was barren for 13 years, so she brought in her sister's only daughter to live with them. This little girl was 10 when the woman brought her to live with them. Before you could say jack, the man started sleeping with this little girl that calls him dad.
One day she caught them in the act, but the husband wasn't remorseful at all and even asked her to do her worst. She never forgot that incident and instead hatched a future plan.

She decided that she would make sure her husband watches her Bleep another man in his bedroom after he must have grown old , weak and weary. The man is very much older than her and already growing old.

Learn from my story and be good to that good woman you married

God can use anyone for his purpose and his own glory.

I saw a little boy about 10 who cannot speak at Izombe in Imo state where I was contracted to prepare special meals for distinguished guests at a burial.

This little boy cannot speak but you need to see him prophesying to people with hand signals. And his prophecies are very accurate and scary.

God sometimes uses my humble self and honestly, the gift of prophecy is very powerful but scary. Sometimes you see, hear and know things that humans are not supposed to know , see or hear. Fergie, Biko bia

AlhajiCSO:
as my girlfriend and wife
❤️❤️❤️❤️

nkogheri! You are never serious for once

God forbid o! Affliction shall not arise a second time

AlhajiCSO:
let's meet today for Ibiza lounge Abakaliki Street this evening.
I wan lodge you 😍😍
or you can come to M&C onitsha
bills on me ❤️❤️

As par gini kwanu ? Your wife, side chick, girlfriend , hook up or apata nnali ? Which one?

Anambra state judiciary is on strike , soludo pls do something. Insecurity is worsening too soludo, Biko do something. Stop being Facebook governor only.

AlhajiCSO:
my sweetheart how are you
come onitsha let's spend weekend together or choose your preferred hotel ❤️❤️❤️

I no get your time nwoke Onitsha

Release Israeli hostages and end this yeye war already. What is even wrong with these terrorists for Christ sake ? Civilians are being killed daily in these wars but Hamas sees nothing wrong with that. Hamas is the tufiakwa of this generation

How can we reelect death ? Even Baba God don talk am say affliction will not rise a second time and so I hold