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GENTLEMEN ALWAYS BE ON GUARD

I have this female friend who has the habit of running package with married men, i once tried to tell her why not do single guys, even though she has a boyfriend and cheats on him with married men. My preaching fell on deaf ears so i changed pattern and tried telling her if she cant stop, atleast play safe.

Now she got pregnant and told me its her boyfriend who got her pregnant but doesnt want the responsibility so she has to remove it. I laughed it off and minded my business but she made the mistake of pushing it in my face trying to earn my pity and help. I happened to have a guy who is close with her boyfriend and asked him to setup a meetup for us. After enough bottles of beer he opened up about her and showed me evidence he had about her dating married men (he has the financial resources to hire a PI). He told me he really wanted to settle down with her hence he went the extreme of getting a PI. Even after he found out he kept around strictly for fucking purposes.

Lol, my girl is still under the impression that she has me fooled and i still laugh like its nothing. At times i look her dead in the eyes whenever she talks about how men treat her like trash and what they've done to her. Damn this gender are something else gentlemen, they can really be scary whenever they want to achieve something.

My best advice for men who decide to date is this "if you decide to lie to a women make sure they would never be able to differentiate it from the truth for the rest of their life" cause this is their mindset whenever they decide to date men for their resources.

I got reminded the hardway last year why its always important for people to know less about you cause when trouble comes the first thing it does is to gather information about you before it strikes.

Sometime during 2020/2021, during the end sars protest i helped a colleague at work by coming to his area with escorts to move him to safety (whete i stay) when he life treated by opposing cult gangs(he belonged to one, eiye cult).

He stayed for a while during this period till things in his area died down before he returned. Fast forward to jan/feb last year and the police came to my area to pick me up on the premise of 11.6m got missing and i was the last person captured on cctv at my place of work. I went in handcuffs and spent 2weeks there and one thing i love about human nature is the love for boasting. Upon inquires i found out the person who pointed my location was my babe who prior to the police incident i told i needed space( she wanted fucking my guy and i found out and asked for break) and my work colleague whom i housed during the endsars period.

It was hell for me during that time as the police took me for covid testing only to be saved by a miracle, if i had taken that test nd tested postive i would have being taken to kirikiri straight. I pushed for the case to be taken to court and thats how i got saved, no evidence was given and my accusers never showed up.

The first thing i did when granted bail was go to a resturant to drink and eat meat. I thanked God what would have happened if i had been opened up to my babe then, only God knows.

All my guys who saw me back could only open mouth and pass me by, some who knew if i had that kind of money they'd know cause id always talk about leaving this country to study outside nigeria quickly brought me up to date on what happened. The news they heard was the sum of money got missing, my guy who i brought to my house told them where i stay and since the police didnt want to tip off anyone, my work colleague called my my babe then to verify my room number.

Cut short she has given all sorts of excuses to justify her act as she claims my work colleague didnt tell her his intentions but used her to get information. The same work colleague i paid him a surprise visit during christmas with the same men who saved him when he was about to be butchered during end sars only to confess the police met her personally and she gave them my room number.

The Nigerian climate can make a toothless dog you save turn round and bite you once its familiar with your pattern/routine, this is to be applied with women especially, the wrong woman can spend years mirroring what you'd expect in a woman and once she feels you are too commited/invested to leave, she then drops the act leaving you puzzled.

Lol, i got another babe recently, one day during her normal lovey dovey cuddly sessions with me she asked me why i act cold at times and pick my words b4 answering her questions, i told her "look im impatiently waiting for this honeymoon phase to be over so i can know who am really dating". Babe told my cousin she can't date me again.

I've only experienced geniune love twice in my life, once by my mother(she's too invested to leave me) and secondly when i was full of youthful ignorance. The ignorance of not knowing is been sacrificed when a man reaches adulthood only then would you see life for what it truely is.

This is where i am really disappointed in men, you feel because an average man doeant have the expensive tools to "hack" a whatsapp that means it doesnt exist at all.

Lemme give you cheaps ways to invade someone's privacy on whatsapp.

1. The most popular of them is the whatsapp feature that allows you to scan the barcode to a pc which mirrors the victim chat on pc. All u have to do is disable the notification that pops up once a while to notify the owner that his/her whatsapp is logged in somewhere else.

2. There are app called keyloggers, what this does is capture all the keystrokes a person makes on his or her smart phone and sends everything back to you on a designated platform( some every tell u where and when the victim types). Pretty cheap.

3. Another method is by installing hiding screen recorders in the victims phone that send the videos back to you( pretty neat way to gather evidence.

4. If you are in this platform and you've heard about the darkweb, then getting profeesional hackers who would only need u to get the victim to click a link and he/she is compromised.

There are so many ways to do this so never use your own reality to measure another man's reality all the time, if you cant find a balance it doenst end well for you as a man.

Learn to pick the lesson each man here comes to teach you and discard the rest.

Iamzealousman:
So the beginning of last month I spoke to her again about been in a relationship, she said she would pray about. Ever since no communication from her.
Will it be a good advise for me to chat her. And what can I say?

Bro she has written your name in her book of life(backup plan) trust me she might go to extreme lengths to help you with a job connection. Have it at the back of your mind you are a backup plan should all else fails.
#staywoke#

Iamzealousman:
So the beginning of last month I spoke to her again about been in a relationship, she said she would pray about. Ever since no communication from her.
Will it be a good advise for me to chat her. And what can I say?

Bro she has written your name in her book of life(backup plan) trust me she might go to extreme lengths to gelp you with a job connection. Have it at the back of your mind you are a backup plan should all else fails.
#staywoke#

sirgalahad26:
You guys don't even rate us at all
What can you gather from my OSINT

I can gather one thing without touching my PC bro. As a digital marketer, learn OISNT so when a potential client wants to patronise your services/brand, you can use info gathered legally to make he/she to make decisions.

airsaylongcome:
Lol! Are you in that field?

As i live and breath, yes i am.
I use it at my place of work, it never ceases to wows them .
Linux is where all the fun is but everyone is too bothered by a window of someone's gates.

Most people dont know that even digital marketers can use OISNT when trying to understand a potential customer with the right info at hand.

airsaylongcome:
It's funny how all 5 of your previous posts all attempt to funnel people to your WhatsApp.

So many red flags. New account only 11 days old. All posts include links directing people to your WhatsApp. All of these are clear indicators that you are possibly engaged in fraud. If you aren't, then put the information in the public space and allow people decide if they want to explore it further

Change your ways.

Basic OSINT investigation indicates that you are "supposedly" into real estate. I wonder what you do in real estate that isn't in the public domain

OSINT now thats something the average Nigerian may never know till his/her death. Mr LIN*X, howre u doing?

Goodday GENTLEMEN.

So i have this female friend who at first i really took as a younger sister cause she seemed to understand how life works (in a way). We've been friends for years now, she works and gets good pay, but yet can't seem to stop fucking people, especially married men. She's in a relationship and still bleeps with around. Believe me I've tried advising her on numerous ocassions to stop but she's hooked on it and not to seem like the holier than thou preacher i decided to lock up and enjoy the show. Sometime back i decided to make some investigations as to how she was raised and discovered her upbringing wasnt much to write home about and she constantly loves the company of older married men as she was deprived of it when she was younger.
Recently i got a change of career which would require me relocating and since she knows im the kind of guy who sucks at communication once im not around the said person, her mood has changed and she's giving the vibes of independence(sister I'm not fucking you o, you were simply my test subject all these years).
Eventually after observing her (and others)over the years I've come to some conclusions about women.

1. It doesnt matter the age or time, wherever you meet a lady that has been deprived of a proper upbring during her childhood, it would eventually surface in her adulthood. Coupled with the fact of their whoring phase,damaged upbringing, that they hate accountability they'll look for any man that'll accept them for who they are.(height of madness i tell you) and this harsh society we leave in, some girls are walking train wrecks looking for who to crush to death.

2. Damaged goods will forever be damaged goods and as such when you come in contact with them and you know you can't cunningly navigate these treacherous waters flee my brothers cause they'll be the end of you.

3. In the long run, if we men decide to be honest about it, does it make sense to slave all the days of your life (even sacrificing your Destiny) just to feed,cloth,provide and protect them in reward for pussy.( when i think about it i just go numb).

4. Women are like water and take the shape of whatever they are poured into and as such they will remain the sweetest and most deadliest species to ever roam the surface of the earth.

5. Avoid ladies who Bleep with married men at all cost, i can't even begin to list what my eyes have seen around these types both physically and spiritually, they have no moral compass and as such when presented with situations beyond their control would make choices that suprise even God himself.


6. Never ever in the most miserable moments of your lives ever bend or go against your own tenets around a woman, do this and you've signed your death certificate unknowingly and for those of you who don't have tenets you've been a walking corpse.

7. Avoid see finish my brothers, what would make a girl who can't afford to foot her own bills downgrade you meanwhile her father can't afford a pin. Self disrespect is the highest form of death and even physical death can't be compared to it.


Meanwhile if you've got a shared apartment for rent or knows someone who has in lekki/ajah with good supply of electricity kindly lemme know, got a job around there recently.

budaatum:
I am asking us to fight their fire with our own more powerful good fire.

Try imagining you are the puppeteer of your own puppet self. You get to pull your own strings and be in control of yourself, at least.

If you read a book called travistock institute, you'd discover why right now during our time its virtually impossible to do anything against the elites. The people who atleast tried in some ways were the likes of gaddafi and co but still got wiped off.

Martinez39s:
His write-up is an obscurity to me. I understand what he was trying to say, but I am unaware of the science that backs up the idea and examples underlying his post.

www.deccanchronicle.com/amp/lifestyle/sex-and-relationship/270617/find-out-how-women-keep-dna-from-men-she-has-had-sex-with.html

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/topic/4989615

www.zmescience.com/ecology/animals-ecology/pet-foxie-61367/amp/

As for the example i used (selective breeding), its something I've discovered along my years in the medical line that we humans are animals of a higher life form (due to consciousness) one thing thing that carries our collective human experience/skills/behaviours are in our semen/sperm which is something that isn't to be toyed with. You have a woman who has been imprinted with the instructional coding of another man and does this multiple times cannot ever remain the same. I mean there's tech readily available right now (crispr gene editing) that one can use to reprogram your genes for a set of desired traits that can b passed down to offsprings. In my opinion it all boils down to your DNA through semen/sperm when dealing with women.

If you got any questions feel free to shoot

Winnerly:
Hey man. Could you please explain this more? Does it really work that way?

Here's a scenerio:
In Siberia, there's a man who did selective breeding on foxes. He got some foxes together and trained them to become domesticated and the ones who showed more traits of domestication he allowed them to mate and the once that didnt he didnt allow them to mate. He repeated the same process for over 70years and got foxes who showed very desirable traits of being domesticated.

Now this is applicable to humans in the sense of our forefathers. Here we have a man who lets say was a hunter and a warrior, for generations has being killing. He goes to consult the gods and ends up making a pact with them which then gets engraved into his subconscious brain. He believes what he had gone through wholeheartedly and as such get written in his DNA which then gets passed down to his offsprings. Now come present day and one sees his offsprings venturing into the same line as their forefathers and the ones who aren't lucky to find a place in society become a burden to others. Use this scenerio for other people and one who come to understand that the sperm is actually a highly concentrated DNA containing our chromosomes which are instructions passed down from generation to generation. A parent who is abusive to his son would on a high probability have the same trait passed down to the next child.


Now these Nigerian gothic, sperm truckload consuming, drugs taking girls would receive all the sperm from Mr A, down to Mr Z. With the way sperms have being designed by God to carry generational instructions down to offsprings, you expect a woman whose womb walls have being drowned in other mens sperm to behave normally. Why do you think one comes across women with multiple personalities, one minute their fine and the next she's a whole new breed then they look for who would accept them as they are.
#Mad people#

budaatum:
Study the likes of Greta Thunberg and Stacy Abrams. It will help you understand how powerful you can be if you are willing to put in the time and the effort.

Dont be deceived brother, Greta Thunberg are nothing but puppets who serve in what they call psy-ops against the masses. They know they would surely have people who oppose them so why not have someone they can control in front hence the likes of Greta was created. There's levels to what the elites in power cook up just to get away with the evil they do just to remain in power. An example of a tactic I've learnt from these guys in power is they know the human mind operates on a particular frequency and if they create enough fear and panic to keep the masses on their toes they would behave irrationally. The whole world was on the case of ryan kitten house who was on trial but ignored the fact that the case of the century was happening (jeffery Epstein) who was accused along with some powerful men of paedophilia eg. Bill gates,will smith and co. Yet no one heard about it.

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BigBashiru:
Women who do not marry rich husbands - are they truly happy?

No, they are never truely happy except the naive once whom life hasn't yet tainted ( it would still reach them eventually). You see women have lots of regrets especially when they couldnt achieve their dreams (someone rich) and are forced to take a pick quickly least time passes them.

The most unhappiest bunch of them would be the ones who after numerous sex heists with men during their youthful age, drank enough postinor 2 to change their body chemistry ,preferred skin to skin than using condom and as such had receive shitload of sperm to drown their destinies in multiple personalies then discarded the guys with vision for already made men but ended up not settling with them but rather looked for the nearest available simp before time runs out.


This types would run to church to worship God wholeheartedly while balancing the equation with a simp at hand, these types are usually the most pained of them all cause they end up seeing the guys who they snubbed become men of value and substance whilst they had to settle for baba iyabo.


If as a man you dont want you and your children unborn to be unfortunate better marry a virgin, and for men who don't understand why you must marry a virgin lemme give you a breakdown.


Imagine a billionaire who owns a private airstrip with one private jet, you fly and land your jet on your own terms, anything get damaged you fix cause you can trace who/what caused the damage. Then imagine anothet airstrip where Boeing plane will land inside, another mans private jet will land, tucano plane sef will land day in and day out your tarmac (road) is being used up and down.
The moral here what you own privately as against what other men have used to their hearts contempt. A woman who has bleeped her entire street can never/ will never be the same as both physically she gets to compare you to other men and spiritually you don't know if she has bleeped someone who it's been encoded in their DNA to die at a certain age, or they prefer hardship to success. Then they bring that same pussy/womb for you to fertilize lol. Awon fertilizer.

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One thing girls/women of our generation have been made to believe wholeheartedly is they are both special and unique simultaneously and as such deserve the best life has to offer.
Whenever i come across such girls with entitlement mentality i ask them "come who is your supplier, ibeg link me up". One would think only a few of them would know the meaning of this phrase but boy, most of them know what i mean instantly

CaveAdullam:
I know that if I'm the one in her "koko shoe" she will do more in helping me.

I always keep to my oath! Even if it was "pr!ck" that shifted/damaged that womb I will stick to her. Remember the vow: "in sickness or health". Unlike you, I have sympathy and compassion. God will bless me in hundred folds if I always pay my tithes and offerings so that I will have enough money to spend on my wife. I believe in the God of Chosen! Hallelujah! Amen!

Sarcasm at its finest!!

Toto no send your papa if you no geeh money for Nigeria.

Religion has always being the opioid of the masses, the tool of those in power and the retired path of the ones who lavished their youthful age away engaging in sex heists

Evening Gentlemen.

So at my working place they brought some new corpers for a while now to serve and 80% of them are females. Amongst all the female there is only one i do talk with freely cause she still has her fear of God intact but the rest are sheeps parading as wolves.

Yesterday evening, a colleague's wife at my working place but to bed so some of us decided to hangout for some drinks, then i told my colleague and the female corper that i flow with that I'll handle their bills for the evening. Another female corper asked if she could tag along too, i said yes if only she would foot her own bills.
She made the mistake of trying to shame me in the presence of the people there by saying don't i have shame in saying i can't take her out and besides am i not a man. Gentlemen my brain skipped as i asked her if she doesn't have a Fiancé (she wears an engagment ring) she can come then after the club we can go down to my place for the night but if she has a fiancé she can call him to foot her bills. She couldn't reply, luckily me i found out yesterday from the female corper i went out with that there is a married man who bleeps her "on a low" at my place of work. I asked her how she knew she she opened up to me that sometime last month when he asked me to tell his superiors should they ask after him that he rushed to picks his kids from school which in actuality he went over to her side for a quickie and only a few people know as she was off that day (the corpers run shift).

My mouth opened wide as the said man who bleeps her would joke openly with the said Fiancé anytime he comes to visit her with joke like "our wife" " dont worry,we will takr carr of her". Our wife, our wife has now truly become yours and mine

Bruh, imagine being shit tested in your face and you can't tell what it really is cause you're in love, tufiakwa

Look there is a reason why eve was the first person to eat the forbidden fruit and not Adam. If someone has more experience than you in a field never underestimate that person even if the said person is younger than you, which in this case are women.

Martinez39s:
I always advise men in developed societies with gynocentric family laws to not risk getting married. I also tell them not to think they can outsmart the system; don't try to play the system. The system is powerful, pervasive, smart, cunning and utterly ruthless. Na devil incarnates full the family courts.

Do they learn, no they only learn the hard way. Its human nature to always throw caution to the wind and its only a few that knew only the paranoid truly survive in the game of life and love.

I learnt that women are a force to contend with and shouldn't be taken lightly no matter the innocence they put forth. They know men are easily deceived by what they see hence they invest so much in enticing we men at all cost. I learnt from a guy sometime back that if man wants to think logically for a moment when he's with the woman he thinks he loves, he should book an appointment with his love and before he meets up with her, go fuc.k another girl and make sure you have that post nut clarity then come sit down and listen to the bag of trouble you think you love and wish to commit yourself to. It does wonders.

I've come to the conclusion somewhere along the line while the bible was been written women had access to the men who wrote the bible and told them to include marriage in it cause so far marriage had only benefited them and not us.
There's alot of unanswered questions and men don't seem to be able to think for themselves nowadays rathet thry prefer to follow the herd mentality. God help us from the daughters of jezebel

Smartb0y:
Imagine one person using multiple monikers to post on here for days just to make themselve feel good by seeking validation. .

I didn't understand the level of depression certain persons go through in Nigeria until now

Bro the depression loud gan, maybe the slowpoke may even be under bridge smoking gbana,ice, and crack right now then comes on to nairaland to catch cruise with us.

Martinez39s:
I think I have heard that story. It came out on a news website. It's an American, black American. He was trying to play the system, but the system got him. Dude knew what he would face in the divorce court. Are you referring to a different story?

same story bro, damn you're always updated

Andremalan731:
Hello brothers
Abeg make una come advise me o
My baby mama is now using my surname
I went to her workplace today to check my daughter and some of her colleagues were calling her Mrs (my surname)
I didn’t say anything or really take it serious until I saw her name on some materials and documents on her desk
That’s when I confirmed she has been using my surname officially
I was so angry I wanted to slap her.
I wanted to also arrest her but my friend said I don’t really have a case against her and I should also think about my daughter.
Please what can I do to stop this nonsense

Lol i read the case of a man who forged his wife's signature and divorced her for years without her knowledge . Bro lawyer straight up no time wasted.

As Rudolf Steiner once said ''people who don't have the courage to be cruel often develop cruel beliefs''.

Believe me this isnt far from the truth as we see it occurring in our everyday lives.

Politicians are looting the economy without pity, security agencies who swore to protect the innocent end up harming them at times due to survival instincts, the average Nigerian man goes out in search of resources to cater for his family knows its a dog eat dog world, the youths know the moment they are given power they must loot enough to sustain themselves.

The ones already in power know the average Nigerian is a thief waiting for his turn at power and as such make sure he never gets it. An average Nigerian women knows the hardships that awaits her cause the system is already broken, she knows its difficult for men already then how much more she a lady and as such is ready to manipulate and Bleep her way to the top.

Kids who should be in school are already into yahoo as they know things aren't getting better and the earliest they strike Gold the better for them.

The people in power tell you in order to change the system you have to be within the system to change it from the inside, lol, lies as they control the system and would never let that happen.

You see gentlemen I'll be honest with myself here, what i do before dating any girl is i investigate her family to find out how she was raised:
1. Was she raised in abundance or scarcity.
2. Did her parents even show her love or they simply brushed her aside whilst growing up

Gentlemen learn how to ask yourself questions so you don't pick up an emotionally broken person and come cry foul when she's breaks your heart or when she's more in tuned with gathering resources from you like there is about to be a zombie outbreak. We are men, we know more than anyone what hardship does to a human's soul talkless of a woman.

#staywoke#

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