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Sports / Re: Messi Lifts The 2021 Copa America Trophy As Argentina Defeats Brazil (Video) by ADDer: 7:18pm On Jul 11, 2021 |
Timekeeper:That line of them writing note made me laugh out loud. Guy you're crazy |
Foreign Affairs / Re: British Crew Of Yacht Feared For Their Lives As 30 Killer Whales Attacked Them by ADDer: 7:02am On Jun 30, 2021 |
pixeldensity:Nature/Life rewards the fearless, that's just the hard truth. It's only a fearless(and i must say, wicked ) race that would even think of coming to another man's continent to enslave them. Look at them, and then look at us. |
Music/Radio / Re: Naira Marley & Busiswa - "Coming' (Official Video) by ADDer: 6:24pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
gameboy727:EDM is the epitome of forgettable soulless music. I mean no offense but it can't even stand along side genres like jazz, soul, & rock. |
Crime / Re: Steward Arrested For Trying To Steal Wads Of Naira From A Guest's Car by ADDer: 9:17pm On Jun 25, 2021 |
tutudesz:That corn doesn't look fresh at all.... This must be Lagos |
Crime / Re: Texas Teacher Who Had Sex With Her Student Attacks Him Violently Out Of Jealousy by ADDer: 9:16pm On Jun 25, 2021 |
Oyinbo people seem to have a lot of wackos and nutjobs. I think that's just their own curse. Honestly their craze is on another level |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Man Executed Publicly In Yemen After Murdering His 3 Daughters [Pics] by ADDer: 1:17pm On Jun 18, 2021 |
Barbsamiin:In Yemen? Are you high or something |
Crime / Re: Olajide Omowumi-Blessing: UNILORIN Student Raped To Death by ADDer: 6:59am On Jun 04, 2021 |
Zooposki:I don't support rape in any form, but that "closest thing to God" shxt you've got going is some pussy idolizing bullshxt. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Photo Of A Soldier Using Shovel To Eat As Plate by ADDer: 8:04am On Apr 15, 2021 |
[quote author=MasonKendall post=100799327][/quote]No mind the idiot jare. For him mind youths for USA no get time for sex. There's no sexual perversion known to man that isn't practised there, and they are still developed 1 Like 1 Share |
Pets / Re: South African Conservationist Killed By White Lions by ADDer: 3:05pm On Aug 27, 2020 |
Truthlord12:Na you and that false prophet go first enter hell. Anuofia! 4 Likes |
Romance / Re: A Girl Spent The Night At His Place And I'm Feeling So Bad About It. by ADDer: 12:16pm On Aug 26, 2020 |
Zzor:I don't know how you ladies came up with this vow of silence to never let your feelings be known, because "all guys" prefer you keep mum about it. But that's a very erroneous belief my dear. It's nothing more than a social construct. The reason why it may seem true is because we keep on perpetuating it despite it's downsides. Behind it is the fear of rejection, something the OP is quite conscious of. I wonder why you ladies didn't agree to forfeit your aspirations for the position of a housewife. Afterall, wasn't it what ladies were supposed to do many years ago? I wonder why you finally decided to think with your brains, rather than let society dictate for you? The lesson here is THINGS CHANGE. Society can never fully define who we are, or how we should act. No sensible man who knows his worth would suffer to gain the affection of a woman unless he deems her special, and trust me, that's usually after he's been with many other women. You must be very special indeed. The fact that you ladies enjoy being chased doesn't make you any more special than men. It's just society's(and to a degree, Nature) game, that's all. With that being said, dude is just playing her and she's already falling for him. My advice is that she should snap out of it. Hopefully someone more deserving shows up. *PS* - I find it a bit mind boggling how after the whole "forming" when a man is trying to get your attention, y'all usually turn out being the ones most invested in the relationship,and most vulnerable. So i always ask myself, why the forming in the first place? Man, whatever 1 Like |
Romance / Have You Got Adhd? Well, Come On In! by ADDer: 11:10pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
Hey, If you clicked on this topic, then you must've been fully convinced that there's a reason why you're impulsive(for some) and can hardly sit still for a required length of time. Or why it is that your mind is always whisked away to some daydream or fantasy and you just can't seem to concentrate on what's in front of you. I'm sure you've gotten tired of the often well intentioned but ill informed advice of others who simply say "try HARDER", not knowing that you've tried EVERYTHING". If you're like me, then you must also have a hard time keeping to schedules, and always running late. Always chasing the clock but can barely keep up. People probably think you're a slacker or you're just not bothered, been accused of that on may occasions, but they don't know that we perceive time differently. Ever wandered into a room sure that you were in there for a reason, but can't seem to remember what it was? Well this happens to me very often. I also tend to quickly forget which way i arrived once i get to a new place. This is because our poor short-term memory retention. And that's why we may have intended to send an important text but suddenly find ourselves playing candy crush or doing something else. Surfing the web for a particular thing only to find out in the end that you've opened dozen tabs. And the list goes on... Truth is all these may sound not so serious to many people around us, most times they go unnoticed or under-noticed if could say. But you know how impairing they could be to living a quality life. Believe me, I've felt the full brunt of it and I still do. I've been knocked on my ass by these "faults" (or so i thought) one too many times to remember. And my life has always felt like a perpetual chore to put things in order for as long as i could remember. Ironically I'm in this stage again I've struggled to be "normal" but always ended up learning the hard way. Truth is I'm not, my mind works differently and I've got to learn ways that i can cope. But i can't do this on my own. I need the experience and knowledge of like minds. I need to know I'm not alone. Reaching out to others like me isn't something i can pass on, it is of urgent necessity. I want this thread to be a place were we could unburden ourselves, and seek advice without fear of judgment or condemnation. We're all in this together! Let's help ourselves grow |
Health / Re: Think You've Got Adhd!? Let's Discuss by ADDer: 11:07pm On Aug 16, 2020 |
oxypressPlus:Did some research online. From all accounts it does seem a plausible treatment. But for now it's only being touted by a few, rather than being accepted by governing body. I'd like definitely look into it someday, but honestly, for now it's not a viable option for me. But, thank you anyways |
Health / Think You've Got Adhd!? Let's Discuss by ADDer: 11:15pm On Aug 15, 2020 |
Hey, If you clicked on this topic, then you must've been fully convinced that there's a reason why you're impulsive(for some) and can hardly sit still for a required length of time. Or why it is that your mind is always whisked away to some daydream or fantasy and you just can't seem to concentrate on what's in front of you. I'm sure you've gotten tired of the often well intentioned but ill informed advice of others who simply say "try HARDER", not knowing that you've tried EVERYTHING". If you're like me, then you must also have a hard time keeping to schedules, and always running late. Always chasing the clock but can barely keep up. People probably think you're a slacker or you're just not bothered, been accused of that on may occasions, but they don't know that we perceive time differently. Ever wandered into a room sure that you were in there for a reason, but can't seem to remember what it was? Well this happens to me very often. I also tend to quickly forget which way i arrived once i get to a new place. This is because our poor short-term memory retention. And that's why we may have intended to send an important text but suddenly find ourselves playing candy crush or doing something else. Surfing the web for a particular thing only to find out in the end that you've opened dozen tabs. And the list goes on... Truth is all these may sound not so serious to many people around us, most times they go unnoticed or under-noticed if could say. But you know how impairing they could be to living a quality life. Believe me, I've felt the full brunt of it and I still do. I've been knocked on my ass by these "faults" (or so i thought) one too many times to remember. And my life has always felt like a perpetual chore to put things in order for as long as i could remember. Ironically I'm in this stage again I've struggled to be "normal" but always ended up learning the hard way. Truth is I'm not, my mind works differently and I've got to learn ways that i can cope. But i can't do this on my own. I need the experience and knowledge of like minds. I need to know I'm not alone. Reaching out to others like me isn't something i can pass on, it is of urgent necessity. I want this thread to be a place were we could unburden ourselves, and seek advice without fear of judgment or condemnation. We're all in this together! Let's help ourselves grow |
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