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FamilyRe: Urgent Legal Advise Needed! Is Appearing In Court Optional? by Adetomi01(op): 7:19pm On Jun 17, 2021
famouscargo4u:
There is no case. Since she is not legally married to the late guy, she has no claim! She was never introduced to the family as the wife. Who knows, she might just be an opportunist wanting to get access to the wealth bequeathed by the deceased. She might also be used by some people to get access to the funds. The Theo guy should be involved. He doesn't need to spend anything. If he's in Lagos, he should just head to the Office if the public defender and explain everything. The government will take the case up and he won't have to pay anything.
Do you know if public defence office is also available in other Nigeria state?
FamilyRe: Urgent Legal Advise Needed! Is Appearing In Court Optional? by Adetomi01(op): 3:48pm On Jun 17, 2021
brownemmanuel43:
I read every godamn thing up their, well Theo is a weakling then this is not a case
Theo should not back off, if u are in Lagos I will refer u to an officer that will fight for Theo free of charge
If trying to stay out from trouble is same as being a weakling, i agree he is.
This is Nigeria where who has money can deal with who doesn't without the law looking at who's right or wrong, it's so pathetic
FamilyRe: Urgent Legal Advise Needed! Is Appearing In Court Optional? by Adetomi01(op): 1:41pm On Jun 17, 2021
Sugardick:
I don't know too much but I think this Theo guy is one weak ass. A girl he doesn't know before, she's not even legally married to his brother, not even sure the kids are his brothers and he's letting police arrest him for what? paying bail for what? if na me I no go even reach the police station at first or have anything to do with the lady. abi if he doesn't ever say a word to her will heaven fall, since he's not interested in the property he should just live his life like his own brother never even existed. that's what I will do and no useless police can detain or arrest you in their station because one hoe wrote one stupid petition that doesn't even involve you or have evidence to back up.


Different people dey sha, just for letting me part bail money girl wey I go do arrange thugs make they disfigure her, cut her 2 ears comot and maybe her right hand mtchew.
I'll agree to the Bolded.
Now that he just want to be on his own, does the lady has a case to take him to court for not wanting to relate?
FamilyRe: Urgent Legal Advise Needed! Is Appearing In Court Optional? by Adetomi01(op): 1:39pm On Jun 17, 2021
Bola146:
The court might order for DNA
That should be done by the lady in question right?
FamilyUrgent Legal Advise Needed! Is Appearing In Court Optional? by Adetomi01(op): 9:27am On Jun 17, 2021
My friends younger brother Donald lived a rough life, got some unexplainable wealth and died intestate last 3weeks, Theo my friend is the eldest son of the family and was not in good terms with Donald for a long time even before his death due to his Lavish and shady life style.

2weeks after Donald's death, a lady who had 2 children for him but was never introduced as a wife to the family decides to take legal action against Donald's siblings in respect to his property. She put up petition against all the sons in the Family for "FRADULENT CONVERSATION OF PROPERTY", no one has touched the property yet, even the deceased mother is yet to be aware of the Sons death as I type this, but the deceased father is late.

in regards to the petition Police invited Theo to defend himself, the petition was not attended to on the day he appeared and he ended up parting with enormous sum for Bail to avoid being detained till they have time to attend to the issue (it was a delay tactic obviously for the bail money. trust Nigeria police). On the day they reappeared, the police hear the case and discovered it's all for the property and that Theo isn't really connected nor interested in any of the property, he also made his intentions known of having no Interest in the deceased life nor property, he's neither interested in accepting any child nor the lady who dragged him to station.
THE police suggest that they should go home and settle and formally accept the lady and her kids out of God's love and return with family resolution in 2days time but Theo is bittered because of the false accusations, embarrassment, waste of funds and time at the station on matter he knew nothing about. He's not interested in having any resolution meeting, nor anything that has to do with Donald's property, nor the lady nor the kids... He is not ready to go back to the station.
Now, someone informed him that the lady threatens to go to court huh

The questions are:

1. Can court force anyone to take responsibility of children that doesn't belong to them? Or is it the responsibility of eldest son to accept other siblings wife?

2. What can Theo do is such case as this? Sincerely, He has never shown interest in Donald's property nor is he interested now, he just want to live on his own and in peace.
He's a hustling young man who doesn't have enough to spare for court case.

3. If she eventually goes to court as threatened, and Theo fails to Honor court summons, what will happen?

4. What can she sue for herehuh

All the properties in question are already in police custody now .
The lady had children for other men previously, and she seems to have a lawyer BF who's fronting for her wanting to impose herself on Theo.
The lady in question was not legally married to Donald, neither was she at any time introduced to Theo as a wife nor baby mama while Donald was alive, as far as the family is concerned, Donald was not yet married before he died.
PoliticsRe: Stage Another Protest In Lekki And Get Kicked - ALEG by Adetomi01: 8:22am On Feb 10, 2021
Price of stone pattern board in Nigeria now is 7000 naira each of the design on a stone Pattern board. If you need message me or drop your phone number
CelebritiesRe: Davido Tattoos His Three Children's Faces On His Body (Video, Photos) by Adetomi01: 10:05pm On Jan 30, 2021
Na wa oh!

Prices of stone pattern board in Nigeria
Dubai original board 7000naira
Hand made Nigeria board from 5000
The cheaper the price the lower the quality, so know what you are buying if it's Nigeria own or imported own the one that is factory made.
If you need anyone DM me. I will get for you.
CelebritiesRe: Soldier Who Celebrated His Birthday With Bread Receives Cake From RC Cola (pics) by Adetomi01: 6:55pm On Jan 30, 2021
Congratulations to you boy.

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If you need stone pattern board, send me a DM.
Dubai factory made board is 7000 naira only
While nigeria handmade board is 5500 only
There is also stones for your board work.
FamilyRe: My Baby Was On Life Support; A Nairalander Paid Her Bills (Pics) by Adetomi01: 5:56pm On Jun 03, 2020
mytime24:
tell him to come nd see snake cheesy cheesy
Nairaland and snake threads are partners grin
FamilyRe: Help Men Are Endangered Species by Adetomi01: 5:50pm On Jun 03, 2020
donuchris007:
Please pardon my diction and grammar

I call on our mothers, sisters and Aunties to clearly defined RAPE. I know you don't want your son, brother or husband to bear that name a rapist.
How do I know a girl truly want to have sex with me?
From my experience with a lot of body count, 70% of girls I have sex struggle with me on our first day together.
Some will even allow you to penetrate but will change their mind later on.
Some after much pressure I let go but will go about mocking me that I was not man enough.
I once have a girl that she only wet when I start using belt to beat her up. She let me know she can only have sex with me through this medium
Rape is evil wicked and devilish I don't want to be called a rapist.
Please help us (men) let know what is rape and force sexual activities. I Know I am not the only crying out. I don't want to rape girls, I just want to have fun. Let protect our men
The solution is simple, IF YOU NEED SEX EITHER GET MARRY OR CONTRACT A SEX WORKER �
Financing or giving any form of kindness to a lady does not give you right to her body so stop financing or favouring a lady with motives. If guys stop this, girls will learn to be responsible for themselves

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