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[quote author=MissR69 post=79207984]any wise person can see that you are the major cause of whatever bad thing that has happened in your marriage through your post and replies, but many are not going to tell you this because of one reason or another. if you marry another man without changing somethings about you you will have this same experience again. i wish you well in your decision all the same[/quote Miss judgina. U know it well. I greet thee. Wish u d best

She can do surgery to make her look good again. I feel for her

Which state

donziggyman:
And you're name! Spits

cough deeply and spits too. Yuk

Good

donziggyman:
A young man is currently trending on a popular social media platform facebook, as he seeks advice from people on how to peacefully quit his relationship with the daughter of a native doctor.

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go to the market. Buy razor blade, go home, enter ur room, cut ur wrist and just die

Regiomontanus:
A dont care.

hmmm

Regiomontanus:
Stop being silly. I only congratulated and supported the op on being free from a toxic partner. How does that mean I hate women?

show respect when u talk online

[quote author=Elesta post=79203212]Hello family, I have a long post about my terrible marriage. Please bear with me, I just have to pour everything out because it's killing me slowly.
I am in my mid 30's ,got married to this man in his mid 40's who has never been married before.We attend the same church although different branches, so the pastor of his branch and the pastor of my branch brought us together. We started dating and he seemed head over heels and started talking about marriage immediately. At first, the way he was talking and his reaction to things I wasn't interested and I even told him, but he begged me and the pastor begged me so I overlooked and continued especially considering my age. If I wasn't in my mid 30's and if I hadn't done fibroid operation and so, eager to take in, I won't have made this terrible mistake. We also work in the same place so everything seemed perfect.

Now we started making wedding plans just after one month of dating and we got married 4months after because of church process. It seemed blissful but I stumbled on his messages with a lady he was saying before me and eventually at the same time with me. I discovered he kept begging n begging her even while me n him were dating .he kept telling her to agree to attend his church or dey can be going to their separate churches but the girl kept insisting that they should attend the same church. I. e. he should leave his church and she will leave hers. Don't get me wrong, if this had happened before we started dating, I wouldn't have gotten angry. but all these happened while we were serious and even after he came to see my father, I discovered he was still pleading with her as per church matter. Who does that?? So what if she had agreed for the church matter, he would have dumped me n embarrassed my dad??

I brought it to his notice and he kept saying he never meant it, he was just using it as an excuse not to marry her.

Now in the marriage, emotional abuse never ends. Just fewonths into the marriage, he started behaving somehow bcoz I hadn't taken in. all kinds of insults oh. My dear lets chat. I just sent u a mail

Shina500:
How do you want me to send it to you?

through my mail. Check my profile. Thanks

Wow. Lol

Regiomontanus:
Stop being silly. I only congratulated and supported the op on being free from a toxic partner. How does that mean I hate women?

hmmm

It is not easy to leave an abusive marriage. Especially when kids are involved. Abusers make sure u don't have financial freedom, or ensure u don't have money on u, they try to enclose u in the house so u don't make friends. No job or business to boost u up. Even if they allow u do business, or work, they ensure u spend d money on the running of the house. They try to make u feel worth less so that u cannot see urself as a useful person even if u try to leave.

AntiBrutus:
Sensible foreign workers.

If it were NL (Romance) guys...

They will write another note and give to her

Note 1: Olosho! What did you do? When you will not control your mouth.

Note 2: Silly feminist. After you have chop his money finish, you want to japa.

Note 3: I am not saying what he did is right, but lets hear his side of the story.

Note 4: After God, fear women. No man will just wake and start threatening his woman. Madam be submissive.

I know the writers of these notes, but I will not mention them.

lol

Regiomontanus:
MUSAPLC, I am happy for you. You deserve your peace and not a demon for a wife. Enjoy your peace and look wella next time. Don't let what all the stupid nairaland girls are saying. Your life is too precious and short for wicked women to ruin it for you.

u just hate any being that is women.

Aladdin, john wick 3

Where did he banged d Lady?

The answer is i

All this for the wives. What of the husbands

Many husbands see dia wives as dia enemies. Many marriages are just true lies. A man that don't care about his wife wellbeing. Oh no. This is sad

lol

Wow

chibu4u2:
Tonto rushing to the internet to see if what she heard from her hermaphrodite friend about celebs posing with Churchill cover is really true.

lol

Hot dog na

MissJoy29:
Lol...awoof dey purge belle o. Sell the freezer na pocket the money since you no longer have need for it aside using it to kill me.

for how much? When it can do d job mount Everest is doing and with million join

MissJoy29:
I could be lucky too

please just give me d money. I have deep freezer. U can climb in and out. It is white like d mount Everest and very cold

Genie rules

MissJoy29:
Where then did you read that ALL who ever climbed the mountain never lived to tell the story?

babe forget, those dat survived, were just lucky

Akuko uwa

MissJoy29:
Dare to be adventurous!

leave dat thing jare. Adventure is to come back alive and tell d story not to go and die for nothing

MissJoy29:
Lol

no be joke matter o. I wonder why I should pay money to go and die. Tufiakwa