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talk2ekpa:
Nairaland front page is meant for insightful information and updates, not all this nonsensesssss

The owner of Nairaland is trying to buy a house at Banana Island too.
Blame it on Linda Ikeji.
Little wonder the country is backward today. Most people prefer this rubbish in the front page than whatever informative topic you have in mind.

When we understand what is the opportunity cost of this iphone 8 then we can start analyzing how much it really pays to be a giver.

FullDepth1:
PERFECT !

I love the way you reached the solution to this.

KEEP YOUR OPINION TO YOURSELF. Stop complaining!!!!!!!!!!.

If you see something you dont like, flip through, or move past it. Or ignore... Whichever!.. Just stop spreading your ill ideologies about how people choose to dress (If you cant accept it). They are not slaying for your approval or Hate speech... Note this!

Live and Let Live.. The world is big enough, and you've got better and bigger problems than worrying about people who Slay!

Just be a normal good boy, that isnt hard to do, is it ?

Anyways, Hope you are good today ??

Shalom my good Friend.

If i don't like something i should flip through, ignore or move past right?
Unfortunately, i am not wired as a coward so i will pass on this your unsolicited advice.

Tomorrow you will wonder why Nigeria is in this present state. When we have youths who believe in 'live and lets live' and who can't even raise concerns about issues they are not happy with.

I will always air my opinion on any matter of interest.
How you decide to perceive it is entirely your problem.

FullDepth1:
You understand that close to a thousand People honoured that occasion? So your main problem is that some few persons Dressed so good that you feel They looked better than the Bride or Groom ??

Or that they seem to outshine the celebrants ?? So before you go for an occasion of such, you first check your wardrobe for clothes that wont make you seem like you are outshining the celebrant??

Then you finally insult and condemn Well-dressed Ladies to ''Runs Girls" ??

Seriously? Thats your Problem

I have one major Question for you: "DUDU, WHAT IS REALLY WRONG WITH YOU ??" Just explain...

You epitomize what is wrong with me.

If you choose to misunderstand my statements and argue out of context then that is your headache.

What anybody chooses to wear to an occassion is none of my business.
How i decide to perceive such persons is also entirely none of your business.

I am more concerned about the hype around this so called culture of 'slaying' and 'pepper-them-gang' than what someone decides to adorn to an event.

But what do i know...you are probably the authority in wedding ethics and i have no business having an opinion.

FullDepth1:
So you would be happy to see people in TATTERED clothes at your wedding ??

Please, dont bring this your Negative mindset here...


SLAY IF YOU CAN !

In your haste to respond you ended up making a statement that has no relationship with my comment you referenced.

Nobody said people shouldn't dress well to social events but when weddings are turned to carnivals where many ladies are more about the dresses than honouring the couples with their presence then it becomes an issue to me.

Many of these society weddings have now been turned into hustling ground by these 'runs' girls masking as celebrities.

However, jugding by the few pictures i have seen posted here and other blogs i want to assure you that what some of these slay mamas wore to the wedding could very well be described as tattered dresses considering the overt show of tighs and bossoms.

I think weddings have lost its essence.
Ladies are more interested in the slaying part than wishing the bride a successful matrimony.
In a bid to outshine each other they end up making the event more about them than the bride.

babasolution:
she wants to be like the men.lol

gosh these nairaland guys make me sick,so pussified....,they always give men bad reputation with their constant ass licking of any popular woman

Bro, the thing tire me too.
I guess it has to do with inferiority complex.

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Goodluck!

Rukkydelta:
Mr for your info I didn't date as a teenager
And when I mean teenager, I mean from 13-19
So don't just jump into hasty generalisation
Good morning

Good morning Madam Rukevwe, you were more an exception than the rule.

I said 'many' ladies and never gave the impression 'all' ladies engage in relationships and intimacy on or before 16.

When I was in SS1, I knew many young female classmates who were already 'shagging' fellow classmates and teachers.

This trend also continued during my NYSC amongst students and teachers.
Ironically, the ones engaging in this immoral act are the ones shaming those who are not.

Secondly, this message of the dangers associated with meeting up with strangers whose only identity we know is what they told us and what they have only social media platform in hotels, private residence or secluded environment is for all teenagers and adults alike.

Let us keep preaching and encouraging morality and maybe one day the younger generation and those with get-rich-quick mentality will take heed.

Kam0007:
...BUT THIS IS NOT ENTIRELY NOT THE GUYS FAULT SO ALL OF YOU BLAMING AND RAINING INSULTS ON HIM SHOULD STOP FOR A MOMENT AND HAVE A RETHINK ON THIS. WHY WOULD A 16-YEAR OLD VISIT A FACEBOOK LOVER ALL BY HERSELF IN THE FIRST PLACE? MAYBE NOT TO GET MARRIED BUT THIS PLAN SEEMS TO HAVE LONG BEEN ON PAPER AND THD GIRL DID NOT HAVE SEX FOR THE FIRST TIME ONLY ON HER ARRIVAL AT HIS PLACE. SHE'S BEEN A REGULAR TAKER OF THAT METAL LONG TIME.

In my opinion the blame lies squarely on the society and its leaders. We live in a society that places premium on wealth and status.

Most parents, political and religious leaders have keyed into this weird assumption that you are a failure until you are wealthy.

Education and good morals are no longer a priority and the youths have been indoctrinated that they either get rich or die trying.

If this young man has succeeded in his kidnap and ransom scheme with this lady or another and in a few months decides to marry a 16yr old with his new found wealth, most people will be more than exhilarated and he will be showered with praises.

I can imagine the sweet statements on the comment section when such pre-wedding shots make it to nairaland.

Until we learn to value hard work; ask questions when the need arises and encourage good morals in our homes and society such news will continue to plague us.

Rukkydelta:
Internet friends are not to be trusted
And besides what's a 16years old girl doing with a boyfriend?
I weep for this generation

Hypocrisy everywhere.

Madam, how old were you when you had your first boyfriend?

It is common knowledge that most ladies under 35 had their first boyfriend before or when they were 16.

Many people criticizing the girl might have done worst at age 16.

Just thank God that at the time you were 16 the use of social media for hookups wasn't this popular.

Dopenigga:
don't get me wrong.I would have remixed it myself if I was familiar with the teams playing

Ok. It is a nice selection. Punting is 80% luck.

Just do a random selection and delete some.

Your own selections might just be the one that scales through.

However, this is mine 5XHKPTN.

Dopenigga:
anybody with the remixed version?

Na wa o. Make you try remix am yourself na.
Person go give you wife come begin give you peniz and tell you how to 'enjoy' her again?

Benita27:
Change is constant. Anything could've gone wrong. Abi, do you men marry all the ladies you promised marriage?.

Madam, i beg to disagree with your submission.

The fact that most ladies/men get away easily with this doesn' t mean it is not punishable.

According to the law of our land a contract can either be verbal or written.

A person can sue for compensation/damages if a partner reneges on his/her 'promise to marry'. The actions and circumstances surrounding the relationship will be considered when such issue is in court.

When a man spends money on your education, business or your family with the knowledge and belief that both of you are prospective partners then he can sue for damages when such partner decides unilaterally to end the affair. This is especially the case when both families are aware and based on available evidence i.e engagement ring; how they portray each other to people; written correspondence etc.

The fact that most people either result to self help or shrug their shoulder and move on doesn't mean there are no legal implication.

Unfortunately, many ladies go into relationships knowing fully well that their ultimate plan is to dump the man when they have achieved their plan.

This is wrong and men/women should endeavour to seek legal redress when certain they are being taken for a ride.

However, i always advise you don't spend what you can't let go. Spending massively on a girlfriend/boyfriend is not advisable in this generation where most people are easily influenced by western culture of promiscuity and outlandish show of wealth.

pocohantas:
All these mumu women. They won't cook for their husbands, but they'll carry one big flask of food to Daddy G.O. They will now serve him their nunu as dessert.

The husband should take heart. Not every woman is meant to get married.

Seriously, this is becoming the norm rather than an exception.
I blame the men who trust blindly.
In my world every partner is guilty until proven innocent.
Brothers, henceforth i urge that you trust but VERIFY.

Fayemi-gate loading..

Davidjide:
CIPM is a requirement.

What about a 27yr old female with Bsc Economics(2.1), Msc HRM (Merit, UK) and CIPD membership?

texazzpete:
IPOBs are in a real quandary over this.

If you say the Army abducted Nnamdi Kanu, it's not a good look that their leader was taken away and everyone is silent.

If - as most believe - Nnamdi Kanu is in hiding, it's also not a good look that their leader went underground to hide when the going became tough.

It's a pity, though. Kanu could have used his popularity to sway elections in the South East, build up political capital and thus ensure a powerful pro-SE lobby at the center.

But now, jungle don mature.

In my honest opinion Nnamdi Kanu is either dead or in government custody.
That is the only sensible explanation.

Even though in hiding Maina, Tompolo and Shekau still releases press statements.

If he is alive and in hiding the goodwill he enjoys from his people is too much to ignore.

morbeta:
Are you the one to fight? If yes....why hiding while python danced. It is your ignorance that sitting on keg of gun-powerer. Hold your leaders accountable cos they are harvesting and feasting on your ignorance.

How old are you? A matured man/mind should know that there are many ways to defeat oppression and neo-colonialsm.

People have won battles by non violent protest, dissent and propanganda.
Did you see the Catalonians picking up arms to fight?

Just remember that there is a limit to what any man or group of people can take.

GEJ was removed from power without a single shot fired.
And before you begin to throw tribalistic darts at me, i am not from the South-East but I recognize trouble when I see one.

Slowly but surely the much needed revolution will come and when it does those who have fed fat on our common wealth will face punishment commensurate with their crime.

morbeta:
Kanu has evaporated......and forgotten for good and peace. he was a nuisance and an empty drum.

I advice you speak with caution.

Peace is not the absence of war. It is the presence of equal right and justice.

The current situation in the country at large and the South-East in particular can be likened to a keg of gun-powder waiting to explode.

Fake news. The structure, composition and english in that message can never be from a banker.
It is not everything you read that you believe.

NYSC members started getting alerts yesterday.
Hopefully, those of you on the Npower scheme might get yours today.
I wish you goodluck.

gentility411:
if so . wat state pls ??

You will be paid same time as others. As soon as people start getting alerts you will know.
Don't panic!

AutosBay:
Payment has started

Stop spreading fake news. Both Npower and NYSC are yet to pay.

AutosBay:
Mr Afolabi Imokunede is live Is speaking on
stipend now [06/11 11:45 am] He say we should
expect stipend as from tonight or latest tomorrow
morning, He said d delay was due to technical
issue which they have resolved Our total monthly
bills is 6billion, annual 72billion and total for 2years
is 144billion,
*We've never promise permanency for Npower volunteers but ability to stands on their own after 2years scheme* - Afolabi Imokunede live on AIT The man needs applause, he is intelligent.
Today is his birthday, you can congratulate him on
Facebook.

There is nothing intelligent or worth applauding in what he said.

Mr Afolabi was only saying the obvious but he conveniently manipulating the reality by spewing half truth and most of you are already buying into his false narrative.

Let me educate you, many 2016 Npower beneficiaries have not been and will never be paid backlog ranging from 1-6 months. Most states and individuals have been told to forget about December stipend. Some beneficiaries running into thousands were disqualified and never replaced.

In Delta for example because of the nonchalance and ineptitude of the Focal person most people only started getting stipends from May/June and Npower has told them to forget about backlog.

Almost everyone did verification same period in December 2016 but due to some weird reason most names got omitted when that first list got to Abuja.

So my question is how come Mr Afolabi is still giving a figure of N6b monthly and N72b yearly wage bill when infact we know not everyone was paid from December and most would forfeit between 1-6months backlog?

Stop making these people look like saints. It is this nature of ass-licking politicians that is making them take us for granted.

It is your right to ask questions because they are there to serve you.

MhizzAJ:
What kind of question is that one
Take time oo

Both of you should settle this in the ring. Posting threats and subtle insults here wouldn't achieve much.

Legolast:
Do you think she will reply you positively with this your response?

Man, you can pass information or share your opinion without insulting nah... Everything no be fight

And am 75% sure that Op fabricated this post ni, so why insult?

INSULT? Nah! It is called reality check. Too many pretenders and hypocrites posing as authorities in something they know little or nothing about.

Sir, my partner also gave me her password, so stop assuming this story is false as it happens more often than you can imagine.

My partner has the password to all my social media accounts and even the pin to my atm card.
If you aint trustworthy enough for these then i dont see myself dating you.
I simply cant imagine literally putting my life in your hands by sleeping with you but can't share something as insignificant as a facebook password.

MaritzaNL:
If she is too good to be true, check again. Can't give any guy my password. I love my privacy.

But u can give him your supposed 'private part' to do as he pleases- whenever and wherever?
My dear recalibrate your priorities.

There is nothing like fraud here. Just be patient and it will get to the recipient's account within 24-48hrs maximum.
Contact your bank if it is still pending after 48hrs.

This has happened to me more than 10 times and in all cases the account gets credited within the 48hrs timeframe.

You dont have to scream fraud anytime a transaction is delayed because there are so many geniune explanations for it.

It is insensitive to smear the name of a bank because of your impatience and lack of awareness.