Solmax:
Such stories come up when Immature Adults date.
Abeg he should cut his loss and move on.
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This him post go just make the ration of jollof rice to short that day sef as more people don hear of the wedding and go attend.

OrestesDante:


Good. After the promise of marriage? abi what are you saying?

Evablizin:


Sorry dude.

Benita27:
It's not by force that the person dating you must marry you. She may have found a better man in whom she's getting married to than she previously did in you. Move on!, and quit whining. It would either be your[b] loss or hers later[/b]. Nigerian guys have this mentality that [b]spending on a girlfriend in the course of a relationship automatically equal loyalty/marriage. [/b]I see that as benefits of being together. She may have also added some value to your life in some other way.

OrestesDante:


Don't train your girlfriend in anything. Even your support should be to the barest minimum.

So that your loss will not be much if she eventually leaves.
Most of them are game players.

Goan find another human being to marry.

tosyne2much:
And he had to publicize it? To attract sympathy and or what?

Heart break is what virtually every guy will experience at least once in his lifetime
before your head go correct


I shake my head for the childishness and stupidity of this guy

Benz4pimp:
wondering if you read the post before commenting!!!This is not about spending,he wrote that she was engaged while they were dating....Yet she denied being engaged!!!this is about lies and not about anyone spending on a lady...please always read to understand

Benita27:
It's not by force that the person dating you must marry you. She may have found a better man in whom she's getting married to than she previously did in you. Move on!, and quit whining. It would either be your loss or hers later. Nigerian guys have this mentality that spending on a girlfriend in the course of a relationship automatically equal loyalty/marriage. I see that as benefits of being together. She may have also added some value to your life in some other way.

Benita27:
It's not by force that the person dating you must marry you. She may have found a better man in whom she's getting married to than she previously did in you. Move on!, and quit whining. It would either be your loss or hers later. Nigerian guys have this mentality that spending on a girlfriend in the course of a relationship automatically equal loyalty/marriage. I see that as benefits of being together. She may have also added some value to your life in some other way.

Benita27:
And this is one of them who wants to be compensated for spending on a girl with marriage. It doesn't work that way.

crafteck:


No, to tell others to be careful, to whom it may concern, no wise man should take a father's responsibility over a lady, school fees no be bf responsibility, know your stand, its happened to the best of us... Girl friend na girlfriend oooo, no be daughter no be wife, no dey form superman wey dey save am on raining days while relieving her family of their responsibility. Be wise. Same happened to me, thank God for true friends, without them and God... Where i for dey.

Benita27:
It's not by force that the person dating you must marry you. She may have found a better man in whom she's getting married to than she previously did in you. Move on!, and quit whining. It would either be your loss or hers later. Nigerian guys have this mentality that spending on a girlfriend in the course of a relationship automatically equal loyalty/marriage. I see that as benefits of being together. She may have also added some value to your life in some other way.

Benita27:
It's not by force that the person dating you must marry you. She may have found a better man in whom she's getting married to than she previously did in you. Move on!, and quit whining. It would either be your loss or hers later. Nigerian guys have this mentality that spending on a girlfriend in the course of a relationship automatically equal loyalty/marriage. I see that as benefits of being together. She may have also added some value to your life in some other way.

Benita27:
It's not by force that the person dating you must marry you. She may have found a better man in whom she's getting married to than she previously did in you. Move on!, and quit whining. It would either be your loss or hers later. Nigerian guys have this mentality that spending on a girlfriend in the course of a relationship automatically equal loyalty/marriage. I see that as benefits of being together. She may have also added some value to your life in some other way.

Benita27:
It's not by force that the person dating you must marry you. She may have found a better man in whom she's getting married to than she previously did in you. Move on!, and quit whining. It would either be your loss or hers later. Nigerian guys have this mentality that spending on a girlfriend in the course of a relationship automatically equal loyalty/marriage. I see that as benefits of being together. She may have also added some value to your life in some other way.

Rapmoney:
If it had happened the other way round, will you come here to type what you typed? You guys should stop all these double standard judgements!

Benita27:
Change is constant. Anything could've gone wrong. Abi, do you men marry all the ladies you promised marriage?.

Benita27:
Change is constant. Anything could've gone wrong. Abi, do you men marry all the ladies you promised marriage?.

Benita27:
Change is constant. Anything could've gone wrong. Abi, do you men marry all the ladies you promised marriage?.

YoungDaNaval:
I experienced it once and heaven knows I'll never allow myself experience it again. I always expect the worst from any lady I date now so it wouldnt look like a surprise when it hits me.



And to topic, so the man is trying to tell us he found a new girl he wants to marry within the short period of time he was disappointed​ by the other girl? Which means he's not faithful na, by having reserve when he's in a relationship. lol I applaud his snartless though

Benita27:
Change is constant. Anything could've gone wrong. Abi, do you men marry all the ladies you promised marriage?.

Benita27:
It happens on daily basis to women. The thing is, you men know how to sympathise with one another when it happens to you but if the table were turned, you'd hear things like "He's a sharp guy, or the lady has bad characters".

Who now is exhibiting double standard?.

adudu208:

Madam, i beg to disagree with your submission.

The fact that most ladies/men get away easily with this doesn' t mean it is not punishable.

According to the law of our land a contract can either be verbal or written.

A person can sue for compensation/damages if a partner reneges on his/her 'promise to marry'. The actions and circumstances surrounding the relationship will be considered when such issue is in court.

When a man spends money on your education, business or your family with the knowledge and belief that both of you are prospective partners then he can sue for damages when such partner decides unilaterally to end the affair. This is especially the case when both families are aware and based on available evidence i.e engagement ring; how they portray each other to people; written correspondence etc.

The fact that most people either result to self help or shrug their shoulder and move on doesn't mean there are no legal implication.

Unfortunately, many ladies go into relationships knowing fully well that their ultimate plan is to dump the man when they have achieved their plan.

This is wrong and men/women should endeavour to seek legal redress when certain they are being taken for a ride.

However, i always advise you don't spend what you can't let go. Spending massively on a girlfriend/boyfriend is not advisable in this generation where most people are easily influenced by western culture of promiscuity and outlandish show of wealth.