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Wish to know her village? She must be frustrated n manhandled by Lagos big boys

youngest85:
Thank God he is not an Igbo man

Did you pronounce his name up-side-down?

SingleDaddy:
OK! , long story short, I really need advice at this point in time. I had an encounter with this particular alhaja, I hope that is correct, while i was in camp(Social gathering) , we eventually got to like each other, because she is always tracking me, while I stylishly do the same..

She's always buying me stuffs and surprising me with gift, and I endeavor to do the same.


After camping, we got to finally meet privately, and we had matured meeting between us. All this while, I never knew she was married, and she never talked about it.

Our friendship seems to be escalating quickly, and personally, I never prayed to have anything to do with a married lady. But with the way situations are, I'm stuck in between the hole of a niddle


She seems to be taking this too far and serious than myself... Please what's your advice and suggestions in regards to this issue.

I would like to quench the flame without breaking the candle.

Two things you must AVOID if they do not belong to you:-

1. WOMAN
2. MONEY

Do not learn the hard way.

Avoid her and her gifts.

My 5 kobo advise please.

We intend to run a small but well organised flagship shop for lubes sales...and we are looking for a specific brand to represent. Please let us know if it is workable.

Hexta Energy & Resources Ltd
hextaenergy@gmail.com

obanqua:
700k available.....can we deal?

He advertised the car for N850k, I called to negotiate he said it is N1m that they have bought it and is on reselling process. I have backed out.

zizzo:
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Uncle Zizzo, N600k cash is ready. Not for resell this time but for my personal use. I beg you bros.

philltommy:
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I offer N600,000.00 on as is basis. Cash is ready. I am Lagos based but can send someone to come pick it up.

You can call me 08184618908 [sincerely want to share something with you without expecting to get material gains].

ghostfacekillar:
I got married about 4 years ago to a lady i courted for about 2 yrs. since then we’ve not had a child, and it has naturally become a source of worry as my parents have not hidden their concern at all.

Now, as a born again christian, I believe in totality that children come from God and he alone gives at his time, but I also know that the bible commands us to ask, seek and knock and that he that asks, receives. But my frustration in this whole thing is the wife I married.

Firstly, for strange reasons, ten months after marrying her, I lost my job of 12yrs, and since then I’ve been struggling to make ends meet. I must thank God for his goodness and mercies all the way. At least there has been no reason to beg anyone.

Secondly, she has strangely refused to support any effort I try to make for progress. She sees things differently with no better alternative to bring on the table and each time I go ahead, she wants it to fail. she’s a graduate who has also refused to do anything for flimsy reasons, not liking a business type, lack of interest with her certificate, not even to teach as an educationist. And for these reasons, we have remained almost always at loggerheads.

Thirdly, in an effort to find solution to our childlessness, she has frustrated every bit of the attempts. She has refused us exhausting medical options insisting that the problem is spiritual. And on the spiritual options, she has been half- heartedly involved. My parents invited us for prayers with a man of God,we got there on my insistence at least to honour them and she ended up embarrassing everyone including my parents as she vehemently refused to stay back for prayers as advised by the Man, and even accusing me of ganging up with them! That was Oct last year. Even if she didn’t believe the man as she claimed, i thought she should have been polite and respectful about it..

Needless to say, my parents have been hurt with her actions since then and wish I can just divorce her. Most frustrating for me is that presently, I’m observing a month long fasting and prayer period.

Even though she claims to be fasting and praying too, she has refused to go with me for prayers in Church for once. Please advice me on what to do as various thoughts keep running through my mind…

I am still very young and i think letting a woman who’s mindset is far below my ambitions will be doing harm to my future. my friend snd this to me. help him

flinsburg:
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i like to inspect.

Gabriel; N600k and i will come and carry immediately... 08184618908

Baba, pls release it for N600,000.00. Cash is ready.

fxjunkie:
Why publicising it? Why calling camera crew?

He is might not be the one that call the camera crew; no doubt the poor widow can not keep quiet but make some noise about it in terms of testimony sharing and calling in a priest to dedicate it. If you know Anambra people, an average family has at least one catholic church member especially old women.

God bless Francis Nzelu. This is the kind of news we want to be hearing from every corner of this great country - Nigeria.

nice chatting with you on whatsapp on Nov 13. As promised, i will check on you upon my return from travel.

okorojival:
Urgent sale Volkswagen Passat 2006. At good price of 850k. Location Lagos. Contact Valentine 08189407434

Photos please!

sarrki:
Ipobs criminals knows no age

Sense fall on you. Edo is a Mid-west region and has nothing to do with IPOB. Do elementary Geography and History. Travel and see. Do not be like Baba Femi my former landlord in Isolo - Lagos who believes that every Nigerian who is neither yoruba nor hausa automatically is Ibo.

nice ride...happy selling
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This is reasonable zizzo; hope there are no fixes to be made?

zizzo:
Fabric interior
Automatic Transmission
Power window, door and seats
AC Working‎
CD Player


Contact : zizzo

Phone : 08122098787
Whatsapp : 07060575253
Pin : D87CEE6E



Price : 1.3m

Location: ikoyi

Hargat:
950k

i have interest...

Where can we inspect? Is price negotiable? Any fixes to be made?

Clean ride. pls was customs duty duly paid? is it negotiable? is the car registered? you can reply me on whatsapp (08184618908). also send pictures of interior, engine etc...

flinsburg:
Kia Sorrento 2003 - #650k
Nissan Armada 2004 - #870k
Honda accord 2000 - #500k
Toyota Camry 1998 - #800k
Kia optima 2003 - #350k
Toyota Corolla 2005 - #600k
Honda accord 2003 - #600k
Hyundai Tucson _ 2009 _ #950k

Honda civic 1997 _ #300k
Dodge caravan 2003 - #364k
Hyundai Santa fe 2001 - #700k
Toyota Siena 2000 - #600k

Renault Megane 2003 _ #650k
Suzuki Alto - 2004 - #400k
Toyota tundra - 2000 - #980k
Toyota prius 2004 _ #750k

Audi A6 2001 - #400k
Kia optima 2002 - #300k
Nissan maxima 2002 - #600k


Note:
[ ] The condition of these cars can only be determined once the customer is present with a mechanic
[ ] We have more cars and more likely updates would be given via our whatsapp groups and other social platforms
[ ] The availability of these cars can change in a matter of minutes as we get a lot of buyers daily
[ ] Prizes are also possible to change if it goes on lockdown by a dealer
[ ] You can reach me via my number and also call for purchase or inspection tour around the cars we have.
[ ] This is for serious buyers only and those ready to buy instantly.

So how do we contact this op? No phone contact, no e-mail. No pictures of any of the cars?

olumario:
This Super Clean Toyota Corolla 2009 Model is up for sale with nothing to fix on it. The car was bought brand new and only a single user. It is a buy and drive car, there is nothing absolutely wrong with it. It is up for grabs for 1.4m.
Kindly contact me on 08038002172 if you are interested
Perfect Engine
Perfect Suspension
Fabric Seats
Factory Fitted AC
Manual Transmission

Confirm location for possible inspection...

Boss, if there are no other issues apart from air-conditioner e.g. smoking engine, indiscriminate petrol consumption, I have a client who is willing to pay N500k on as is basis if you agree.

I wish you can call me or send me a personal mail, I do not want to put my personal opinion or candid advise on the public domain. People may misunderstand my opinion. The matter on ground is a serious one and I will not want to join issues with SOME people who come to Nairaland to comment comedy over serious issues. I feel you feelings. Lets discuss. 08184618908; hextaenergy@gmail.com

Skipuru:
A guy of 27 years old impregnated my 16 years old sister mean while she's about to write her waec next year.
I called the guy on phone and he said he's ready to take responsibility of the girl and she will marry her , but me I don't like it that way because she's too small to bear a child and I don't want that to happen to my sister because she's the only girl in my family.
Now the question is I want her to abort the child and focus on her education but the guy said he ready and my mom called me and said that my sister said if anything should happen to her that it's on our head.
Please I want you to post it so I can hear people's opinions on this so I can know the right thing to do because I'm I'm going crazy.

Please I need a good advice on how to follow this matter. My mom want her to suffer so she can learn her lesson but me she will bring shame to me and my family. I'm just a boy of 22 years old still on the street.

Boss Zizzo, I am booking an inspection already. Will call you promptly to conclude. Cheers.

zizzo:
Fabric interior
Automatic Transmission
Power window, door and seats
AC Working‎
CD Player
4plug Engine


Contact : zizzo

Phone : 08122098787
Whatsapp : 07060575253
Pin : D87CEE6E



Price : 650k asking

Location: Yaba

Aeekay:
Car is super clean. Bought Brand new. AC is freezing cold. Brand new Tyres. Leather seats. Transmission is smooth. Engine is in top condition.

neat ride you have got here...

Boss, I like to inspect this ride this weekend. Pls where is the location for inspection (within Lagos)?

EKOBIZ:
full option
leather seat
alloyed rim
power doors
silver colour
sound engine
auto drive
chilling factory ac
double exhaust

The most irritating thing about Range Rover Sport is Cracked Dashboard.

#CrackedAutoDashboardsPissesOff

I am interested. I called but network failing. I sent SMS. I need to come inspect it.

mradonis:
Super clean( first body)
Manual trans
Factory fitted Ac
Leather interior( very neat )
Sound engine ,
Good tyres
alloy wheels
All documents intact
Colour-black
Location --Ikotun
Price- 750k
For inspection and enquiries
Call- Raphel on- 08032379260

God Bless Late Ambrose Alli of blessed memory. Though the military government then headed by GMB suffocated and truncated his life, though both Edo and Delta State of today never celebrated him. The truth is that he was a good ambassador and had education for the masses as part of his heart beat.

This payment receipt reminds me of my early years of life. In the then Bendel state, I enjoyed free education (100%) including books, stationeries, desk and chairs, feeding (though not every day), free uniforms etc all through my primary school time. GOD BLESS AMBROSE ALLI.

He was the brain behind the then Bendel State University (now AAU and also DELSU).

wrongchoice:
COURTSHIP DAYS AND MY HATRED FOR WOMEN BEATERS
During our courtship days I have always reiterated my stand on men that do beat their wife. I was of the opinion that they are not lesser than a beast.
She is very quiet, she hardly finishes her words, and she was full of smile that my grandma named her “smiling smiling girl”. My family members were thanking God for me because of her gentle nature. She doesn’t have friends, she goes to church regularly. I went for her because I have seen a lot of unhappy homes and by all means I wanted to avoid such situation. Before her, I had seen many girls that I love and they equally love me too. I leave them immediately I see a sign of anger in them. So, I told her that all I wanted in my life was happiness and I will make sure I keep the home together and going smoothly in as much that happens.
She has her trust issues which I thought they were necessary and not out of control (that was my greatest mistake), but aggressiveness and hatred ,I never had that thought a bit. She didn’t even look it.

MY FIRST SHOCKER
After the introduction, she was eager for the wedding despite the fact that I hardly got employed in a small firm barely a year. We fixed the date and arrangements were going.
3 days before the wedding , I told my wife to-be that one of my friends promised to bring event ;ushers for our wedding just to add glamour to the day, she didn’t allow me to finish when she started shouting on top of her voice and with this kind of never seen before aggressiveness. I never saw such red eyes before in 2 years of our courtship and over 6 years as friends. She said my friends and I were bringing oloshos to sleep with for bash eve which I never even plan to have. Her argument wasn’t a concern but I never see her reacted that way. I cried and I knew I was in for a big trouble.

THE REAL SHOW

Fast forward to after wedding. To my surprise, before any argument she would hit me, sometimes slap just less than 2 months in the marriage. I discovered she has the strength of 3 men. We are talking about a lady that never misses any church program as a youth and when we moved to our new area , she became more popular than myself in the church. This went on for a while coupled with terrible issues that I would be taken one after the other.

THE DAY OF LESSON
There was this afternoon that an argument ensue base on (what I will share latter) , she took out knife, I collected it from her, she brought out fork I collected it from her, she resulted to my belt and she started beating me with it ,I didn’t even struggle with her just like before. She took her shoe hitting it on my head ,I didn’t even move, I wasn’t even angry self. She bite me on my shoulder and thumb which nearly had that finger off if not for quick medical attention. At this point a question flashed through my mind, “would this be how my live would be going?”. This woman may even ask me to lay flat to receive some lashes if I didn’t make attempt to stop her. I concluded that I have to do something. Then without any iota of anger in me. I raised my hand up and gave her 2 thunderous slaps across her face. She opened her mouth for complete 5 minutes she couldn’t close it. I knew she would be thinking she has over stepped her boundary. She started shouting that I have killed her and all sorts. People that never had me speak in that street for good one year I stayed their plus close to a year she has spent with me were aghast. Since that day many things changed for the worse. Though she stopped hitting me after that, except sometimes when she would push me against the wall and i get some bruises.
I later travelled home and my siblings were asking me if my hands were tied to my back while a woman was inflicting all these injuries on my body. They saw both the fresh ones and the old bruises. It was a very big issue that families, church members had to intervene. I can tell you since that day things had never remain the same again. It was the beginning of trouble and unhappy home.

My question is this? If you were in my position what would you have done differently?


you can check the previous post here
https://www.nairaland.com/4126638/how-wife-been-terrorizing-me

...The best way to deal with a hustle spouse (male or female) is to walk away. It will be easier to walk away if you have not started having children. When a marriage breaks up, people ask questions (relations, church members, neighbourhood people etc) on hearing things like "instead of a monster of a husband or wife to kill me, i better give him/her gap" people will reason with you; even marriage counsellors. Most men who beat their wives never intended to do it...bros, sometimes, a woman can push a man to the wall and even compress him into the wall. If you raise your hand in defense or to prove some authority sign, you are 95% likely to mis-understood.

Love this ride...

princeonlinebiz:
Clean Well Maintained Honda Accord 2009.
Clean first body exterior
Clean leather interior
Sound 4plug engine
Chilling AC
The car is working fine
@Agege Lagos
1.6m Last price.

Call me if interested or add me on whatsapp.
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