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I just got a new dispatch bike, I have been thinking about how to go about it. Please if you know how to go about the business tell Me, I need this urgently, I may hire someone who needs job from nairaland here too.

Please

Gift96:
700k is alot of money.
You can start the sales of carbonated drinks

Hi gift , can you drop ur WhatsApp or can I drop mine and you text me. Reason is because I need to learn so as not to go bankruptcy

I'm looking to start a service or business. Please advise me I have only 700k capital

I said only yahoo boys , make obote stay away

Frezhkid10:
This has also happened to me in the past..the money was 1million..baba was saying I should take 30k and send the rest..well I took 250k and sent him 750k..he couldn’t talk..nah so matter end..

I'm thinking of doing the same because Business is totally different from friendship. One other side of me feeling like a betrayal but it's not to me. I know it may stop me from picking his money again or even the friendship. I'm just confused if I'm right or wrong

I have a family, I , my wife and a son. He is still living in his late father's house single having s*x with random girls which sometimes I warn him

Hey good morning guys I need you guys advise before day break. My friend catch client and client has been paying him good since the client starts sending money, I am his picker and I don't cut much money from his money like an outsider.
On Sunday my guy chated with me that it's time for him to go meet the client he no even no lie wey e wan lie again but the client still get money. He told me to give am billing fmt( I already gave him some which he had used to collect enough money from the client but now he needs how to bill big money) He proposed 70/30 if money comes out when I told him if he is serious I go help am bill the client 8k Canadian dollars,.he immediately changed it after I said that, he said what if he didn't wanna do 70 / 30 shey I no go help am ni, we ended that chat with he is not ready yet , when e ready make I know and we talk about something.
He chatted me on Monday that he need s billing , he needs big money and he don reach time wey client wan see say e just dey post the client, immediately I told him not to worry , not long at all I drafted a fmt for him and told him to ask 5k dollars from the client , he was afraid say the client go run, e go ask 2k dollars from client, the client payed the 2k I was the one who picked it for him. When I found out it was 2k he asked Immediately drafted another fmt for him make e ask for 3k more, the client payed the 3k today, it's now 5k In total. Now asked the guy say e no go pay me make e gimme my share (just anything from him not the 30 percent ) He told me to remove 10k fr his money and send remaining, I laughed and I have texted him tonight probably he is asleep, I told him why 10k no say e too small, e talk say we dey together just like always and we both are on fresh if he is on fresh (for real we have been there for each other) I told him thats too small that he didn't even propose 10 percent to me he is talking about 10k, though yesterday he gave me 30k to buy one of my electronic wey spoil for house. Now I'm feeling like does he mean the 30k naira he gave me and 10k naira he wants to give me is what he wish to give me ? Today I told him thats never I can't take that , why would I collect 10k?. He hasn't replied I think he is asleep.
What can I do ?
Am I being greedy because he collected much and I wanna collect inside ?
I have sent him the 2k dollars I pick yesterday, I still have the 3k dollars and in my account now.
I'm confused, I texted him that this is business different from friendship.
He hasn't replied tho

I need your advise , I have managed to save some money and it's only 300k , which Business can I do with this or which service can I offer ?

babajero:
that means you are spiritually blind or confused.

I swear.. as in I'm inner and outer spiritual and physical eye is permanently blind

Hi You need to read this
Please you really need to take 2 min out of your time to read this pls , I'm a cocktail seller and things haven't been going well this days but that's my problem anyway, today is Sunday and all I need is someone who can borrow me only 8 thousand naira just so I can add to my market and be able to make sales today, I've contacted family and friends everyone claims to be broke. If I don't sell market today my wide and my a year old boy will sleep hungry. I have no choice but to look for help everywhere, pls I need this just so I don't disappoint my family pls, I'm not lazy as* youth.
I will be glad to receive help from you pls even if it's borrowing I will definitely pay back, Im business man and I know what it is to return money and to be consistent with my business. Please I will be glad if you can understand me
Please if you wanna borrow me something or anything pls 09034788399

3074126399 first bank
Please I need only 8 thousand naira or even if it's 1k you wanna borrow or help me with
Whatever is appreciated pls

Rexymania:
This one you're just saying only married people. Oga, see you've gotten what you want from her, ignore her and play along. Look for another lady and she'll calm down

Nice Idea thanks

oz4real83:
You are a thief, just listen to yourself!!!. You said she was your wife and has been living with you for 8 years, yet you are not legally married to her , how does that make her your wife? She is tired of waiting for you to marry her, maybe you are looking for an expensive wedding when all she wants is just to be legally married no matter how simple the ceremony will be. Do you know the emotional toll it took on her to abort a baby for you, against her wish, all because you claimed your baby was too young and you still refused to use condoms even after that? She is gradually losing her love for you and it's your fault. Chopping free food for over 8 years and still not matured enough to do the right thing.

Bro dey calm down ,we gave birth last year December
I have it in mind to do soon as possible things tight everywhere now

Lee99:
I for like talk but the brother above me has said it all. Stop ignoring the excess red flags, kid is probably not yours. It's well. Start with the Fear Woman tablets, 3 in the morning 3 in the afternoon and 3 at night.

I go overdose bro

otipoju:
She is sleeping with him already and they want you to know. Eventually they will give you poison so that they can be one happy family with their son.

He is the same guy she was with when she was in school. They are continuing from where they stopped.

Go and do DNA on the boy and let the woman go to her lover so uou can have peace of mind.

The lady my girlfriend cheated with back in school is the same guy she married years after even after she had slept with other guys as well.

The day I told her that I already known years before that I was never going to marry her and just eating my share until the relationship expires, she wanted to run mad.

No let them play you street.

He is not the same guy

Our relationship is 8yrs now, we dated for 6 years before she officially leaving with me
I am not legally married to her right now because of personal reasons. She had cheated on me in 2019( that's the only one I know ), I didn't take it too serious we are both in the University but different schools, that shit happens in school. The main issue is this.. " lately a male colleague has been calling her, I told her 3 weeks ago that I don't like it and whatever he wants to tell her can wait for the next working day, she flare up that night and left the sitting room , normally we go to bed together any time I get done working, she went to bed that night with that anger, I never raised a fight with her. She roses early the next day and bath, bath our only son too, she left for work very early, she had never gone to work that time before, she got to work and in some hours I receive some messages on Whatsapp , he's apologizing that he calling my wife, I never replied him ( She claimed that the guy noticed her face and came to ask thats why she told him, meanwhile I never even fought her, their office are next to each other as she claimed)
Now after my woman and the guy knows that, some days ago the guy called my woman just to ask why she didn't come to work, he asked how her husband is doing too and that was the conversation I could here because she put it on loud speaker. After that I checked my woman's phone when she didn't know, I found out that the Guy is still calling her , I also saw that my woman still calling him too though not everyday, I asked her why she had ridiculed me so much , after going to report me to the guy about this calling, you are calling him and he is still calling you, don't you and the guy knows that it's dangerous for your relationship? , She flared up again I have had sex with my woman only 7 times in 3 months, she keeps saying she doesn't want to get pregnant soon and I should go buy condom , we haven't been using condom since we started 8 years ago( she got pregnant recently and we had to abort it because our son is only 11 months)
She does how's chores perfectly and also support me financially only when I don't have, I'm the Man of my house."
What's happening here ?
Please only married people

You guys didn't get the story right , so painful I can't delete post here. I will explain in details in my next post. Please only married men and women.

jeff1607:
This would be my last quote to you boy. Read the first quote that led to this

Truth here on nairaland is the people who tend to tend to give advice on marital issues are no where close to the level of the any OP who puts their travails online , any small thing they call for divorce (most of which even their home ain’t good or parents aren’t living together) or they trash talk and make mockery of any OP, e go reach ur turn , na so people go laugh you, things like like this have made people depressed and commit suicide, if you can’t give concrete solution to someone’s predicament just move on to the next post abeg, others who want to learn or too ashamed to say their ordeals are here to learn, foreign forums frown at such rants or name calling.

For real I want only married men and women to advice me pls, youth stay off

Prazo1:
Why did you not end the marriage the forst time she cheated

Do you know the lot of mental buildup before a married woman opens her leg for another man?

And you accepted her back because she pay some bills ahbbiii..

Trust and loyalty is the foundation of any relationship Bleep love......

she cheated before and you accepted her back
Even if she is cheating now you will still accept her back so she can pay some bills ...

So why waste my advice

We were not married when she cheated

josephevergreen:
Once that trust is broken ....

Nothing will interest me again.


The bond have been broken!!


Men stay away from promiscuous women oo

They can kii.

She is your wife Nd you married her from someone right ? Report her to her parents and make sure you stand your ground on what ever decision you take.



God abeg

Reporting issues to the family even make things worse bro

Bamrems:
This is what is happening to your wife, if she is in her late twenties, there is slightly an increase in the testosterone level in her body as they start preparing for menopause. The level of oxytocin starts decreasing and they feel the effect of testosterone more as guys do in their teens and early twenties.

Most women don't understand why all of a sudden, they start losing interest in their husbands and find young guys around more attractive. They lose interest in sex with their husbands and fantasize about their young lovers. They start to develop emotional connections with these young guys and become distant to their husbands because of guilt.

Most men fail to understand or don't believe their faithful or loyal wives have started stepping out and even deny the obvious signs which most times come with abstinence from sex with them and emotional bonding with their lovers. It's actually frustrating for both parties, most women because of the high level of dopamine they get from their lovers are conflicted with either leaving their husbands or becoming angry with them.

Although it is suggested that it's a way of nature making the older eggs fertilized by younger sperms. Very soon your wife will ask for either separation or divorce if you fail to confront her to choose between you and her lover.
You can Pm me I'll advice you on how to confront her and call her out, so she don't play with their emotions or gaslight you as women in this stage do to justify their cheating as being unhappy or the man not doing enough in the relationship.

I have a lot to write but time won't allow me. I see a lot of me crying here saying their wives are stepping out or leaving them because of this same brain hormonal chemistry happening in their women.


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I don't know how to send private message here, can you pls advise me how to confront her because it's confusing to me

dontrulee:
Nawa ooo
My future wife no fit try this nonsense with me
Deny me sex?
Behave irrational?
Impossible!

Bro, to tell you the truth, you're part of the problem. And solving this is not too difficult.

How I'm I part of the problem? And how can I solve it ?

Holybaddo:
Pls be sure to tell us what happens at the end

Lol at the end of what ? I talk say i need advise nah story you come dey read

diogo23:
She is cheating on him, a woman can't deny her husband sex for complete three months without a reason. Somebody somewhere is doing it

The reason I'm still doubting if she is cheating or not is because she is still breastfeeding my baby (11months old)

PlayMaker14:
I hereby ordain you as a FULL GROWN SIMP.


Damn.

Kindly tell me how

Please some weeks ago, I found out that her colleague (a male) calls her often. I told her but immediately she flair up and went to work with anger, she told me that the boy was calling him for work meanwhile they will see for sure the second workday, when you left home angrily without even fighting her.

The boy sent me some texts on WhatsApp explaining that she wants to collect a phone from my wife blahblahblah, I never replied the text, the boy called me twice on the second day and I didn't pick, my wife told me that the boy saw her face look angry and that's why he asked what was wrong with her and she explained to him, she told me that was why he was texting me.

Yesterday, I found out that the same boy still calls my wife and my wife calls him too, when I raised the issue again she flair up telling me the boy was calling him to ask her welfare.
What is confusing is that the first time they talk different things, why would a reasonable guy continues calling her after he knew it caused fight the first time, why would she continue too when she knows that it's threatening her marriage.

My wife has been denying me sex for 3 months, tell me if that's possible for a girl who loves to Bleep.

My wife has a child for me and she has been supportive financially, she does house chores everything, but she had betrayed me twice before, one was cheating, the other she stole money coniving with my cousins at my former business.

Please somebody advise me what to do.

jumper524:
our principal back then in badagry junior grammar school.
Ask Bella Shmurda. Same set. The man dey wear school uniform.

Hahaha Mr Saheh

nams77:
And what's wrong with that last time I checked, this is a free world. If the post no sweet you, move on. So many trash I see in here but I just waka pass

Bro nah you be the trash honestly , must you people spam everywhere with your nonsense ?

Chrismentor3:
Location and price

The AC is 105k and the fridge for 80k negotiable , comes with receipts, I’m in badagry Lagos. We can meet half way

This is almost new , I’m selling because of relocation , you can come check it , it’s in perfect condition and you can return if you’re not satisfied

Please I have been looking for job for long, I’m hardworking and willing to work anywhere in Lagos if I can make the commute , I can work at badagry and agbara axis that’s easier , kindly drop your job if you have one , thanks in advance

It's giving me a particular problem, do you post there? Pls, we need to talk, this is my whatsapp 07030621665, kindly drop yours too

Who knows about topbuzz? How do i post on topbuzz.