₦airaland Forum

CokersClub:
Afam6
Thanks for that great contribution. So your point is that, we invest more in wedding than marriage?. Why do you think we do this?. Because personally i believe a wedding should be a memorable day for the bride and groom.

I can Wed anybody but that doesn't mean I can marry anybody. There's what we call gender differences ( the way women behave the way deh do and also men) you should be able to learn all these stuffs before considering hooking up with anyone. Is better to be single believing God to be married than being married and praying to God to become single. Remember dat the worst mistake in earth is to marry a wrong woman. How I wish you know the journey ahead...

To further prove the point; when the Pharisees tested Jesus on marriage saying "is it good for a man to divorce his wife?" And Jesus answer them saying "have you not READ?; that he who made them in the beginning made them male and female. So Jesus is recommending reading here ( go for knowledge and you will have the best marriage of your life) [quote author=Afam6 post=56607712][/quote]

[quote author=StephDamielola post=56607216]Copying the whites....

Paying less attention to marriage and more to wedding...

Social Media Lovers.....

Telemundo believers

etc
I wouldn't believe less. Marriage is a day after wedding.
Most couples don't engage themselves in acquiring knowledge about marriage. We have engulfed ourselves with wedding forgetting the fact that wedding is not marriage. You see people preparing for marriage but what they are actually preparing for is wedding. Read materials on marriage and you will enjoy your marriage life. Marriage is a journey you've never traveled to; acquire knowledge before you venture into the journey. (A day after wedding is called the marriage ). Gracia

Yyeske:
Ugwuanyi is trying and owning salaries then what what will you say about Obiano and Umahi? I stay in Onitsha and visit Enugu often so what are you talking about? Me seeing Abia and Enugu on that list got me riled up and I took it as a blight on Ndigbo because they have no reason to be there. Okorocha can be excused for wanting the tallest Christmas tree in Africa but Ikpeazu and Ugwuanyi can not

Ugwuanyi is not owing...they are being paid on every 27th/28th of every month. Ask any worker in Enugu

Jesus Christ of Nazareth. The world is wicked I must say. How can she do such a thing and people are watching her. May God help the bride

I need not say more.
May God bless you.
uote author=pchukwudi post=55692545]You are smart but arrogant. Thus you failed to show that knowledge is wide apart from experience, and facts differ from opinion.

Your argument is therefore a pure pile of highly opinionated conjecture that's devoid of facts, yet deceitfully presented as factual. That's not just criminal, it's extremely offensive.

As an Igbo person, I find the following lie of yours super annoying:



I seriously think it's only chronic insanity that would trigger an educated person to spew the above sweeping falsehood about a region she was not born in, lived in, or got fully integrated with. This same Easterners have been saying for over 50 years now that they want to be left alone in that same "erosion prone soil". They went to war to defend the soveringnity of that eroded soil. Can't you see how insane pathetic your little rationalization about "poor and erosion prone soil" sounds here?

It's super insane to even imagine that erosion could be the reason why igbos migrate to other parts of the world (not just the few in other parts of Nigeria) in droves. Can you seriously imagine a sane educated person saying that erosion, earthquake or terrorism is the reason we have more Jews living outside the Jewish state of Isreal?

Anyway, another fallacy in your deceitful argument is the suggestion that homogeneity is not critical to nation building. On that note, I will just make the following three assertions and implore you to counter them.

1. Ethnic Cultural, social and ideological homogeneity, combined, is the single most critical factor for the continued success of each European state as a distinct soverign unit. And that's in spite of the recent invasion of cultural marxism.

2. The only parts of the developed economies where you don't have a deep-seated social crisis raging right now are those places where there's stronger homogeneity.

3. In all indices of human and societal development, homogeneous nations are much more stable and prosperous than their diverse counterparts.

Only devious intent could compel you to disregard the above assertions in favor of one insanely diverse Nigeria.

Even the foreign authors of the sysyem called Freakonomics or "How to Think Like a Freak" found that the major reason for relentless social crisis in Africa is the fact that colonial masters shared and merged many inreconcilable cultures like they would share and merge a piece of pie without any regards for the indegineous PEOPLE in those diverse cultures.

Thus, in my opinion, the least honest thing you could do now is to lend your voice to the push for referendum.

Let those who want to be Nigerians remain Nigerians, and let those who want out be allowed to go out. Unity stops being unity when the united are forced to stick together.

Zik and co. made the same argument you are making right now some decades ago, yet the nation has grown much more divisive than it had ever been.

Do you really think we are going to spend eternity speculating about the merits of one Nigeria?

Why is it so darn hard to shut down a system that has failed to work in 100 years?

Is this some kind of cult nation or something?

Sorry, but I seriously get pissed when I see an educated person arguing to force people to uphold an unatural identity ( an imposition of a self serving foreign entity) at all cost.

You can do better.[/quote]

tossedbae:
When u kiss me-Shania twain

Long distance -brandy

Frm a distance -bette midler

You are beautiful dear.
Let's get married...

divicoded:
I reject every evil you wished me. I send it back to you and your generation in one million folds, Amen

I said you (MIGHT NOT), not that you will not; tryna understand someone before rushing to react. Cheers bro

divicoded:
Big lie bro
Go bac to yo Biafrauud

Get a life bro. If you continue with this kind of hatred for other tribes, you might not live long. Cool down, take a glass of water and get a life. Just a personal advice

somebody is becoming silly here... If you aren't ready to do business then Bleep-off the ad

That's why they say that marriage is for two mature persons. Maturity is not all about age; it goes beyond how many yrs you have spent in this earth: we have financial maturity, intellectual maturity, emotional maturity etc. You need to study yourself before venturing into the journey. Cheating is the worst insult to any married woman. You can still find a faithful husband and same with wife.

cremedelacreme:
Apart from UI and Uniben, the school gates of the other schools are very ugly especially UNN, ABU,Unical and Unimaid

UNN main gate

Lawlahdey:
Na so so mouth you go make

The highest offense against women is ~cheating~. I would rather not marry her than cheat against her.

Mimzyy:
TRUE.

You for resemble Tontoh dikeh small. You are fine though

Lawlahdey:
See.. There's nothing like your man or "my" man.
If you can't share your man with another woman in this generation, you are only seeking to remain alone.
Even if your man doesn't marry another woman apart from you, he will still look outside and these other women will still share "your" man with you.

Sooner we start encouraging polygamy, the better.

So you have made up your mind for a cheating husband. The orientation is faulty; tryna pray against that...you can still find a man with high dignity to stoop so low for that. Even if I don't respect my (future)wife enough to give her the respect of that...I will keep myself for the sake of the kids.

Lets talk at that price bro. The car is awesome I must say.

kesmiraAutos:
Your pricing needs to still come up Sir! Remember I advertised at a very fair price, so encourage me.

Topestbilly:
And is there anyone that says all poor men will get rich?

the possibility of a poor man becoming rich tomorrow is greater than or equal to infinity when compared with the rich remaining rich tomorrow...

4.5? Let's talk

kenonze:
Lovely

Simple things is what my heart beats for

you look like my next gf. Beautiful indeed

RIP.

5.3?

Can it go for 3.3?

Date with no conditions.
Let love be the primary objective.

Date with no conditions.
Let love be the primary objective