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Phewwwwwww. A lot of reading. But one thing is simple, everybody in the situation they find themselves is right with whatever decision they have taken. Sometimes its good we wear someone elses shoe and know where it pinches so we can see things from their point of view and maybe we might think like them or even think out a better way. But let no man condem because we are all sinners and everybody should practise forgiveness. And everybody has the right to be angry and cry even Jesus as a man did both. Good morning all.

Thank you, chante bas we are considering that option. But God has declared it that we will not ever need that option again. Amen.

@ lilziny. I am just seeing your comment, I have not logged in with this my username afdman in a long time. I sent you a pm. But you can email me directly afamdman@yahoo.com so we can gist a bit me indept. Have no fear lady everything will be okay. I declare you shall have that baby safe and well. Mail me so we can gist more. I can give ýou tips and pointers on what to do or expect. It is well with you.

Nice topic maclatunji, from the responses it is clear what answer 2 is from answer 1. It is also clear from answer 2 that answer 1 shows clearly how that family is run. Very funny but these 2 question (call them trick questions) clearly show how happy these women are in their families. I think we all have a lot to learn here. Would like to see how the men would respond if this was their question.
1. Does your wife agree you are the head of the home.
2. How do you correct your wife, when she has pissed the hell out of you. NB: not the normal pissing offf oh. The serious pissed the hell out of you. Lolz. Good morning house.

finally a good question by the editor of guardian newspaper

I will not go to that level to start picking words. There is no need for that. Let's just all keep it civil. Funny am just noting that ileobatojo is different from Ihedinobi. But to be clear I think TV01 has said it and we have said it even in this topic, if you experience abuse in your marriage, please seperate. Live apart from each other, divorce if you have to. Self preservation is still key. But I wish with the same energy we discuss divorce, we could use the same energy to discuss how to save marriages.

baby_123: Tell all this you must die in marriage to Chris Okotie and ben the ben , abi wetin be that pasito name again. They even quote bible for everyone to justify. Smh!

Nobody says you must die in the marriage far from it, everybody here agrees when its bad please seperate. But my stance is when you seperate you are not allowed to remarry unless your spouse dies. If you do and have sex the bible is clear your committing a sin. Its clear God wants reconcilation because he also said it there in 1cor 7:10 "let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband" so after seperation the next thing is reconciliation. Simple, plus all the argument here is based on scriptural principles. You understand it now ma.

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You blame “others” because you’re a “man pleaser” – quit snivelling. I urge you to learn to “walk your walk”. Funnily enough, I met and married that same girl ![/quote]sorry a question TV01 let me get this straight. You mean you married same girl david dropped or you meant it literally. And yes I do understand your point about the discussion making divorce seem as a way out. If we continue like this, in a few years time it would be acceptable, and its very true when you have divorce as a way out even before marriage, you most likely will divorce. But the bible is clear if you must seperate then seperate but also pay a price by not re-marrying am sure if that is also put at the end of most divorce argument people will think less of using the easy way out divorce. we as humans all have short comings do we beat ourselves when we do wrong to ourselves no!, we immediately make an excuse and forgive ourself. Plus oddly enough the things God has asked us to do as good christians are the very same things that would make us better spouses someone bring the what God says love is scripture here let's look at it. Divorce is an easy way out, I hope that's not what we also want to teach our chilðren is there anything wrong in us teaching them they can have the best marriage. I have a friend who is from a divorced home, to her divorce is a way out, once its not working am out she says. I think instead let's begin to teach and research more on what makes a good marriage possible start dwelling more on the positives and stop putting a microscope on the negatives, let's start discussing more on what gurantees the best kind of marriage. Wow. I have started this early morning with this.hmmm. Good morning all.

Also noticed something. @Ihedinobi please relax on some of the words you use, it could be termed provoking, but thank God TV has been avoiding them since. I understand your so emotional about your stance, but relax bro, we all learning and its an argument, your don't complaing that someone is forcing you to take their point of view while you too also forcing them to take yours. You get my point everybody has their views and everybody learns. I have learnt somethings from u and also from TV. Hope I didn't say too much to bruise any ego's not my intention let's just keep the discussions civil and void of personal attacks.

I would like to respond well to this topic, but its late and am using my phone, but reading through the whole thread, I fully understand Tv's point of view, which in summary is that if you follow God and trust in him totally he won't stare you wrong, from teaching you how to choose the right spouse, to teaching how to behave to get the best out of your spouse, that is the God way and by his grace we all pray to get that kind of marriage. Now the Ihedinobi point of view from what I see has its own merits too, though there are points I disagree with(your definition of what an illegal marriage is it throws up all sorts of wrong, so if you have not being married to you spouse and you get intimate with them, what sin are you committing then) sorry for the small interlude, but yes i also get your point about when your spouse is abusive,let them be apart, now being apart is different from re-marrying. Now the 1cor 7:15 you hinge your argument about says "but if the unbeliving depart, let him depart." Nothing was mentioned her about the believer that means the beliver is obligated to stay. And as davidlyn stated you can be apart but not allowed to marry, plus the whole chapter of the 1 cor 7 from 12 he said "but to the rest speak I, not the lord:" that means at that point it was his opinion. But God's opionion was put fort in verse 10 "and to the married I command, (yet) not I, but the lord, let not the wife depart from (her)husband. 11 but and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or to be reconciled to (her) husband and let not the husband put away (his) wife. Now to be clear in verse 8 and 9 he clearly spoke to the single ladies and widows saying if you can't hold body, please marry so you don't burn. I hope this answers your question Tgirl for your friend. If she can't stay in the marriage and she wants to seperate, then let her do so, but she should not re-marry. That's what the bible says. As for me hmmmm its gonna be a tough one, how to manage hold body. Sorry for the wrong spellings and co please forgive me.

It is worthy to comment and commend this lady Ftmom nice to know she came out straight to speak about the weak points she contributed to her marriage. Thank God for blessing you with a very paitent man as you put it. Nice to know that not all men are crazy, but a very important point was put out by her " so couples try and know your better halfs threshhold don't cross it, many are not blessed with patience we don't want no more voilent homes, or men that just wake up and start beating their wives or wives that just wake and start tongue lashing their men. It takes 2 to build the marriage also takes 2 to break it. Ftmom I commend your oga.

ftmom: No, I would not have blamed him at all because he endured and I would probably have gone ahead with the divorce too, just to prove that I could. I would have been very mad, though, that he was the one that ended it and not me because him rejecting me would have been difficult to bear. The insanity is - I would have been completely heartbroken because I really did love him,under all my misbehavior. Maybe if I was the open type, I would have gone to see a shrink who could explain what I was doing because I truly can't explain it.

And yes. . . . .tolerance level made a big difference, even I would have found it difficult to tolerate

I know my answer to Mac's question may have sounded funny but that is what held our marriage together. If he had even been half as crazy as me, the mariage would not have survived.

As for tolerance, yes, it will differ between individuals. I don't think I could ever be that tolerant, just not wired that way. Shout out to the patient and the tolerant They are truly God's own people not saying the crazies are not o

and I commend you too for changing, who knows how long oga would have taken it and also to come here and lay the 95% blame at your feet your husband knew who he married that's why he stayed.

Laughs at the arsenal fans here. I guess everybody is allowed to wish, but its another thing for wishes to come through. Your team does not have what it takes to defeat united. Just enjoy the game and pray your lose does not allow you a panic buy again in the january window. We did them 8-2 in the first leg someone remind the scores from the second leg. 1 united.

Looking forward to this evening's encounter. I wonder what will happen, if chelsea lose. Hmmmmm bunch of sore losers. United!!!!!!! All the way.

From this list, that's like everywhere, so where are they allowed to ride.

Don4life: aiit..i'd ve married u

Is it me or didn't anyone notice this quote, the way the guy jumped ship immediately he found a lady that could cook, @candieangel12 take note, I hope you know that love making can be ignored, but belle na belle, niaja man no dey use am joke. But its good you already decided to marry a white man.

Tobicol, not been here a while, so I read the updates, so how much do you have so far, hope your more focused this time. Don't let your fans down. Peace. Keep up the good work.

@greatgod please its really not a must to comment, if you don't have anything better than man enough to comment, just bone the thread like you didn't see it. That seems to be the word these days "your not man enough" so until a man raises his voice or hand that's when you feel he is man enough, abeg leave the guy jare, abi na you be the madam in question.

Despite madam does not like this medium, trust the message has been passed, and hopefully you'll both be better for it and work on your marriage. Don't give up, the best years are yet to come, it maybe tough now, but they'll come. Madam please pardon my guys approach, desperate times call for desparate moves. Talk to your hubby find out how and what ways you really show love to him, so that you work and he feels it, its very frustrating when you feel you are working and the person you are working for doesn't not feel you are working. My guy also do well, and be patient with madam am sure with time things will work themselves out and like I said play your role. Have a nice day both of you.

I quite with your notion about commanding respect from your woman without demanding it. Well that's what i do and in my wife's heart heart of hearts, she believes she respects me just that I don't feel respected. I know exactly what you mean. Its easy for your partner to feel like this, even yourself inclusive. I fully follow your rule on respect is earned not demanded. I won't push the you must respect me rule and submit to me. Its stated by God so if you love me, then that should follow easily. But I'll say sir is that you have your own role to play as a husband, my guy play that your role to the letter, that the men should love their wifes as christ loved the church and was willing to give his life up for it. Do your bit and hopefully she will change. As per the sex part hmmmm women take those words you hear, every man wants a freak in bed, for goodness sake please learn and be willing, its frustrating when your trying to handle your business and the woman is acting like you are harming her and that she is not into sex with you. You had better go and find where u hid your libido. When you hear men cheat on their wives, this most times is the main cause of it. If you don't like sex for goodness sake why did you marry. Abeg go and find out how to please your man jare. Am sure if you were doing him right he won't be here complaining. My 5cents.

These women no go kill person with laugh for here. Hahahahahhahahah. @ what's her name again ujujoan. Hmmmmm more please make it more interesing oya throw some more abuse my way. Hahahhahahaha. Long live the cabal. women will always be their own downfall.

Fun day on nairaland. A LOL day. No be small thing ohhh. Really had fun laughing my ass off. Thank you ladies. Adios.

@jenny. Hugs your reply always amuses me. But I find myself always saying this jenny is a lovely kind woman in real life, but someone has to do the job she does on nairaland, and too bad it has fallen on her and does a great job, of it. Bless you dear I know you always mean well.let me go jare, I promised madam I'll wake her by 4 to do some work, let me go jare and put in work. Adios jenny dear.

Wow, I never thot I'll see the day. the cabal got eggs in their face. Damn. Such a lovely topic, Op thank you for posting. And hope your marriage is working out great. Richie my man thanks for holding fort jare, your my man any day. Jenny ohh my God I could actually view you foaming in the mouth, you mean that bit@h didn't take my advice. Lolz God what a day. And Agioma God bless you lady and bless your family, those that plant seeds and nuture it with Love will surley reap a good fruit, am so glad you shamed them all in the end. @ujujoan go suck on a lemon. Hahhahahaha, what a day, cabal with egg in their face.

Dwas and kingsleyinfo well put, God bless you guys. Any lady that wants success in her marriage has her own part to play. The good book has outlined what your part is so do it, and leave the man to do his part, don't force him to do his part. Now that's if you want a successful marriage ohh, the ones that see they can't cope, the good book also showed you a way out. If you feel the kitchen is too hot, please you go ahead and divorce, just don't knock the women trying hard to make their own work despite the odds. Each to their own. And those ladies that feel a cheating man can't change, well God can change anyone, even you, look in the mirror the you, you see today was not the same you of 10years agon, yup change took place.

Thank you. We are still working hard to be able to meet ur expectations.

Also some point you are not putting into consideration, let's say it cost 150 @ factory price in china, other consideration are the cost of transfering funds also other cost consideration is that os shipping, it cost $50 to ship 1, that if you ordered one. Yes my bulk order will help, but then how much. But your point noted. And I still state those other nairaland guys are giving you eexternal 3g via 3g usb dongle, the ones with internal 3g are the 7inch. I stand to be corrected. @4llerbuntu I'll find a way so you can have a crack at the tablet and test it to see.

Also guys put into consideration, that we plan to roll out customer service, plus warranty and will do marketing, TV, Print, web, radio. All that will cost money. We are not the regular folks that supply 1 or 2 pcs on nairaland. Also like I said its a 10inch with internal 3G, the ones on nairaland are either 7inch or come with external 3g via 3G dongle. No good pads with my spec are anywhere near $150. No sir. So let the pricing begin. Also I made a little mistake, so am adjusting the price range to be between, 50-60k so we can make a little money and give great tablets.