debrief08: Night love.
Let me get the Church thing off my chest today. It is one of those churches obsessed with branches in every corner.
Anyway, My Ex was a major financial muscle, bought Pastor a Car and sponsored one or (wo foreign trips. So when there is conflict and I report to His Pastor( I joined him from another church) I got the "be submissive, fast and pray sermon, He is a generous man, don't disturb him, if he upsets you pray to God for comfort"
Anyway, one day I had brusies as usual, I normally wear long sleaves and shades when I have bruises because I am fair skinned and it shows easily, so It was really hot and there was a tiny one behind my neck I imagined my hair will cover it so I didn't tie a veil round my neck as usual, I have never seen Pastors wife so upset, and it wasn't because I was beaten and bruised it was because I didn't cover it well.m
She dragged me and gave me a serious lecture on how to properly cover up and "hide my shame", told me that people will start talking and I shouldn't bring shame to my husband, even advised that on days I was too badly bruised I should simply send my offering and not attend church. Lol
When I was in the hospital, none of them came simply called and "prayed" for me. When I left and didn't go back Madam Pastor called almost cursing me on the phone and ordering me back home, when she was done I called her by her full name and asked if she didn't have anything better to do like covering her husbands recent scandal with choir girl up. Dead silence on the other line, I know so many others face the same

debrief08: Besides its a failed business not a failed busines man, people fail in tasks all the time and rise again, it doesn't make them failed individuals, it only makes them humans, he who is failed is he who has allowed failure to define him or her, certainly not me

debrief08: Night love.
Let me get the Church thing off my chest today. It is one of those churches obsessed with branches in every corner.
Anyway, My Ex was a major financial muscle, bought Pastor a Car and sponsored one or (wo foreign trips. So when there is conflict and I report to His Pastor( I joined him from another church) I got the "be submissive, fast and pray sermon, He is a generous man, don't disturb him, if he upsets you pray to God for comfort"
Anyway, one day I had brusies as usual, I normally wear long sleaves and shades when I have bruises because I am fair skinned and it shows easily, so It was really hot and there was a tiny one behind my neck I imagined my hair will cover it so I didn't tie a veil round my neck as usual, I have never seen Pastors wife so upset, and it wasn't because I was beaten and bruised it was because I didn't cover it well.m
She dragged me and gave me a serious lecture on how to properly cover up and "hide my shame", told me that people will start talking and I shouldn't bring shame to my husband, even advised that on days I was too badly bruised I should simply send my offering and not attend church. Lol
When I was in the hospital, none of them came simply called and "prayed" for me. When I left and didn't go back Madam Pastor called almost cursing me on the phone and ordering me back home, when she was done I called her by her full name and asked if she didn't have anything better to do like covering her husbands recent scandal with choir girl up. Dead silence on the other line, I know so many others face the same

debrief08: Thank God that at the end me and everyone who feels insults and unnecessary hate in the name of christainity is needed to push their points accross will stand and be judged by God, that is all my dear

Guitarlife: Now we know marriage is just a business enterprise he who has ear let him hear o.

bjcole: very funny my brother,there could be some really bad situations, that one cannot help, but dis issue can stil be managed if one s willing. One area Debrief really didnt tell us is hw she may ve contributed to d problem. D man & d woman in an abusive marriage both ve faults. If it is really a biz venture, & u had failed @ one, & may be havin problem in d other, will u want 2 leave too?

jennykadry: ^^ I am but a silent observer Just yesterday abi the day before, he dragged my name into a Convo he was having with Debrief "the thread starter" on that "Rccg day care thread". No one queried him for mentioning my name on that thread. Why my name was even mentioned, I have no idea. Someone "dragged his name" here and lo and behold people are going on their knees apologising. I have never been so jealous in my life

Yeye dey smell. and to think that just last week I almost asked tgirl to reopen my thread I asked her to lock a few weeks ago , so I can continue asking those that glamorise divorce more questions I had already jotted down on a sheet of paper.

Guitarlife:
You wanna be a role model then pay the freacking price, hold your marriage together, raise your home, respect the sanctity of matrimony and there you have my respect but you skedaddling and expecting me to respect you no matter how sweet your mouth is forget it. I do hopet this is clear enuff.

Guitarlife: Don't you get it? She stood before God and man and made a convenant .She swore that she was gonna stand by a man 'in plenty and in want, in sickness and in health till death did them part' . What kind of woman makes a meal of such words.
Was she not aware that things could go awry when she was saying those ?
What am on about is that if she knew quite well that she was gonna skeddadle when and if things hotted up. She shoulda keep her mouth shut.
She could have asked the priest to skip that part and not gone ahead to bellow into the mic when she knew she was just there for the good.
Yeah! What I'm saying is that when she took those vows, she already signed up to die if that was what it would have required to stay in the marriage.
Why don't you read the marriage vows again and then tell me if it's not bondage yes it is. If you can't stand the freaking heat then don't even walk into the oven.
Is that too hard to comprehend ? In conclusion all divorcees are cowards simples especially those who walked out on a marriage cos their lives was at a risk.
They don't have any respect for their words so don't expect me to have any respect for them.

busybee24:


DIE? Are you insane.. i hope and pray for women everywhere that your kind is a dying breed. and we wonder why the country is in the state that it is. ignorance, callousness and backwardness

greatgod2012:

thank u, dt has always been my question,btw life and marriage, which one is more important?

greatgod2012:

thank u, dt has always been my question,btw life and marriage, which one is more important?

Guitarlife: Okay guys that was said in the time of ignorance it's okay to walk out on your marriage whenever you feel like it. I have enuff enemies on this board already. I do hope this stiffle's the already fast moving animosity train.
I hereby decamp to the CABAL. Phee DHee PHee (PDP) . . . . . . .PHOwer!! To the People

Guitarlife: Jidegal please save my life. Get me the form I beg you. Get me the cabal membership form don't worry I'll pay the the stipulated fines for staying so long on an opposing side.
I now know better help me please joo mo fi gbogbo nkan to n sin laye ati orun be e saanu mi.

jidegirl12:


Iwo ke? so you can come crawling back to me after you are done with sisi?

As per membership...I am solo o! I dont belong anywhere...ofcourse you are welcome in my solo world..let me see...em em yeah I still okay now..one more will do..lmao

How are you buddy? (or [b]lad [/b]what do you call it there?)

Guitarlife: sisikill for where ? That babe too dey do shakara joor. Unto say she get one small tiny waist like that na the tin con dey make her head swell beyond measure.
She wan dey put me for call waiting heheheee emi omo ibadan funrara mi, I don move on.
You are now next on my agenda . And off the records, I get odeshi too so you no get choice.
Happy saturday to all single ladies out here.
PS: I dey find wife o. Abeg PM me if you know say you be correct village geh wey go fit grind pepper with her bare hands.
All this lagos gals wen nor fit boil egg na wash joor.

jidegirl12:

Find wife ke..you wey too sensitive to every little detail..grind pepper ko...make you go buy kitchen aid blender for her and you'd get thesame result ...o mo meme..na yam? ..annyywaays I will see what I can do about taking you back

Efemena_xy: ^^ Stop trolling!

bjcole: very funny my brother,there could be some really bad situations, that one cannot help, but dis issue can stil be managed if one s willing. One area Debrief really didnt tell us is hw she may ve contributed to d problem. D man & d woman in an abusive marriage both ve faults. If it is really a biz venture, & u had failed @ one, & may be havin problem in d other, will u want 2 leave too?