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Family / Re: Should A Man Tell His Wife How Much He Earns? by afemai: 12:37pm On Jan 27, 2010 |
Tsiya: You may Please give me options, analysing the kind of woman am married to will take all day, |
Politics / Re: Ultra Modern Intensive Care Unit For Yar Adua Inside Aso Villa! by afemai: 12:28pm On Jan 27, 2010 |
CyberG: Guy easy on am I beg!! |
Family / Should A Man Tell His Wife How Much He Earns? by afemai: 8:57pm On Jan 26, 2010 |
women and money! will you tell your wife how much you earn? am told to declare half of what I earn and give her half of the declared that the balance is what am using to ''marrying her'', do you agree? pls advise. |
Politics / Re: Genocide Reported In Kuru Village Of Jos by afemai: 8:30pm On Jan 26, 2010 |
killing of anyone whether muslim,christain,pagan,ibo,hausa ,fulani, yoruba etc is wrong!!! am a christain and my bible do not preach killing a fellow man regardless of ethnicity or religion I strongly feel what we need to do as Nigerians is to fight to amend our constitution to provide for laws thats promotes good governance, development and unity. Gob bless Nigeria, ! |
Politics / Ultra Modern Intensive Care Unit For Yar Adua Inside Aso Villa! by afemai: 7:30pm On Jan 26, 2010 |
why waste tax payers money to build an ultra modern intensive care unit for the president those this mean such projects are in anticipatory of a future sick president? one would expect such facility be built inside the national hospital for the benefit of all not for only an individual and/or his lieutenants!!! |
Politics / Re: Resign Now, Obj Tells Yar’adua; Protest In Lagos by afemai: 6:53pm On Jan 26, 2010 |
He should shut his trap!! I have seen cars adorning Abacha, Buhari and even IBB pictures as stickers, his was both military and civilian governments why have i not seen any of his apologist adorn his sticker? he is a bad product to eulogise. |
Politics / Re: Homosexaulity Should It Be Lagalize In Nigeria? by afemai: 6:34pm On Jan 26, 2010 |
While not trying to be an umpire here. I do nonprofit work hence have a radical and non conformist attitude/approach to happenings in our country pari-passu external influences (after all most funding emanates from there). Homosexuality is disgusting to me, yes this is relative !! In Nigeria I have attended workshops where gays where represented under different pressure groups advocating for recognition at social policy level though I was indifferent to their contributions, because of my training I try my best to hang on till the end of these workshops sitting beside them made me so spastic. Jprospero,Nex, Sagamite and Beneli’s posts where apt and logical and I agree that if genetic nay nature allows acceptability of homosexuality then craddle-robbers and incest acts be accepted too. I sympathise with the gay society greatly (though unsolicited) , in Uganda a bill known as The Anti-Homosexuality Act of 2009 is on the floor of parliament, Rwanda has followed suit too. In uganda they are proposing death penalty for a second/repeat offender. Sefago, Morpheus24, Omo law uk and Bawomolo have tried to prove the contrary but I refuse to accept that it be legalized while I agree that they should not be discriminated on but be assisted with psychiatric help as people with sexual disorder. To Sefago, I believe Nigeria will be a world power someday soon!!! |
Family / Re: If You Have Done It B4 Then You Are A Monster! by afemai: 5:37pm On Jan 20, 2010 |
from responses here majority of us men would rather hit a lady than use alternative means to checkmate their excesses. We actually choose to be monsters!! |
Politics / Re: Oshiomhole Threatens To Jail Anenih, Osunbor by afemai: 4:32pm On Jan 18, 2010 |
Its long overdue he needs to be put in where he rightly belongs, jail!!! |
Politics / Re: Oshiomhole Threatens To Jail Anenih, Osunbor by afemai: 4:26pm On Jan 18, 2010 |
Its long overdue he needs to be put in where he rightly belongs, jail!!! |
Politics / Re: Seun Adebiyi Needs Your Help! Please! by afemai: 5:11pm On Jan 14, 2010 |
i pray he gets a match soonest by his grace! |
Politics / Re: Nigeria Court Delays Sick President Yar'adua Cases by afemai: 4:28pm On Jan 14, 2010 |
TO SAY THE OBVIOUS AM INDIFFERENT TO WHETHER WE HAVE MR PRESIDENT HAND OVER OR NOT. WHEN WE ALLOW PEOPLE WHO LACK INTEGRITY HOLD US BONDAGE WHAT WE GET IS THIS SPECIAL DISRESPECT AND ABUSE OF OUR COLLECTIVE PSYCHE. EVEN THE SO CALLED CONSTITUTION IS AN A.S.S!!! LETS YEARN AND STRUGGLE FOR GENUINE CONSTITUTIONAL AMENDMENTS. |
Politics / Re: I Dont Care What You Say, Igbos Are The Majority In Nigeria by afemai: 4:16pm On Jan 14, 2010 |
ITS ALL FUN READING YOU ALL ARGUE OVER WHO DOMINATES WHO! YEP AM A MINORITY AND WILL JUST KEEP READING YOU ALL TEARING YOURSELVES APART, WHILE I THINK OF HOW TO SURVIVE IN THIS CLIME OF UNCERTAINTY OUR COUNTRY IS!! |
Culture / Re: Nairaland Official Igbo, Hausa and Yoruba Dictionary by afemai: 3:59pm On Jan 14, 2010 |
1) Mi o mo yen - I DONT KNOW THAT 2) Se kana na u jones be dat one - 3) Ewo - (IF IN IGBO) A YELL!!! |
Career / Re: Oceanic Bank Sack Over 1500 Staffs In 30days by afemai: 3:49pm On Jan 14, 2010 |
This is January 2010, Osama was only an alarmist! Oceanic just like other banks are re-organising, downsizing and merging branches to cut overhead cost oceanic got a bailout just like other 5 banks did. depositors intrests are protected pls!!! |
Politics / Re: Pictures Of Protest In Abuja 12-01-2010(more pictures) by afemai: 5:44pm On Jan 13, 2010 |
As much as I disagree with Onwan using diatribes on the personalities of Falana and Soyinka and contributors of Nairaland I am in agreement with him when he wrote about their (Soyinka and Falana) motives. Falana made so much money working for Ribadu as EFCC lawyer at the instance of the then AG federation. Lack of patronage from Aondoakaa hence the hatred for the new AG (while not holding brief for Aondoakaa , Am no fan of ANY public servant in office since Obj to date). Soyinka know how past protests in Nigeria had not given desired results I want to believe that Tpia and I share in the patriotism of Monkeyleg, Gbawe, Londoner, Edoya and others who yearn for a better Nigeria but will agree that having these protests in London, Australia and New York will not change a bit of the ugly Nigeria situation I can only imagine how much of donor agencies’ funds has gone to private pockets, What we need is either a proper electoral reform. We should expend more energy in pushing these electoral reforms that will give us desired leaders those in the civil society know this very well and we have been lobbying for this and results are trickling in gradually (effective election will give desired leaders) only then will we weed out the “comedians” who parade themselves as distinguished and honourable weaklings. If we indeed have a virile national assembly Yar a Dua would have been impeached long ago or we wrestle the leadership through what beaf referred to as a ‘Sovereign National Conference’. |
Romance / Re: Ladies are Evil Hmm by afemai: 3:33pm On Jan 13, 2010 |
Your friend had better forgive her! she was only caught drinking and smoking not screwing!!! He shd remember SECOND CHANCE and not just dump and break her heart after more than 4yrs old sweet relationship with only a day smoking and drinking. lol!!! |
Events / Re: It's Mama Gee's Birthday Today, Pls Come In And Wish Her A Happy Birthday. by afemai: 3:00pm On Jan 13, 2010 |
As you celebrate your birthday today, His goodness and mercies shall follow u all the days of your life and you shall dwell in His bosom, Amen. Happy Birthday!!! |
Politics / Re: Is Nigeria Gradually Becoming A Failed State ? by afemai: 6:02pm On Jan 05, 2010 |
I have always said we are on a journey to Somalia which literally means a failed state. Nigeria cannot boast of anything our education has decayed , we can’t have decent housing, our health system is stagnant, roads in bad shapes, power non existing, we cannot feed ourselves, unemployment alarming, corrupt politicians ,we import virtually everything including clothing. we are indeed a failed state!!!! |
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: The Beer Parlour by afemai: 5:14pm On Jan 05, 2010 |
My broda that one bad oooo!!!druging her no still mean say you remove the maga. You go just thank God say U find out. Though the bobo wey tell you no try, he for no tell you. hence you no go think of revenge. |
Family / If You Have Done It B4 Then You Are A Monster! by afemai: 7:31pm On Jan 04, 2010 |
Hi my great NL folks. If you have for any reason whatsoever raised your hands to hit a woman before? then you are nothing but a MONSTER. there are one million and one ways to deal with a woman when she misbehaves without reaching out to HIT her. ONLY WEAK MEN HIT WOMEN. Please choose as applicable to your situation from the one million and one alternatives to beating. |
Romance / Re: One Night Stands by afemai: 6:38pm On Jan 04, 2010 |
Yep. I have had one. Whilst trying to woe her to have a relationship all she needed was a fling. Gave it to her and she won’t want anything to do with me ever again. I persisted but no way… the rest is history. |
Romance / Women: Do They Really Worth It? by afemai: 6:19pm On Jan 04, 2010 |
Coming out from a failed relationship (fault not mine), I came across this anonymous piece below by chance and reading it has influenced me greatly regarding how I relate with women afterwards, I have though refused to apply the forgiving part of it as prescribed. I still feel the writer has over protected the being called woman….what do you think? “I have been such a great lover of women all my life. I found out women are like the jelly fish! You need not add any seasoning to them you savor them as they are. I do disagree with my men folk when they say “women are the same” I believe every woman is bestowed with unique attributes because they are beautifully made by God. I hate it when men lie to them, deceive, beat, and keep a sizeable number of them at a time. All a man need to do is pamper her, understand her and forgive her almost at all times.” |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Obama Breaks Tradition by afemai: 4:52pm On Jan 04, 2010 |
“Obama Breaks Tradition” is not an appropriate topic here!! Obama has some African pedigree hence there is nothing wrong In showing the monarch some respect. Maybe he should not even shake hands Or hug anyone so he can “keep tradition” |
Politics / Re: Dele Momodu Quits Column Writing by afemai: 3:09pm On Jan 04, 2010 |
Dele Momodu is known for his appetite to "survive" like some other entrepreneurs would. The means he has chosen to do that has been his albatross till date, he has every reason to want to always defend himself whenever he feels malign by anyone via the internet and the print media, what I see in him is his petty desire to want to reply to every criticism, I guess he should employ someone like a media adviser to help him decide and sift what criticism requires a reply or not. He may also want to ask himself why the charade of criticism? I can bet he is not a controversial and spiteful person but very snooty to a fault as it reflects in his writeups and exhibited in his letter to Jarus. |
Politics / Re: Federal Republic Of South Nigeria by afemai: 9:54pm On Jan 03, 2010 |
As much as I agree that we have a debased, misnomer, deficient, treacherous, and perilous nation called Nigeria ,Publisher’s thread to me seems a comic relief…having read almost all the threads from that followed it I can only see the possibility of having a southern Nigeria as a mirage, the "quarrels" exhibited from the contributions to the thread between ONLYTRUTH and EmperorOlu on one hand and SEFAGO and DEDE1 on the other proved an interesting reading. Emperorolu need to have some respect for other contributors and not thrive in invectives same applies to Dede1 though Sefago was pretty ready with a beautiful reply. Please BEAF should never refer to Afemai as one of the smallest ethnic groups. your maps where great especially the one that depicted some semblance to Iraq, |
Politics / Re: Dele Momodu Takes A Jibe At Nairaland. by afemai: 7:39pm On Jan 03, 2010 |
Dele Momodu is known for his appetite to "survive" like some other entrepreneurs would. The means he has chosen to do that has been his albatross till date, he has every reason to want to always defend himself whenever he feels malign by anyone via the internet and the print media, what I see in him is his petty desire to want to reply to every criticism, I guess he should employ someone like a media adviser to help him decide and sift what criticism requires a reply or not. He may also want to ask himself why the charade of criticism? I can bet he is not a controversial and spiteful person but very snooty to a fault as it reflects in his writeups and exhibited in his letter to Jarus. |
Politics / Re: El-rufai Suspends Planned Return To Nigeria by afemai: 6:19pm On Dec 23, 2009 |
El rufai is a wise man. He dosent believe in the entire system. The courts he disobeyed their orders while demolishing houses he feels he cant get succour from them. The national assembly where he accused some members of corruption, and where he was petitioned, "tried" and found culpable not in absentia though, because his lawyers represented him. The executive (who controls the police and efcc ) he disparaged the president and his entire cabinet with diatribes and invectives well published globally. He should know he is in a great mess, let his deeds judge him by returning to prove pundits wrong of all allegations. Am sorry I dont see him coming out unscatched!!!! he better remain and keep his voluntary fugitive status alive. |
Politics / Re: Cecilia Ibru To Lose 28 Houses In Dubai by afemai: 5:11pm On Dec 23, 2009 |
We can readily see the need for alarmist headlines and stories to booost sales, These papers having deceived the populace during the june 12 imbroglio nay Abacha terror are in want of stories to publish, probably been better to close shop than to heat up the finanacial sector with such debauched story. |
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