₦airaland Forum

Emmawolex22:
The best thing to do is let your wife come home and relocate her father abroad without the guy knowing,that will settled the issue of billing

badmusatari:
I was convinced by a topic on this thread https://www.nairaland.com/6433385/how-saved-brother-marrying-into/1

I went to Nigeria to bring my wife some years agom ever since we arrived it has always been money, money, materials, materials especially money. At some point my wife accused me of trying to separate her from her siblings. I told her that a time is coming she will be begging me to help her stop them. It has happened and is now happening. As a matter of fact I even brought her dad for a visit from Nigeria. Her dad was a God fearing person but the moment he started living with his oldest shameless and jobless son he has been brainwashed that her daughter and her husband owe them especially me. It's always about money, money, money. The oldest son is a jobless and shameless irresponsible man that impregnated a woman and they now have four kids. I have even got a job for him from here but he refused to go and work there in Nigeria.

Not minding the fact that he even have other siblings in abroad. One of those in abroad is always in support of this stupid irresponsible oldest guy but the other one is a very intelligent person and knows the whole truth.

If you send money to the dad now trust me he will request another in less than a week which obviously the irresponsible was the one telling the dad what to say. There was no time my wife or me or we call the dad that the irresponsible will not pretend he's not there but will put the phone on speaker so he can listen to our concert with the dad. All he's doing is yahoo and Yahoo. The second born there with him is a little bit fair but they all the same.

They always have this strong believe that their sister who is my wife owe them because they always says they took care of her. This is one of the reasons their sister who is my wife and the other siblings in abroad are yet to build a house for their dad. The oldest irresponsible always cause trouble, tell lies and create issues that the dad will be telling his children abroad that he's gonna curse them if they don't build house for him or send certain mount on so so so date. I am really tired and confused. Enough is enough because I also have my own family to look after. Even a bike I never buy sef.

I am beginning to regret getting married in the first place. I love my wife and we have been together for over a decade and half even before we get married. But my wife is now their enemy because she always turn them down now. Infarct of I mention the irresponsible man's name or talk about se don't a penny to them she will go mad for days. Everythinf about them is money, money, money, build house for our dad, etc. The guy is now a yahoo + man over 40 yrs with no future and still unambitious.

My wife and I have wasted a lot of money on his travelling but he doesn't even care. Imagine all the siblings in abroad have been sending money for their dad's house rent only for the landlord to tell us that this guy's has never paid a kobo for almost two years. All he's about is to drink fvck and club.. very dirty hungry looking guy. They never appreciate anything indo for them, instead it's always more more and more. There was a time this guy tried to fight me but I just ignored him.and since then I never talk to him again till now. But they are bullying my wife emotionally that she cries almost everyday now uptill this morning when I asked her what happened and she told me that her brother the irresponsible man sent a nasty message to her.

But the other ones in another will always tell her that she and them need to take care of their dad and must send him money regardless of who highjack it as long as God knows they did the right thing, please how does this make sense? I need opinion on this in particular. How could you be sending money to the dad when you know that the idiot is the one that will collect and spend the money because he's with the dad's ATM card? Does that make sense?

I only pity one of the two siblings in another country that always support him and that one's wife have started complaining to my wife too because they gist a lot.

Sad

tunjiajayi:
By force?
Or how?
Who and who in unity?
Ibos and Yorubas?
Forget it, dead.
The average Yoruba man would rather align. With the north rather than the east.
This is a fact of oblivious to the Igbos imagining a west and east alliance.
The rife between the Yoruba and Hausa is transient, but that between the Yoruba and Igbo is consistent and continual.
This reason is why the presidential quest of the Igbo is always truncated.

Igbos have issues with Yorubas and hausas, as is evident of the by history and infact the present day.

We split we split for real and for good.

Dasuks:
The areas you mentioned are subsistence sufficient and export food items to Nigeria. Those markets are also less than a fifth of southern Nigeria's. Niger as a whole net exports livestock n food to northern Nigeria. Niger's entire Gdp is 10 bnl USD. The south's food bill alone is $5 bln Usd.

Pls stop deceiving ur self. And northern Camr is a dead region. Far North province exports down to Central (Yaounde) and South to Douala, Kribi etc. The actual Usd value of food bills across Cmr BFaso Niger and Chad is less than 600 mln USD. And in none of these networks are inputs or produce from Northern Nigeria used.

All the countries you mentioned feature 70 plus percent poverty rates and are classified as LIFD (low income food deficient) because tho they are subsistence, they cannot pay for high value fiber or proteins...... so I dont know where you got your so called conclusions from.

Mohammedoba36:
Unfortunately the oil money belong to All Nigerians, and FFK doesn't have oil to stop it from coming to north, and Northerners uses Niger republic refine oil than the one from outside Nigeria.

Juliusmalema:
FFK....Reactance.....Reno.... Capacitance.

This issue of south and north is a case of Stupidity taken too far.

Benue transporting their foodstuffs to different states, are they not northern state? Same as Taraba and good people of plateau state.

What I read is that north blocked transportation of food to South west after their union had a meeting.

Is South west now the new name for South If we may ask?

They blocked their foodstuff, if you have oil block it from reaching them than shouting south up and down and dragging others enjoying relative peace to a communique that has nothing to do with them...

Stop wasting time Reacting , turn off the valve of the oil than shouting South to other regions who are sleeping against tomorrow's Sunday service because the gate of hell will never prevail against the church.

Igboarecriminal:
Shekau and Gumi are not your mates small brown roof thug

Igboarecriminal:
Her father Robert is a good Christian but somehow Satan took over his family, especially kim she tried many stupid things to get attention, until she tried porn. The film Get out" is about Kanye, he is afraid kim will use their children for child porn, she may have already did it. The Big cults they joined is about worshipping Satan engaging in Child porn, LGBTQ, BDSM, killing innocent people, drinking their blood and some nasty stuff, for fame, money, power. Not the stupid types cult in Nigeria where most of them are deadbeat, poor drug addicts. Kim, Kanye, kim's family, their friends thy all have sold their sold. Non of them will die in peace. IPOB terrorist and some stupid brown roof republic are all into Devil worshipping. The Devil takes and takes until they die and suffer internal fire. Righteousness preach to your people let them stop signing contract with the Devil.

OOzz:
This guy thebosstrevor1 is so so daft.
I don't know between him and Buhari who daft pass

thebosstrevor1:
Most of you are like sheeps, you only obey who online media and influencers say you should hate. You are all robot, a man made unthinking machine.

Today, the media says hate Fulani herdmen, you start hating, tomorrow, if the media says hate igala people, your energy and focus will be on igala people. You keep changing goal post until you are exhausted. You are just a good candidate for all these social media challenges created to check compliance of the masses.

Most of you have never encountered a fulani man or herdman who is fulani, the only reason you know about fulanis is because the president is fulani. If i am wrong, tell us the number of times, you have seen a cow on the street especially in the south, the only places, you guys see cows on the street are on social media.

Most of you are just brainwashed, you are on the palm and fingertips of online media and influencers, they know you can't think for yourself neither can you act or take intiative except on their command. You are their puppet, they move you to any direction they want because they have power of you. Most of you keep waiting for the next violence inciting press release and articles to channel your frustration on those the writer says you should.

You can't be leaders, if you can't think for yourself or act by yourself, i promise those brainwashed machines will still abuse this post.

The reality is that, You are just a compliance machine for the media.

Ibrahimmrfish:
The same way a Yoruba man killed a boy last year in Minna,but yet not a single Southerner was killed for his action. P.S,i am not a hausa man,it is clear that you are just a miserable soul.He if we think like you and decide to blame other southern s for what a single person act,do you think millions of you will be safe in the north.

khalling2008:
infact, I have paid for the market and paid for the transport down south.
this is the time our leaders should come together and have plan b because by the next week things will go up, our farmers has been sent away from farm by fulanis, the next option now is through boarder,

Ibrahimmrfish:
The question is,why kill any northern? Last time i checked, Hausa,Nupe,Gwari are also victims of Fulani. why can the south restrict their reprisals to the people that are actually responsible? If the north decide to go on reprisal, do you guys have any idea the number of southerns in Niger, Abuja,Kaduna, Kano,Sokoto?

HopeVictor:
Make them remain there till the foods spoil...

sammyj:
This is the joke of the year. You keep on leading them on with one hand and boasting not to socom to them without any disciplinary action with the other hand. The Monsters you guys created over the years has finally come back to hunt you right in the face. The president should better put his house in order and flush out this so called criminals before they come rampaging the Villa in Abuja!!!

NwaAamaikpe:





This type of well-trained guys are rare.
The type that have been brainwashed to accept the faulty cliché that a real man must never put a lady in her place even when the situation calls for it.

This is the omega-male type that will rather watch a lady stab him than lay a finger on her in self defence.

He should please apologize to her for hiding the knives from her in the heat of her rage.
He should also ask her to forgive him for not giving her his other ear to 'panel-beat'.

He,should then take a loan and buy another TV set and IPhone to present to her for destruction as a proof of his repentance.

Every man needs a woman who loves and worships him. One who will never want to share or let them go.
So if an ordinary girlfriend loved him this much to go ballistic just because she found out he was cheating then he needs her in his life as his wife.

She is his wife material and he is our posterboy of a blackpantherxxx of a SIMPle mistake of a male.

.

sammyj:
.......

sammyj:
Say wetin you wan do about am. Ti mio ba gbe enu soun omo alaileko jati jati yi i!!!

sammyj:
why are you so pained about this matter

okosodo:
They will surely take edo

Yves4real:
I don't know what happened at Idogbo but I heard that Sapele road. A motorcycle belonging to one of the Hausa's rider was stolen and the Hausa riders went on a killing spree. They even burnt some people which wasn't reported.
Edo (bini) guys are mad o. Even their men (old and young) are not left out especially what they did after some fulani herdsmen terrorists killed some vigilante members as well as a couple at Orhionmwon..

faste:
Ipod the only formidable southern resistance army...no one else!

sammyj:
I thought the governor of Edo want to play the good boy and pledged his allegiance to the President for assisting him win Edo election. I hope the cock has finally come home to roost. Hopefully him go talk las las!!