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voodoo85:
I wont argue with bcs i see u have no clue what u r talking and it would take a lot of typing to explain u about quolitative studies and why they r reliable and i dont have time for that.

u knew u are brain dead and could not argue with me yet u started a conversation. woman pack well. not in d mood

tociano009:
na wa o why most naija girls behave like this, what is the meaning of you are not interested, I never tell you that I love you ....what of if I now tell you I want to marry you nko.......I have a girlfriend here she is from italian and she was carrying my baby in her womb now, I just like friend ship with people thats all, even if u see me on Facebook you will see the kind of person I am....

i've always known dis besides I don't make friends with guys who have baby mamas but here

AfricanApple:
yes jare, I won't mind jealous people
liars
deceivers
poke nosers

goofyuncut:
Kinda agree with most things summarised here, except of course



...and not in terms of se.x.

A great percentage of women actually mean "yes" when they say "no", and that can inform a man's insistence. That men extend it to se.x is certainly their (the men's) fault. However, women need to change that general perception of hesitation when deal or interact with men.

that's not true, this is where you guys get it wrong. if she eventually says yes to something she has been saying no, it doesnt mean that she didn't mean the no. we can always change our minds.

I could remember one guy on this forum long time ago, that requested to send me pm, I told him not to do it, and I meant it, amidst the guy's persistent something occurred that made me finally agreed

one thing is that, whether a person means it or not, what she/he told u is what u should respect, especially when it comes to sex. if what the person want is to say yes and she say no, she is definitely gonna be a loosed, not your own cup if tea.




let people who live in denial face the consequences of if

Chiamaka01:
Using 'Nigerian men' and 'romantic' in the same sentence is a grammatical blunder. Op, take note.

haba sis

naija dudes are romantic o

chimerase2:
shey wa fe mi?

after all those insults in the past

harrysterol:
yeah am seeing one in u, no mind dem jealousy pple er u knw how we do

yes jare, I won't mind jealous people
liars
deceivers
poke nosers

tociano009:
check me on Facebook. ...Name .oluwa tee keyz

sorry not interested

Sexual violence/ rape is one of the scariest aspects of sexual pervasion. The UN General Assembly 1993 defined violence against women as any act of gender based violence that or is likely to result in physical, social or psychological harm including threats, coercion or arbitrary deprivation whether in public or private life.
There are different types of rape: date, acquaintance and marital rape, rape by strangers and gang rape.

AfricanApple:
There are lots of misconception about rape which if the facts are not known to possible victims, the devils will keep having their ways. Guys don't be lazy to read this, it just might help you in knowing how to save yourself against such situations

These are some of  the myths and facts of sexual violence

MYTH: rape victims are guilty of fornications

FACT: rape by definition takes place when force or threat is used to gain sexual penetration of any kind whatsoever, against a person's will. When a woman is forced to submit to a rapist out of terror or disorientation, it does not mean she consented to the act. Consent is based on choice.

MYTH: there is a misconception that rape is provoked by the victim and that a woman can ask to be raped wearing provocative clothing, letting a man pay her way or going to his home

FACT: the way a woman dresses do not give a man the right to force a woman to do something she does not want in reality. Being naive and ignorant does not mean a woman deserves to be raped. Rapists bear sole responsibility for the rape

MYTH: all rapists are not normal, they are maniacs, monsters and sick

FACT: many rapists have steady jobs and consensual relationship with wives, and girlfriends. Rapists are not loners they are capable of forming relationships and leading normal lives

MYTH: it is only strangers in the dark that are raped

FACTS: surveys indicate that about 60% of rapists are known to their victims

MYTH: if a person spends a lot of money on the opposite sex, he/she has right to have sex with the person

FACT: if a man buys you something, its his choice, you do not owe him a damn thing, least of all SEX

MYTH: women mean 'yes' when they say 'no'

FACT: when a woman says no she means no. There is no excuse for disregarding a woman's "no' to sex. If she wanted it, she would not allow herself to be coerced, forced or raped

MYTH: only beautiful women in mini skirts are raped

FACT: rapists choose their victim without regards to physical appearance. The victims are young and old, male and female, married and singles

MYTH: the victim could have stopped the rape

FACT: most rapists use their advantage to prevent victims from resisting successfully. They often threaten victims with weapons, termination of employment, loss of valuable belongings and harm to their children and their loved ones

Extracted from:
Stemming the tide of sexual violence/rape in our society by Oforune Endurance

VickyyB:
But bad boys are attractive.
I hope to find non-bullies.

bad boys are never attractive to me. unless u have a diff definition of bad

I hope so too, but mehn! hope and reality are not the same o, we gotta shine our eyes

they have come again o!!! they have come again. wetin we won carry this one do na, make we start to dey date ibo men?

post of the day. nice one op

Ipledge:
Guys lieing to girls since the time of Adam and Apple eve

harrysterol:
this ur eyes reminds me of angels on earth

bro, why u too dey lie like this
have u ever seen an angel

tociano009:
Naija girls too get bad mouth, Germany wey dey Ajegunl.....na wa for uooo......I am not fake and I can never lie of my identity

I no mean to spoil your market sha. I know say u be correct original, tokunbo, tear leather

tociano009:
how far

what are u measuring

EnlightenedSoul:
That's nice and short. I like it.

yeah, and d language is easy to learn

bully ke, u will not know the day devil will enter him and the bullying gets to the next level, the next place you will see yourself is heaven in front of god asking u how manytimes have u been doing on earth

Mprex:
its very simple. Get a lime, slice it in half. Sprinkle a good amount of sugar on the surface and scrub the affected areas with it. Carry it for 8-12mins before washing it off. Dont go out in the sun with it. Preferably, you do it in the morning before your shower. Once every two days will be ok. You will see results in 2 weeks

are u still using it or its gone forever

I'm always comfortable with it
Gosh! they are very fast










kingtom, do u want to be an hairdresser?

pussyeater:
So u can fit go rob him abi?

EnlightenedSoul:
Subah wanaagsan. How about you?

you know I'm Yoruba
u say Ekaaro - - for anybody that senior you

Kaaro for your age mate and younger or junior ones

kandiikane:
There are black British (those who were born there or were given citizenship) but there is no black English.
British=nationality-this is what he should have said.
english=ethnicity

lolzzzz true. on a second thought, he maybe one of those I school in France guys

voodoo85:
these facts r copied from website i don't remember which, but I've read this before. however u r blabla how its not true, but research showed that black women get least attention in mixed public dating sites among other races

I'm well aware that they are copied from a website. but tell me, does that make them facts? does anything posted on the web automatically makes it true?

have u sit to think that the whites will always want the world to view them as the master they think they are? anything goes on the internet, you shouldn't always rush to believe them, give them some benefits of doubts, else they will always squeeze u inside bottle and lock it

they say they carried out a survey, we don't the people that did it, we don't know where they did it, we don't know the people they used as case study. robots are real u know

chimerase2:
no nah I dey mad

thank God say u know, psychiatry na ur next destination

Cholls:
my sister a 20 year old girl is still a small girl in our society.

the funny but annoying thing is that, 5years later she is expected to have been married




naija sha!!!!

chimerase2:
sombori is pained

pained that what








you this chimerase can so give trouble

samflexxy:
hahahaha pls be nice nah he's new and his looking for friends so I summoned you here
No ves ma

lolzzzz u can't be sure of that. trolls just yapa for here


all those pple u mentioned will now be spamming my mentions unnecessarily

op, I need to give u one Apple for this post nice write up



u will see a Lady of 20 still depends solely on her parent even when she is not in school



most often parents try to be overprotective of their female children, robbing them the chance to know what reality is at early stage.
the irony is that no matter how long a woman is been harbored she must face reality. but it will be bad when its too late to start learning how to live in it



people!!!! we should learn to save an umbrella for the rainy days

all I can say is eya

kristein:
1000likes for u bro. xpecially ur statement"a product of someones imagination is not an attractive prospect for me"..
how will reasonable creative literate b more focussed on fiction dt is written by an ordinary individual lyk me? ..I dnt find it attractive too,becoz i knw we share d same mentality and medulla(the author and I)..sm thin i can sit down nd write mysef..why d hell wil i b stressin ma sef on stories made by anoda individual juz lyk me..I prefer smthin educative,creative and moral nd nt juz entertainment..
my man..it seems we shared d same mentality..kudos!

hmmmmmmmmmmmm