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justwise:
If u do all that without sex. . .i don't see how the rela/ship will survive.

Sure it will. . . Like I said majority won't agree to this

They're fun to read. . . Why?

Spies are hot!!!

Sex doesn't really spice up a relationship. Communication and understanding couple with love does. But I know 90% people will not agree with this.

cutieisme:
thanks for all the advise, i actually end up giving her TF , why, when i was going through the pain, out of anoyance i went on facebook and paste alot of poo there, what we both went through, she was a virgin when i met her, i broke her virginity, so how do i know she is going to be a bad girl , how do i know a good girl incase i end the relationship with her becus when she went on her facebook and saw what i posted on there, i was away in bank when i saw i text I WILL KILLL MYSELF IN YOUR HOUSE, i thought she was joking but when i got home she has drank hair relaxer and was rolling on the flow, i had to quickly give her palmoil first then i took her to a chemest near my house for treatment and when we got back home she was begging me she is sorry that i shouldnt i gone that far to do the facebook poo, i was deciding what to do then i said ok have heard so i took her to do her hair and took her out to eatry i did that to cool her mind down cus if i had not come early and she end up dieing in my house then by now i will be counting how long am going to stay in jail, her family and friends in school and her sister who is a close friend to me knows everything about us infact is she is not at home .they call me to find out where is can be and i have been able to predict and locate her, so there is no way i can escape jail if she had died in my house, she said she is not worthy that she knew it will remain in my heart and that i will never forget even if i forgive her, so should i doshe still want me and i still love her so much, but am confused, should i just let go and move forward, my grandma told me if you dont have ability to take your eyes away from some things that women do then you will never get married cus you aint a man, is that true ?already i feel like letting go but i my heart is still with her, and if you suggest i leave how do i know good girl next time i found someone since i met this one a virgin and she still did what she did, and the same thing was what my ex told me , i am not worthy of you before we broke up, is it just me or have been too nice to this ladies??please am confused, i need advise, hones one please

Don't hang your dirty boxers outside. . . What is wrong with you? Must you post every shit online cos you're pissed? Just cos she did that to you doesn't mean you'll tint her image for someone else. . . Gosh!!! I think d problem is you! Check yourself well!!! And listen to your grandma.

Mr_Orton:
Ok-good-to-know, Thanks for the understanding.  
Have a nice weekend darling  

You too. . .

Mr_Orton:
Ok-good-to-know, Thanks for the understanding.
Have a nice weekend darling

You too. . .

Mr_Orton:
Aq, don't it twisted babe,
I meant your comment and not you, so stop hurting

I'm not hurting. . . Am just saying

Whatsapp users pls drop your contacts on my mail for a cool decent chat. . . ruth2sexy@yahoo.com

skyone:
i can now say "sorry love" cos in your other post you sound very intelligent

Its ok but we're not here to dictate who's dumb or intelligent. There's freedom of expressing one's feelings and opinion. You can't say cos yours is wiser you'll have to undermine d other person words. No advice is lost or stupid. . . Pls do not underrate people. It doesn't apply to just you but to others who do

skyone:
God bless u jare Orton, i was even expecting something more sensible i know say na rubbish she drop

I don't know what to say to you. . .

I personally will be angry for his lies, kids are gifted treasures that cannot be hidden and they have their own blessings. I'll be angry cos I'll feel you don't trust me enough to take care of your treasures in d 1st place so I'll keep wondering what other things you'll be hiding. I'll be angry cos you lied and I might be a little jealous cos you've got treasures that'll always come 1st. If your friend really love his kids his 1st fear should not be if she'll leave him, it should be if she's good enough for his kids. But if I really love a guy and he hides stuff like that from me I might forgive him cos I know d value of kids no matter from which womb de came from. . .

livedit:
It seems to me that you do care for "Plan A" more than you do for "Plan B".  From reading your post, outside of you telling us that "Plan B" loves you, you haven't said anything else positive about her.  The simple fact that you haven't told "Plan A" about "Plan B" shows you are sparing her feelings.  Frankly, "Plan A" sounds like she has alot going for her. I'm basing this on all the positive things you've said about "Plan A".  Then too, you did include that you loved "Plan A" so much and that you loved "Plan B".  So your emotions appears to be deeper towards "Plan A" than "Plan B".  

Have you prayed and asked God for wisdom and guidance with this situation? Maybe you need to ask yourself some questions; when you are with either girl, how do they make you feel inside when you're spending quality time together?  Putting aside their feelings, which one have more in common with you?  What attributes do you find more appealing and similiar to yours?  Which one have the qualities you are seeking that you can actually see yourself with in the long run?  

You never mentioned how long you've been dating the two women.  To me, "Plan B" seems like she is more of a "back-up" on BOTH of your sides.  Who's to say once someone else comes along that "Plan B" finds more interesting that she won't leave you again?  With that being said, she has proven not to be trustworthy.  The decision IS your's, and you do need to make a decision and stick with it.  Don't be double-minded. Because the bible says: a double-minded man is unstable in ALL his ways.  So you seriously need to pray and seek God on this one.  But to me, "Plan A" sounds like the winner.  But again, that's just livedit's opinion.

Your comment make brain die. . .

@post.
Just try and gain confidence for yourself just cos plan A is older doesn't mean she's powerful, she's human too. We can't decide for you who to follow cos you wear d shoes. . . Just take your time and decide and pray always.

koolchicco:
Hmm, Is dude a gi[i]g[/i]olo?

Lol. . . Maybe. If that's d lie I'll say he deserves it. . . Why follow woman cos of money

For starters she made mistake by accepting his expensive gifts. What you don't eat you don't share with your teeth. Second mistake was honouring his invitation, she should be smart enough to smell d rat being alone wit a man in his apartment is saying sweetheart do whatever you want with me. Now d deed is done. She can't just say I want it to end and expects d guy to say yes. She got HAVE to QUIT. As for her husband not everything a woman does a man has to know after all men are worst cheaters. She could hide it if she can but if her so called boss tries to blackmail her with it she should not hesitate to tell her husband. It is better he hears it from her 1st.
People make mistakes everyday the wise should learn from other people's mistakes not wait and have an experience 1st.
Bible book of proverbs said shrewd is the ond that see d calamity in front and proceed to conceal itself. In dis case she saw d calamity and walk through it. . .

WackyJ1:
No the installer can only be installed in hacked phones and C5 cannot be hacked by helloOX( there are other ways but helloOX is the easiest).

What other ways pls

Does N-gage installer work for nokia C5?

Woke4all:
I trust

Before!

I see nothing wrong in what she did. Having someone call me aunty when am not related to d person makes me somehow old. Am sure that's why she told you to stop. Sometimes its kinda embarrassing. . . Mostly when you're among friends

This no be news na. I follow up reach one level na d person run na. You wan scam 9ja babe. . . Mcheeeeeew.

tngtech:
Called her and we discussed and she told me that because of my jealousy i would have lost her last nite, that during her coming out to answer my call she was approached by a guy and they guy almost take her to his house if not because of how she was brought up. what does that mean, does it mean that i can nothing without her or what and she also said that my jealousy is just too much. So i apologize to her and also to her sister and her sister convince me that she didn't do anything silly that they both including her husband went to the party together that i have nothing to worry about.


Anyway she didn't talk about breaking up with me thought but what does she mean by "i would have lost her".

you sef, must you read in between d line? D girl nice sef. Anyway just be cool and try to control you emotions you re a man.

omega25red:
^^ dude why are you actting like you are inexperienced when it comes to dating? that talk was all the anger she was feeling. just let it go and enjoy your relationship and try to cool down before you start over reacting again because there is nothing hate more than having a guy show that he doesn't trust her especially when she is being good.

Obviously he's inexperienced.

tngtech:
Called her and we discussed and she told me that because of my jealousy i would have lost her last nite, that during her coming out to answer my call she was approached by a guy and they guy almost take her to his house if not because of how she was brought up. what does that mean, does it mean that i can nothing without her or what and she also said that my jealousy is just too much. So i apologize to her and also to her sister and her sister convince me that she didn't do anything silly that they both including her husband went to the party together that i have nothing to worry about.


Anyway she didn't talk about breaking up with me thought but what does she mean by "i would have lost her".

you sef, must you read in between d line? D girl nice sef. Anyway just be cool and try to control you emotions you re a man.

vertexroya:
Hmmm Nurabela, don't post any body's picture or video on the net without his or her consent,
You can start something that you'll never be able to finish.

True talk.
1St to do e no de pain, 2nd to do e eye go red but 3rd to do? Trust me you don't wanna know.
Just forget d babe jor and grow up.
I always tell people if you get your heart broken cry a river, build a bridge and get over it. Never get sad on what could have been, be happy you once had it.

I prefer none cos I'll lose him all d same. But cheating is preferable though. . . Once loved is always loved.

If your guy cheat on You, cheat on him back. Do me I do you man no go vex.

I just updated my nokia C5 and am loving it. . . How'd you see it? Think there's room for improvement?

tngtech:
the truth about the matter is that i just can't stop thinking otherwise, what should i do, and besides she just told me that by 8pm she is going to pour out everything that is in her mind towards me. Am scared, what if she says she is not more interested in the relationship again, what should i do?

Hmmmmmm. . . Just listen to what she got to say and don't try to prove Mr right.

omega25red:
i dont think that will happen if she was going to do that she would have told you when she picked up. she simply will express her anger and you have to take it like a man and smooth things over not by blaming her because she didnt do anything wrong.

My dear its possible she's gonna break up. Not all girls are cruel enough to break up on phones. But am sure she won't break up with him sha. Like you said she'll just vent her angers out.

tngtech:
just called her now and she said she @ a hospital to see a friend when she told me that she don't know anybody where she is except her sister.

Does that mean she's still there? What if the person is her sist friend? You're feeling insecure and its not good at all. . . Just chill.

You gotta swallow your pride and call her. Tell her your mind in a mild way and give a chance to tell you her mind. Don't pressure her or give her d 3rd degree.

When you want to start a new relationship that should be d 1st question. . . Hey are you AS? Just don't be too desperate and make a life time mistake