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Just becareful in whatever you do. Not all that glitters are gold

U put her name up here? Damn!!! U re so immature no wonder she complains

Lol she's a baby

Too bad. . . Never trust a stranger mostly the beautiful ones

Put things on hold and watch closely. If she dates married men for money what makes u think she'll stick to through thick and thin? Be
careful

Talk to the said best man as a guy, tell him u feel uncomfortable using him as best man but u don't want to hurt ur fiancee's feeling. If he's a mature and civilised guy he'll refuse the offer of best man to ur fiancee. If not still don't use him. Explain gently to ur fiancee she may fuss but she'll come arround. Find another useful role for her said best friend

Tell me u didn't enjoy it too. . . . Anyway since u don't have enough power to do her again. . . Avoid her. . . One last time means alot and it also means ur last time ever if u know wat I mean. . . Tell ur fiancee abt her and pray hard. . . Sex addict will do anything to get satisfied. . .

Too bad he died over something so stupid and meaniless

Exhaust all ur options. . . The final thing to do is walk and take charge of ur life and dat of ur baby. . . He's not worth crying for. . . Its not easy but its worse that could happen. . .

Majority Nigerian men think their wives are witches. . . That doesn't mean they re evil. . . Its just a common phrase they use

I wish God gave us the power to read minds then we would've known why she really came back. 2m is not a big deal cos people blow it away in a min for fun. . . She might ve been looking for a way to contact him and saw his pic on papers and trace him from there or she might be really cheap to come for the 2m. . . We'll never really know

So long as we love each other. . . Age doesn't matter

Those are fiction jo

Sanja:
We have already decided to split up. We have given our relationship so many "last chances", but it seems like it is not working out! We are even going to couples counselling now, but don't know if it helps. The problem is that my man is treathning me by saying that he will make sure that our son is going to be with only him in the future.

He doesnt have much money (but he is not poor either), but he has contacts and much people that are willing to do obey everything he says. Therefore I am scared of what would happen if we get divorced and he wants to take our son to Nigeria.


He is 1 year old. We both care very much for him and would never hurt him! My husband cares so much for the boy that he can do or say whatever mean things to me when he is worried for the child.
But our quarrels probably hurts the child in a psychological way. Not nice to hear ones parents screem at each other.

Well its not over untill its over. . . One thing I know for sure is Nigerians either male nor female we don't leave our own behind. . . Just be wise in ur doings. . .

Sanja:
We have already decided to split up. We have given our relationship so many "last chances", but it seems like it is not working out! We are even going to couples counselling now, but don't know if it helps. The problem is that my man is treathning me by saying that he will make sure that our son is going to be with only him in the future.

He doesnt have much money (but he is not poor either), but he has contacts and much people that are willing to do obey everything he says. Therefore I am scared of what would happen if we get divorced and he wants to take our son to Nigeria.


He is 1 year old. We both care very much for him and would never hurt him! My husband cares so much for the boy that he can do or say whatever mean things to me when he is worried for the child.
But our quarrels probably hurts the child in a psychological way. Not nice to hear ones parents screem at each other.

Well its not over untill its over. . . One thing I know for sure is Nigerians either male nor female we don't leave our own behind. . . Just be wise in ur doings. . .

Loveaflame:
Blood covenant is the invocation of higher power to stand as a witness to the terms of agreement between two or more parties wether the agreement is in written form or spoken form.

The parties who entered into such are bound to the terms of the agreement no matter what happens.Such can only be broken by the consent of both parties but never one of them.

Those who enter into such use their blood as a medium of contact with this higher power.Blood stands for life.When the two lovers drink or lick each others blood it meanns they have offered themselves(lives) up to the power for control.As such the power invoked during the process has been given a legal ground to uphold the tenets of the covenant.Also to punish whoever breaks the term of the covenant.

When entered into no matter what the other partner does as long as it doesn't violate the terms of the covenant despite the vices or bad attitudes you can not break away from such a covenant less you face the consequence which in some cases have resulted to madness,accident,sudden death,incurable sickness,barrennesse.t.c.

The only way it can be broken is by going to seek the help of spiritual gurus and I recomend Jesus Christ the greatest of them all and the most powerful.He alone can break such when you repent and commit your life to him.Good luck.

Couldn't ve said it any better

kosi.man:
I ask this question because i love this girl(27) and she is all a man can dream of, slim and beautiful, she is very organised, b/4 now i do not have much savings because of friends (love entertainning) when i met her she stoped most of these things and my friends hated her for that. She shaped my life for good and now i can save 70% of my income. the only thing is that she has a child outside wedlock 4 a married man (unknowingly) she refused to be the 2nd wife and went on with her life.

She didn't hide it from me, i'm thinking of sticking to her but my friends  says she is a 2nd hand and i shld go for new one (my girl b4 i met this girl). My mum dnt like her either.

But she is like a mother to me and i love her, I'm just confused on how to carry on. what do i do?

sweetie ur friends don't like her in the 1st place what makes u think they'll advice u to marry her? I understand ur mother's concern but she's not going to stay wit u in ur matrimonial home if u decide to marry her. . . Nobody is going to make the decision for u cos nobody is going to bear the brunt of ur decision just you. . . U wear d shoe u know how it fits. . . For me though I see nothing wrong wit her.

Onchedu:
U make it sound like she was used. He didn't bleep her. They bleeped each other. abi na despoil?

Wait o, is that what those girls that lie down like log are doing when they're getting bleeped? Preserving a case for their consciences should things go wrong? "he did it to me I didnt do anything"

Onchedu:
And what case are U making here? that cos a boy is responsible for the pregnancy then the masculine gender should volunteer to redeem their image by donating any boy to care for the child?

Don't get me wrong. . . I'm just saying she's human and she deserves better too. . . Just cos she have a child doesn't mean she'll less. . . She may even be better than those so could new goods (girls without a child). . . It just depends on the guy dating the girl

Hmmm