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LaShawn:
Thanks, agaba. I apreciate that. Check my original comment 2 u, I modified it. Thank you.

Well the addendum only adds to what we are saying. He is obsessive and a bully. I do not think any right thinking woman will go with such.

Relationship is not prison in as much as one is expected to have limits. At least your partner no suppose be your police

I can assure you that your marriage will be doomed before you say I do or he will make your life more miserable than it already.
Walk!

babs2011:
^ eeyah pele. you wipe those tears from your eyes, will ave a word 

@ Gen: haba, why now Gen wetin Agaba do you??  abeg pls no ignore him again so he will stop crying 

@ agaba, yah thats no excuse really,  but all the best 

Good girl !

LaShawn:
@agaba
Well, i lied because smtyms, truth hurts. I just wantd peace to reign, you know. I dont make lieing a habit.
The guy I called is just a friend and he got marrid to his girl a few days ago.
He calls guyfriends in my phone book to berate and threaten them, then lies that it must be someone else who did that. When I attended a wedding alone and got some pictures taken, on viewing them, i became scared when I saw that a guy was beside me in one of the pic. I hadnt noticd during the snapshot. I considered tearing it so that there won't be an interrogation; who is he? Did he attend with you? You're a liar! Getout!!
I later hid it, cos I really luked lovely and  I cherish pictures alot.
So you can see, its not been easy. Is that how I wil live my life?

If you want to leave him, you have enough support including mine that does not mean that I won't tell you that you lied. I understand that his attitude is the reason for the so that peace will reign, the same attitude is the reason why you should leave and call it a day.

Those who beg you will not live with him. You will! And i am sure the family knows his kind of person and are seriously trying to get someone to stay with him which is why they beg you on his behalf. Run

But if you still want the seasonal caring and love, then stay but be assured that it will be different across the bridge. The seasonal love and care may become a blue moon occurrence. Good luck with your decision.

He tries to reipe you now that you are not married, when you get married, he will reipe you when you are not in the mood

He calls you slut now that you are not married, when you get married he will call you a prostitute


His attitude got worse with better job, if perchance he loses his job, he will blame it on you and life will be unbearable for you

He monitors you which means he does not trust you, after marriage, he will imprison you because he is possessive.

Your telling lies does not help matters any way

Summary, if you were my sister and I know this, you won't get married to psycho.

babs2011:
Friday 27th May

Exercise: Day 10 - JM Ripped in 30 dvd (yay! week 2 completed )

Food:

Bowl of cereal with milk.
Pasta with olives, green salad.
Fruit salad - strawberries, mango and guava.
2 slices bread and peanut butter.
1 slice of cake
3 ltrs of water.

Sup everyone! it seems rather quiet on here,

@Agaba you've been M.I.A, hope you're alright?

Have a good weekend all.

Yea because General nutlover has refused to talk to me

[size=4pt]Writing a professional exam tomorrow, my excuse sha[/size]

Good move if they are not just looking for committee positions with their agitation.

Ref na Hungarian

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Only 2 people left? A call to serve!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Two more slots.

MAKE A DIFFERENCE!

Let's move from knowing the problem to solving the problem

mikeywise:
am interested, count me in.

That's 4 of us thanks

2 slots for grabs remaining!!!!!!!!!!

mynaija123:
To we all dat ate[b] Nasco wafers[/b], gogo,enjoyed M &K,drank Tandi n green sands,knew when eleganza biro was sold for less than N1.00 and pepsi was N1.50 or less,ate Okin Biscuit, did the "flex" and "butterfly" dance,watched Cadbury breakfast show,sat anxiously at our tv sets by 4pm for Voltron,i say, Happy Children's day=D n to those dat didn't,pls meet me @ 6.30 for tales by moonlight.

I will still rush them if I see them now

I remember one children's day very vividly. I have ironed my blue and white uniform very well and was on my way to the LGA. Normally it rains on the 27th unfailingly. About a kilometer away from my house, a car drove past me and splashed my white with potopoto (mud water). I was so annoyed and I had to go back.

That day was not in anyway the best day for me. LWKMD

lucabrasi:
^^^getting your hands dirty??the man is not asking you to commit murder or steal anything

Thanks!

[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=676433.msg8403797#msg8403797 date=1306501471]Intresting i love knowing the full consequence of stuff before i decide to get my hands dirty so i think i will just watch and learn[/quote]Part of the planning process includes the identification of the risks involved and we will have plans on how to deal with it. We are not planning demonstration or a 'protest'. We are interested in civil emancipation through education and transparent influence.

Waiting for 3 people

lucabrasi:
sounds like a worthwhile initiative,although i live outside nigeria but count me in as i am always willing to give my time in service of our country good luck

Thanks lucabrasi. Together we can get it done. Three slots left!

Thank you lord

Pharoh:
I think you should expand the group size beyond six members.

It will definitely be more than 6 but at this planning stage only six is needed. Fine I can make it seven
Incase of voting. Are you in

chamber2:
If this is the aim, then count me in. I do not live in 9ja now but will move in at the end of this yr.

So am in.

Thanks that's 2 of us.

I need both. Those in Nigeria will do the ground job. Those outside can give in their brain.

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lucabrasi:
the beginning ofyour thread seems puzzling are you looking for people so support an idea you have already made up your mind on or youhave a working idea that will be developed and changed if necessary after putting minds together with the people that are teaming up with you.
you have to provide a skeletal explanation/analysis of what you have in mind imo

I have an idea which will be developed together with the volunteers.

The idea in a nutshell as the name implies is to build a Town hall structure (group) in each of the 36 states of the federation. This will be made up off people of like minds. There is no haste.

The essence is to get people who can demand for accountability from the leaders. The initial groups in the states will undertake the job of reorientation of the masses in each state.
This is totally a selfless initiative for anyone interested and take out of your pocket instead of putting into your pocket.

We need people who are contented, self reliant and determined.

Thanks for coming in.

Sagamite:
No 1, I can bet Obama inviting you to White house for deliberation will be based on some carefully selected merit and scrutinised process before using public funds on you.

No 2, I am sure if a company invites you for interview, you will have been assessed to be worthy of coming over to be interviewed.

No 3, companies can choose to spend their capital and profits anyhow they deem fit. Reetards are not allowed to spend public funds anyhow they deem fit.

No 4, when companies and Obama invite you, they either arrange things for you or refund you based on the receipts you provide.

Please explain where people are coming from in Nigeria that required N150K of public funds.

Explain if it does not make more sense to assess people's requirement individually to ensure people are not being overpaid with public funds.

Sagacity,

1. we cannot condemn based on the first question as we do not know who was invited and we cannot assume
2. Again we do know who this individuals are to know if they are qualified for the invite and what will our criteria for
measuring their suitability be
3. Companies cannot spend their money outside the rules of the company. Goodluck has overhead cost which he can
can spend according to constitutional provision. He will only have to account for it
4. You are right but at the end of the day, some money or something was given back

N150k may be a bit on the high for travel expense only but it is also too small as a bribe. Not all were given N150K. Could it be that opportunity cost for attending the meeting on the part of the individuals was built into the handout?.

Bishopking:
what is the idea? volunteer should no what they are sticking their neck into. don't you think so?

Yea I know, they will know and they will decide how to go about it but I want people to volunteer based on desire to be involved and make Nigeria a better place for our children. Like I said, I will lay down everything in the journal section where only the volunteers can discuss.

Should I count you as one?

5 slots still available. You can pull out if you do not like it later

Still waiting

Who is brave?

I have an idea and I need 5 more people who are passionate about Nigeria beyond Nairaland activism to indicate interest in the project. I do not care what divide you come from or who you support.

Because of the nature of the project, I would prefer people from 5 other zones but it does not matter where they are from at the long run.

I need people who self reliant, contented and selfless. If you are that Nigerian willing to give(not money) Indicate interest. When I get the required number, I will open another thread in the journal section where I will unfold my idead and we discuss a way forward.

Thank you for popping in.