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AjanleKoko:
Pardon my obvious bias.
There are not that many schools of similar calibre in the North. So you might just find that anyone who went to secondary school in the North in the 60s and 70s, went to this school.

You got a point there though but the El Rufais and the Ribadu's are relatively younger.

The only problem I have with this is that they will not use it for what it is intended.

I wonder why we are accumulating more debts.

It may also be possible that the 3bn concessionary loan was given on the condition (unwritten) that Nigeria will have to borrow again.

World bank is a shylock organisation so a 3bn no interest loan must have a lot of uncles and cousins to attend to.

Have you guys heard of Barewa college?

The Old boys are running things in naija.

bluespice:
sun rays

That's gorgeous!

chaircover:
Ok Now. . . . . its a draw

Yea it is 1-1 goalless draw

chaircover:
But I am running back to the family & fashion section before I start to see more scary things. Imagine judging a guys character on how many text messages he can send.

All he has to do is set up a cheap Bulk SMS account and automatically prgrame it so send 200 text messages a day to the same phone. I tire o!

On the contrary, I think a woman will easily be turned off if you bombard her with text messages at the begining of a relationship. It gives the impression of an idle hand. Again only a teenager will interprete that as affection.

You better run!

I did that before you so I won in that aspect.

chaircover:
@agaba We seem to be saying the same thing but differently.

Men and women fall out of love for all sorts of reasons. Some reasons you and I can understand, and some others are just plain strange.

I personally wouldn't choose a man who exhibited sadist qualities & behaviour for whatever reason, because I cannot guarantee that he will always love me, neither can I guarantee that life will not throw something at him that will stress him.

I think that you are who you are as a result of your genetics, upbringing and how you as a person has chosen to be (a bit of everything really) and I also do believe that some people can never really totally permanently change their spots. That is my own personal belief but I may be wrong.

OK you win

amaechijay:
If u don't catch him looking at u lustfully or other girls
If he does not pressurize u to come and know his "place"
If he calls or texts often to know how u a doing
If he does not ration his calls to 2mins each time he calls
If he holds your hands as u stroll and points out pot-holes etc. for u
If he does not flare up at the slightest mistake u or others make
If he em em, sorry
Be right back

A man can fake all these to get into your panties sweetie. Do not be deceived.

chaircover:
hmmmmmmm Agaba you may be right o! but I will feel a tad skeptical if a man used to do all the things I mentioned above and then suddenly changed because he fell in love with me . . . .

That means that he can "change" again at any time T, by which time It may be to late to run away fast

Well, it is better to have a man who love you than a man who likes you.
If the love we are talking about here is based on your personality, the reason why he loved you in the first place will always be there except you as a person changed your personality. If you remain you, he will remain him I think unless there is a major mutation which rarely happens.


Mature men see beyond the veil.
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madlady:
GREAT REPLY

I agree with you, apart from the 1st line.

This reply will be sent around to all my girl friends.

Go ahead hun

chaircover:
Of course some men and women are very good at hiding their real nasty selves but here a a few pointers to get one started;

Watch how he treats people who are less privileged than he is - Does he beat & starve his housegirl/boy or yell at his staff over minor issues.

How does he speak of his ex-girlfriends - Are they all sluts, bitches and any other derogatory name he may prefer to call them

How does he talk to and treat his parents - Does he yell at his mum simply because she asked him to get married

How does he deal with stress and conflict. - Does he take off his shirt and beat the Aboki with a jack in go-slow for the most simple offence.

Is he a man of integrity? - If he wouldn't be found out,  will he be inclined to steal other peoples money

Does he get on with his friends, colleagues and family? - You don't want to find yourself living with an antisocial, easily offended, arrogant man.

Generally speaking, the older you are the easier it is to differentiate between a real man and a pretender.

Good one but do not forget that some guys exhibit all those habit because of a state of mind which could vanish the moment the see a woman they love and really want to be with.

When a man is in love, he gets extra ability to do without what he ordinarily would not do without. It is easier to control his emotion because a man in love does not wanna hurt his girls feeling and that does not make him less a man.

He makes genuine effort to live right because of her. So if you judge him by his past then you may have missed him.

And if you follow that rule, no one will marry a girl pros.titute including those who hawk their wares without pros.tag.

Most times, like begets like but in some unfortunate situations, it does not follow.

If you want to spot a geniune guy

Understand
1. that all that glitters is not gold
2. A cameleon does not change its colour.


However, it may be more difficult for a gurl below 24 years of age to spot a good guy than it will be for older girls because it takes experience to master the artistry of men. And moreso because most girls below this age tend to be superficial and are easily attracted by superficiality, it makes it more difficult because men are aware of this fact.

After many years of being fooled, those aged 25 and above tend to be wiser. However some because of the degree of wound received in their early 20s tend to be ovecautious and will end up screening out the  man they would have been very compatible with.
Having said that, wisdom does not always vary linearly with age but . . .  

Poster

The good man for one person may not be good for another because personalities and compatibilities vary.
Little things like interests cause problems in relations and trust me you will notice it very easily if a guy wants to claim you have the same interest just to unlock your your door except you are blinded by lust.
Check out those interests in the begining. Sexual compatibility is very important but not as important as your psychological compatibility if you are on for a long term relationship. If the psychology is wrong, the chemistry disappears. If you just wanna play, then no need, jump in and out.

So the equation is

Compatible psychology + Chemistry - A = Good  man

Where A is a constant which varies inversely with your superficiality

Hapukwara m Tosh m biko. Ka o merewa condom ya gawa.

So what? It is no big deal. Afterall Nigerians marry white girls. Abeg stop being racist girls. Beautiful smile!

Sauron
You can say anything you like, I am with you on this one.

I am still an Arsenal fan but there is no excuse for the humiliation.

Rub it in our face it is all Wenger's fault.

How can ARSENAL concede 3 goals in less than 10 miniutes against Wigan? NO FECKING EXCUSE

Chei

Unu ahula m eshishi. Lekwanu Tosh gbara n'ama after many years in pudha
Tosh kedu maka Feli?

Ijirila ukwu gbachie uzo. Gwa m etu isi eme ya mere na nwunye gi achoputabeghi.

Chei Toshi kwuo eziokwu

Anyway alright O di mma

Ngwa Toshi kedu maka contract niile I na-enweta?
Sampling contract na condom contract. Chei very soon ga-enweta licking contract

What will she doing with the jesey of a bankrupt company?

I may be wrong but apart from the EFCC guys I have actually not seen any of the appointed or elected officers comdemn fraud publicly.

Have you seen? have you heard?

Good communication skills sometimes disappear in the face of hostility when confidence has left.

And you cannot claim to have a good communication with a matching intelligence otherwise what will you be communicating?

'Wow that's nice. You are the best and you have made my day'

By the time you finish all these, he will forget you did not say 'I love you too'.

Poor you.

Most women look at men who do not show sexual interest in them when in a relationship as being abnormal. Some think you probably don't like them enough or that you are not attracted to them.

So next time . . . .

Thank you Goodluck for your good responses. I am impressed.

Dr Kitaun:
Agabagebe

Adebayor is his own man, monkeys like u cant understand trauma of having sum1 die in your hands, am sure HAYATOU represents your idea of  'patriotic'? Why do I even bother?

Did you just call me empty can and a monkey because of my opinion while defending someone who made a decision? I think people who not monkeys could make their points without calling names. I may be wrong after all.

He is still a money grabber. Call me a gorrilla if you like.

^ It may be true

Robin Van Persie
April 8
Robin has been out since November after suffering ankle ligament damage during an international friendly against Italy and is set to return to full training soon. "Robin will be joining the squad for full training imminently," physio Colin Lewin told Arsenal.com "That is a big boost for the club and to see Johan and Kieran training with the team in the next fortnight will give everyone a big lift."
Aaron Ramsey
April 8
Aaron suffered a broken leg against Stoke City in February but has made good progress in his recovery and could return to action in the autumn. "Aaron will make a full recovery," confirmed physio Colin Lewin. "Other footballers have suffered a similar injury. The surgery went very well and the early signs are very good. We don't expect Aaron to return until the early autumn. He has some metalwork in there and that provides the stability for the fracture. The specialists have encouraged him to walk and this weight-bearing will aid the fracture healing.  It’s early days but the signs are very good."


Kieran Gibbs
April 8
Kieran is expected to return to full training in two weeks."Kieran has made a full recovery," Colin Lewin told Arsenal.com. "We expect him to train fully with the squad within the next fortnight."

Johan Djourou
April 8
Johan suffered a knee injury while on international duty in August and will returnin the training soon. "Johan Djourou had a difficult problem with the cartilage in his knee joint" physio Colin Lewin told Arsenal.com. "He has made virtually a full recovery and we expect him to train fully with the squad within the next fortnight."

This na 4 day old story. http://www.arsenal.com/news/injury-news

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Toshi ga-enyere america aka ikwusi agha ndi nti ike.

Brothel psychologist

A na m ajukwa ese ya oo. O di m ka Feli ji ya aka maka ahubeghi m Feli eri oge Toshi biadebere ebe a.
Tosh kwuru chi m no shaking

dayokanu:
^^ Unpatriotic is what you call someone whose bus was shot at while on National duty

So everyone should give up playing football bacause of some Idiots?

The green Eagle's should have disbanded after the sudden death of Okwaraji.


Al qaeda is spreading terror against English team in south Africa. They should all hold back. 

retiring because of that means victory to terror. Tell me that if it was Man city team bus that was shot at, he would have retireed from club football.
If there is more money in playing for Togo, such thing would not cross his mind.

Adebayor the money grabber has quit internation footie

here

Unpatriotic money graber.