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Good talk!

Yawn!

Pardon me

The objectiv of makin a mariag spicey is to ensure it doesnt fail
1 way of achieving this is by ensuring ur spouse didnt enter into mariag
wit unrealistic dreams/expectations.
You both must be aware the onus lies on 2 to make it work
not with either party havin one of those funny impressions that "Marriage is meant to be enjoyed and not endured" abeg dat one na for book o!
having realised dat, u may go ahead with any of the suggestions by TANA and other meaningful ones
but definately notin clos to those suggested by babylove and her cohorts.

@ rowland
If this poster is that kind of guy u're talking about "wants to marry a girl for her money" he wuldnt be seeking people's opinion on this issue.

Do u know what it means for a lady to have financial advantage in a home?
She's got a very good job and believe me I dont hav a problem with that.

The problem here is that she keeps me on my toes, remember she cant remain stagnant too!
some say its a good motivation, but i'd rather move at my pace cos I believe more in my career not a job!

Though ur post was April, but I still wanna say somtin abt it
There's this friend of mine in the states she wouldnt give me a breathing space over Mary Kay products.
She sent me a mail brandishing a 2006 Montero she got from Mary Kay for being in d biz 4 just 4 months.
It's all bullshit for all I care, those into it dat I know are mostly pple who just needed to get somtin doing.
You're sure busier than that!

On behalf of ewons and other guys like me who's been having the same problem,
I wanna appreciate every1 who has contributed one suggstn or d other.
My babe's birthday is 2weeks from now too,
I just hope u're not dating my babe sha
my babe is from kwara state, how far?

Shangy is possibly not gonna read ur advices cos he posted this since Jan 2006

However, am wondering why its such girls that dont wanna care what or how we guys feel
we're usually crazy about.

Am presently in a similar situation, my babe tells me whatever she feels like saying not minding how or what I think, she sees me only when she feels like it. If she doesnt feel like, she practically tells me that regardless of what i may think.

Funny enough I still love her, av tried times without number to replace her but no one else can make me feel the way she does.

Funny hun?

So touching!

hope u're not just saying that?

hope u learnt a lesson and are gona make amends?

Aishat2,

U dont have to be sorry now, haba!

your situation is understandable, we're all proud of you!

Keep the fire burning.



Steve bobo,
tell us more,
you bought her a drink, she bought you a drink, how did it happen?

Johnny,
That's so human of you!
Despite you wrote the test you have feelings for others who were denied.

Well, you know the level of unemployment in this country which is presently sky rocketing.
I wouldnt really blame UAC, possibly they never envisaged the crowd that turned up for the test and some measures had to be introduced to reduce the no. so the exercise can be concluded same day.

However, I can only blame them if they had ur CVs prior to that day, i'd say all the screening should hav been done so its just those they invited that'll be opportuned to write the test and with that, they wuld have saved some people their time n money.

I, myself, & me on behalf of every nairalander welcome you on board.

Fasten your seatbelt and get ready for the ride.

Kaabo!

First, your experience isnt a pleasant one I must admit but yours is
NOTHING compared to what a young girl well known to me who got married at 17 experienced just within 2yrs of marriage and today she's been able to pull herself together, remarry and live a meaningful life.

wanting to move on with your life is not enough, if u decide to face your career what happens to other areas of
your life? be sincere to yourself, success in your career and failure in other aspects of life is that really gona make you happy?
re-trace your steps, identify where you got it wrong and face life as a better stronger person, be prepared to make your life work regardless of what anybody thinks.

Above all, put God 1st in all that you do

Am so happy for u o!

now you can send harmful mails hey?

Cease Fire!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Aishatu,

u sabi talk story o!

am sure u dislike comprehension & summary

I get your point,
Thanks.

Would You Marry A Girl Who Earns Twice Your Salary? If Yes/no, Why?

Guys- Would you marry a girl who earns 2ce your salary?
Ladies - Would you marry a man whose pay is only half of your take home?
If Yes/No, please state your reason's'.

Love making before/after marriage is simply a matter of choice.
Virginity never made any sense to me until few years back,
I never wanted a virgin for a partner but I'll say this to as many that would listen,
meeting my love as a virgin is 1 of the things that transformed my life from a playboy to a
responsible young man.
I'm not saying marrying a virgin is a guaranty for a happy home because there are 'virgin witches'
but for as many women who desire some love n respect from thier men,
I can assure you your virginity is worth saving for the last man standing.
i've been there, I know how it feels.

I met mine through a friend who happens to be her colleague,
they had a grudge @ work and my friend felt the best way to punish her
is by humiliating her. Guys runs se u know?
my friend gave me necessary information to make the job easy,
he also arranged how i could bump into her and the story began from there.
From the very first statement she said "Hi" I knew there was no going back
my friend got annoyed that I wasn't going according to plan
now we're engaged, getting married soon.