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dani1luv: I dont blame you,


Are you talking to me??


Come again


check NL1


You always feature in every part


its a joke, dont you like it??

i dont criticize but this is out of place.

luckgames: Men are better off with white and AA women if you have a job and loss the job
Trust me in the develop countries Nigeria women doesn't know what is called endure.
You are not making it

but i know those who have endured more than the word endurance.

freecocoa: Wetin happen?are you just coming back from evening mass?see how you are giving sermon untop wetin we all know is a bad change,smh *cocoa wept*

you call this a bad change. I am dissappointed. This is not cocoa talking. Anyway i no dey come from church. I just know the right thing to say.

Idowuogbo: Sister in d lord, na u act sister act 2 ni?

Ewo see preaching,abeg pipe low joor.

Elewa strong head too much.He doesn't take in anything but rather does what he wants.

No be hin fault na, na we dey patronize nonsense.

Msteeeeeeew!

what is your drift?

[quote author=~Killz~]God. . . AYou are. . . [/quote]i am what?

So love your computer.

Who owns the hand?

Smh. This is what i call trouble.

I dont criticize by dan this is out of place naw?

Lmao! What if him mama come die nko? Abi the son na by adoption?

It is quite a shame for people to decide to leave nl after the past goodies. I see this as back-stabbing, betray and ungratefulness. Is it the font, colour, design or the info you get here that matters? Just like the children of isreal in the wilderness who cant remember the good favours and victories in the past which the Lord helped them to attain, they didnt pray themselves out but complain. Everything worketh together for the good of them that loves nairaland. Instead of threatening to leave, why not leave. Just leave and give those coming fresh air and those staying breathing space. Rome wasnt built in a day. Seun was the brainbox behind the former nl which made it a world in this world, so allow him work things out in this new one instead of giving him tough time. Support him and bring new ideas instead of killing his own idea. Those shouting and ranting should deal with it and save their eyes, sights, visions and get out. The only thing that is constant is change. Haba, the guy is trying his best, supporting will help, instead of hurling insults. Now put yourself in his shoes, if it were you, how will you feel to be criticized, insulted and your ideas to be made to look like stupidity? As many that will leave, should do that for life, dont come back when all gets rosy again. He needs time to fix things up, he has gotten your complaints and i am quite sure, he is working on them. Those who will remain will remain and new users will swim in, leaving will make no impact since those who wanna replace you are making consultations from dibias, etc *just exaggerating*. Stop criticizing and help build a greater and better a nairaland. Come rain, sun, old age, even death, nl is where i feel belonged. Stop complaining or get out or remain or be useful or be supportive with new ideas. Let him be. Who is actually gonna loose? The bitter truth is, many will miss nairaland when they leave. If you complain about the designs, you are just like a man who claims to love i.e. The beauty he sees entice him more than the inner beauty, which means- fake love on point. I get sick to see critics. Even some of those criticizing cant bring out an idea. Omg! All will be well with time. Please dont hate a man's initiative, but try to encourage and build it up for the best.
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I dont know maybe it didnt work. But this new nl should have been okay before doing away with the former so as to avoid critics. Smh. *Jesus wept*

It is wise and sometimes a no go place. If her character is bliss go ahead. But careful with her so it wont always be court, motion, affidavit and divorce. She knows her right as a woman and those rights may sometimes overcome her wifey rights and obligations. If una no go marry woman lawyer, who will?

tellwisdom: [size=15pt]What else cld you expect from a Nigerian lady [/size]

can you please hear yourself speak? Nigerian/african ladies are the ones who endures most. Whites no get time. They dont care. Why not let your name speak instead of yourself? Haba!

[quote author=~Killz~]Agybabe, is there something you aint telling us? [/quote]nothing really. But we just cant blame her. Must the guy lazy around. Okay, his money might be an incentive why she married him, now that he has fallen, he should rise. A real man is measured on the number of time he stands up after falling. Will she go through stress because of "for better for worse". He should be a man! I dont blame her for any decision she makes.

jackpot: awww, you're da best, cutie-pie

a real special angel, you are

you pack mouth!

@lefulefu after all these achievements, how wise have you been able to manage it with sincerity, peace, love, honesty, wisdom, prudency and GOD?
@killz and anonymous please bury the hatchet. Hate, disdain and malice does no good.

Amen!

Clowns!
Love on point abi na wetin?

Because you are afraid of having an over worwor pikin. Shey you fine sef?

Slimyem has said it all. This is a threat to her life. Let her do it fast before he drags her to an oath and her early grave. I had a friend whose guy was almost like that. She must not be with her friends or laugh when he is speaking to her on phone, yet he blames it all on almighty love.

No i cant reuse a used toy. I wont look at it as new again. Something will definitely go wrong again. He might become my ex again. But who knows if God is working. But humanly speaking, i can't.

Such exists but very rare. Met such bt i couldnt love him so i had to free his innocent spirit, so my conscience will be free.

Immaterial

The love depreciated. You cant be too busy during val and after val for your val. He wants out but how? Thus, his acts is expected to paint the picture to her. Let her face the bitter truth and forget him. You dont force love on someone. What will be, will be.

Let her be. Put yourself in her fiance shoes. Would you like to be dumped? What will be will be.

I cant lay down my life.

@poster keep the marriage bed undefiled. If she truly loves you, she will talk to her dad and he may see reasons if the bishop realise that Christ has breached the gap between religion and tribe. Dont rush it.
If a bird and a fish get married, where will they live? Think twice. He who laugh last, laughs best. Besides @poster are you a true christian?

Even if she married him for money, it doesnt mean the man is wise and creative. Haba dont insult the lady. She is just a human being and she alone knows what she is facing. Because he has fallen down, doesnt mean he should rise again. The stress trauma might be too much for her. I dont see why the man is lazying around. Do you know if she hasnt tried to make him stand again. Some men can be lazy. I know what i am talking about #talking from experience#

Please dont do it in front of her friends, you can do it in front of your own friends. I knw what you might get at the end of the day, it doesnt matter if you made her friends laugh with you.

It is not real, i mean the guy. Give her a benefit of doubt and let her see the end of it all. Love is a very big word that shouldn't be used yet. First 900k + 10k. This love is blind and will surely lead into a ditch. The guy no real. Chikena #fromexperience

Is sending you call me backs and flashing you a crime.