sinaj:
d person is not a good friend.

You don't correct a wrong with another wrong.

Her friend lied to her.

smokers are not irresponsible just the xme way those that drink alcohol are not.

You become irresponsible only when you abuse it.


Beside most people that abuse weed are addicted to it nd still understand the fact that they need help.

Xo u don't tell anybdy to avoid them just because they smoke.




beside there are many factors that compels one to smoke.
How abt the guys who works offshore that smoke coz of cold?


Will u also call dem irresponsible?

My dear are you trying to justify the act here or what? Do you know its health implications? How do you expect me to involve myself with a time bomb? Don't tell me most of those who indulge in the act are unaware of its aftermath at a long-run. Yes, they are human, and in every human there's a level of madness, but in such folks theirs are of a higher level. We are talking of weed here and not cigarette.
#MaLady

timsonpreye:
apology accepted, u are nice i thought all NL gals are d same, they neva apologize, can i PM u

It's a free world.
#MaLady

If this has been on for 5 years, hmmm, that girl is a suspect. She's either living with a man or a man is living with her. Pay her a visit in the evening and spend the night and check if the phone is set to automatically go off at night.
#MaLady

My dear, if it was the money that has pained you or her insolence, just take a deep breathe, forget it and forget her. Cut off all pleasantaries and act like you don't see her. A girl's conscience can hurt so bad when ignored. Better days ahead. Karma is a faithful payer.
#MaLady

The person who told you that is a good friend. We are talking about being responsible here and being perceived right my dear.
#MaLady

Happy birthday, slap a soldier, do frog jump, jump up, break a leg, break bottles, have fun girl.
#MaLady

The best thing is to choose one. It's called opportunity cost and then analyze the gravity of happiness of your choice. I pray God gives you the grace.
#MaLady

lilzcee:
my thread is not meant for trash talking people

I'm sorry, please remind me next time.
#MaLady

timsonpreye:
ur advice is insulting, helping wit an advise do not mean u should b rude

I'm sorry, no insult was meant.
#MaLady

lilzcee:
Don't ever comment on my thread again

Why?
BTW, I don't pay mind to those who creates thread but on the thread itself.

osedvgirl:
yea its painful, after high arousal

let it slide

My dear, you don't need her again, you need to forget your baby love and do these:-
1. Stop being a kid
2. Grow up emotionally
3. Be matured enough
4. Get someone new and
5. Don't repeat your past mistakes, learn from them.
#MaLady

Honestly, I thought that after a year of visit to Nairaland, my return would be met with better posts and topics, unrepeated topics, meaningful comments and contributions, less thread-fights and space bookers, no more bashing of mods and op, responsible and sensible monikers, etc.
But seeing these things still going on, I think I know why I still love Nairaland but I ask again, what's the essense of asking questions that requires the use of the brain to decipher?
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To the topic, that's what makes girls remain girls, it won't change...(girls are not Buhari).
#MaLady

My dear, I can imagine those girls saying "mehn, we don jam maga, we go chop am", "he dey form posh abi", "na for that new eatery? Chai o", "he get bar wella o", "na today e go happen". Lol.
That girl is the reason why some of us girls are mis-perceived at a far range. Come to think of it, it may be her friends who forced themselves to follow her since it's a new outlet/fast food but it's annoying she couldn't stand her ground to restrain them. Anyway, give her a second chance and if it repeats, my dear RUN!
#MaLady

Are you guys joking with yourselves or it's a serious relationship? Mehn! Babe you drew the line and he was a patient and tactful man to arouse your libido at the day of reckoning. To be honest, the guy na joker...I know what I'm talking about.
#MaLady

The truth is you are finding it hard to totally forgive her. When you do, loving her again won't be a problem, trust me. And if you can't forgive, get her friendzoned or just stay clear from her, else you will get a larger share of emotional torture!
#MaLady

I can't believe a grown man is seeking advice on such scenerio. @OP when next she's passing by, run inside and hide. Smh! #MaLady

Your case is a case of EMOTIONAL CONFUSION. You don't want to hurt their (the fat girls) feelings, right? You like hurting yourself, right? And in your mind, you say you know what you want, shey?
Abeg o no vex, how old you be?
#MaLady

You giving it a thought due to the fact that she broke up with one ex like that is unreasonable.
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Were you just thinking of eating and cleaning your mouth?
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Besides, you just confirmed she is a wife material.
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Don't let thunder do press up in preparation to fire you o.

cokacoola:
these beatifull garl is cleanly inlove wet me she tolds me "sorry my dear"

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Na wetin dis one dey feel like now na

Honestly, I think you should let her be and move on to the higher side of life.

Perhaps it's the way you guys broke up.

She might be doing like that because she sees no reason to be friends with her ex in other to avoid stories that touches. Allow her deal with her emotional candy crush saga.


~»MaLady«~

Haba na! They shouldn't have beaten you for the insults you gave to them on a faceless forum na.

At least, if they had beaten you for your poor written English, it would be better and understandable.

Take heart my dear. Sorry!

You are not wrong. If you don’t like the way I am in the first place, why come around me?

I can change some things or perhaps reduce it to an extent if I can. You can't just come in from nowhere and change some basics about my life.

Go and marry a girl from your church who could do that whole-heartedly for you.

At 16? Hmmm, this guy likes "sweet sixteen". We call that child abuse.

Don't allow your sentiments over-cloud your reasoning. Even at this your age, I don't think you are readily ready in some ramifications.

BTW, even if it so happens that you propose and marry her so that you groom her up into what you desire; you might loose at the end of the day.

Sebi she's still a teenager and her eyes never clear. When her eyes clear wella, e go clear pass your own.

Peace out!



~>>MaLady<<~

Yes, I used it then while in primary school and then passed it on to my younger brother because I grew past the size.

I don't know what happened to the producers who produced it.

Kitto! Simply the best!

Hi house! I'm using a Tecno Android 4.4.2

The issue I'm having is with my BBM application, my contacts' display pictures don't come up, it appears blank.

Does anyone has the same issue as I?

Does anyone know how I can fix this?

Note: I've been asked switch off the phone and turn it back on, I did but the result remains the same.

Thank you.

Since you said she's not a naughty kind of person, I don't think she does it on purpose.

The issue should come from her mother, she (her mother) would or might have been seeing or noticing her daughter's sitting position and don't caution her.
I think it is due to non-challancy and carelessness.

Op this is my counsel, telling her might be embarrassing so you need to apply wisdom into correcting her.

If she has a friend whom you are in talking terms with, try and talk to her and ask her to talk to her friend (i.e the girl). If that doesn't work out, talk to someone who is like a mother to her.

If it doesn't work out, then be wise in telling her mother in a way that won't make her pick offence.

And if it remains the same, tell her yourself and if e no work, bone her jare.