Really?

bingbagbo:


Agybabe is at yaba left now

Anfieldboss:

If the lies were from the guy u wouldn't give such advice

Either ways, I stand by my decision. No bias here.

drawkcab:


esnes nommoc kcal uoy

Young man, I don't think being rude is a necessity here. I am entitled to my opinion. Please mind your language because I can read backwards too.

Elder001:


really?

Yes, really.

Hmm... you don't have to go on with the plans of marriage but forgive her

It's the same internet

It doesn't have to mean anything but it makes it feel good.

In the Holy Scriptures, when the woman who was caught in the very act of adultery was brought to Jesus and was also about to be stoned, He did something, HE FORGAVE ADULTERY.

Forgiving adultery doesn't mean you should continue with the relationship if the trauma will make you hate him/her whenever you see him/her later.

But one mistake is not enough to ruin a life relationship except it's always reoccurring. Twice is not a mistake. Forgive and let go if you can't continue.

I think she's not just ready to be put in the family way yet, that is, having kids which may be a burden with her schooling.

You may be surprised to see that if you ask her to marry you but wait until she's done to start having kids, she might have a rethink. It's a phobia I guess - parenting.

Well, you guys may love each other but how long have you known each other. Can you wait, if not, take a bow. If she's just gullible, she'll regret it that she allowed a good man go because of her naievity, immaturity and unreadiness; yes, even if she gets married to someone else.

I don't blame you for wanting to get intimate with her as far as you have good intentions but who's to be blamed for delaying you? Opportunity is not easily gotten these days.

As for the lady who wants to spend the weekend, DON'T DO IT!

UNTIL IT'S OVER, IT'S NOT OVER.

How well do you train her? Did you teach her early on cex education? Who are her friends? What does she spend time on? What kind of school does she attend? What TV shows, movies, soap operas or programmes do you allow her watch? How friendly or close are you to her? Are you too strict?

Although, it will be unfair to put all blames on you because sometimes they get influenced outside and we can't help it.

Now, shouting on her or spanking her won't help out. You need to do more of talking, correcting and righting of wrongs and please do it in the most loving way. You don't even need to talk with the guy just yet, it may not be necessary if you do it well. If it persists, you can talk to him.

Most importantly, pray for your children. It works.

It could be a confirmation of action needed to be taken or a warning to stay off or probably what you should do when faced with that situation and how you should react and/or you are seeing what is meant to happen.

You didn't give details of the dream so we could help out in better explanation than this. Remember we are not Daniel nor Joseph to know, read or interpret dreams.

You need to pray about it and carry the Word of God inside of you.

Relax!

Now that you have said what you don't know anything about, have you made more money than them?

It's a pity people won't stop venting their life's frustration at celebrities on social media. You call her ugly names but still follow her. She's even richer than you, finer than you, connected than you. Haba! Shey you see that your life has been cursed like this...

What did you promise her while extracting energy from each other?

It may not be her doing

Whogoblog:
@APROKOGIRL

Kenyan lady lists out 7 ways to keep a man, says you must give your partner 'doggy style' every morning (See Full list)

A Kenyan lady, Monica Monni Moniree, has listed out 7 ways a woman can keep her man, and one of them, she says is daily 'doggy style' during sex every morning.

Posting to Kenyan popular Facebook group, Kilimani and Nairobi Mums and Dads Uncensored, she wrote: 

'HOW TO KEEP A MAN'

1. Morning before you wake mpe dog style 

2. Wake up, warm his water for showering (if u don't have shower)

3. As he takes his shower be preparing his breakfast, them him dress (In short prepare).

4. Take the breakfast together and see him out.
 
5. By the time he comes back evening make sure u have cleaned the house, cloths, etc

6. Welcome him with a glass of water when he comes back, prepare supper. Massage him!

7. Be a submissive wife, Never shout at him, Never argue him (Do I say not as I do)

BY APROKO GIRL : https://aprokogirl.com/5225/kenyan-lady-lists-out-7-ways-to-keep-a-man-says-you-must-give-your-partner-doggy-style-every-morning-see-full-list/

Abegiiiiiii

Woman, you need wisdom .

That's sheer illiteracy

Good riddance to such relationship

Lol... this sounds more to me like a fiction.
Well, if it's so, she's not ready for that marriage.
#MaLady

Personally, I don't think a woman should not know at least how to prepare some dishes because that's one of the duties she owes her man.

Like me, I wasn't really taught how to cook most dishes I've learnt today, even though dem no dey too sweet like that..�. I dey try sha.

But here is something I would like to address; men why not think of it this way, especially if the woman wants to learn and please or impress you - teach her if you can.

Who knows, perhaps God knows you will marry a wife who doesn't really know how to cook and he made you a good cook so as help her out. It's not right to rub it on her face especially if she is ready to learn and be better at it.

If you go broadcast it to your friends that she can't cook, what if she broadcasts to her friends that you can't satisfy her in bed because of your tiny manhood? You see? You were meant to complement each other.

Thank you.

#MaLady

Lol at all the posts. Wow! I've missed Nairaland

This country is so messed up but I still love it.
#MaLady

See him dry neck like change

dangotesmummy:
here we go again. If key gets missing let's pray if the food was oversalted let's pray so that the salt will reduce if there's no battery inside remote let's pray so that the tv will automatically come on.if you don't read before exams let's pray so that miraculously everything will come to memory
Nothing is ever pragmatic

Op find out if you were circumcised as a child
Were you ever r@ped as a child or adult. That may cause sex to be tough for you
Did your husband ever r@pe assaulted or abused you at any point in your marriage. That can kill any sexual attraction or passion for sex with him
were you sexually attracted to your husband before wedding or your people forced you to marry him

Did you marry him out of no option or to satisfy society but in your heart you never truly loved him or was sexually attracted to him

Or is it that he doesn't engage in pre-intimacy. He'll just say mama bisoye open your legs and just mount on you like That
is HE bad in bed?he doesn't know how to satisfy you sexually?
Is the bed uncomfortable or the room hot? Does he beat you before SEX or abuses you before sex?
Does he call you fat ugly dirty or other abusive names?

Get to the root of YOUr sexual problems or frigidity.it might be because of any of the above

Or go see a gyneacologist OR sexual counsellor.I didn't say pastor o before they help you compound your problems or say you have spirit husband

How should my own comment make you quote me before you offer Your Own advice? Na wa ooo.

omosedollar:


Nigerian wants you to pray over things that have solutions. Tell her to pray for success not pray to get wet for her husband. All she needs to buy is ky gel or durex lube gel.. problem solved.

Tell her that yourself. What way should my own advice affect yours?

carmag:


by mere looking at your pic one can easily assume you got something upstairs

you left romance section where you are the queen and come here to spew trash

what are the correlation btw op predicament and religion you can as well demand tithe and offerings for her problems to be solved

Nonsense

I honestly wish I could reply your insult. How does my comment affect your own advice to the original poster? Respect is earned but this your act should not repeat because I'm in no mood to battle words with you.

Tezcatlipoca:


Yes I am o. I move mostly with escort and no much privacy at all. My movement are always monitored. Believe me. One of the reasons it's been 3 years I had it last.

If you are matured enough, you will get over the thought of being shy and the need for escorts and take your life in your hands before it becomes too unrepairable.

To be honest, you need to pray, I mean really pray to God and stop crying and trust him to save your marriage and restore your....you know.
I don't want to ask you but I need you to think back if you were like this with other men before marriage or something.

No be say she look clean sef and some guys don reach cloud 9. Mstcheew

That sounds like semen and I don't think or DON'T KNOW if it's capable of getting one pregnant. Visit a doctor nau. Abi are you shy?