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Thank you for this, Bro.

I'm a Mesomorph and just started gyming (but I've been playing football for over 20 years) about 6 weeks ago with gains showing already.

Please I need tips lose (belly) fat and gain more muscles.

I'm 33, 5 ft 11 inches and weigh about 106KG.

pansophist:
Some people gain weight easily, while some do not. You have to know your body type (also known as ''somatotype'' in constitutional psychology). The attached pics should help you determine your body type. Let me know and I will tell you how to gain/lose weight/muscle.

I'm a Mesomorph and just started working out about 6 weeks ago with gains showing already.

Please I need tips lose (belly) fat and gain more muscles.

I'm 5 ft 11 inches and weigh about 106KG.

logicalhumour:
*ahem*

It is statements like this that unleaches the inner Zen Master in me

So, forgive my goofiness. How about we start with you answering a few questions:

1. Why have you come to this thread? Knowing that no one would advise you to keep the relationship?

2. What is it you seek? Perhaps you seek someone that can show you a little bit into your future with the said girl.

Now, I trust my niggas here to tell you the needful, and as expected, all has been said: GTFO of the relationship.

However, a blatant "get out" seems a little brutal for someone like you (perhaps, the WRONG advice entirely), as little to no empathy is shown in a short answer like that—empathy that's well deserved after a 7-year investment! I'm sorry that you had to go through all that for 7 years! You sincerely didn't know better.

OK, I'll ask again: Why have you come to this thread? To "seek" advice? No. No no no. You're very much aware that this is a "Redpill" thread, hence, you're very much aware of the advice that'll be given to you.

Here's what's going on: You've NOT come to this thread to seek advice, son. You've come to seek solace for a troubled spirit (torn between your past and future, brutalised by your Honne and Tatemae)

...and this is why you're troubled:
1. You're exhausted, and tormented by uncertainty.
2. You've invested more than your Prajna (inner self) permits you to on this girl in question.

I'm glad that you hinted in your original post that "...I won't really say she's a burden but mehn, it's been too much lately...". This is a good sign. Your Prajna and Honne is taking over.

Now, contrary to the popular openion here, I'll like to ask you to go ahead with the spendings even though it's beginning to stress you out. This advice is due to the fact that you said, in your original post, that you intend to get married in 3 years time.

You see, marriage is going to put a strain on you beyond anything you've ever experienced. It makes no sense ditching this girl in question now if you'll end up marrying another girl. The ultimate redpill regarding your current situation is understanding that irrespective of the woman you marry, you'll end up getting the same treatment (...and it's not a nice treatment at all)

I would have like to ask if you're okay with her "character", however, I won't, as it's very likely that you won't see her bad sides. When heavily invested in something financially (=emotionally), we tent to completely refuse to see its bad sides. Matter-of-factly, there's no point even trying to see her bad sides since all women tend to act the same under certain circumstances.

My suggestion:
Are you broke at the moment? If you're not, try to see if her father's case is a lost course or not. If it isn't, go on, give as much as you can. Remember, you're just doing this for the prospect of getting married to his daughter in the future.

Another option is to shit test this girl, start telling her you don't have enough (and that she should reason with you), however, with everything we know about women in this thread, this test would likely go bad for you... However, if you go by this, try doing it alongside guilt tripping her little by little until marriage. That way, you wouldn't have to invest more, and you still end up marrying her. But bear in mind that women do not operate on "honour" or self-respect like men, and she'll likely dish you for another man if she sense that she've truly exusted you.


In summary:
Contrary to the popular advice here, I'll like you to go ahead with the relationship using my two suggestions above, bearing in mind that marriage isn't a bed of roses, especially with a University graduate as a wife!

I wish you good luck my friend.

P.S
I promised to show you a little into your future with this girl, so here it it:
It could materialise in two ways:
1. She sees your tiredness as emptiness and leaves you for another guy
2. You get married to her, give birth to children, children start growing with their own needs and demands, etc...

My ultimate advice to you tho is to say "FVCK YOU!!!" to her, and marriage to any woman entirely. But that will seem too alien to you, so ignore my ultimate advice, and go with my suggestion.

I hope to hear from you when the storm is over, friend.
Have a good day.

Verbal calisthenics.

Nice way of saying a lot without saying anything meaningful.

LatestgistTv:
I don't know what to do bro. If I leave now, then all I've done for her in the past becomes useless.

Sunk cost fallacy.

If you were travelling to Kano from Enugu but realized 7 hours into the journey that you're on the "wrong road" leading to Zamfara instead of Kano, would you continue on the wrong road simply because you've already driven 7 hours on it?

Count your losses and cut all ties now or continue and incur bigger cost and wastage.

Someoneschild2:
I have searched without success. If anyone could do me a kindness by giving me a link to download the book Sex and culture by J.D Unwin, I'd appreciate it.

Better still, If you have a copy, please send me an email.

Thank you!

Here's the PDF link https://b-ok.africa/book/3405012/2f87a5

youcanmakeit:
Shameless Approach. After reading that book, I felt like an alpha beast.

Author please?

blinking001:
Anatomy of female power by Chinweizu

Have read it. One of my favourites.

Thanks for chipping in.

Please can anyone recommend very dope masculinity Books for me here?


Someone recommended The Wall Speaks by Jerr here. I read and totally enjoyed it. Easily one of the top 5 books for me.

Xanadu

kenniefawole:
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While some people willingly enter into pyramid schemes, hoping to “cash out” before it crashes, many of the victims are unwitting Investors who do not know that such schemes are pyramid schemes. This article outlines 5 tips to readily help you identify pyramid schemes so you do not become a victim unknowingly.

5 Tips To Identify Ponzi Schemes Couched As Legitimate Investments

Below 5 tips will help you dictate fraudulent investment offers disguised as legitimate opportunities.

Flamboyant Giveaways
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Such giveaways tend to soften peoples’ mind, heart and love towards such Givers. They also tend to sway public opinion in the Scammers favor. In addition, the giveaways position them as rich and wealthy people who can afford to pay as much Investors as possible.

you need to recognize that no serious or true Business person throws around money like that unless its a carefully orchestrated move meant to draw you in and then strike when you least expect.

Referral System
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No Limit On Number of Investors
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Any investment offers that spends months and even years canvassing for Investors without limit, that is a huge red mark and a cue for you to do further due diligence before parting with your hard-earned money into such fraudulent schemes.

Assured Or Fixed Profits
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Use of Influencers/Celebrities
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Conclusion
If you invest in a pyramid scheme knowingly or unknowingly, there is a big probability that you will lose your money. It is often more frustrating and annoying if you are an unwitting victim of pyramid scheme hence these 5 tips will guide you to vet properly before you commit to any investment opportunity.

Culled from:https://eduinfozone.com/5-steps-to-identify-a-pyramid-scheme/

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Abeg which other Bank card dey work for FX payments online now?

Cosmicturningpo:
About Agbarho and cultism, Last two weeks, I returned to Warri from Abuja for a funeral, but deferred my return just to see a friend, not knowing that his street was busy as a catacomb.

Abandoning his family he had fled as on of the toppest "men" of his own side. When he snuck in, he told me he risked his life because of me, and took me their enclave, where I had to settle all his incurred debts in a pub, after gifting his wife a few amounts.

He later told me indirectly he had to keep me close, cause he couldn't trust no one. I guess he feared I was the only one who could tell where he was.
After I managed to break free, he called to tell me he had found out I was no member of the four bloodletting frats in Agbarho, and if I wasn't really a Jew, he'd want me to join him. He said if I didn't show up that night he called, he'd brand me a sellout.

He asked me toleave my hotel accommodation (about which I wouldn't give him the location)latest the next morning if I couldn't come that night, because I told him I was tired.

The night before, I had sensed forceful initiation, so I slipped away.

So the next morning, I boarded a train back to FCT, and when I called him at twelve, I guess he saw the writing on the wall, and didn't answer, didn't return the call.
I had spent more for him than I did for the funeral. Now I guess it's good riddance to bad rubbish — I mean, why would he,a friend, want to introduce me to something he was already regretting.

Cultism is the highway to hell.

He's not a friend