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Skyview01:
Na through talk Ahnie.

These are trying times and you have to be strong for yourself and family.
This is not the time to break down in front of the kids or wife.
You are also teaching the kids how to handle tough times.

Skyview01:
Good advice.

I have inlaws who beg for money constantly and when i suggest doing petty stuff or learning a trade i realize they are too proud to follow through.

I jes weak.

Skyview01:
So if you hypotheticaly take your life, is that not an act of cowardice?

Who are you leaving your wife and two kids for?

Me?

You better don't make an already bad situation worse.

Being broke is a transient phase in life while death is final, you can't change your mind after your are death.

Part of the main reason why i avoid unnecessary risks is to stay alive so my wife and kids don't suffer.
You have to always think of them all of the time.

You will need to dig yourself out of this hole. You may need to go back to the village temporarily.

You may have to negotiate with your inlaws for your wife and kids to stay with them while you find your feet. Reach out to family and church members.

Enough of talks involving taking your life, i don't want to hear that again ok.

NoToPile:
Nigerian men and their ego that remains in Nigeria when traveling abroad.

Instead of you to tell Nigerian men to work of themselves, they don't have money lasan like this they must frustrate the hell out of the wife's life, if it's not the man it's his family.

If she succeeds lasan, she has used his glory / destiny.
If she coughs it's beacsue she's providing
If she yawns it's because she's providing.

The major problem is that most Nigerian men feel useless without money, Money is the only thing a lot of them can bring so without that money they feel helpless and useless, full of rage and looking for who to pour aggressions on. OP tell the men to work on that.

You think the women too don't have emotions that need to be pampered. She's providing and won't even have peace of mind while at it.


Point it a lot of Nigerian men turn monsters overnight when they don't have money. Shikena.

Kobojunkiee:
Wait a second...OP is about to be homeless. Do you want OP to go homeless with the kids or what?

Exceed15:
You can expose yourself on social media but please keep your children away.

sod09:
Old picture but na me still get am

novia22:
Guys pls someone should post peppersoup...Hot one.
I haven't been feeling well and can't summon strength to cook any but my mind is ready to feed from here make I no go faint for night

novia22:
This one don Craze....

Hassanmaye:
Please I don't like the way you guys are making this thing funny, this is a terrible situation please

Mindlog:
Open marriage in going on in many marriages even in Nigeria, it is not what is being announced.

I have been involved in a marriage therapy session where the issue was not the fact that both the husband and wife were having sexual partners outside their marriage that have produced 3 children but wifey was spending too much on a particular Ben 10 (sugar boy).

Bintdawood:
Fried sweet potato with awara🌝

sageb:
Really?😂

Truvelisback:
See finish state, hmmm, you have a point. Na that one be the worst stage. Infact ehn, the instances just plenty.😔

Truvelisback:
Na how you take know?😏

Nazgul:
I didn't modify o, I was booking space. In case the mods carry it to front page, so that by the time I post I won't land on page 3 or 4. 😏

Nazgul:
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