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Listen to your mum,talk with her,marriage is a different journey.

Walk away again and again.

failed country.

Kindly,go for the chevening award.Get your masters and network.The Chevening scholarship is a top award.I have been to the UK embassy in Abuja to inquire about it a few years ago.Also i did quit my previous job for an award.Presently am enjoying the ride.Job isnt even the problem,more exposure,more opportunities.Best of luck.

You dnt need any advice,you know what to do.

No Pain,no gain.Go to school.The 55k now will be nothing later on.Goodluck.

And to those that are in the act continue,"like mama peace will say".Continue digging your grave.

How can you even consider sleeping with another man's wife,you dnt know tradition,someone that her dowry was paid,oh my generation,to be honest find something useful to do.Dont be lazy.

Don't touch any woman that is married.It doesnt make any sense.After few mins you may regret all your life.

I don't think, she is looking for a husband.

Another man's wife.I pity you dude

I think you should take each course as it comes and focus on obtaining a good grade per course.The more A's than B's the better.All you need now is to "focus",and with "determination", coupled with prayers.

I think,you should go back to school for your HND,and continue your bag selling business alongside.Since,you have the strong customer base and clients that gives you goods on credit based on trust.The option of traveling abroad should be well verify? Where are you traveling to?What is the visa processing mode?What are you going for?What is your friend doing over there?How sure and legitimate is the promise offer? Think clearly about this.Otherwise i wish you the very best.

Since,it is not personal funding,go for the msc.Though the opportunities after earning a masters in the U.K is slim,but you can improve your network, coupled with the international exposure studying in a diverse environment.And you can also apply for a study leave with your firm.Who knows.Keep moving.

I think you took time to arrive @ your estimation and plan.However after marriage comes kids.Kindly,take time to sort this out with your spouse.As i know raising kids isnt based on mathematics.

I think you can go for your master's degree programme,if you guys are really in love,get your masters degree and come back to pick her alongside with you.If you do very well during your masters programme,you can always opt for working or get fellowship for doctoral degree.After,you masters degree you should be able to stand on your own and face life squarely.I dont expect you to pursue a doctoral degree based on the recommendation of anyone,it should be what you want out of life not want someone/persons want you to do.As it comes with very challenging and demanding responsibilities.