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Re: Please Advise Me, I Am At Cross Roads On What To Do by Ayinke93(f): 12:46am On Oct 02, 2017 |
Smiles... kimbraa: |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Am At Cross Roads On What To Do by tosyne2much(m): 12:49am On Oct 02, 2017 |
kimbraa:I just find it hard to believe that you've been the one making such ridiculous comments on this thread.. Haba! 2 Likes |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Am At Cross Roads On What To Do by decodams(m): 12:50am On Oct 02, 2017 |
The issue is with you first, are you really determined to school again, what can your friend offer you, what are your plans for yourself , all these determines your action and choices |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Am At Cross Roads On What To Do by Akuruoulo(m): 12:51am On Oct 02, 2017 |
If Mariage Is Part Of Ur Agenda Finish Ur School First, Be4 Thinkn Of Money. U Nid Money Tho, And U Have A Business That Can Help U Finish Ur Studies. Remember Is Just 2 Years Left. Education First Saves Future "mostly For Ladies". A Man May Go After Money First Bekus Of Family Issue (say To Take Care Of The Family Financially "be It His Own Or The Late Parents Own") |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Am At Cross Roads On What To Do by Nobody: 12:51am On Oct 02, 2017 |
tosyne2much:You guys don't like being told the truth. 1 Like |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Am At Cross Roads On What To Do by thesuave10(m): 12:52am On Oct 02, 2017 |
fatymore: You dey mind that stupid girl. . There's nothing she knows in this life
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Re: Please Advise Me, I Am At Cross Roads On What To Do by thesuave10(m): 12:54am On Oct 02, 2017 |
tosyne2much: This one feels like a ranker. If you placed her at a high rank then you're lower than hell |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Am At Cross Roads On What To Do by tosyne2much(m): 12:57am On Oct 02, 2017 |
thesuave10:Seriously, I've never thought her reasoning could be that shallow and degrading. It's funny how someone would think that life only revolves around a piece of paper in this era when ordinary illiterates are employing graduates 6 Likes |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Am At Cross Roads On What To Do by thesuave10(m): 12:59am On Oct 02, 2017 |
tosyne2much: I have seen her stupidity since and the worst part the girl is still an undergraduate haha haha chai . All these kids sef. Sha one day she'll grow up 7 Likes |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Am At Cross Roads On What To Do by dont8(m): 1:01am On Oct 02, 2017 |
kimbraa:You don't know anything about education, so it's better you keep quite so you can retain some level of intelligence to people (no pun intended) . For your info, a Tech Company would easily outsource an HND holder to a degree holder and like I said, your HND/BSc is a means to an end and not the end itself, ciao. 4 Likes |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Am At Cross Roads On What To Do by tosyne2much(m): 1:03am On Oct 02, 2017 |
thesuave10:Is it that she thinks that life is automatically an easy ride for you just because you hold a degree? I think reality will throw her to caution when she graduates from school and sees what people are really facing in this nation, unless maybe she has someone that will help her cut corners 3 Likes |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Am At Cross Roads On What To Do by Akuruoulo(m): 1:04am On Oct 02, 2017 |
How May I Give U A Private Advice. Am Sure It Wil Help U More |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Am At Cross Roads On What To Do by thesuave10(m): 1:04am On Oct 02, 2017 |
dont8: Lol did she just say IV league in Nigeria? haha hahaha . na her village contribute money for her make she go school 3 Likes |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Am At Cross Roads On What To Do by pocohantas(f): 1:08am On Oct 02, 2017 |
tosyne2much: E pain you ba? When you dey show your religious bigotry on any thread that concerns muslims, you surprise people too... The comparison is absurd though...very shocking. 1 Like |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Am At Cross Roads On What To Do by dont8(m): 1:10am On Oct 02, 2017 |
thesuave10:Na Naija Football League , I don tire for her matter joor, worst part be say; she no realize say she no dey make sense, make I go sleep before the gate keeper of sleep go ask for my BSc before sleeping 4 Likes |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Am At Cross Roads On What To Do by tosyne2much(m): 1:11am On Oct 02, 2017 |
Ayinke93:You shouldn't expect much from someone that is still being fed by her parents nah? You wouldn't expect such comments from someone who has seen more to life but only from a person with a shallow and limited worldview The comments are highly ridiculous, I must say 3 Likes |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Am At Cross Roads On What To Do by NickD(m): 1:13am On Oct 02, 2017 |
Confused977:Why travel out when u have a successful business over here? Your friend could be luring u into prostitution. Trust no human being. Do ur HND while still doing your business. |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Am At Cross Roads On What To Do by dont8(m): 1:15am On Oct 02, 2017 |
tosyne2much:Ridiculous and insensitive on her part, does she know the sacrifice and years it takes to attain such feat, smh. 4 Likes |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Am At Cross Roads On What To Do by Kajiang02(m): 1:15am On Oct 02, 2017 |
I hope this isn't coming late. Pls kill that thought of Dubai, except it's for holidays or shopping for goods for your business. Further your studies and build your customer base, you can definitely combine both. Do not drop any for the other. Going back for HND may be better if that's where your customers are, but you could take the pains to do a Bsc either in ekpoma or Benin, it's just because of the Nigerian factor. For the other lady talking on the Bsc/Hnd thing and comparison with SSCE, I wouldn't want to believe she's got a brain the size of a grain. I believe this would be a discussion for another day. Cheers. |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Am At Cross Roads On What To Do by tosyne2much(m): 1:16am On Oct 02, 2017 |
pocohantas:Hehehe.. Me and those Muslim ehn! We go still meet against sha Back to the issue, it's very ridiculous that someone will be uttering those outrageous comments in a bid to insult and demean the carries of those certificates. I mean it doesn't just make sense. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Am At Cross Roads On What To Do by Vutseck(m): 1:16am On Oct 02, 2017 |
@ Confused977 As somebody who stays abroad my only advice to you is this... abroad is not favourable to immigrant single ladies except you are coming to engage in prostitution a guy can engage in any kind of odd jobs on like a lady another serious wahala is finding a man of your choice to settle down with cus every guy around you will not believe you don't engage in prostitution I one way or the other abroad is only good for a lady if she is coming on her husband's invitation all I see is desperation on your side which you will later regret if you make such attempt . |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Am At Cross Roads On What To Do by Nobody: 1:29am On Oct 02, 2017 |
The good ol' "get out of Nigeria" clause. Like I always say.. the less the better. If 20% of Nigerian youths could leave Nigeria and go anywhere do anything. Imagine what the rest who remain can do with the opportunities here. We need to encourage them. Iraq, Afghanistan, Pakistan, Myanmar, South-Sudan, Libya, US,UK, .. we need to encourage them to travel. The less the better. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Am At Cross Roads On What To Do by mcafeez: 1:39am On Oct 02, 2017 |
I studied abroad and here I am in naija running my small biz... If you have the capita to sponsor yourself schooling abroad you can go ahead.. if all the money you have is to just take you abroad only, please do not try it at all.... You never knew what your friend is doing over there.... if she's in US fine you can try to go... any other country apart from U.S do not take shiiit from anyone... with the income you get daily, please do not allow your friend to lure you into countries in europe or dubai, or lybia or south africa or any stupid country.... life is not easy in those countries.. I have been to few countries, I studied in the U.K and i can tell you that once you done with your studies you are coming back home and there are certain hours job you can get.... I will advise you to stay back and make your business strong even more... Bags, shoes and other wears are made in Nigeria today and i am sure you even know better... being a great enterprenuer is a good thing.... Wherever your friend is, she gonna good need about you in the future, my small advise...thanks... PM for more advise Confused977: |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Am At Cross Roads On What To Do by Nobody: 1:40am On Oct 02, 2017 |
I live abroad - Canada, I have lived in the UK - London too for few years before moving to Canada. When I moved, I processed to come with my wife here in Canada. This narration is to let you know that immigration to any country of your choice is the easiest ever but based on different grounds. I have a genuine advice for you, but you may have to answer the following 2 questions. 1. What country is your friend trying to let you in? Modified: I read you noted that she is in Dubai, that answered. 2. On what ground of immigration application, in other words, what is the immigration type? Confused977: |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Am At Cross Roads On What To Do by bola09: 1:43am On Oct 02, 2017 |
You are what you know and not what you have so, education is very important. You have already demonstrated entrepreneurship so, continue to learn the act of doing business. Be truthful in your dealings with others; it will not bring you instant gratification but it will serve you well in life. So, if I were you, I will combine the business with education even if it takes you longer time to complete your studies. On the business, use it as a stepping stone and, keep your eyes on the ground for opportunities. If you work hard and you are honest, it will come. Assuming you are able to migrate with residential papers that afford you a full immigrant privileges, perhaps you may have a contending alternative. Any other 'traveling abroad' option is likely to waste your talents and focus and, may lead to unmitigated suffering. I am willing g to speak with you if you wish. |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Am At Cross Roads On What To Do by agabaI23(m): 1:44am On Oct 02, 2017 |
I am 98% sure that you will be into prostitution in Dubai. Please don't go. If you must go abroad finish your education. You can continue with your biz while in school. You said you have earned the trust of your suppliers abd they can give you credit, exploit that. 2 years will be gone before you finish cleaning your make up. |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Am At Cross Roads On What To Do by Respecter(f): 1:52am On Oct 02, 2017 |
Confused977:yes. And when you have saved something that can see you through university, you can enroll as a direct entry student since you have your Nd already.my point is that you should forget about traveling for now and focus on your business since it is moving. |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Am At Cross Roads On What To Do by iHart(m): 1:53am On Oct 02, 2017 |
You registered on Nairaland on Oct 1, opened a thread the same day and it hit the FP. Something must be wrong somewhere!!!! |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Am At Cross Roads On What To Do by Princemulla(m): 2:00am On Oct 02, 2017 |
fatymore: If i heard him correctly he said "as important as" which means both are valued more at each level....just as first school leaving is as important as ssce than Junior school certificate. |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Am At Cross Roads On What To Do by Ajegun: 2:15am On Oct 02, 2017 |
I think,you should go back to school for your HND,and continue your bag selling business alongside.Since,you have the strong customer base and clients that gives you goods on credit based on trust.The option of traveling abroad should be well verify? Where are you traveling to?What is the visa processing mode?What are you going for?What is your friend doing over there?How sure and legitimate is the promise offer? Think clearly about this.Otherwise i wish you the very best. |
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