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my advice.....If d girl wants to go to school..let her get admission first . then she can marry...but to stay in d mans house n start n pregnancy strightooo....she has to ...choose marriage or school..


my story....

a well good guy came to marry me when i finished secondary school....promised to send me to school..my parent said no i havr to go to school ..
am also fair skinned n pretty...
forward match...
after school....i am married now

but to a better good guy educated....

but d former is not educated..n am sure i wondnt av gone to school if i av married him...

give her a chance to go to school..

if d guy loves her he will wait ...

but there are many better guys..shaaa

Zedoo:
U think sex solves all problems abi?

See that woman deserves to be sent back to Nigeria...make she know as recession dey go.
All dese women pleading, na until she pour am hot water Una go see truth??
The woman should be sent away first to gain a brain then they can negotiate....which one is grab bum again....after spitting on your face!!! Even a motorpark tout would think twice before doing that to anybody....thats insult of the highest order.....spitting on a fellow human is the most degrading non physically harmful thing ever!...
Damn...

You women should stop pleading and let this man do what is right for the time being oga.

Grabbing d bum...is what he should have done before d wife spat on his face n guess what he failed .....

The man should accept he caused it....

u wey dey advice man to send d wife to Naija away from him..u know it could be d end of d marriage. talking from example...
now what should have been settle amicable go lead to divorce

Is pple like u that will do everything to save a marriage but advice a friend wrongly....

Now a man that has married b4 n didnt succeed ....i wont advice that man for even my enemy ...talk more of a man that chase the wife..

If d man didnt forgive his wife ..it shows ..lack of understanding ..wickedness ...n lack of ability to control a woman.

If a man beats d wife it doent end d marriage now..spit...u wan make marriage end..

sobu know Jesus was spat on...n u know the rest

Zedoo:
U think sex solves all problems abi?

See that woman deserves to be sent back to Nigeria...make she know as recession dey go.
All dese women pleading, na until she pour am hot water Una go see truth??
The woman should be sent away first to gain a brain then they can negotiate....which one is grab bum again....after spitting on your face!!! Even a motorpark tout would think twice before doing that to anybody....thats insult of the highest order.....spitting on a fellow human is the most degrading non physically harmful thing ever!...
Damn...

You women should stop pleading and let this man do what is right for the time being oga.

so if he send d wife to Nigeria ...d marriage is as good as over..it will be difficult to resolve d marriage.....Is his wife we r talking about...by d time d family members will ask what happened d matter will be prolonged......a simple case that suppose to end in bed


If is u ..u can chase ur wife...u can marry another...keep ignoring her..keep not paying attention to hee..then she misbehaves u chase her u marry another..better repent or u end up remarrying for life ..advising man to pursue his wife.

The man actually ..asked for it.. without knowing it..mtweww

bellassimo:
Gosh! Very bad.sometimes love is not enough please.please pretend,a woman like this can pour hot water on you.pretend for now and find a way to make her go back to Nigeria and divorce her.oterwise it will be acid the next time .All this wahala in one year.for get her beauty or how long you have been together or how much you spent on the marriage.let her go before it's too late.damn.yiu married a child.marriage is for adults

Ur wife will pour u hot water or acid if u treat her d way u r sounding right now..so better be careful....

pple like u dont respect women...
This whole mess should have ended with a good round of love making..if d hysband got d signal when d wife seized d remote... he should have playfuy give her what she wanted but no..he already sees her as bad woman....dragging for remote haba

If ur girl hides a remote in her pant what does it signal?......grab me n Bleep me ..sorry to use that...but if ur wife does it ..she is lookin for trouble...


SMH ..for some men who think Wife is different from girl...

NobleG1:
I blame both of you for this mess.

Firstly, you didn't handle the situation appropriately at all. It is not a bad thing for your wife to ask you to accompany her to shop! She wanted you around her, which is what any woman who loves her partner does. Even if you don't want to go, you could tell her politely and promise go with her next time.

If your wife wants to use your stuff, you shouldn't say no (unless you're using it). In the case of a router, many people can use one at the same time. She's your wife and will always use your stuff till you leave this earth. what's yours is also hers and the same applies to hers.

When she asked for the router, you could have easily told her that you forgot it at the office and that you will bring it home next day. Ignoring her "to avoid problem" was a st*upid and childish thing to do. Good communication in marriage is very important and it prevents/resolves a lot of problems! You can't resolve MOST problems by simply keeping quiet or ignoring the issue or your pertner. You escalated the situation by not responding to her! By the way, why would you go to your office with the router? Your workplace has no internet?

You shouldn't have collected the remote from by force! It probably bruised her hands when you squeezed it from her grip. You supposed to know how to calm your wife down. You're the man in your hone and should behaved like one, not like an immature guy who was given a wife to marry and has no clue what to do.

You wife should come first before your st*upid game. She felt the game was more important to you than giving her the attention she needed at that moment. It's a humiliating thing to do to your wife!

Secondly, I understand your wife's frustration and anger but she went too far by spitting on you. That's not the best way to react to an annoying husband. And that's the only thing I feel she did wrong.

She did the right thing by seizing the remote to get your attention but you blew it. A smart husband would apologize and pet her until she releases the remote.

A happy wife, a happy life. When a husband seeks to please his wife, he can single handedly change the atmosphere in his marriage. There are great benefits for both a husband and wife to seek each other's happiness in their relationship.

God bless u ..i stand with u on this...if u r a guy ..ur wife is lucky ..very mature..

miky:
Bro just end that marriage!! If she is expecting a reaction from you and doing things to deliberately trigger you, one day you might kill that woman.

Trust me she no longer respects you, go look for another Wife!!!

see advice ..u go end marriage tire...

Dia is no smoke without fire...y didnt u follow her shopping?y did u ignore her when she was asking for d router.....is obvious u dont give her time ..cos u think she has problem n only ask for trouble..u use work as excuse...man she only wants some attention....hiding d remote thou..u play games on ur day off haba...u should be playing with her ...instead of grabbing her n collecting what she was holding...u should have grabed her butt kiss her so tight ..n tell her i know u r mad i didnt follow u shopping..am sorry am tired bra bra...

Now she spat on ur face ....cos u r dragging for what again...ahhhh..she get ming oooo..i cant do it to my husband..ooo choi...but u try u no beat her...chop knuckle ..never lay ur hands on her.... now do what

spend more time with her..
if she is a house wife...she is feeling u not giving her time...

Dont send her back....please....keep ur marriage ..God will bless u...

so he( Buhari) is aware that a man was arrested for naming a dog Buhari... But he kept quiet n only laugh..

Nigeria.
....
shaaaaaaa

banttieman:
Cindy truly rocks.
Thanks in advance.

ur plan might do d trick thou...... lobatan.... madam see d solution to d problem..


just be nice to d guy shaa ..

Is there no hostel in d school?..... if there is find a way to pay hostel fee for him..... so may be he can come around only weekend.... by d time hunger for hostel hammer him he will appreciate.. ..Students stay in d .. explain that to ur husband..... bad behaviour repels pple.... somr guys even cook food... i know of a guy who cooks more than his madam...

That is y is advisable not to allow thembin d first place...... is better help them find a place bt pls not ur home... once had d issur of some distant relative stranded n wanted to spend d night... we paid d hotel fee instead.... so when d time is up.she goes.

Now d question is....... Do u really what him to leave ur house ? or do u just want him to change his attitude...?
shaaa

The man has enter news n possibly gained international recognition .....now what happens next....compensated for all his troubles n he n his family starts living large.










now u wish u named ur dog buhari. ..

Uk....the last time i checked s country for whites...how come i no c one single oyinbo for the pics...........hmmmmm. shaaa

waiting for it to happen shaaa




mean while.......

waiting for it to happen shaaa




mean while.......

There is a very moderate n modest way to carry a woman be it who ever.....n is....ur one hand at her back n the other hand at the back of her knee...





Guys take not........





to not go about jerking girls around.......









shaaaaa

under ur noseoooo...under ur eyeooo oga(spanner..)dey service sister(madam) under ur noseooo..sikkiii sikiii..secret loveoooo..confi confi....confidential romanceooooo........Cos he said Sister..she didnt dig deep..lesson learnt...married woman even if na him sister cousin ..distant relation u know...still investigate.....shaaaa













is a pity...........

was expecting to c grown ups shaaaa

The wig shaaaa.....

The way they are shaaa ..

The way they are shaaa ..