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Yewandequeen:
wisdom is profitable unto the direct

Yewandequeen:
see na to push her off and go your way. Make him no allow him crazy wife let him commit murder. But many can't contain it, that moment she locks his clothe up and block his way, that's when many loose it and the beating commence.

TenQ:
Mat 19:8:
"He said to them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so."
Jesus said:
1. The law of divorce was not from the beginning (as God designed it).
2. A few thousand years later +at the time of Moses) was when the law of divorce was given by Moses (not God)

3. No where did God curse marriage in Genesis. God cursed the man, the woman, the serpent, the earth. In fact, the woman was now made to be independent of the man in Genesis.
Gen 3:16:
"To the woman he said, I will greatly multiply your sorrow and your conception; in sorrow you shall bring forth children; and your desire shall be to your husband, and he shall rule over you."

If Jesus said: from the beginning, it wasn't so about marriage, what else could it have meant?



If you look at the scripture closely, what Jesus was teaching was the permanence of marriage. Divorce by man is not recognised in heaven so that if anyone (married or single) married a divorced person, such commits adultery against the husband/wife of the divorced person.

Mar 10:11:
"And he said to them, Whoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, commits adultery against her."

Mat 5:32:
"But I say to you, That whoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causes her to commit adultery: and whoever shall marry her that is divorced commits adultery."


There is a difference between DIVORCE and SEPARATION!
Divorce is a permanent disunion of a union of marriage
Separation is a temporary disunion of the Union of marriage

Kobojunkie:
1. Yes, you ignored God's Law to you in Jesus Christ only to pull verses out of context to attempt to justify what is foolishness as far as your claims where Christianity is concerned

2. Submission didn't pop up out of thin air in Paul's letter. It began as God's curse in Genesis 3 vs 16 and God never reverted that curse(unholiness) to a blessing(holiness). So try to open your eyes so you are not deceived by the opinions of men in the name of God.

3. Jesus Christ is God's New Covenant and Law that God calls you to come into agreement with Him on. As Jesus Christ told you in many places in His teachings, those who belong to Him are those who obey His teachings(commandments) - John 14 vs 15 - 25. He told you that His friends are those who do as He commands - John 15 vs 14. So when Jesus Christ commands that you not be angry with your brother, He expects your obedience, not meaningless excuses.

Descottes:
I'm sorry you're too dumb to understand. So I'll leave it here

Descottes:
lol. I'm carbon copy of my mum. Infact people mistake us for twins. But I'm not her favorite

So your notion is void.

Prenonjebose:
Well said, sir. This is the problem. Some spouses try to hide this kind of abusive treatment from public view in order to save the born again reputation of their partners. This often fuel the fire, and as a result some of these persons often live in self denial. How can they receive help when it is the problem is not acknowledged.

Kobojunkie:
1. And in the very same scripture, you are told by God that submission in marriage is a curse He, God placed on marriage in Genesis 3 vs 16. And this the same curse - Genesis 3 vs 16 - 22 - God then sent Jesus Christ to redeem men from declaring that whosoever will believe in Jesus Christ- choosing to abandon the curse altogether- will not perish but have everlasting life. So how can a one who belongs to Jesus Christ go back to submit himself to a curse?

Can that which is of God embrace that which is unholy for God?

2. Jesus Christ said if you are angry at your brother, you are guilty of the fires of Hell. Was Jesus Christ being a fool when He said this to His followers?

A follower of Jesus Christ cannot also be a servant of the devil at the same time. The problem with people who think like you is you don't even know the Gospels let alone Jesus Christ but you assure yourselves deluded ways that you are of Him.

3. See this one quoting randomly from psalms and proverbs yet claiming to be of Jesus Christ.

almarthins:
You can't be a Christian n pound Ur wife for whatever reason. If any one so called Christian brother do that to his wife, then he was never a Christian but a bench warmer of the pews. Husband love Ur wife even as Christ love the church - it is a commandment.

I don't know any good God fearing Christian who beat their wife. Except those wolves in sheep clothings. By their fruits ye shall know them.

Yewandequeen:
i am able to type it because I do it often. I sometimes play phone games, go shopping etc

It might not work for all. However, it is an individual race to tame the beast inside of us, we all have that beastie side but it's only a matter of how we have trained it. And if you can't train your beast by yourself, simply get help from those that can.

Yewandequeen:
You are entitled to your opinion.

And by waking away doesn't mean leaving marriage, it only meant you leave the premises(taking a stroll out, drive out, go to the room) till both parties are calm and you both sit down to talk about it and work on lasting solution.

Nomiyesupersaint:
Only stoopid men will raise their hands and beat a woman.
Women are meant to be cared for,they are not punching bags

Yewandequeen:
i dont support the curse but the dude uttered total rubbish. No amount of flaw the woman has must make a man to hit her. What happened to him walking away? Some men are just animals pls.

EMMAXLULEX:
My people perished for lack of knowledge, God is not in support of divorce and He is not also in support of evil acts such as domestic violence and havoc. Please wise up!!!

peekay007:
Make una calm down na......,unless una want make i carry una matter reach pastorfire side......

Authentic79xp:
In line with goal number four of the sustainable development goals; which preaches education for all especially the children, the Education Community Development Service Group of the Ila Local Government Area has organised a quiz competition to enhance the educational standard of her host community.

The competition which was held on the 3rd of February, 2022, at the Igbonibi City Hall, Ila-Orangun, had in attendance twelve schools, the Permanent Secretary and Tutor General, Osun Central Education District Office (OCEDO), Ila-Orangun, Mr Adelani Aderinola, who was represented by Mr Dare Alabi; the Deputy Director, OCEDO, Mr A.O. Agboola and Mr Akin Oyerinde, the Assistant Director, OCEDO, the Executives of the Ila Local Government; Comrade Odewale Yinka, the Council Manager; Alhaji Oyeleke, the Head of Department, Finance; Mr Odeyinka and Mrs Esan Alabi Funmilayo, the Head of Department Social Development, who was represented by Mrs Olaiya Ayobami.

The Group organised the quiz competition amongst the senior secondary schools in the local government area to encourage the students to study hard and also to reward excellence.

Mr Omololu Omojowolo, the Local Government Inspector, in his opening speech appreciated the Group for coming up with such a laudable innovation aimed at improving the intellect of the students in the host community.

He also appreciated the local government authorities and well meaning Ìlà indigenes who supported the corps members in casfh or kind toward the actualisation of the project.

He charged the students to see the competition as a wake-up call to embrace hardwork and diligence in their academic pursuit.

"The targeted schools were informed of the competition in December 2021 to allow them effectively prepare their students for the inter-school debate competition which we all are here for today", he added.

He concluded by wishing the competitors good luck and admonishing them that they are all winners regardless.

At the end of the competition, Ila Technical College came first; the school got a merit award, 7,000 naira for each of the contestants, notebooks and other gift items. In second place was Al-Huda College, Ila and the contestants got a sum of 4000 naira each, as well as, notebooks and other gift items. Ajagunla Grammar School came third with each of the contestants going home with the sum of 3,000 naira and other gift items.

Other highlights of the event include free computer training granted to eleven students, amongst which included some of the participants as well as active students hand-picked from the audience during the debate program, sponsored by Mr Omotayo Babalola, Director, Igbomina Today Resource Center, Ila-Orangun and Publisher, Igbomina Today Magazine.

He offered to pay the JAMB registration fees and also provide free JAMB tutorials for seven of the contestants who are currently in the final classes and preparing for exams.

At the end of the event, the corps liaison officer gave the vote of thanks while the closing remark was given by corps member Ebueku Osayamen, President of the Group; who urged the students to continue in their quest for knowledge which according to him will add immense value to their lives and could eventually change the world for the better.

He thanked the teachers as well, for their input in preparing and prepping the students who are the future of the nation.

odimbannamdi:


We know your kind bro. You are trying so hard to be a smart ass, but the more you try, the more you reveal how uncouth, rude, incorrigible and immature you are. Thankfully, Seun will soon be introducing a common-sense test before members sign up to join Nairaland or make a post here. When that happens, we will have less of your kind to deal with.

When we began analysing and dissect issues from way back here, you were probably still in the university. I suggest you stick to your Npower, Neco and poultry hustles/threads and desist from bringing in negative energy and toxicity here.

odimbannamdi:
Thanks Dannyhonda

Sniper04, I believe this expressly answers your question. You didn't provide sufficient context to your question, so I took it to be in the general sense of every commission and provided you served the 35 years or compulsorily retired for age reasons.

Cheers bro!

odimbannamdi:
You welcome, bro.

I see why financial reward is important to you in your quest to join the Army. I wish you all the best in your Npower pursuit and the Army as well.

Cheers!

Dannyhonda:
Yes they do, after you serve for 15 years

Dannyhonda:
Yes they do, after you serve for 15 years

odimbannamdi:
Again, you failed to point out the lie I told. You just ended up bantering needlessly.

The question he asked is a rhetorical question. Everybody knows that a typical government job is pensionable, let alone our father's Army job. If anything, I am sure I responded to the guy's question humorously, and even provided him with a glimpse of how his life in the Army could be.

I pity whoever joins the Army for the "benefit" because no financial emolument will ever be worth a job where the risk of your losing your life is high. The Army is not lucrative at all, and financial rewards is a wrong mentality to use in joining the Army. You will get frustrated.

By the way, could you stop using the exclamation marks and capital letters, you come off like you are yelling and being rude.

Thanks.

odimbannamdi:
Gentleman, this is a thread for prospective gentlemen officers, so stop this tout-ish behaviour and show me where I lied in my post.

Thanks

odimbannamdi:
Yes na...lol...if God helps you and you get into, you will know the value of living one day at a time. Your waking prayer everyday will be for God to help you see the end of that day. Which time you wan come take dey reason pension matter.