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9jatriot:
He may have been a good man, but with due respect to him, there were question marks about his credentials as a leader. It was in his time we were hearing 8 point agenda. What many young people do not realize is that there were a lots of complain about his leadership style and people were saying he should reduce the 8 point agenda to 1 since it was looking like he was overwhelmed.

Maybe reducing fuel price is what you like about him, it was a populist move but on the long run was a bad move. CAnceling the sale of the refineries was another major bad thing. Then the investment in the power sector which they prematurely began to probe is why we are still where we are in terms of power.

The power plants that were coming into the country were abandoned at the ports because there was no more funding to get them out and continue with the power plan.

GEJ just came and decided that looting was what he should be remembered for

And some clowns are rooting for GEJ for 2027.


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Baawaa:
ADC will scattered after the primary elections,those that understand Nigeria's politics will agree with me,let wait and see

You've said it all, the implosion of ADC is inevitable after the primary Election.


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Sonnobax15:

Okay na

Make Dem come back home

At least,every sane Nigerian should know by now that an average south African derives pleasure from hating Nigerians

Did you read the write up He said Nigerians and other foreign Nationals.

Not only Nigerians.

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[quote author=richiemcgold post=136522020]Hell fire straight! No doubt about it. Rest in Pieces man. The Devil is really proud of you.

That was how our transformer was vandalised last month at Lugbe Abuja. We had to contribute money to replace what they stole.

This will be the fate of all vandals


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erad:
150k per month isn't enough?

Lol... What are you eating? That's enough to get basic foodstuffs and every other little thing can be bought when needed. Y'all act like food is now gold in Nigeria.

Or wait first, where do you live in Nigeria? I think that plays a role as well.

What basic foodstuff?? How much is a bag of rice currently?? How much is a kg of gas?? Come on be realistic i mean a family of four. I'm a man with a wife and a daughter we spend more than that in a month.

Procashtips:
Almost 42 years
A freelance/independent consultant
With 2 children (Almost 6 and Almost 4)
Wife working.

Lost it all in bad collaboration, fraudulent investments, bad/wrong investments and also theft.

Got an asset that can give him ₦20m after debts are paid.
How does he bounce back with the above?

Rent is 2m annually
School fees is 300-350k termly.
Feeding ₦150k+ monthly
Others: ₦100k monthly


If you are in his shoes, what are you going to do?

He plans to be responsible for running the house this time around without relying on assistance from the wife to restore sanity/orderliness.

Advice him from the point of financial and career stability,

Sell the asset. But do your due diligence properly


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KobeMan:
We married A Year ago. We decided to wait for a year before having kids. We started trying 3 few months but no success. I told both of us needs to get tested. I did Sperm Analysis & the result is good, I'm very fertile.

She did pelvic scan, and in the scan, She has fibroid (Submocousal fibroid 5.5cm). The news broke me and I was very sad, I never imagined I'll be in this kind of situation. We went to the gynecologist and He told us to go for HSG to check her fallopian tube, The result showed that Both Tubes are blocked.

I've not been myself for the last couple of days. I had to pretend to be strong because She was down & has been crying as well. This are two serious fertility issues and Her chances of conception is very low. Even if The gynecologist tells us to do the IVF(Which I don't even have money for it cause it's vey expensive) They'll still have to remove the fibroid.

This are very expensive procedures that are not even guaranteed that it will work and She will conceive. I'm the only male child in my family, in my early 30's. Pressure will start coming from all directions and also considering my my age, I don't pray to experience delay with child birth. I just decided to pour own my mind here. I'm really down, I don't know what to do.

Sorry for your plight, but are both of you not suppose to do all these test before you commit??
To find out how fertile both of you are, so to make informed decision whether to go ahead or not if she isn't fertile then you know what you're entering.

I'm married for 2years 3 months with a daughter. We did all the test before our nuptial.


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Immatex:
The airport security is a disgrace.

Someone that should have been placed under arrest, cuffed and taken away to cool off in a detention facility.

Simply because he sings noisy songs and has the President’s contact, he was allowed to fool himself at an airport and ground a flight.

You've said it all, you can't try this elsewhere especially in a European airport. You will be handcuffed and taking away, the airport security is a mess. Have used Istanbul airport(Turkey), frankfurt(Germany)airport, Charles de gaul airport(Paris), Milan Airport(Italy), Bole International Airport Addis Ababa(Ethiopia).



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Silentgroper:
Just keep fvcking..

Then finally divorce ..

Nothing like forgive here...

Keep fucking?? Where i come from in Esan when you caught your wife Cheating (not girl friend) if you continue to sleep with her and eat her food you're gone( dead) cause is an abomination. You either kick her out or do the cleansing traditionally.


But for me the day you cheat on me you're living my house that very moment. You're going with the said man.


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PaNnamdi:
Must u announce say u give your wife money make he go qrar waste bead for you

How are we sure say no be your wife dey feed you

I'm not from the south East(Ibo). where i come from wives don't feed us(Husband)where I come from. I can give you my FB name to go check my profile. Mind you on a monthly basis I spend a minimum of 300k to run my home, made up of myself, wife and a one year old daughter.

I can place you on 70k monthly wage

Do you earn 300k on a monthly basis That's the minimum I spend and often time is more than that


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pointblank247:
Cheating,
Cheating
Cheating
Cheating
Cheating

Cheating and being disrespectful.


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OlaOfLagos:
Waist beads is a type of jewelry worn around the waist or on the hips originating from West Africa, they are traditionally worn by women as a symbol of beauty, sexuality, femininity, fertility, well-being or maturity. There’s nothing bad if a girl is wearing waist beads. Some house wives wear it too.

Gave my wife money to get and start wearing it, cause I love it.


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Talkisneeded:
The only jewelry I feel comfortable is wristwatch,anything other than side feels like extra load…
Don’t beat around it too much, just talk to her

Same with me, had to learn it with my wedding band(Ring) since I got married May 16th 2023.


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BeginsAtHome:
May God have mercy on her and grant her family comfort.

May my children not be unfortunate to cross paths with the offsprings of the(se) killer(s) cos their generation is cursed if the land. Amen

Amen, this is the second incident today alone in this forum. where are those condemning jungle justice for one chance drivers/robbers/kidnappers in this forum.May you fall victim and end up like this wherever you reside in Nigeria i won't add your love ones. Just imagine after collecting someone belongings(which is wrong)why not stop in not busy road and allow them to come down rather you push them down a moving car on top speed.


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franchasofficia:
Obi keeps confusing them the more. Wait and see, their tears will fill up this thread very soon.


Peter Obi is an enigma, the only Nigerian politician with natural tsunami followership without spending shishi

Peter Obi should not deputise for Atiku, if ADC will not give him the ticket, he should contest under Labour Party. Presidency should be in the south for eight years. The north had their eight years under Buhari.

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Bluntguy:
Na Atiku desperation for power go kill this ADC kpatakpata.

What happened in 2023 will happen again, aggrieved southern candidate like Obi will leave the coalition and vote will be splitted and Tinubu will win.

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fkelly:
these are the people making life unbearable for the common man

You've said it all, making exhobitant revenue, killing businesses and high cost of items for Nigerians.


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bobonla:
My brother they have change app ooo. Ninauth.
I did dob modification its more than 6months now nothing reflect

Why not go to the nearest NIMC state office, Close to you and do it. Did mine it reflected within 7days( note: after making the online payment and accompanying it with the necessary documents you need to grease palm if you know what I meant)


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Goo0dHardDick:
I knew that this ADC coalition won't see the light of the day.

They all want the ticket and that is exactly how the coalition will scatter

You've said it all, what is this madness about one term. Cause Obi said he will only do one term Ameachi is saying same.

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Itiskdg121:
Bro, that's women for you.

My advice for all men is "Prioritize yourself in all you do". Very important.
Refuse to be blinded by love, belief or religion. Be intentional about being selfish.

And above all, never be afraid to walk away at anytime.

My cent!!!

You're right, I live and work here in Italy.most married men(not all) are facing the same thing here. The wife won't contribute a dime towards the upkeep of the house but will be sending their money home to family and also buying properties in Nigeria while the man pay everything.


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Chilipepper:
Happy Father's Day to all the amazing fathers in the house! Fathers are the pillars that hold the family together, offering unwavering support in every way. Though your sacrifices may sometimes go unnoticed, today we celebrate and honor you. Wishing you a long life filled with peace, joy, and fulfillment. Happy Father's Day!

Happy father's day to me and all fathers our there(including those that has passed. My dad inclusive)!!!

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KnowledgePower7:
Wrong
If anything happens to her
It is her cousin that will be responsible.

For her and her cousin to conspire and not tell their parents the truth. So if anything happens
Op will say she travelled to her Cousin place🤷

It is not Op job to call her parents
It is her job to inform her parents but She decided to not inform them. .

What is she hiding from them.
I won't be surprised if her side guy start visiting her in her cousin place.
More room and space for them to Tatatata.

You got it wrong, the Op should call the parents immediately and tell them she's no longer in his house( she's with her cousin).


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Okeytech:
Some days ago i posted about my unrepentant cheating wife and plans to chase her away https://www.nairaland.com/8447833/want-send-wife-packing/2#8447833.93

Today i woke up and told her to put her things together before i come back from work cos I'll be taking her back to her parents then she started telling me that it won't pain her cos she has money now and that she has been planning to rent a house before now, so i replied her and said it's good. Then i left to work and after some time while i was at work my mind was telling me to close earlier than usual and i heed to my mind and closed and headed home. Immediately i got home she had already chartered a cab and was packing her things, so i entered the house and checked her load that she was arranging then i found out she had packed alot of foodstuff palm oil, groundnut oil, rice, beans, spaghetti soaps, detergent etc. Then i quietly started packing them back to the kitchen and told her this are my properties, the next thing she did was to slap me and hit me and i got angry and beat her. After some time of dragging she left and i told her to leave the kids which she did. Right now i got to find out through my house help who is staying with me that she didn't go back to her family house but rather she went to her cousin's place to stay cos she overhead her phone calls with her cousins when i left for work.... So as it is now, nobody from her family knows she has left my house.

Shame is part of the reason she doesn't want to go back home and offcourse none of her elder siblings supported all her cheating acts that i've been complaining to them about and she got angry and stopped talking to them cos they didn't support her.

Please call her family ( especially her parents) to intimate them she's no longer in your place. Change the keys to the apartment and don't accept her back no matter the pleading from family members.

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bluebay:
So you think marrying 38 is early ? Am talking about this who got married around 25-35

Read my write up to understand, it's very late. I said if you have the means and maturity it's better you marry early as a man at most on your 30th birthday. 35 for is still very late 25-30 is better if you have what it takes

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Unseen:
In military, one of the Rules of Engagement states that a civilian with a weapon is military and should be treated as such.

In man/woman relationship... A woman that hits you first is a Man and should be treated as such

I can never hit a woman first, no matter the provocation, i will rather walk away. But if you hit me first I will hit you back.

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bluebay:
Marrying early
Is not right

Who told you Though I got married a week after my 38th Birthday in 2023, currently have a daughter who will be one year next month. While I clocked 39 years last month.

If you have the means(finances) and maturity marry early or at most don't exceed your 30th birthday.


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Slytiger:
https://guardian.ng/news/fact-check-claim-that-peter-obi-left-no-debt-in-anambra-is-false/

Did you listen to the interview, contractors or vendors who has completed their project including, vendors who have done their supplies where not owed. Salaries and pensions where also paid. Who pays contractors or vendors upfront?


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Exousiang01:
I have always said that Nigerians are the greatest problem of Nigeria.
We are just too wicked as a people

You're right, and we want a country that works for all. Most Nigerians(Not all) are evil. How do you vandalise something you know can lead to loss of life and properties of fellow Nigerians.


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CaptainFM1:
Even China cannot use this kind of trains they are giving us.

This is not a train please, it's a metro.

Train connects cities and regions. Metros, on the other hand, are designed for rapid transit within urban cities.


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chiiraq802:
Ur husband is acting weird

If na me, na 4 ur papa house or baby daddy house you for dey dey post this gibberish.

You've said it all, I wonder who is breeding these weak men.

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PigTormentor:
I just bought gas yesterday in Epe Lagos, it's only 13k.
Where are you getting all these from?

Bought 12kg of gas at Lugbe Abuja last week Monday at #1200 per kg.

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