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Odewaleadesoye:
Same here man.
Very sad.
God will heal the wounds for us.

Amen, Buried my Dad in June,

The death of a love one is a pain will learn to live with till the day we die, apart from the death of my Dad, 2021 was good to me


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Cyntie55:
Good day nairalanders. Season greetings to y'all. I'm so angry right now. Please I need mature advice.

My father is not a learned person but he make sure all his children are graduates. My younger brother(last born and only son) rounded up his Nysc few months ago, we're just 2 girls. My elder sis and I. My elder sis is a nurse in Austria (3 years now), she's married with a kid in Austria. My big sister send money home once in 3 months, and I have been the one receiving the money. I share the money exactly as instructed by my big sis. I have never cheated anyone, Infact my Dad and Big sis communicate very well. My Dad trust me so much.

My younger brother is always angry, He said he feel cheated all the time. He shouts and talks to me anyhow like I'm his mate.
Honestly speaking, I gave my younger brother more love and respect that he could ever imagine. When he was serving, he would call telling me he need 10k urgently, sometimes 20k, that he will pay back. Immediately I will send it to him and he would never pay back. Same thing he does to my father.
If we ask him what's he using his allawee for?? He would angrily say so is becus we're sending him "chicken change" that's why we're asking jamb questions.

He said we don't regard him, he called my Dad a SIMP, he said my Dad listen more to my big sis and I....but he don't listen to any of his suggestions.

My brother is a 2:1 (second class upper) graduate in economics from UNIBEN. After his Nysc all he does is to sleep and eat. My Dad's good friend told my brother to come to Lagos and resume work with him. He refused. My Dad ask him if he wants to further his education (masters or professional courses)he said no....Okay follow my Dad to his cement shop and help him (my dad even promised to pay him salary) he refused....I overheard him on a call with a friend and i suspect he's now into yahoo yahoo.

Look at what happened. My big sis sent us money yesterday to celebrate this festive period. She said I should give my brother 50k, I should take 80k and give my father the rest (abt 250k). My Dad is always aware of everything.
I even added 20k out of my money and I transferred 70k to my brother, I was left with 60k (becus she also sent me hair and I plan to sell it becus I already had enough). You can imagine this ungrateful idiot started insulting me, that I cheated him. the fool angrily withdrawn the money from his account and SET IT ON FIRE (70k). He called my elder sister and started warning her saying "if he can't receive the money henceforth, she should stop sending him money again that he's the man of the house".
My Dad gave him a resetting, resounding, hot and dirty slaps. He pulled out a knife, deflated my Dad's car tyres and ran away from the house.

Everyone is not happy. I don't want my brother to live a wayward life. He's 24 years old. Please nairalanders Help!

My question is this, how did your parents raised him? Was he pampered cause he is the only male child? Most African parents are guilty of this not all.
What i see here is a child that was over pampered.

I will advise you stay away from him cause such a brother can harm. But still continue to pray for him.

Note: Train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old he will not depart from it


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Merry Christmas and a blessed 2022

YoungLionken:
More than half actually..

OBJ comes to mind..

Everyone's(me too) complaining of Buhari, but the problem didn't really started with him..

Sixteen years of PDP in power shattered the Nigeria of our dreams...

Absolutely, it amazes me when some dumb citizens attribute everything to Buhari from terrorism to Banditry. These problems are as a result of incompetence at the part of past leaders.
Not that I'm trying to absolve PMP he has also performed below expectations.


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SmartPolician:
Nobody will believe these stats.

In sane countries, they are giving massive Christmas discounts and bonanzas. But in Nigeria, the prices of everything rise at Christmas for reasons best known to the sellers.

Something is definitely wrong with the Black man.

That's how it is in festive season.


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eazzzy1:
I know you and your wife’s aunty do not like yourselves, and you are allowing it affect your relationship with your wife. Your wife lived with her for 18 years, she practically raised your wife and can be referred to as your mother in law.

Treat her with respect as you would treat your own mother or let your hatred for her remain your hatred for her, stop forcing your wife to have issues with her, don’t put her in that position where she has to choose between her ‘mother’ and you, it’s unfair to her.

Did you read what the op wrote at all

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uyimen:
That is were the attack is strong becos, when i caution my wife she flares in anger and we could start a week long fight....

You caution her she flares in anger and could start a week of long fight?? Man up and tell her to choose between the marriage and her aunt.

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Healthrelatedjo:
Lol, � na inside village u dey o
Just be friendly with your students and the villagers,that's the only thing that can keep u safe and alive bro.

God bless you, for such advise

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Fatbam003:
It's not NYSC.. it's a permanent state government job in Oyo state. Infact NYSC would have been better because I know it's just a year

Don't say so, firstly be grateful to good for this opportunity to give back to the society, you may be sitting on a gold mine without knowing.

Note: great things comes from uncomfortable situations.


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FriendsAndFans:
Na mumu dey do NYSC

Naa Ghost dey reign

Did you read what the op posted

This is a state teaching appointment (job) at the state civil service.


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FarahAideed:
He is very right !!!! The Kainji Air Weapon school is easily within the reach of Bandits and they can overun that base if they want to and there won't be enough time to get those aircraft airborne before they are completely destroyed....I wonder what informed parking them at such a vulnerable location .. Maiduguri airport is even more secure

Those jet should be parked in the west or south and can be flown from there whenever operations is needed.

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Lemmy123:
Eweeeyyyy!

I don't understand why this vaccine thing is made compulsory for civil servants. I mean the most they could do is test them and be sure they don't have the virus rather than forcing the evil vaccine on them

Civil servants are modern day slaves, freelancing is the new oil...

Nobody is forcing the vaccine on anyone, if you don't want to take the jab, you will bear the cost of doing PCR test every 72hours. Same is applicable here in Europe.

Note: your PCR test must be negative for you to access public facilities from 6th December 2021.


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Voy:
NNPC Contracts Innoson Motors To Manufacture Condensed Natural Gas City Buses



https://www.legit.ng/nigeria/1445285-nnpc-deploy-3000-buses-nigeria-cushion-effects-subsidy/?fbclid=IwAR3dTY8DuKg2i8vKw40ef9wDaF2iN6KGULwyraDMmghdELlIJg2f8bncqkc

Is Apc led federal government this clueless?? Before removing fuel ⛽ subsidy why not fix the four refineries first.

This so called city busses won't solve nothing.



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SuperStriker:
Good day everyone.
I don't want to cheat on my wife but she cannot cope with my demands for sex. She even told me to control myself and be more spiritual and I am wondering. If I am not controlling myself, I would have cheated on her long ago. I am a fine looking man with many opportunities to cheat. We only have sex when she's ready and wants it, anything outside that is excuse upon excuse. How can a woman I married be telling me to control myself?

Did you court her, how was your sex life during courtship? The aforementioned two questions will determine the advise I will give you.


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Rickmann:
How is 2.2 a failure?
Or
Since when did education become the true test of knowledge?
A lot of factors could ve been responsible for that, not because you are dull..

The earlier parents begin to emancipation themselves from this mental slavery in Nigeria, the better for us all.

2.2 is not a bad grade, left the university with 2.2 Economics and Statistics a decade ago. But note this it will deny you of some opportunity especially if you're young and want a career path in most blue chips firms as a graduate trainee.


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xynerise:
In 2019 I lost a brother, grandpa and grandma.
In 2021, I lost an aunt.

May their souls rest in peace

2021, lost my Dad May 7th, still like a dream to me.
May his soul and that of the faithful departed continue to rest in peace, till will meet to path no more.

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GeneralDae:
Maybe Poland. However, you should realize there would be language barrier and even the polish citizens are running to Germany for more work opportunities.
Some countries in Europe, but for the fact that they are part of the EU would have been more or less like most African countries economically.

You've said it all, most Eastern Europe �� countries (not all) economies are in shambles the likes of Poland, Albania, Romania some African countries economies are better than theirs. Have some colleagues from those countries in Milan here.


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PrinceOfLagos:
I'm so impressed with the level of turnout of voters in Anambra

It has been peaceful and voters turn out, impressive.

God bless Anambra state

God bless Anambra state and Ndi Anambra.
Anambra and Anambarians are peace loving people. Did my Nysc in Agulu(Neni, Anaocha Local Government Area) a decade ago

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ryloy:
Good one and shame on people who dont want peace in Igboland

God bless Ndi Anambra my second home. Anambra and Anambarians are peace loving. Did my Nysc in Agulu(Neni, Anaocha Local Government Area) a decade ago.


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Jasmine17:
I don’t want to believe its all. I also believe its a learned mentality. Hence it can also be unlearned.

He said most(most doesn't mean all) most and all are not synonyms.


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Jashub:
Prayer without works is dead . Likewise Nigerian leaders don't understand the difference between playing politics and being spiritual for the sake of Godly intervention. Rather, they'll choose to politicize such things as avenue to deceive the general public.

These people are clown

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sosowater:
There's nobody that I know (in Germany) that's is not doing well. I know 3 people and they're doing perfectly fine.

You don't expect someone that went there through an illegal route to be doing well because he won't have the papers to hustle.

You don't expect someone that could not tell the in demand skills or knowledge and go for it, to be doing well.

You don't expect someone that is doing menial jobs, paying bills and other things to be sending money to you in Nigeria because they don't pick money overseas. He has a family to take care of too so stop being a burden to him.

You don't exprct someone that went there and got carried away with the enjoyment - good system, freedom and quality of life to make money, save more and invest.

There are people making millions and yet they can't account for it but there are people making thousands and they have investments, no debts, and are living comfortably.

Every mallam with him own kettle.

If you want to go over there, just ensure that you're going through the right route and then go for skills/education that are in demand. Abtoad isn't Nigeria. Most technical skills, health related professions and handworks pay more because their citizens don't stress themselves with such. They (majority) prefer easy jobs like customer service, office admin, supply chain management, bank teller, restaurant manager, HR, executive assistant, business administration, etc. So, don't expect to get such jobs when there are many locals to do them. Racism aside, employers will prefer locals to do that over you.

Again, try to call your friend in Germany from Nigeria and see how much you'll be charged just for a minute call.

My brother, in abroad, a cent is valued. No money is small over there. If you're not financially disciplined, you won't have anything to show for your many years of working and living there.

Most of those people abroad live average life, which is quality too. They earn well, eat well, have good healthcare and enjoy a working system. The key thing is to make enough money in hard currency and do great things in Nigeria, which makes you a rich man in Nigeria.

Also, if you're planning to go and stay with your friend over there, be ready to have your own cash cos he won't be paying house rent, water bills, internet and electricity bills for you. You guys will be sharing it.

There's gold in Germany and some good countries too but know what you're going there for. Don't go there with the mindset of just doing small jobs that will pay you €8 or 12 euros per hour because it seems a big money when converted to naira. Have a skill or go for an indemand skill or course that will set you up for life.

Remember, make the money there, save and invest.

You've said it all


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yinkus6750:
Good game plan.
Both candidates having Muslims as deputy, will go a long way in getting more support.
Pray the election should be peaceful, free and fair, while the people's vote should count.
Wish both Obaseki and Iyamu, best of luck.

Philip is a Christian (Roman Catholic) not a Muslim

KingAzubuike:
These scheme ought to be scrapped.

I propose a one year mandatory service in the military for all graduates. That's more efficient and purposeful than NYSC

That's how it is done in civilised climes

Dansuqi:
He will not step down.votes in edo south will rather be divided.shuaibu will be destroyed up north

Bros are you his campaign manager?

KingAzubuike:
That animal right there is very sacred. Thou shall not harm.

You're right, you don't kill python(Eke) in most part, if not the whole of Anambra state. We where told then at NYSC orientation camp at Umunya

Dansuqi:
Ogbeide ihama will win the primaries

The issue is not winning the primary can he match POI, he's still very young and should step down for Obaseki. Looking at the political permutations it favours OBASEKI, cause he only has one term left Edo central will support him over whemly, Edo South will also support him, vote in Edo North will be divided cause it is also a stronghold op Philip Shuaibu the deputy Governor

kahal29:
https://punchng.com/how-pdp-govs-chieftains-endorsed-obaseki-shaibu-ticket/?

What is he saying? Can he stand Osague Ize Iyamu if given the PDP Gubernitorial ticket? The only person as at today who can give APC a run for their money is Obaseki.

bolaayenimo:
This is one of the most loyal deputy governors i have ever seen, not Ambode's deputy who fled

You're absolutely right right, I love their courage. The only way Apc will capture Edo is through rigging. OSHOMHOILE and Tinibu should know that Edo is not Lagos. Come September 19th Obaseki and Philip will Bleep the midget of Iyamo of Edo state up

ODJ124:
isoright

impeachment loading .....

There's nothing like impeachment here, he(Obaseki) has control of the state Assembly. Governor Samuel Ortom of Benue state did same before the 2019 general election. Obaseki already new ab initio what will happened that was why he made sure he had members of the state Assembly on his side

DonFreshmoney:
PDP should adopt Obaseki. To me he is more popular than all their 3 aspirants combined. You cant be more popular than a sitting governor (good or bad)..most times negative criticism is also good publicity

Politics is all about taking risk, PDP should take the risk and give obaseki the ticket. He has more financial leg and spending power than their 3 aspirants combined, he will only do 4 years in office, that ize ize iyamu of a fool might want to do 8 years which means edo south may hold power for 12 years.. I am sure people from edo central and north should calculate and allow obaseki complete his tenure so power return to their constituency.

Absolutely, the only popular candidate in PDP is the Rice Man, from Edo central. He(Obaseki)should be able to reach a compromise with them and the party.

obonujoker:
Charles Osasuwa, founder of Rock of Ages Christian Assembly Inc, has said it is a sin to live in a rented apartment.

He said this in a message on his Facebook wall on Thursday.

He went on to explain that it is actually a sin for Christians to live in a rented apartment because they will end up having two lords – Jesus and the landlord.

He said “the tenant is always at the mercy of the landlord. The landlord can call the tenant anytime and he can request to use his apartment anytime. The Christian who is a tenant should work towards freeing himself from the second Lord which is the Landlord.”

Osasuwa also said churches who operate in rented properties are not left out. He said “a church that operates in a rented apartment is having two lords. This should not be.”



https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=2666004633640561&id=1619094834998218

Never knew this man is a clown

Ayomisure:
Is animal science a good course?

What are the job opportunities and what is the average salary of an animal scientist.

Urgent answers needed please.

There are alot of courses that should be exponge from our curriculum and animal sciences is part of them. The job prospect is very bleak in Nigeria except you want to be a lecturer. Come to think of it how many functioner zoo do we have in Nigeria