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Nozarashi:
Na still 1400.
Been like that for months

You're apt, same in Abuja and Benin. Visited my mum in Benin city had to get her a new 6kg cylinder and I filled it at 1400 naira per kg.


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janvier27:
There must have been a communication breakdown somewhere before or during your search for vehicle. In my opinion, since it was a special one-off event, you could have made advance arrangements for transports. You probably overreacted or expected too much from a stressed pregnant woman. I think you should follow what her mother says. She'll reappear & if she's got no good explanation for her disappearance, you may have to reconsider your plans with her.

You've said it all boss, have been married for two years plus with a daughter. Pregnancy is not easy the pain and stress that comes with it is not compared to the financial part we took as men.Though women have their shortcomings too cause we are all humans. Please stick to the aforementioned advise.


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Tenrack:
I'm toned? yyyyyyyyyyyyygyyyyy

I'm toned too.



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Deeprooted:
I won't bore you with unnecessary details.

My immediate younger sister is less than 2 years in her marriage with no children yet.

On the 13th of February, this year, her sister in-law moved in with her 6 children.

My sister thought it was just a visit only to be informed by the husband that his sister was divorced and would be with them for a few days.

Since her arrival with her children, my sister lost everything that has to do with privacy in her matrimonial home.

Dishes unwashed, a bag of rice lasts less than a month, the sitting room littered with dishes.

My sister has become a stranger in her home as the sister in-law now advises her husband against being too loving.

I love my sister so much and I'm already thinking of taking her away from that toxic environment.


I want my sister to leave the marriage since the husband is not helping matters with her sister.

This 17th of May and the sister in-law and her children are not making any arrangements of getting an apartment of their own.

What would you advise my sister to do?

The man was wrong by not informing the wife before the sis and the kids moves in. If the wife(your sis) treat him that way how will he feel? Spouse should always discuss sensitive matters like this before coming up with a final decision.

Tell your sis to sit the husband down and discuss this with him calmly. Six kids and thier mother?? Since he can feed them he should as well rent an apartment for them. Sorry to say this your sis husband is wicked.

Note: got married 2years plus ago with a daughter. With the little experience I have in marriage, I can boldly say what he did is wrong, and same when it is the other way round i.e your sis bringing someone in without informing him



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AMINDA:
Southsouth and Southeast was locked for him in 2023 but he still lost. The work to be done is not in the Southsouth and Southeast. It's in the North! Tinubu lost those regions woefully including Lagos but still won because he got 5.6m votes in the North.

Yes you're apt, but this time around the north are not with him(Tinubu). My major concern is Atiku(Spoiler cause is not yet the turn of Nothern Nigeria)who might probably split the votes Obi will get from that region.


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makavellidon:
lose your arm for 25m hiss........some people go just talk any how

You've said it all, what is 25m compare to loosing your arm for life?? I guess the guy who typed such is probably high on something.


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kedeojo:
obi can't win the north. the race is still between Tinubu and Atiku. Kwankwaso just want to use obi to penetrate the obidient who are mostly south east in preparation for 2031. very smart move. I keep saying that igbos will be the pawn in the political chess game of 2027. the best combo will have be Atiku and obi and that will have lead to the surest way to igbo presidency.

That's not true brother. Obi will loose most of his followers (Obidients) if he accept to be Atiku vice presidential candidate. Must Atiku run in 2027, the south still has four years more to rule.



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AMINDA:
Southsouth and Southeast was locked for him in 2023 but he still lost. The work to be done is not in the Southsouth and Southeast. It's in the North! Tinubu lost those regions woefully including Lagos but still won because he got 5.6m votes in the North.

You're right, but 2027 might be different. Kwankwaso( his running mate) might be the game changer and his commitment (obi's) to do one term of 4years.

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AMINDA:
Elrufai, the Genius and original Master strategist already said in an interview 8 months ago that 2027 will be a three-horse race and will go into a run-off in the worst case scenario. The truth is that, everything will depend on momentum. If the OK ticket builds enough momentum, Tinubu will not have it easy in the South. If he sticks with the muslim-muslim ticket, his little gains in the Christian middlebelt will be eroded and Obi will benefit. If he replaces Shettima, he risks the ire of the Muslim North. Tinubu's best shot is for Obi not to be on the ballot at all. Otherwise, his only pathway will lie in the North, just like in 2023.

Wether Momentum or not, South South(excluding Rivers cause it may be rigged liked 2023) and South East is already locked for PO(OK).


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Sonnobax15:

Nothing is free bro,not even in freetown.

Just like the dude above said,you shoulda just told her you'd give her a tip after the whole clean up stuff. No be everything we suppose to dey use dey castigate these bannies.

You've spoken my mind.


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Daguccizgreat:
Jokers. If Peter Obi is not the ADC flag bearer then Tinubu should continue make all of us learn the hard way. Atiku is a crook just like Emilokan and they both lack leadership skills

That's my take, the south still has four more years. If ADC can't give the ticket to Obi Tinubu should complete the pending four years.

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Duru9:
Good evening all

As we are in this compulsory lock down I decided to share some cool rich places I discovered in Abuja here while doing my uber/bolt job, though currently I don't have car I'm driving in case anyone needs drive oh


1) clintre Organic garden maitama: very cool and calm place, a white client ordered me from United Nations building to this place, from the entrance you will never believe the kind of thing that's inside from the entrance it look like forest I'm getting inside I saw another world, majority of people there are whites

2) blucabana :: a very sweet restaurant and bar located in mabushi, after Zeus paradise hotel
The place is beautifully built with a swimming pool, that's where you will meet white folks also

3) Jabi bolt Club :: this place is another coded place for big guys them, it's directly behind Nera hotel very close to jabi Lake you will love to visit there

4) the dome ::: another cool place in central business area

5) City park
7) junk yard

There are other purpolar places though like

Crush cafe
Eden garden
Sofa loung
Cubana


You can add yours




Don't mind my write up there are so many other places I can't remember
I know a lot of hotels
A lot of local joints
A lot of when to carry them babes

Have been to Eden garden. It's cool though.


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TimeManager:
Some people are underestimating Ameachi, If he could come second in APC primaries, defeating a sitting Vice President in Osinbajo, I don't think Obi is a hard task for him. The APC camp that decamped to ADC are largely pro-Ameachi.
But first, will they be thrown out of ADC?, sooner rather than later, we will know.

-Kiss the truth!

Underestimating what??, Amaechi cannot win his state(Rivers), As a presidential candidate of ADC. If they're serious ADC should pair OBi and Kwankwaso. That's the only team that can give APC a run for it money.mind you south still has 4yrs.


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buygala:
Why is a Dr heading enforcement for Pharmacy Council of Nigeria?

Or are Pharmacists now also Doctors?

NDLEA, NAFDAC and now PCN are all in the business of locking down questionable pharmacies....Isn't Pharmacy regulation supposed to be a centralized thing?

Some higher institutions like university of Benin award Pharm.D(Doctor of Pharmacy)degree to it graduate from college of Pharmacy. They can be addressed as Doctor for short or Doctor of Pharmacy.


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[quote author=Mattswaggz post=139138811]This housing crisis is becoming serious in the UK and Nigeria is towing the same path as things stands though some will even argue that it is even worse compared to the UK

Not only in the UK, other European countries are inclusive and Nigeria will soon follow suit.

No thanks to some social media influencers who come online. Saying building properties for rent is a waste of investment.


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Juliette5803:
Why is so much negativity attached to any president

Evil man(President)


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nairalanda1:
What you are arguing for is that dangote should cut workers salaries, cut mainteance costs, and cut a lot of other things, so that you can have cheap fuel.

Life no be that way.

(Yep, I am not supporting this tinubu government too, before anyone starts. Just plain economics.)



Add the fact that the refineries that imported fuel comes from refine low quality fuel. That was the main source of our fuel before the dangote refinery came on stream.

Then dangote is operating under tinubu economy. Unless tinubu has started running the economy well, domestic producing costs go dey higher.

Saying imported fuel are low quality is not true. In a normal economic settings locally refined fuel should not be more expensive by 12% compared to imported fuel.


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jmoore:
Is Dangote the president of Nigeria?
You are waiting for BUA refinery. What happened to the propaganda of portharcourt refinery exporting petrol to UAE?
BUA has cement. What is the price difference between Dangote cement and BUA cement?

I was laughing the other day when Otedola and Dangote met Tinubu and they said they were discussing economic reforms.
Dangote is importing crudeoil.

My question is, why will imported fuel be cheaper than Dangote's fuel by 12%, it will never be well with the Federal government of Nigeria and CBN governor Godwin Emefiele who was giving Dangote subsidised forex. Somebody they should've allowed to go source for forex from black market during the construction of his refinery. Of what benefit is the refinery to ordinary Nigerians


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Cum4me:
All this mummies boy that has been brainwashed by religion will always caused issues with beautiful ladies. OGA waistbide is African fashion it's our way of dressing. Must everything be diabolical. I love my woman with waistbid. Do you think if a woman wants to hurt you diabolical will use through waistbit. What about food and others thing's she dose for you. Una done too carry religion and western world life full head. Now everything about out fashion looks diabolic to you guys. It's a pity

For me waist bead is okay, but leg chain is a NO.


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oyichi:
If this is true, I support him, they should all leave the pdp for wike. In the long run, wike will know what he has done to himself

You're absolutely 💯 right.

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Chickenandchips:
https://www.facebook.com/share/18Qvhyg7gG/

How can you have erection for your own daughter DNA should be conducted on the daughter.


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Moneyyman:
He would not say that if he married right. Most fine guys will end up marrying the wrong woman for several reasons.

Just pray, keep open eyes, and have a standard you don't negotiate.

You've said it all, have been married for three years with a daughter. Marriage is good if you get the right partner ( and you also been the right partner).


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adenigga:
Source: https://dailypost.ng/2026/01/01/convert-to-islam-or-die-iswap-burns-down-christian-village-in-adamawa-nigeria

Where is Rev. Fr. Matthew Kukah, guess he said there's no Christian Genocide(Persecution) in Nothern Nigeria.


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richmond500:
Wike is the small one here.
In round 1 and round 2, Fubara did not use federal support, it was Wike that used federal support, else Fubara was defeating him.

Now we are in round 3, they will both use federal support, let's see who is stronger

You've said it all, Fubara would've dealt with wike of not for federal might.



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We4all:
When you say pregnancy is a very big risk and a great sacrifice on a woman's part, some chauvinists will talk down on you. Without pregnancy, this woman would still be breathing. Shout out to all mothers and pregnant women!

You're right, if that's all a woman bring to the table is far enough. Any other thing is a plus. When you get married and watch your wife go through the process you will appreciate womanhood.


No woman deserve to die while bringing life into the world


Note: Have been married for two years plus with a daughter, I'm talking from experience nobody should quote.

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Mystery2020:
They are both in the UK with their daughter. She is from Kogi state, read medicine in a private university.

My brother who was a doctor, bore all the cost of their relocation but made himself the dependant. He is still repaying the debt after two years.

The wife has completed her studies. She works but keeps all of her own money and left my brother to be slaving for her. She threatens him with police at the slightest misunderstanding. She shouts at him, and insults his family. She even said she thought my brother had money, that she would not have married him if she knew he was "struggling".

I had a conversation with my brother last month. He told me she spends most of her time watching toxic feminists content on tiktok about how terrible men are, and how women should not give them any chance. All that stuff.

We read these things on the internet about how Nigerian wives misbehave when they go abroad. I never knew it will happen to someone close to me.

He bore the entire cost of relocation and made himself the dependant, who does that.



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BarrElChapo:
Awesome. Hope you’re doing well today? Best wishes

Doing great thanks, best Wishes


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BarrElChapo:
He’s still a Bishop and I’m a Catholic, he deserves to be appropriately addressed even though he’s in error.

Noted, I'm also a Catholic, a practising one at that.


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BarrElChapo:
Your Eminence, kindly shut the Bleep up ! Thank you

Why using Eminence, Kukah has lost it. His brain needs to be checked.



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LibertyRep:
Good one.

But I hope the governor and indeed other governors know that no one can protect an area better than the locals, someone who has allegiance and ties to the area. There could be some saboteurs here and there.

The governors do not even control the Police , Army or even the Civil Defence.

Look inwards, empower the Amotekun and the vigilantes. State and community policing is the way to go.

These governors should also put the interest of their people forward and not be concerned about the politics of not offending some powerful people.

You've said it all, that's why state police at the point is inevitable.
"No one can police a place better than the locals of those area"

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AllBlack:
I don't think I have ever heard WEDNESDAY & THURSDAY but I have a feeling you can find them all in CALABAR

has anyone seen a female with these names?

I'm from Esan in Edo state, my Dad younger brother (Uncle) his name is Wednesday.


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lilsmart:
this recurring tragedy underscores a critical need for a paradigm shift in our security strategy. We must move beyond reactive measures and build a proactive, technology driven defense system.

This is where the Need for a Drone Command Center comes in

The vast and rugged terrain of Northern Nigeria makes traditional ground patrols insufficient. A Drone Command Center (DCC) is not a luxury it is a necessity for the following reasons
Force Multiplication a single drone unit can monitor an area that would require hundreds of troops on the ground, providing real time intelligence over impossible distances.

Persistent Surveillance Drones can loiter for hours, tracking bandit movements, identifying hideouts, and monitoring the abducted girls without risking human lives.

Actionable Intelligence They provide clear video and thermal imagery, allowing command centers to see exactly what the security forces are dealing with number of hostages, number of kidnappers, Weapon type andterrain layout before any rescue operation is launched.

we must cancel the wasteful spending on outdated strategies. It's time to re allocate resources, to defund the methods that don't work and invest in technology that does.

The blueprint for a safer Nigeria is ready. Reach out to me via my bio to engage, collaborate, and demand this change.

The game changer is clear Strategic Deployment of Drone Technology
Imagine a Nigeria where our security forces can See threats from miles away, across vast terrains.

You've said it all, the traditional method of fighting insecurity is not working and should be discontinued. Technology is the way to go.

We should also factor in political solutions like decentralisation of power from the centre to it sub unit(Regional system of government)

May Nigeria succeed.


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