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Well in my world you have to give respect to get it. What have you and your followers done or said to be given respect?
The only one that really irritates me is Mobo444. He has nothing positive to say about anyone. Although I am not a black Nigerian, its really sad to see him bash them and others follow.

I cant stand nagging! In fact I came across men that nag more than some women. GOSH!

It's very possible if you all are both serious and you all define your relationship, what you all expect out of one another. and of course how long is the distance will continue ie; how many months, years it will last. These things are very important.

Also what is important is communication. You will have to find means of communication maybe talk on the phone everyday, write each other letters, send gifts, talk online. All that is crucial to the longevity of the relationship. Of course you will have to communicate more often than you would if you all were like in the same city.

Be creative, find ways to show your love and affection toward one another. Make each other feel special. Also remind the person how much you miss them and how special they are.

Find time to meet up. That is also important. Make an arrangement on how often the both of you will visit one another and take turns with the visiting.

You have to be really strong because its not for the weak hearted. Its also better to have had a strong relationship prior to the split up, then straying would not be as easy if it were a fairly new relationship.

I wish you all good luck!

Yes that was a terrible thing to do. But there are still some unanswered questions.

Well there is not enough information to decide what to do. What led her sister and husband to have sex? Was it because of a child? Lack of attention? What? Is he now in love with the sister? So many questions unanswered and this issue needs to be dug deeper. Also is the husband and wife wanting to work out their marriage?

Well didnt know that this site was for BLACKS ONLY!

I agree it has to be more than that. Because I still dont see it as a life or death issue.

I didnt know there was a "marriagable age" bracket.
As far as I am concerned once you hit 18 you are of age to be married until you die, basically.

If its just that then cant she be converted? Just switch churches? If she is catholic then I kinda understand but again, she can be converted to catholicism.  Its not a life or death issue here.

Last I checked, they are both christians.

who told you Iam black??

Wow, this must be a joke.

So shes good enough to have your kids but not good enough to marry? Well where I come from, we marry because we want to spend our lives with the person. Why would you want a child then when you dont care about this childs future? They need stable homes, need to see that mommy and daddy love each other, etc.

@ Tink
My thoughts EXACTLY

Such a beautiful family. 6 gifts from God.

I would reply with I AM SUING YOUR A$$ OFF! Lol

HAHAHA Carolxx I loved that.

Dont just assume poster. She could have very well been a virgin. I mean women these days can masturbate. I mean they do have toy replicas of penise.s for God sake! Why don't you stop being so closed minded and immature, sit down and have a adult discussion with her about what you think and fear and I am sure she will open up to you. But the silliest thing you can do is assume and jump the gun.

I am just observing this thread and it really is amazing when someone points out something the men do "wrong" the NL men want to come here and attack the poster. But when the men here on NL say something negitive about women, they have a field day. Hmm, just interesting.

I like that.

What is a yam leg or k- leg?

Why not just say you like big women and not say negative things about slim girls?

All the while you were fuckin.g her sister you didn't need help. Now ALL OF THE SUDDEN you wake up from your slumber? Silly fool.

Poster I am a bit confused. You said she is 7 months pregnant now? Or did you mean to say she WAS pregnant for 7 months then had a miscarriage? If that is the case then her husband needs to stop thinking about himself and understand that this is a strain on her emotionally. She needs time to heal both physically and mentally. JEEZ some men!