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They married, so why are YOU complaining?

Is he just some random dude that proposed to you? Or have you all had a relationship? What do you feel about him? Do you love one another?

I ask these questions because. You made it sound like he was just some guy that proposed to you out of nowhere.

Girl move on. Hes not worth the air you breathe. I mean to think, had the audacity to embarrass you like that? Nah move on, let her have him. Rubbish.

8 years is no joke. But before I advice how old were you all when you started dating?

Exactly. I always give people enough rope to hang themselves if they wish.

Well said poster. I really dont know what happend to nairaland lately. It just has gotten ludicrous. When I joined this thread in 06' there were meaningful topics. Now, its just a bunch of nonsense.

Four months? What do you REALLY know about him? Nothing I assume. I believe the creep is already married and running away from his responsibility. If not, why didn't he say that he was engaged to be married in the beginning of your relationship? Why didn't he tell you then that his fiancée was having sex with other men and pregnant for what he thinks is for another man?

You really need to investigate this guy to see if he is even remotely telling the truth. That is , if you are still at all interested. But to me, this man sounds like a liar. And using emotional blackmail to get you to take to your heels and run away with him. Guilt trip? No, I don't think so. Four months is too early and from the looks of it, he dosen't even seem worth the effort of "finding out" the truth.

How would you even know who is dead and who is not? Poster get something else to talk about. Or like others have said. Write your own obituary.

You dont have to "get in their business" you dont have to get into deep and risk your licence. But, you can get the man tested again.
I mean this is the case of life or death here.

Well for the first one. What is stopping you from advising the man to get a second opinion?

I am not nigerian or anything but this must be real insulting to nigerian women. Where is he even getting his "facts."
What I don't understand is, why has this person not been banned yet? I see that people get banned here for far LESS!

People stop replying this post is 4 years old! She aint coming back!

Another dumb thread. I swear people need to pass an IQ test before signing up. IDIOT!

Thank you Mutter.

There is really nothing you can do to prevent a miscarriage. I had one about 2 years ago before my second month. However women tend to have more miscarriage if they get pregnant back to back and not allow their bodies to heal properly. I am now pregnant again with my second pregnancy 2 years later. I am now in my 15th week. NO miscarriage yet. However after the first trimester the probability of having a miscarriage decreases but its not secure. Some women go on to having miscarriages even up to 6 months. All I can say to limit the risk of miscarriage is to visit the ob/gyn often. Take your prenatal vitamins and go for your prenatal check ups.

Sad.

LMAO! THis girl knows too much.

No she is not, she just does not want you!

Poster, I am sorry but are you willing to go back to him?

Gosh, haven't the parents been through enough?

Exactly!

Shocking!

But thank God she is alive. Gosh these doctors

OMG! I dont know what to say. I cant wrap my mind around it. He was obviously possessed or something.

Condoms should be used. Unless with a monogamous partner, preferably married.

WTF? This thread should be closed. You are wasting space.

Well evidently she was tired of the relationship and looking for any excuse to break up with you. But she wasnt going to make the first move. Im sorry about that. Find a woman that will love and appreciate you.

Wow. really? Nairaland sucks.