Why did you post her picture up here? That is so uncool. If she sees this thread she will have your head.

@ Justdream, you need to wake up from your dream. Look who is calling who naive. I am not the one who does not know the difference between lust and love.

Nobody seems to be pointing out the fact that this man lied to her from the get go!

Um poster why the belly ache? You cheated on her on SEVERAL occasions. So um whats your beef?

Lol Eve, blackberries are cheap. I do want the torch though. I got a blackberry sitting in my laptop bag not even using it.

Lol at this thread.

Um, Ok?

Wow,  After really reading this post I dont even know why I am here about to give advice to this mor.on. Has a gf that he claims to love but this is how he repays her. NICE! Some men, just useless.

Eww and this blows your mind?

Fully agree.

Well get your money back from the b.itch.

I didnt know men lactate.

I dont understand how a dead man can c.um But Poor dead man may his soul rest in peace. People are just sick.

This is very true.

@ MissyB

Thanks hun! I am sooo excited!

I am not fighting you I am just trying to understand your reasoning, because to me it just doesnt make very much sense. You need to want a child because you want to take care of that child and love that child. A child isnt some trophy that you take off the shelf to show off. They need much more care and attention than just money.

I just dont get it. Why not WAIT for the 4 years when you are actually ready to start having kids? Why does the kid need to suffer because you are not ready? Why rush?

If she was a hardcore lesbian then she wouldnt even go out with a MAN in the first place.

I couldnt do what he did, pull the babys head out the small hole. I would be afraid I would accidently pull the babys head off! Wow childbirth is amazing.

That baby is so adorable, his cry is cute too.

My goodness. I am having a baby in a couple of months, my first one! Well now I can see that soem birthing is overexaggerated, shes not screaming to the top of her lungs! Lol. Well That did look like it hurt though.

Well my BIG problem here is that she did not tell you she was HIV positive BEFORE you married her! She kept that from you, as in she knew all along. I think that is where you are having the biggest issue, and all these advisors above seem to be skipping that issue!

The woman basically tricked you into marrying her. I guess the marriage can be nullified as you are married under false pretenses. If you had known before you married her then it wouldn't even be an issue. I say you need to sit her down, have a long heart to heart discussion with her. Let her know that you will NOT take "I dont know how I got HIV." As an answer!

Demand for an answer, you have every right to know! But do not let her guilt trip you, telling you you cant use a condom with her. RUBBISH!

You all really need a marriage counselor before you think of divorce, but at the same time, no one should blame you for wanting a divorce.

Not everyone will tell you whether they are a virgin or not.

Oh ok, Someone just posted the same thing I was asking. Well wonder why hes being so unreasonable.

hes got trust issues. Did you do anything before to him that made him have trust issues with you?

I definitely will for my son. Seems most of you all don't have kids.

I dont think you are controlling, it sounds like hes being shady. I mean you are open why cant he be open. Ask him how he would feel if you were to do the same thing that hes doing.