Thank you @Rex2.
I wouldn't Know what could make inlaws be at daggers drawn like this.

As much as the first story messed with my emotions, I am going to be objective here. This part is no better as it is lopsided too. So much has been said already. Whatever happened reSts with God... I have come to know that no marriage is without challenges.

Please whoever started this beehive should disconnect that facebook page and website. Please desist from undermining the man's ability to fend for his children Or what else is your aim?

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Kai! Kai!! Kai!! Twasn't easy reading dis 19pgs off and on for d past 6hrs, as if it's a text needed 4 an all important exam!

I must say, beautiful thread, wonderful people wit interesting love stories and painful stories as well. God bless u all and multiply His love in ur lives.

I've really learnt a lot. Not married yet, but when i do (very very soon), i'll be back. Till then, keep 'em coming plssss.

One love.

Mexy-ify, what's up wit ur home now. I pray she forgets d issue cos it's a painful thing.

Mexy-ify, what's up wit ur home now. I pray she forgets d issue cos it's a painful thing.

@ poster, Inter-racial marriages do work but u av to be willing. The truth is that u need to come down for dat marriage to happen, tho ur man's family r rather harsh. Moreover, ur fiance should av told u his expectations in a wife when u both started. Learn how to cook and be respectful/tolerant.

To all troubled marriages, may God who blessed the institution of marriage instill love once again.
@ Damysa, i thank God for healing ur marriage and i pray it's lasting. To Analytical, u r just the man! God bless u 4 those pieces of advice!

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@ poster, I applaud u on how u resolved the issue, u r wise. Show her love and pray together and she'll abhor it.

The soup rocks! Start wit frying onions and d waterleaves in generous qty of oil for a unique taste.

So u are still talking?
Things for adults should be left exclusively for them.

Agaba! bia sekpuru ala ugbua!!

@ fmk, Iam sure you don't enter the lab to analyse the water you have been drinking allyour life.

the point is that you can never be too careful even with co-habitation your partner can pretend and give you the expectations of your heart then change immediately you commit.

@ Aloy - Emeka

ehh yaa. every body is not a player like u guys. even players fall in love and mean it at somepoint in their lives. we know where we are headed, we are planning our union now. ok?

Met him during service year, we were both corp members. We r going strong each day will solemnize it sooner than l8r

I luv u so much

Just spent time reading all of this and it's not a surprise that some people's mind r warped. Thank God there r still reasonable people out there. Cohab is selfish and it sucks, one can manage t pretend throut d tenure. Marriage allows 4 love, tolerance, understanding. Your mom should av given birth to u n test-raise u n then throw out to d streets if u r not behaving! Everything good in life comes wit patience. How can u even compare a human being, a living thing to palm wine, cars, shoes etc.

Pls my dear ladies beware of such men!

Just spent time reading all of this and it's not a surprise that some people's mind r warped. Thank God there r still reasonable people out there. Cohab is selfish and it sucks, one can manage t pretend throut d tenure. Marriage allows 4 love, tolerance, understanding. Your mom should av given birth to u n test-raise u n then throw out to d streets if u r not behaving! Everything good in life comes wit patience. How can u even compare a human being, a living thing to palm wine, cars, shoes etc.

Pls my dear ladies beware of such men!

@ poster, hope d relationship(s) has been worthwhile?

Just some things. Guess they r minor

Nothing's wrong wit it but both should try n brush after dinner. It's romantic to say gdmorn t him wit a kiss, I've dat issue wit my love, i don't mind but he does. Well no wahala. But one day i'll tell we'll bathe first b4 early morn Bleep.

Dating a younger guy? Mba kwa! I don't want diapers. For one, d age diff is too much, it's 90% bound to hit d rocks. He'll feel he's done me a favour on d long run when d initial sparks go.

@poster, it's not only a slap u'll get u could b arrested,

U were not confused when u invited him for sth abi? Now u r confused about commitment. Pls close this topic

Chei! Umu azi unyahu!! Unu e reela! @ poster, u r not old enough t invite girls not t talk of leavin, hmmm. Stop am o

Come t think of it, that's takin shit. Y should i? Biko! That's modern day stupidity, who wan lick person bumbum. Every1 shld acknowledge their wrongs n learn from them.