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ajebota problem

it's a lie, PMB is broke

its normal, he is a comedian

See those famzers at the back, photobombing things, funnybone though

na wa o, so who toasted who last last?

too much of american movies, also the story isn't complete, e for run, when everybody tear race na.

kwantinu

interesting

i think you should learn to participate more, it elongates the discussion rather than respond with ok,kk or even kkk, if he's telling you all these things, obviously, he has you on his mind always, shows he's giving you a lot of attention, and you should appreciate it by responding well, if hes with his parents, you could ask, how the discussion went, what the outcome was, if he's eating, ask what he's eating or who cooked it, if he cooked it, you could even go further and say, you are sure the food isn't sweet or tasting good, you should learn to be open to conversations, if he's telling you all these things and he's not getting the right response, bae, that as it may, condition will be critical.

Cutehector:
Hahhahahahaha even fuel attendant dey do shakara for u.

Bros, u need to see an ifa priest!

lwkmd, why you wicked like dis na

nice one

“People who cheat prefer to ride an emotional roller coaster."
Life is messy, and infidelity can touch even the strongest of relationships—after all, we’re human, and we all make mistakes (though that doesn’t make it any less hurtful when it happens). Cheating doesn’t make someone a bad person. But an isolated, one-time betrayal by a partner who feels terrible about it is very different than a years-long affair or decades of habitual cheating by a partner who’s simply addicted to the thrill. Some people, it seems, might just be incapable of monogamy, and if those folks are also stuck on the high of betrayal, chronic cheating is the name of their game.
So how do you spot a compulsive cheater before getting caught in their web? If there were a foolproof answer to that question, whoever came up with it would be a millionaire by now, but there are some common characteristics that many compulsive cheaters share. “There are psychological characteristics that are more prevalent and revealing about the personality traits of people who cheat,” said psychologist Dr. Ildiko Tabori. Here’s what to watch for…

1. They’re hooked on drama.

If your partner seems bored by happy, stable relationships, run the other way. “People who cheat prefer to ride an emotional roller coaster rather than find joy in emotional stability. They get an adrenaline rush from the figurative bumps and bruises that cause strife and turmoil with their significant other and their second significant other because it leads to the intoxication of making up again and again,” says Dr. Tabori.


2. They’re unhappy.

Most people who are highly satisfied with their relationship and whose needs are being met don’t want to cheat, says Dr. Tabori. Both physical and emotional needs are important in relationships, so if either gets lost in the shuffle, trouble can arise—though of course, a more responsible course of action when a person is unhappy is often to be honest about it or to end the relationship if they can’t get their needs met, instead of having an affair and lying to a person who loves them.


3. They’re afraid of being alone.

According to Dr. Tabori, cheaters often deeply fear abandonment and seek out their second relationship as something of a security blanket against physical or emotional loneliness. This often ends up being a counterintuitive move, because if and when the affair explodes, they’re a lot more likely to be left behind by partners they’ve betrayed.


4. And they can be very opportunistic.

Joshua Forman, partner and matrimonial attorney at Chemtob Moss & Forman, has seen his fair share of brutal divorces over affairs, and he’s seen some sobering realities among the couples he’s worked with. “Some people do change, but as a whole, if someone cheated on you before you got married, a leopard doesn’t change their spots,” he says about compulsive philanderers. “They might get good for a couple months, but it’s not the kind of thing that changes. The personality traits of someone who is dishonest in work or in other areas spills over into personal life.”

According to Dr. Tabori, compulsive cheaters are often in positions of power, and can be very calculating about when they decide to strike. “One is more likely to cheat when opportunity arises, not simply when they are away from their significant other, but when the opportunity to prey upon a potential mate presents itself. People who cheat will look for opportunities where the potential mate may be in a vulnerable state, such as after a break-up or divorce. When the preyed-upon is in a more vulnerable state, they are more likely to be open to and engage in the cheating behavior because they miss the feeling of being loved and are not emotionally grounded enough yet to set secure boundaries.” Unsettling, right?


The best thing to do is stay aware and be kind to yourself.

This probably goes without saying, but it’s important to remember that if your partner doesn’t stay faithful to you, it’s fully up to you in how you want to handle it, and the fact that a chronic cheater has hurt you isn’t your fault. You might choose to stick around, but you’re also more than justified in ending the relationship. Just like there are all different kinds of relationships, there are all different kinds of infidelity, and sometimes the motive or frequency matters a lot more than the cheating itself. That said, if you find yourself in a relationship with a person who’s essentially addicted to the high of betraying you, it might be ideal to cut ties. Life is too short to be with a partner who makes you feel less than awesome!


source: http://www.msn.com/en-us/lifestyle/love-sex/4-little-things-compulsive-cheaters-have-in-common/ss-AAguTfm?ocid=wispr#image=7

With the current situation of unemployment, seems business is the way forward at the moment, except dasuki sends airtime to you, my friend has been saving up for business, in 2months time he would have gathered roughly between 90-100k, and he wants to do business with it, i offered some ideas to him like opening a barbing saloon, but the problem is he cant barb, he doesnt want to do the bike business; hire purchase, he said getting a truthful person is an issue, NLs, entrepreneurs and hustlers, pls your advise is needed,


NB: GNLD and family, importation people, abeg maintain your lane

cc puskin, FOD, lalasticlala

many marriages this year for all those who have been single for a very long while, Amen

so what should we do with the waist?

how is this news??

can you imagine, you want to take picture with mask

hakeem4:
Burna boy

lol

i dont know if its just me, i cant watch a movie twice, i can only watch a scene in the movie twice or more

ope o

Daily12:
This might sound obscene to some people, as i do not intend to hurt anyone feelings but i seriously need help. I dont know if i can continue this or not. But i would be short and straight, and i hope you guys can help me. Please

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I married my wife 2 years ago and we were very young. Our parents kind of forced us into it. My dad said i must marry her so that he can cement his friendship and contract with her father. Her own Mum told her she must marry me so that the family business would continue and the name stands since its a joint venture. So, technically, our parents used us both for business! I was only 23 she was just 19 approaching 20. She was 20 the Sunday after our wedding. That is not really the problem here, the problem is I enjoy seeing my wife in pain! It turns me on when she cries or she is sad. It makes me feel closer to her.

And as a result of this, Sometimes i deliberately do things to hurt her feelings. I scold her at every opportunity! I pick a fault in her every action. I complain about everything. I even condemn whatever she does just so she can feel bad and possibly cry. That is my intention. It has become like a drug and i'm an addict. I cannot stay without it.

In fact, sex is not what i want even when we have sex i am aggressive and mean so she can feel excessive pain. It suppose to bother me but it doesn't, it makes me feel happy.

Long story short, I think i am not normal or maybe its a fetish i don;t know but whatever this is, my wife is at the receiving end of it and she is receiving the bad side. Please mature persons, i need your advice. Divorce is impossible, our parents would disown us. so that is why she is still around and i am not surprised she did not file for divorce or report my wicked actions. She is just "Swallowing It" because her father might just disown her or cut her off from his expenses. And same applies to me, i am starting to love her and i dont want to keep on hurting her and i was thinking of ending the marriage so she finds someone better but my mum said she must not hear it and i know my dad wont find it funny. So its impossible to separate from each other and its somehow impossible for the pain she is going through to stop because I am the pain, and i want to fix this.

Thank You all.

ever heard of the word dacryphilia? sexual pleasure in seeing someone cry, i think you are suffering from it or something similar to it

oyinbo fit name pikin poo poo sef

chai

all these witch hunt is still bias

learn with it

noted

wey dem neva sell iphone 6 finish

chai, diaris God

cnwamo:
ENDTIME POSTER LIKE YOU

endtime quoter

Chinaboi:
i guess u dnt knw wat u talkn about...so sharap n stop sayin trash

who is dis one, must you quote me